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Fuck buddies - how many do you have and how did you meet?

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By *elaxedcpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Curious, how many fuck buddies do you have and how did you meet?

We've met several couples on various holidays who we regularly play with but we would love to meet a local single bi lady who would like to join us on a regular basis. Are we looking for a unicorn or is it a sincere possibility that we could meet a lovely lady for long term friendship with sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Curious, how many fuck buddies do you have and how did you meet?

We've met several couples on various holidays who we regularly play with but we would love to meet a local single bi lady who would like to join us on a regular basis. Are we looking for a unicorn or is it a sincere possibility that we could meet a lovely lady for long term friendship with sex?"

I'd say it's probably doubtful you'll find what you seek.

And in answer to your original question...none. It's not a term I like using

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't use the words fuck buddy either to be honest ..there are people I see regularly ...but regular means anything depending on timings. Don't see multiple people at the same time that just gets mental haha

But yes it's very difficult to find someone and keep a good arrangement going

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By *elaxedcpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Don't get us wrong, we're delighted by the people we now count as friends but it would be desirable to have one or two females we could regularly court.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't get us wrong, we're delighted by the people we now count as friends but it would be desirable to have one or two females we could regularly court."

Very hard for a couple to find the perfect fit of a bi female but I'm sure they are out there that are into whatever your looking for.

Good luck OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't get us wrong, we're delighted by the people we now count as friends but it would be desirable to have one or two females we could regularly court."

You only have to read countless forum posts to see how elusive your desire really is. Add to that the fact you hope to find it locally, and it's a smaller pool who will potentially fit the bill.

Of course, others may tell you that you will find what you're looking for, but I think it helps to stay grounded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im an elusive bi girl no fuck buddys yet! But i do prefer full swap couples xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im an elusive bi girl no fuck buddys yet! But i do prefer full swap couples xx"
You Bi?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im an elusive bi girl no fuck buddys yet! But i do prefer full swap couples xx You Bi? "

Im more shocked that your straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im an elusive bi girl no fuck buddys yet! But i do prefer full swap couples xx You Bi?

Im more shocked that your straight "

So am I, he says as he grips a cucumber tightly at the base ready to... well you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im an elusive bi girl no fuck buddys yet! But i do prefer full swap couples xx You Bi?

Im more shocked that your straight

So am I, he says as he grips a cucumber tightly at the base ready to... well you know "

CUCUMBER

Lost all respect, since when did a cucumber vibrate or fit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im an elusive bi girl no fuck buddys yet! But i do prefer full swap couples xx You Bi?

Im more shocked that your straight

So am I, he says as he grips a cucumber tightly at the base ready to... well you know

CUCUMBER

Lost all respect, since when did a cucumber vibrate or fit "

The respect will come back, don't you worry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a bi single female so supposedly much in demand but most couple prefer full swap and as I'm only attracted to blacl end it makes it more difficult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a bi single female so supposedly much in demand but most couple prefer full swap and as I'm only attracted to blacl end it makes it more difficult. "

As someone who has quite specific taste, did you not expect that it might make finding what you seek a bit more challenging when you joined?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't use the words fuck buddy either to be honest ..there are people I see regularly ...but regular means anything depending on timings. Don't see multiple people at the same time that just gets mental haha

But yes it's very difficult to find someone and keep a good arrangement going "

I prefer friction buddy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't use the words fuck buddy either to be honest ..there are people I see regularly ...but regular means anything depending on timings. Don't see multiple people at the same time that just gets mental haha

But yes it's very difficult to find someone and keep a good arrangement going

I prefer friction buddy!"

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

None. I refer to my male companions as friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None. I refer to my male companions as friends."

I'm also friends with all of mine, some I don't see for months, or even longer if they've been seeing someone in a proper relationship, we'll txt to see how each other is doing, then when I get the, what you up to? Fancy a coffee and a catch up! I know then that the relationship is over sadly, I quite like being that go to for advice, shoulder to cry on or stress relief guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like the term fuck buddy either. I prefer the term "friends with benefits" and it's quite nice when they take you out socially too. That's a nice friendship to have as it shows they don't want to see you just for sex x

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

None and for what I perceive it to be I won't ever want one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None and would never want 1.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have one Dom who I see all the time.

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By *exy gentMan
over a year ago

Midlothian


"None. I refer to my male companions as friends."

