FabSwingers.com forum: Face Pictures / Mutual attraction

By *coupleoforanges OP Couple
over a year ago

Edinburgh / Stirlingshire / Glasgow-ish

Vixen here,

Still struggling on here, See the thing is me and Wolf are totally into face pictures than what someone's body looks like.

Doesn't really seem to be the done thing on here of least not with the couples we have chated with.

So being asked to go on a blind date albeit social can end up being a huge waste of time.

So have we just been chatting with the wrong people?

Or do you normally share face pictures before a social or other meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've been chatting with the wrong people

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By *dmirationMan
over a year ago

Bathgate

No face pic of both then no meet that is our rule. No excuses this day and age. Granted if we are not interested we wont return out pics no point But if we get i touch 1st we always send face pics so stick to your guns.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Vixen here,

Still struggling on here, See the thing is me and Wolf are totally into face pictures than what someone's body looks like.

Doesn't really seem to be the done thing on here of least not with the couples we have chated with.

So being asked to go on a blind date albeit social can end up being a huge waste of time.

So have we just been chatting with the wrong people?

Or do you normally share face pictures before a social or other meet? "

There shouldn't be any excuse for people in regards to face exchange. If there's a problem with sending face pics then just move on, as not worth the hassle.

In today you have kik video, whattsapp and a few other methods that most will have one or the other so even chatting live with each other should be easy.

I always send face pics but I don't look good on any pics

Anyways Op, good luck

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

"Vixen here,

Still struggling on here, See the thing is me and Wolf are totally into face pictures than what someone's body looks like.

Doesn't really seem to be the done thing on here of least not with the couples we have chated with.

So being asked to go on a blind date albeit social can end up being a huge waste of time.

So have we just been chatting with the wrong people?

Or do you normally share face pictures before a social or other meet? "

Wouldn't meet someone without a pic

Some people do though

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By *ittle MissyWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I always share a face pic in my first message or reply to a message if I'm interested. I don't have face pics on my public profile though, just for friends. You should never be affraid to ask for them especially if you're arranging a meet xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No face pic

No meet

End of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always share a face pic in my first message or reply to a message if I'm interested. I don't have face pics on my public profile though, just for friends. You should never be affraid to ask for them especially if you're arranging a meet xx"

yeah agree

if your all looking to meet and one doesn't want to exchange pics, you think to yourself, why!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No face pic

No meet

End of."

Same

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

As above. Kinda goes without saying. Unless of course you were the PM. Discretion and all. And then it would be a definite Nnoooow. Worse dancer than me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a couple can't send a pic of them both together then it's probably a fake profile. I would never consider meeting anyone without seeing what they look like, but then I'm shallow and a sucker for a pretty face!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have face pics in our friends, and we're happy to send if we've been chatting to folk.

I only ever use pics as a guide and like to have a social meet to make up my mind. I don't think I look good in pics, so always give others the benefit of the doubt.

L x

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By *coupleoforanges OP Couple
over a year ago

Edinburgh / Stirlingshire / Glasgow-ish

Thank you, everyone,

Maybe I have been too polite so far just hoping that people would share without too much prompting.

Have had people refuse and still ask to meet up which really seemed odd to me.

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

Surprised you met them, face picture is kinda the minimum before meeting someone.

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

nope. no face pic = no meet, no excuses...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are willing to send a face pic then they should be willing to send one in return!

If they aren't, best to move on!

There are a lot of people who waste time, but there are also some great, genuine swingers here!

All the best! Xx

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By *anditMan
over a year ago

irvine

I always try send a face pic. Would expect the same if someone doesnt want to share their face what else are they hiding.

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By *loobookMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

No face pic,no meet simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Done both. Blind and with pictures. Blind with good resuts and also been in the position where someone ‘takes a good picture’. You can’t properly judge til you meet folk in person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I completely agree with Op.

I need a face pic or there’s no meet for me!

I mean, can you imagine getting ready, travelling to the meet to discover that he or she has a face like Margaret thatcher!

C’mon... there needs to be an attaction for me to want to go further with!

We all have jobs and we care about people knowing we are on here etc but we are all on here for the same thing! If a work colleague was to see you on here then I’m

Sure they wouldn’t tell anyone about it as they’re on here too!

Rant over! Send face pics!!

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Totally agree. We like to see face pics of who we are potentially meeting.

There has to be an attraction from both sides.

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

"I completely agree with Op.

I need a face pic or there’s no meet for me!

I mean, can you imagine getting ready, travelling to the meet to discover that he or she has a face like Margaret thatcher!

C’mon... there needs to be an attaction for me to want to go further with!

