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"If you (men) send a lady a message on here and she replies, even with a no thanks, but puts a kiss (x) on the end of the message, do you take this a sign she may still be open to persuasion or do you just see this as how she ends all messages and move on? All opinions welcome Leo x" A No is a No .. unfortunately some people are incapable of understanding or accepting rejection | |||
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"How she ends messages .... if it’s a XX or a XXX could be meaning interested , that’s how I see it ... Better than the dreaded full stop " Hahahahaha right enough, it could be a secret code, just to test you.... Jesus no is no x | |||
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"If you (men) send a lady a message on here and she replies, even with a no thanks, but puts a kiss (x) on the end of the message, do you take this a sign she may still be open to persuasion or do you just see this as how she ends all messages and move on? All opinions welcome Leo x" No means no. We'll reply to thank them for taking the time to answer, but that's it. | |||
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"Thank you I was told it was seen as encouraging yet I disagreed but then again it might have just been the guy who interpreted it wrongly. I (right or wrongly) put a x at the end of most of my messages but now feel I’m a bit more careful. I have slipped and messaged the wrong person (eBay seller or gumtree ad) with a x at the end and immediately thought “omg” but no ones ever said anything Leo x" Haha @ encouraging ..jeez you could tell some to fuck off and they'd be encouraged because you actually answered | |||
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"How she ends messages .... if it’s a XX or a XXX could be meaning interested , that’s how I see it ... Better than the dreaded full stop " If she says no before however many X's it's Still a no ??? I'm not quite sure why the word no could be misconstrued??????? | |||
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"Thank you I was told it was seen as encouraging yet I disagreed but then again it might have just been the guy who interpreted it wrongly. I (right or wrongly) put a x at the end of most of my messages but now feel I’m a bit more careful. I have slipped and messaged the wrong person (eBay seller or gumtree ad) with a x at the end and immediately thought “omg” but no ones ever said anything Leo x Haha @ encouraging ..jeez you could tell some to fuck off and they'd be encouraged because you actually answered " | |||
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"Thank you I was told it was seen as encouraging yet I disagreed but then again it might have just been the guy who interpreted it wrongly. I (right or wrongly) put a x at the end of most of my messages but now feel I’m a bit more careful. I have slipped and messaged the wrong person (eBay seller or gumtree ad) with a x at the end and immediately thought “omg” but no ones ever said anything Leo x Haha @ encouraging ..jeez you could tell some to fuck off and they'd be encouraged because you actually answered " Yep....and this usually elicits a further reply telling you how you're going to miss out on the opportunity of sliding up and down his length... | |||
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"If you (men) send a lady a message on here and she replies, even with a no thanks, but puts a kiss (x) on the end of the message, do you take this a sign she may still be open to persuasion or do you just see this as how she ends all messages and move All opinions welcome Leo x" I accept a no means no, I'd send a polite thanks for responding and wish them all the best. A bit like a referee's red card they're not going to change their mind if you protest, can't understand that mindset | |||
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"A No is a No. I just remind myself that I'm not for that person or they are not for me by including it in my private notes. I think if a guy continues to message saying they should change their mind etc... then it shows the female was right in the first place. " Totally disagree horsey, only when the girl has said no 100 times and the restraining order is through, and only then should the guy stop messaging | |||
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"If you (men) send a lady a message on here and she replies, even with a no thanks, but puts a kiss (x) on the end of the message, do you take this a sign she may still be open to persuasion or do you just see this as how she ends all messages and move on? All opinions welcome Leo x" I take it as a habit. Like girls used to put love hearts above ‘i’ at school. If it’s a no thanks it’s a no thanks. Move on. | |||
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"If you (men) send a lady a message on here and she replies, even with a no thanks, but puts a kiss (x) on the end of the message, do you take this a sign she may still be open to persuasion or do you just see this as how she ends all messages and move on? All opinions welcome Leo x" I take a no as a no thanks for now, I'll wait at least 2 months before I msg that same person again, if it's another no I'll wait another 2 months then msg again x | |||
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"If you (men) send a lady a message on here and she replies, even with a no thanks, but puts a kiss (x) on the end of the message, do you take this a sign she may still be open to persuasion or do you just see this as how she ends all messages and move on? All opinions welcome Leo x I take a no as a no thanks for now, I'll wait at least 2 months before I msg that same person again, if it's another no I'll wait another 2 months then msg again x" That's the spirit....keep our egos high. No just means try again another time | |||
