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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So, hopefully having my first ever 3some at the weekend but looking for some tips/advice.

We want to make it totally centred around the lady so she has max enjoyment rather than her just servicing the two guys.

Any tips from the ladies that have experience this? Maybe use a blindfold and hand restraints? Lots of foreplay etc?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like when someone takes the lead be it me or Mr so that person is in charge and you just make it all about you. Getting tied up and blindfolded was one of my favourite things to date. Also Headphones and music playing so I don't know what's coming next or who was doing what was brilliant. Don't rush it either. Taking your time and getting a build up is the best thing about it and talk to her during it if she likes it. Nothing worse than just fucking in silence....make it sexy. She'll love it. Enjoy x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Didn’t think of headphones that’s a great idea!

Yeh we wanted to make it more sensual rather than a straight out fuck fest, thanks for the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of foreplayand remember as much as you guys love oral us ladies also love it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

With the right lady I get really turned on giving her lots of oral in all positions yum yum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a few mmf and as someone else said on here, lots of foreplay. Lots of touching on the erogenous zones. Us ladies love to give as well as receive. Make her feel like the sexiest woman alive and talk dirty to her, that's a real turn on x

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Slow always works best. The anticipation. Gentle touches. Don’t even think of going near anything obvious first, especially if she’s blindfolded.

Gentle touch on her skin from 4 hands and 2 mouths will hopefully have the desired effect.

Tease. Tease. Tease.

And have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't matter what advice anyone gives you in this whether they are very experienced or not as it's about you and the other two, how you have been chatting, getting alone, finding out what you all like n desire, how you connect.

Obviously it's been arranged so I take it you've all been chatting about it. If not go with the flow as your all meeting for a 3some so that's the intention.

Good luck OP and enjoy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Had a few mmf and as someone else said on here, lots of foreplay. Lots of touching on the erogenous zones. Us ladies love to give as well as receive. Make her feel like the sexiest woman alive and talk dirty to her, that's a real turn on x"

Dirty talk is something i may need to work on lol

Yeh it’s been mentioned jokingly a few times but we’ve arranged to meet up and see where things go. Might not be full sex first time but go with the flow. Non fab members it’s old Uni friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a few mmf and as someone else said on here, lots of foreplay. Lots of touching on the erogenous zones. Us ladies love to give as well as receive. Make her feel like the sexiest woman alive and talk dirty to her, that's a real turn on x

Dirty talk is something i may need to work on lol

Yeh it’s been mentioned jokingly a few times but we’ve arranged to meet up and see where things go. Might not be full sex first time but go with the flow. Non fab members it’s old Uni friends "

Not everyone likes dirty talk. If a guy started all that on a meet with us I'd stop it right away. It's cringey when you don't really know the person

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Had a few mmf and as someone else said on here, lots of foreplay. Lots of touching on the erogenous zones. Us ladies love to give as well as receive. Make her feel like the sexiest woman alive and talk dirty to her, that's a real turn on x

Dirty talk is something i may need to work on lol

Yeh it’s been mentioned jokingly a few times but we’ve arranged to meet up and see where things go. Might not be full sex first time but go with the flow. Non fab members it’s old Uni friends

Not everyone likes dirty talk. If a guy started all that on a meet with us I'd stop it right away. It's cringey when you don't really know the person "

Yeah i dont like it either but love threesomes. Just relax enjoy and have fun.

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By *ripleXrateDWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I would say just go with the flow. Ive had a few threesomes now and each one has been very diffrent.

What one person likes another wont.

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks again everyone. But common sense I suppose! Hopefully it does happen and lives up to all the hype

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make sure take me out is on the telly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like when someone takes the lead be it me or Mr so that person is in charge and you just make it all about you. Getting tied up and blindfolded was one of my favourite things to date. Also Headphones and music playing so I don't know what's coming next or who was doing what was brilliant. Don't rush it either. Taking your time and getting a build up is the best thing about it and talk to her during it if she likes it. Nothing worse than just fucking in silence....make it sexy. She'll love it. Enjoy x"

I love the idea of this.