We all have jobs and we care about people knowing we are on here etc but we are all on here for the same thing! If a work colleague was to see you on here then I’m

Sure they wouldn’t tell anyone about it as they’re on here too!

Rant over! Send face pics!!

Maggie would have got it back in the day lol. She is defiantly Dom lol.

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By *dlilbumCouple
over a year ago

Aviemore and regularly visit Glasgow

We like to see face pics before we meet anyone.

However we do like to be careful too, messages from non verified profiles demanding to see our face pics are a pet hate.

D x

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

No pic no meet it’s not blind date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face pic for definite.... you can see mine , I need to see yours

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By *ripleXrateDWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"No pic no meet it’s not blind date "

Unless our Graham goes too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I completely agree with Op.

I need a face pic or there’s no meet for me!

I mean, can you imagine getting ready, travelling to the meet to discover that he or she has a face like Margaret thatcher!

C’mon... there needs to be an attaction for me to want to go further with!

We all have jobs and we care about people knowing we are on here etc but we are all on here for the same thing! If a work colleague was to see you on here then I’m

Sure they wouldn’t tell anyone about it as they’re on here too!

Rant over! Send face pics!!

Maggie would have got it back in the day lol. She is defiantly Dom lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She’d have gotten it but up the Tom carter from behind only!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We like to see face pics before we meet anyone.

However we do like to be careful too, messages from non verified profiles demanding to see our face pics are a pet hate.

D x"

Of course. I would mint send a face pic to a non verified person / couple

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By *ripleXrateDWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I would never meet someone without seeing what they looked like first.

I would only send a face pic if I felt comfortable with the person and never on the first few messages.

Most of my meets off fab has been with someone I've previously met socially first so with a few exceptions face pics arent really a big issue with me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face pic 100%, or I simply dont chat let alone meet . Don't see the point wasting time when there's no picture to be attracted to .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't see the point in meeting if you've no idea what other person looks like. How would you even know it was same person?

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By *eestar38Couple
over a year ago

Ayrshire

We don't have face pics but unless accepted on our friends list.

This is due to the jobs we both do.

Don't mind chatting and getting to know people and after a few mails don't mind attaching a photo.

I totally agree that you need to see a photo of the person that you chat with but as we have learnt from experience photos sometimes are not as good as meeting in person.

Good luck and hopefully you find what your looking for to help share and enjoy the fun that can be had

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I exchange face pics (i only have face pics on here, no nudes or nearly nudes, and often have vid or phn chat before arranging social.

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky

No face pics, no meet and not buying this bollocks about not being able to due to "high profile" jobs. You're going to meet someone so what difference does it make?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No face pics, no meet and not buying this bollocks about not being able to due to "high profile" jobs. You're going to meet someone so what difference does it make? "
definitely agree no meets without seeing a face pic x I'm the same as you I'm not swallowing that one can't post a face pic because of important job etc x my view on anyone not showing a face pic is because they're married or cheating,

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By *eestar38Couple
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"No face pics, no meet and not buying this bollocks about not being able to due to "high profile" jobs. You're going to meet someone so what difference does it make? "

I didn't say I had a high profile job or that hubby did either.

We have photos on here that people we have chatted to and became friends with can see, and would send if requested.

I wouldn't have them set as public photos. If there is a profile that we like when sending the message then will attach a photo as well.

Not everyone wants their face public as they want to be discreet about where they are doing as well as have fun with others

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky

"No face pics, no meet and not buying this bollocks about not being able to due to "high profile" jobs. You're going to meet someone so what difference does it make?

I didn't say I had a high profile job or that hubby did either.

We have photos on here that people we have chatted to and became friends with can see, and would send if requested.

I wouldn't have them set as public photos. If there is a profile that we like when sending the message then will attach a photo as well.

Not everyone wants their face public as they want to be discreet about where they are doing as well as have fun with others

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wasn't meaning yourselves as you say you have face pics in your friend's photos and you don't seem to have a problem sending them when the need arises. I was meaning the ones that do not send them at all and cite "high profile job" as a reason. Apologies for the confusion.

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"No face pics, no meet and not buying this bollocks about not being able to due to "high profile" jobs. You're going to meet someone so what difference does it make?

I didn't say I had a high profile job or that hubby did either.

We have photos on here that people we have chatted to and became friends with can see, and would send if requested.

I wouldn't have them set as public photos. If there is a profile that we like when sending the message then will attach a photo as well.

