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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As it says above

Ive been advised by a few to go to CJ’s one night as I’m a novice

But the thought of going has me bricking it because I’m on my own, I’m not an Adonis or proclaim to be the sexiest guy in the world so I don’t want to embarrass myself either

Any advice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither are alot of guys that go to cjs

So you won't be alone.

Go see if you like it or not

That's the only way .

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By *andy_FraserTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Most folk go through the same feelings for their first visit.

Just go along, get a tour of the place, then settle down in the bar area or wherever you feel most comfortable.

Most people will say hello and be welcoming, once you're relaxed I'm sure you'll interact more.

My one tip however is don't drink too much (to help relax) as you'll end up regretting it.

Also just remember you're paying for entry to the club, anything else is a bonus.

Mandy

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"As it says above

Ive been advised by a few to go to CJ’s one night as I’m a novice

But the thought of going has me bricking it because I’m on my own, I’m not an Adonis or proclaim to be the sexiest guy in the world so I don’t want to embarrass myself either

Any advice?"
advised to go to a club why on earth pay for experiences.

You should only go to a club if you want to go to a club it certainly won't change in your mind novice status

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I wasn’t told to go, it was more like it was suggested to try it to at least get contacts and get my face known. I’ve only had two verifications and they are only via webcam which puts a lot off.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Why dont you try going to one of the organised socials instead.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m too late for the Ayrshire one,and I need a verified meet for the Xmas one

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By *eep.Man
over a year ago

Just a background character

Are there still Pub Quiz meets in Glasgow? I've not seen a post about one recently, so not sure if they are still going.

Maybe worth keeping an eye out for them as another option to meet folk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are there still Pub Quiz meets in Glasgow? I've not seen a post about one recently, so not sure if they are still going.

Maybe worth keeping an eye out for them as another option to meet folk. "

I think some fab folk do a Tuesday night pub quiz in Paisley if that helps

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"As it says above

Ive been advised by a few to go to CJ’s one night as I’m a novice

But the thought of going has me bricking it because I’m on my own, I’m not an Adonis or proclaim to be the sexiest guy in the world so I don’t want to embarrass myself either

Any advice?"

'The few' that have advised you should have told you that being an Adonis or an Aphrodite 'is not' one of the criteria to enter CJs

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"As it says above

Ive been advised by a few to go to CJ’s one night as I’m a novice

But the thought of going has me bricking it because I’m on my own, I’m not an Adonis or proclaim to be the sexiest guy in the world so I don’t want to embarrass myself either

Any advice?advised to go to a club why on earth pay for experiences.

You should only go to a club if you want to go to a club it certainly won't change in your mind novice status"

To be fair lots of experiences are paid for, from sky diving to white water rafting , this is just possibly a muff diving experience

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anyone want to hold my hand lol

I would’ve went to the cougars and cubs night but unfortunately I’m skint till Friday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone want to hold my hand lol "

Man up!

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

It can be daunting to go alone, e en more so if it's your first club visit! I went to CJ's once when I was visiting Glasgow and went on my own and had a very memorable evening

The club has a great layout and friendly staff. If you're going, perhaps choose an event night that is sure to draw more people there. Good luck

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