Daft question....but what music do you listen to during it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like when someone takes the lead be it me or Mr so that person is in charge and you just make it all about you. Getting tied up and blindfolded was one of my favourite things to date. Also Headphones and music playing so I don't know what's coming next or who was doing what was brilliant. Don't rush it either. Taking your time and getting a build up is the best thing about it and talk to her during it if she likes it. Nothing worse than just fucking in silence....make it sexy. She'll love it. Enjoy x

I love the idea of this.

Daft question....but what music do you listen to during it?

"

Arctic monkeys, reverend and the makers. Anything you enjoy really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like when someone takes the lead be it me or Mr so that person is in charge and you just make it all about you. Getting tied up and blindfolded was one of my favourite things to date. Also Headphones and music playing so I don't know what's coming next or who was doing what was brilliant. Don't rush it either. Taking your time and getting a build up is the best thing about it and talk to her during it if she likes it. Nothing worse than just fucking in silence....make it sexy. She'll love it. Enjoy x

I love the idea of this.

Daft question....but what music do you listen to during it?

Arctic monkeys, reverend and the makers. Anything you enjoy really "

Made me think there

God I love fucking too Goldfrapp - Lovely 2 C U (Instrumental)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like when someone takes the lead be it me or Mr so that person is in charge and you just make it all about you. Getting tied up and blindfolded was one of my favourite things to date. Also Headphones and music playing so I don't know what's coming next or who was doing what was brilliant. Don't rush it either. Taking your time and getting a build up is the best thing about it and talk to her during it if she likes it. Nothing worse than just fucking in silence....make it sexy. She'll love it. Enjoy x

I love the idea of this.

Daft question....but what music do you listen to during it?

Arctic monkeys, reverend and the makers. Anything you enjoy really

Made me think there

God I love fucking too Goldfrapp - Lovely 2 C U (Instrumental) "

It's not really about the music (I could be wrong as it's no me who's having to listen to it) but more about sensory deprivation. Can't move and can't see or hear what's happening is the turn on I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like when someone takes the lead be it me or Mr so that person is in charge and you just make it all about you. Getting tied up and blindfolded was one of my favourite things to date. Also Headphones and music playing so I don't know what's coming next or who was doing what was brilliant. Don't rush it either. Taking your time and getting a build up is the best thing about it and talk to her during it if she likes it. Nothing worse than just fucking in silence....make it sexy. She'll love it. Enjoy x

I love the idea of this.

Daft question....but what music do you listen to during it?

Arctic monkeys, reverend and the makers. Anything you enjoy really

Made me think there

God I love fucking too Goldfrapp - Lovely 2 C U (Instrumental)

It's not really about the music (I could be wrong as it's no me who's having to listen to it) but more about sensory deprivation. Can't move and can't see or hear what's happening is the turn on I think "

I thought of the music bit after it was mentioned, just made me think back and I mentioned the title on this post but it wasn't that relative from me in regards to the post, so sorry folks

was a wee blast thinking back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like when someone takes the lead be it me or Mr so that person is in charge and you just make it all about you. Getting tied up and blindfolded was one of my favourite things to date. Also Headphones and music playing so I don't know what's coming next or who was doing what was brilliant. Don't rush it either. Taking your time and getting a build up is the best thing about it and talk to her during it if she likes it. Nothing worse than just fucking in silence....make it sexy. She'll love it. Enjoy x

I love the idea of this.

Daft question....but what music do you listen to during it?

Arctic monkeys, reverend and the makers. Anything you enjoy really

Made me think there

God I love fucking too Goldfrapp - Lovely 2 C U (Instrumental) "

November rain by guns and Roses eight minutes and fifty seven seconds, slow fast slow. Amazing to fuck with that as the soundtrack

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like when someone takes the lead be it me or Mr so that person is in charge and you just make it all about you. Getting tied up and blindfolded was one of my favourite things to date. Also Headphones and music playing so I don't know what's coming next or who was doing what was brilliant. Don't rush it either. Taking your time and getting a build up is the best thing about it and talk to her during it if she likes it. Nothing worse than just fucking in silence....make it sexy. She'll love it. Enjoy x

I love the idea of this.