Not everyone wants their face public as they want to be discreet about where they are doing as well as have fun with others

wasn't meaning yourselves as you say you have face pics in your friend's photos and you don't seem to have a problem sending them when the need arises. I was meaning the ones that do not send them at all and cite "high profile job" as a reason. Apologies for the confusion. "

Those McDonalds queues can be vicious. Need to keep the spotlight of their work life .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally when I was playing I’d never send anyone face pics, never ever stopped me having fun and I also have my verifications hidden, always done blind meets unless someone’s seen me at a social and asked for my user ID then no one knows what I look like and I in return don’t ask for pics, why because even if I thought someone was fuxjavle a social meet is exactly that and tbh if someone isn’t open to meeting with someone regardless of attraction for a quick coffee then I very much doubt they would have the personality of an individual I’d want to play with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah agree

if your all looking to meet and one doesn't want to exchange pics, you think to yourself, why!!!

Pretty sure you met me without a face pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No face pics, no meet and not buying this bollocks about not being able to due to "high profile" jobs. You're going to meet someone so what difference does it make? definitely agree no meets without seeing a face pic x I'm the same as you I'm not swallowing that one can't post a face pic because of important job etc x my view on anyone not showing a face pic is because they're married or cheating,

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By *ard4u85Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

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By *ard4u85Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

I’m really bad at showing face. I like to chat first so I kinda know who I’m talking to. Always worried about those fake profiles that people warn you of, donthey exist or am I bein paranoid lol. I need to start messaging with face pics more. Pm me for it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally when I was playing I’d never send anyone face pics, never ever stopped me having fun and I also have my verifications hidden, always done blind meets unless someone’s seen me at a social and asked for my user ID then no one knows what I look like and I in return don’t ask for pics, why because even if I thought someone was fuxjavle a social meet is exactly that and tbh if someone isn’t open to meeting with someone regardless of attraction for a quick coffee then I very much doubt they would have the personality of an individual I’d want to play with "

I know what you look like as you had your face pic showing on your profile for a wee while not so long back

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

If you sounded reasonable and had a social first then I could understand not sharing a face picture. Never came across it though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know what you look like as you had your face pic showing on your profile for a wee while not so long back

That was a whoopsie made that mistake won’t repeat it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know what you look like as you had your face pic showing on your profile for a wee while not so long back

That was a whoopsie made that mistake won’t repeat it lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to be sexually attracted to someone, before even considering meeting for a social. A face pic is a must for me. Like you, I'm not as bothered by the body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have to be sexually attracted to someone, before even considering meeting for a social. A face pic is a must for me. Like you, I'm not as bothered by the body

Aww Ffs all the guys with munter faces or not photogenic facial features just gave a big sigh n walked to the gym to get over it

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky

You do realise you can screenshot pics and the watermark shows so yes people with high profile jobs often won’t take the risk me included and i used to long long time ago quite happily have face pics not now not worth it "
each to their own but we still think it's bollocks. We work in high visibility jobs that involve home visits, hospitals, courts and working with the public every day. Any number of people could recognise us but they'd only recognise us from here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have to be sexually attracted to someone, before even considering meeting for a social. A face pic is a must for me. Like you, I'm not as bothered by the body

Aww Ffs all the guys with munter faces or not photogenic facial features just gave a big sigh n walked to the gym to get over it

To be fair though, there are plenty of other ladies who are very appreciative of the gym body, so I'm sure they will be well rewarded for their efforts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No face pic, no meet. I wouldn't go and meet anyone without knowing what they looked like. There also needs to be an attraction on both sides

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Vixen here,

Still struggling on here, See the thing is me and Wolf are totally into face pictures than what someone's body looks like.

Doesn't really seem to be the done thing on here of least not with the couples we have chated with.

So being asked to go on a blind date albeit social can end up being a huge waste of time.

So have we just been chatting with the wrong people?

Or do you normally share face pictures before a social or other meet? "

I always ask for face pics before any meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always happy to share a face pic in an early meet. Wondering if i should choose a different one given my current 'success' rate!

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By *rB13400Man
over a year ago

Kilmarnock

"Vixen here,

Still struggling on here, See the thing is me and Wolf are totally into face pictures than what someone's body looks like.

Doesn't really seem to be the done thing on here of least not with the couples we have chated with.

So being asked to go on a blind date albeit social can end up being a huge waste of time.

So have we just been chatting with the wrong people?

Or do you normally share face pictures before a social or other meet? "

In my opinion face pics are a must, for any meet to be fun there has to be a mutual attraction.

The one that always gets me is the 'won't share face pics because of our job' lol whit the fuck is that all about, talk about full of your own self importance Jeez

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only now realised, I posted on the Scottish forums. It's right above the Welsh ones. Ooops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No face pic

No meet

End of.

Same "

Exactly

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