I want to be your friend

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

Special Friends

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By *ittle DancerWoman
over a year ago

Leslie, Glenrothes

It’s not easy finding other poly people. When it happens and everyone clicks, it’s incredible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was the elusive unicorn when single on here and I found that the more you met a couple the guy always most every time wanted to meet alone behind the Mrs back which was a defo no to me. I was there for the female fun not the guy, that was just an added bonus. Then when they spilt you landed in the middle. As a couple due to experience il never reduce to meeting the same over as it just causes problems. I like variety anyway lol. Spice of life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was the elusive unicorn when single on here and I found that the more you met a couple the guy always most every time wanted to meet alone behind the Mrs back which was a defo no to me. "

I was the same and couples will always deny that is the case. But over a dozen couples I met EVERY man then contacted behind his partners back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure i like the term either, but I have a close friend or two...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One. Bored working wife who's husband isn't fulfilling her needs Although we haven't benefited yet due to our schedules. Hoping to get something sorted out this coming week. Met on tinder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The wife used to have 3 at separate times before we met

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I have fab friends that I play with. None on a regular basis it’s more of as and when we’re free.

I’d hate it to become a regular every Thursday type thing. Takes the fun out of the spontaneous meets and planning a meet builds the thrill and anticipation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0

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By *ottieBBWWoman
over a year ago

West of Scotland


"Im an elusive bi girl no fuck buddys yet! But i do prefer full swap couples xx"

This xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually as a single guy, I don't have any fuck buddy. No one I can call on when I'm horny. Got a lot of friends on here but I wouldn't presume myself on them and to be honest, most already have a friend they can call on for fun

Quite a lot of my friends on here don't even believe that I don't have a FB.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actually as a single guy, I don't have any fuck buddy. No one I can call on when I'm horny. Got a lot of friends on here but I wouldn't presume myself on them and to be honest, most already have a friend they can call on for fun

Quite a lot of my friends on here don't even believe that I don't have a FB. "

Yeah...you've said this several times now.

Fwiw I believe you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actually as a single guy, I don't have any fuck buddy. No one I can call on when I'm horny. Got a lot of friends on here but I wouldn't presume myself on them and to be honest, most already have a friend they can call on for fun

Quite a lot of my friends on here don't even believe that I don't have a FB.

Yeah...you've said this several times now.

Fwiw I believe you "

Several times ??? you got yourself mixed up again little one. Hold on, Oh my bad, I mean if ever there is one person that everyone listens to on here then its you. I mean, I can't imagine you posting something and then everyone just by passes it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actually as a single guy, I don't have any fuck buddy. No one I can call on when I'm horny. Got a lot of friends on here but I wouldn't presume myself on them and to be honest, most already have a friend they can call on for fun

Quite a lot of my friends on here don't even believe that I don't have a FB.

Yeah...you've said this several times now.

Fwiw I believe you

Several times ??? you got yourself mixed up again little one. Hold on, Oh my bad, I mean if ever there is one person that everyone listens to on here then its you. I mean, I can't imagine you posting something and then everyone just by passes it "

Why did you feel the need to snipe there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actually as a single guy, I don't have any fuck buddy. No one I can call on when I'm horny. Got a lot of friends on here but I wouldn't presume myself on them and to be honest, most already have a friend they can call on for fun

Quite a lot of my friends on here don't even believe that I don't have a FB.

Yeah...you've said this several times now.

Fwiw I believe you

Several times ??? you got yourself mixed up again little one. Hold on, Oh my bad, I mean if ever there is one person that everyone listens to on here then its you. I mean, I can't imagine you posting something and then everyone just by passes it

Why did you feel the need to snipe there?

"

Actually its not a snipe.

Twist it anyway you want weee one but there's only one person who likes to START IT. I'm not sarcastic or anything, I will just say the truth to you, always will. I mean, as far as I'm aware I'm not known for actually stating I like drama on the forum or like taking posts off track or being sarcastic in a way to shit stir, some others actually do and have stated it on the forums. They are usually the ones who hate the little green button. Personally I love it, what you feel about it

trying to get it back on track In regards to the Op's post. Out of any kind of FB I'd say I hear more from couples finding it hard to find the perfect female FB who wanted the same things they want in the dynamic way but perseverance is prob the key and if they go with the ups and downs eventually they might find what they truly want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a meet with the same guy 3 times now and plan on more. So I'll say 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As far as I'm aware, neither sarcasm nor taking posts off track is breaking forum rules.

You have started threads before and said on several occasions that you don't have a regular.

The green button shows that. I thought you had perhaps forgotten saying it before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had a meet with the same guy 3 times now and plan on more. So I'll say 1 "

Brill

and if you both love being in each others company for fun then long may it continue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had a meet with the same guy 3 times now and plan on more. So I'll say 1

Brill

and if you both love being in each others company for fun then long may it continue "

He might beg to differ on liking my company

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had a meet with the same guy 3 times now and plan on more. So I'll say 1

Brill

and if you both love being in each others company for fun then long may it continue

He might beg to differ on liking my company "

pmsl oh heck

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