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By *enie90 OP   Woman
over a year ago

a bottle

Hello fabbers!

I am in need of some help. Or actually we are in need of some help. I have been on fabs for over two years and I have had my fair share of fun. I'm trying to introduce my boyfriend to this world as he knows it's a big part of what makes me me. He would like to try to get into the scene by having another lady there to enjoy time with both of us. I was wondering if anyone could offer any advice as to what is the best way to find someone to join us or maybe how to introduce someone into the swingers world who has not come in contact with it before.

Xx Genie (&partner)

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I would suggest making a couple profile. Not sure how many would meet if you didn't?

R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello fabbers!

I am in need of some help. Or actually we are in need of some help. I have been on fabs for over two years and I have had my fair share of fun. I'm trying to introduce my boyfriend to this world as he knows it's a big part of what makes me me. He would like to try to get into the scene by having another lady there to enjoy time with both of us. I was wondering if anyone could offer any advice as to what is the best way to find someone to join us or maybe how to introduce someone into the swingers world who has not come in contact with it before.

Xx Genie (&partner) "

Hard one, only really you can be sure as you know your BF more than what anyone's advice can offer. Make sure he's really into the idea.

With him already knowing your in the scene is a start so I'm sure it will go well finding the right female for you two.

Good luck OP

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By *enie90 OP   Woman
over a year ago

a bottle


"I would suggest making a couple profile. Not sure how many would meet if you didn't?

R "

Yeah was thinking about that too just wanted to get an idea of what would be best . Thanks!

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I would suggest making a couple profile. Not sure how many would meet if you didn't?

R

Yeah was thinking about that too just wanted to get an idea of what would be best . Thanks! "

I'm sure you would get plenty of response from single males if you didn't create a joint profile, but not sure how many single females/couples would.

R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello fabbers!

I am in need of some help. Or actually we are in need of some help. I have been on fabs for over two years and I have had my fair share of fun. I'm trying to introduce my boyfriend to this world as he knows it's a big part of what makes me me. He would like to try to get into the scene by having another lady there to enjoy time with both of us. I was wondering if anyone could offer any advice as to what is the best way to find someone to join us or maybe how to introduce someone into the swingers world who has not come in contact with it before.

Xx Genie (&partner) "
the parent in me is shouting , how long you known him? What’s his intentions? Is it a ruse for a fantasy ? But if you both are solid ,I agree with R , a couples profile and patience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello fabbers!

I am in need of some help. Or actually we are in need of some help. I have been on fabs for over two years and I have had my fair share of fun. I'm trying to introduce my boyfriend to this world as he knows it's a big part of what makes me me. He would like to try to get into the scene by having another lady there to enjoy time with both of us. I was wondering if anyone could offer any advice as to what is the best way to find someone to join us or maybe how to introduce someone into the swingers world who has not come in contact with it before.

Xx Genie (&partner) the parent in me is shouting , how long you known him? What’s his intentions? Is it a ruse for a fantasy ? But if you both are solid ,I agree with R , a couples profile and patience "

yip agreed and block singles males and maybe even coupes as well and just look for the single bi female.

I was at the Ayrshire social last week and there was some lovely bi females who admitted they wanted to meet a regular couple and or female. So socials maybe a good bet as well.

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By *enie90 OP   Woman
over a year ago

a bottle


"Hello fabbers!

I am in need of some help. Or actually we are in need of some help. I have been on fabs for over two years and I have had my fair share of fun. I'm trying to introduce my boyfriend to this world as he knows it's a big part of what makes me me. He would like to try to get into the scene by having another lady there to enjoy time with both of us. I was wondering if anyone could offer any advice as to what is the best way to find someone to join us or maybe how to introduce someone into the swingers world who has not come in contact with it before.

Xx Genie (&partner)

Hard one, only really you can be sure as you know your BF more than what anyone's advice can offer. Make sure he's really into the idea.

With him already knowing your in the scene is a start so I'm sure it will go well finding the right female for you two.

Good luck OP "

I am still not sure if he's fully fully into it and is more trying it for me. But I hope to find out.