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"No is a no, but ive been guilty of replying saying thanks for replying lol" Oh god yeah, ave done that. It's appreciated if someone replies even if they're informing that your not for them | |||
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"If you (men) send a lady a message on here and she replies, even with a no thanks, but puts a kiss (x) on the end of the message, do you take this a sign she may still be open to persuasion or do you just see this as how she ends all messages and move on? All opinions welcome Leo x I take a no as a no thanks for now, I'll wait at least 2 months before I msg that same person again, if it's another no I'll wait another 2 months then msg again x That's the spirit....keep our egos high. No just means try again another time " Yip, I'm now friends with 4 girls I still see from time to time, and each of them said no to me about 4 or 5 times over the space of a year ish, which is why a no means no just now for me, plus one msg every two months isn't exactly being a pain in the ass xx | |||
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"If you (men) send a lady a message on here and she replies, even with a no thanks, but puts a kiss (x) on the end of the message, do you take this a sign she may still be open to persuasion or do you just see this as how she ends all messages and move on? All opinions welcome Leo x" Some men do actually seem to think that any reply means some form of interest | |||
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"If you (men) send a lady a message on here and she replies, even with a no thanks, but puts a kiss (x) on the end of the message, do you take this a sign she may still be open to persuasion or do you just see this as how she ends all messages and move on? All opinions welcome Leo x Some men do actually seem to think that any reply means some form of interest " Which is why I don’t usually bother I’ve also seen men moan that a woman must be interested because they read their message and didn’t delete it If someone was interested they’d either reply when they read it, or would Mark it as unread so they could save it for later | |||
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"If you (men) send a lady a message on here and she replies, even with a no thanks, but puts a kiss (x) on the end of the message, do you take this a sign she may still be open to persuasion or do you just see this as how she ends all messages and move on? All opinions welcome Leo x I take a no as a no thanks for now, I'll wait at least 2 months before I msg that same person again, if it's another no I'll wait another 2 months then msg again x That's the spirit....keep our egos high. No just means try again another time Yip, I'm now friends with 4 girls I still see from time to time, and each of them said no to me about 4 or 5 times over the space of a year ish, which is why a no means no just now for me, plus one msg every two months isn't exactly being a pain in the ass xx" Wear the bitches down.....I like you're thinking! | |||
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"If you (men) send a lady a message on here and she replies, even with a no thanks, but puts a kiss (x) on the end of the message, do you take this a sign she may still be open to persuasion or do you just see this as how she ends all messages and move on? All opinions welcome Leo x I take a no as a no thanks for now, I'll wait at least 2 months before I msg that same person again, if it's another no I'll wait another 2 months then msg again x That's the spirit....keep our egos high. No just means try again another time Yip, I'm now friends with 4 girls I still see from time to time, and each of them said no to me about 4 or 5 times over the space of a year ish, which is why a no means no just now for me, plus one msg every two months isn't exactly being a pain in the ass xx Wear the bitches down.....I like you're thinking! " It was more you bitches change your mind every 5 minutes which is probably why some guys send you 20 msgs in a day | |||
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"If you (men) send a lady a message on here and she replies, even with a no thanks, but puts a kiss (x) on the end of the message, do you take this a sign she may still be open to persuasion or do you just see this as how she ends all messages and move on? All opinions welcome Leo x I take a no as a no thanks for now, I'll wait at least 2 months before I msg that same person again, if it's another no I'll wait another 2 months then msg again x That's the spirit....keep our egos high. No just means try again another time Yip, I'm now friends with 4 girls I still see from time to time, and each of them said no to me about 4 or 5 times over the space of a year ish, which is why a no means no just now for me, plus one msg every two months isn't exactly being a pain in the ass xx Wear the bitches down.....I like you're thinking! It was more you bitches change your mind every 5 minutes which is probably why some guys send you 20 msgs in a day " Pfft.. only 20....you're obviously not that keen then! | |||
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"If you (men) send a lady a message on here and she replies, even with a no thanks, but puts a kiss (x) on the end of the message, do you take this a sign she may still be open to persuasion or do you just see this as how she ends all messages and move on? All opinions welcome Leo x I take a no as a no thanks for now, I'll wait at least 2 months before I msg that same person again, if it's another no I'll wait another 2 months then msg again x That's the spirit....keep our egos high. No just means try again another time Yip, I'm now friends with 4 girls I still see from time to time, and each of them said no to me about 4 or 5 times over the space of a year ish, which is why a no means no just now for me, plus one msg every two months isn't exactly being a pain in the ass xx Wear the bitches down.....I like you're thinking! It was more you bitches change your mind every 5 minutes which is probably why some guys send you 20 msgs in a day Pfft.. only 20....you're obviously not that keen then! " After my first copy and paste msg I can't be arsed that's why I wait 2 months so they forget my copy paste msg and I can send it again | |||
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"If you (men) send a lady a message on here and she replies, even with a no thanks, but puts a kiss (x) on the end of the message, do you take this a sign she may still be open to persuasion or do you just see this as how she ends all messages and move on? All opinions welcome Leo x I take a no as a no thanks for now, I'll wait at least 2 months before I msg that same person again, if it's another no I'll wait another 2 months then msg again x" I know one woman for sure that a no would mean no and she would not repeat herself. To be fair she replies to every message that is respectful but if its a no then she instantly blocks. Just another filter to her. | |||
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"If you (men) send a lady a message on here and she replies, even with a no thanks, but puts a kiss (x) on the end of the message, do you take this a sign she may still be open to persuasion or do you just see this as how she ends all messages and move on? All opinions welcome Leo x I take a no as a no thanks for now, I'll wait at least 2 months before I msg that same person again, if it's another no I'll wait another 2 months then msg again x I know one woman for sure that a no would mean no and she would not repeat herself. To be fair she replies to every message that is respectful but if its a no then she instantly blocks. Just another filter to her. " She wouldn't block me | |||
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"This post got me thinking, so many guys giving it the big, I'm respectful and no means no! Must be some, a few or at least one of you that is guilty of replying to a no with a few msgs of, why not, just give me a chance, you'll like me when you meet me??? " There is ?? You already admitted doing it lol. Ps i will ask her tonight if your on the blocked list. | |||
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"This post got me thinking, so many guys giving it the big, I'm respectful and no means no! Must be some, a few or at least one of you that is guilty of replying to a no with a few msgs of, why not, just give me a chance, you'll like me when you meet me??? " Naw ! | |||
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"This post got me thinking, so many guys giving it the big, I'm respectful and no means no! Must be some, a few or at least one of you that is guilty of replying to a no with a few msgs of, why not, just give me a chance, you'll like me when you meet me??? There is ?? You already admitted doing it lol. Ps i will ask her tonight if your on the blocked list. " You're right, I should have worded it anyone other than me! I bet I'm in her hotlist | |||
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"This post got me thinking, so many guys giving it the big, I'm respectful and no means no! Must be some, a few or at least one of you that is guilty of replying to a no with a few msgs of, why not, just give me a chance, you'll like me when you meet me??? Naw !" Did you mean nee naw?? | |||
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"This post got me thinking, so many guys giving it the big, I'm respectful and no means no! Must be some, a few or at least one of you that is guilty of replying to a no with a few msgs of, why not, just give me a chance, you'll like me when you meet me??? " Tempting as it would be, nope. | |||
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"This post got me thinking, so many guys giving it the big, I'm respectful and no means no! Must be some, a few or at least one of you that is guilty of replying to a no with a few msgs of, why not, just give me a chance, you'll like me when you meet me??? There is ?? You already admitted doing it lol. Ps i will ask her tonight if your on the blocked list. You're right, I should have worded it anyone other than me! I bet I'm in her hotlist " Turns out your not blocked , yet !!! | |||
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"This post got me thinking, so many guys giving it the big, I'm respectful and no means no! Must be some, a few or at least one of you that is guilty of replying to a no with a few msgs of, why not, just give me a chance, you'll like me when you meet me??? There is ?? You already admitted doing it lol. Ps i will ask her tonight if your on the blocked list. You're right, I should have worded it anyone other than me! I bet I'm in her hotlist Turns out your not blocked , yet !!! " Give it time, the night is still young | |||
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"If you (men) send a lady a message on here and she replies, even with a no thanks, but puts a kiss (x) on the end of the message, do you take this a sign she may still be open to persuasion or do you just see this as how she ends all messages and move on? All opinions welcome Leo x" I take it as a not interested but theyre being polite about it always appreciated in my books and if they change their mind they know i showed interest Have to respect peoples choices | |||
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"If you (men) send a lady a message on here and she replies, even with a no thanks, but puts a kiss (x) on the end of the message, do you take this a sign she may still be open to persuasion or do you just see this as how she ends all messages and move on? All opinions welcome Leo x" The way she ends all messages x | |||
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