I'm happy we finally managed to talk about me and fabs openly. Thank you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello fabbers!

I am in need of some help. Or actually we are in need of some help. I have been on fabs for over two years and I have had my fair share of fun. I'm trying to introduce my boyfriend to this world as he knows it's a big part of what makes me me. He would like to try to get into the scene by having another lady there to enjoy time with both of us. I was wondering if anyone could offer any advice as to what is the best way to find someone to join us or maybe how to introduce someone into the swingers world who has not come in contact with it before.

Xx Genie (&partner)

Hard one, only really you can be sure as you know your BF more than what anyone's advice can offer. Make sure he's really into the idea.

With him already knowing your in the scene is a start so I'm sure it will go well finding the right female for you two.

Good luck OP

I am still not sure if he's fully fully into it and is more trying it for me. But I hope to find out.

I'm happy we finally managed to talk about me and fabs openly. Thank you! "

I have met couples and during chat have found out one is not fully 100% into fab but they are only doing it for their partner. This is a put off and I never go any further when I found this out. It' something only you and he will know with an open chat together but as someone stated above find out what he wants from it and his views. You know that then its a start in the right direction

I wish you every success

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By *illdeeCouple
over a year ago

St Andrews this week

Stop fuckin about, go to after8 and see what happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello fabbers!

I am in need of some help. Or actually we are in need of some help. I have been on fabs for over two years and I have had my fair share of fun. I'm trying to introduce my boyfriend to this world as he knows it's a big part of what makes me me. He would like to try to get into the scene by having another lady there to enjoy time with both of us. I was wondering if anyone could offer any advice as to what is the best way to find someone to join us or maybe how to introduce someone into the swingers world who has not come in contact with it before.

Xx Genie (&partner)

Hard one, only really you can be sure as you know your BF more than what anyone's advice can offer. Make sure he's really into the idea.

With him already knowing your in the scene is a start so I'm sure it will go well finding the right female for you two.

Good luck OP

I am still not sure if he's fully fully into it and is more trying it for me. But I hope to find out.

I'm happy we finally managed to talk about me and fabs openly. Thank you! "

No matter what happens, being able to communicate needs and desires so freely is a sign of a good relationship!

Keep talking, let him know that if at any point he doesn't feel comfortable or secure you can stop without any repercussions.

Good luck xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello fabbers!

I am in need of some help. Or actually we are in need of some help. I have been on fabs for over two years and I have had my fair share of fun. I'm trying to introduce my boyfriend to this world as he knows it's a big part of what makes me me. He would like to try to get into the scene by having another lady there to enjoy time with both of us. I was wondering if anyone could offer any advice as to what is the best way to find someone to join us or maybe how to introduce someone into the swingers world who has not come in contact with it before.

Xx Genie (&partner) the parent in me is shouting , how long you known him? What’s his intentions? Is it a ruse for a fantasy ? But if you both are solid ,I agree with R , a couples profile and patience

yip agreed and block singles males and maybe even coupes as well and just look for the single bi female.

I was at the Ayrshire social last week and there was some lovely bi females who admitted they wanted to meet a regular couple and or female. So socials maybe a good bet as well. "

"Admitted " lol meeee

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By *enie90 OP   Woman
over a year ago

a bottle

Thank you all so much I have introduced the idea of after 8 to him but he's definitely not ready for that yet. He's more of a one step at a time kinda guy. And it's not for everyone to dive right in the way I did myself. But then I discovered it by being on Webcam sites, had a couple of meets, tried naturist spas where other things also happened obviously and ended up going to clubs. I'm just hoping I can ease him in at an okay pace for him so we can try out other things (really want to check out the torture garden here as I loved it when I went to London). And to the dad in one of you it's me introducing him to this world haha not him to me ^^ I know his intentions are honourable. It took him a while to realize that my intentions explaining about this part of my life was also an honourable thing.. For lack of a better adjective :p.

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Genie, it seems to me that you know him very well and that you already have a plan in your head to ‘ease’ him into swinging.

But I would say, the couples profile is a must.

Block guys and couples to start with.

Take your time to find someone for BOTH of you.

Have fun

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