Daft question....but what music do you listen to during it?

Arctic monkeys, reverend and the makers. Anything you enjoy really

Made me think there

God I love fucking too Goldfrapp - Lovely 2 C U (Instrumental)

It's not really about the music (I could be wrong as it's no me who's having to listen to it) but more about sensory deprivation. Can't move and can't see or hear what's happening is the turn on I think "

Everything apart from the tied up part appeals to me. Ideas for the weekend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a few mmf and as someone else said on here, lots of foreplay. Lots of touching on the erogenous zones. Us ladies love to give as well as receive. Make her feel like the sexiest woman alive and talk dirty to her, that's a real turn on x

Dirty talk is something i may need to work on lol

Yeh it’s been mentioned jokingly a few times but we’ve arranged to meet up and see where things go. Might not be full sex first time but go with the flow. Non fab members it’s old Uni friends

Not everyone likes dirty talk. If a guy started all that on a meet with us I'd stop it right away. It's cringey when you don't really know the person "

Generally speaking I wouldn't like dirty talk on a first fun meet. I prefer to get to know the guy first and if there were more meets with him then I would be more comfortable with him talking that way to me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Bachelor's song Diane is lovely as an accompaniment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP...have you actually asked the woman what she likes/dislikes?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Had a few mmf and as someone else said on here, lots of foreplay. Lots of touching on the erogenous zones. Us ladies love to give as well as receive. Make her feel like the sexiest woman alive and talk dirty to her, that's a real turn on x

Dirty talk is something i may need to work on lol

Yeh it’s been mentioned jokingly a few times but we’ve arranged to meet up and see where things go. Might not be full sex first time but go with the flow. Non fab members it’s old Uni friends

Not everyone likes dirty talk. If a guy started all that on a meet with us I'd stop it right away. It's cringey when you don't really know the person

Generally speaking I wouldn't like dirty talk on a first fun meet. I prefer to get to know the guy first and if there were more meets with him then I would be more comfortable with him talking that way to me x"

Hate it. Does nothing for me apart from making me feel like a cheap hooker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like when someone takes the lead be it me or Mr so that person is in charge and you just make it all about you. Getting tied up and blindfolded was one of my favourite things to date. Also Headphones and music playing so I don't know what's coming next or who was doing what was brilliant. Don't rush it either. Taking your time and getting a build up is the best thing about it and talk to her during it if she likes it. Nothing worse than just fucking in silence....make it sexy. She'll love it. Enjoy x

I love the idea of this.

Daft question....but what music do you listen to during it?

Arctic monkeys, reverend and the makers. Anything you enjoy really

Made me think there

God I love fucking too Goldfrapp - Lovely 2 C U (Instrumental)

It's not really about the music (I could be wrong as it's no me who's having to listen to it) but more about sensory deprivation. Can't move and can't see or hear what's happening is the turn on I think

Everything apart from the tied up part appeals to me. Ideas for the weekend

"

None of it appeals to me. I can't even sit with my back to a door so there's no way in hell I could cope with that. Thank fuck Mrs has no inclination to do it to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He tied me up before. Just got me frustrated and wanted to chin him, not pump him.

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

Have you asked the lady in question if there's anything that really turns her on, or anything she'd like to try? x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you asked the lady in question if there's anything that really turns her on, or anything she'd like to try? x"

Yes we have, just what floats other people’s boat as well

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you asked the lady in question if there's anything that really turns her on, or anything she'd like to try? x

Yes we have, just what floats other people’s boat as well "

Just ‘seeing’ what floats haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you asked the lady in question if there's anything that really turns her on, or anything she'd like to try? x

Yes we have, just what floats other people’s boat as well "

What if the woman really doesn't fancy some of the stuff mentioned?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you asked the lady in question if there's anything that really turns her on, or anything she'd like to try? x

Yes we have, just what floats other people’s boat as well

What if the woman really doesn't fancy some of the stuff mentioned?"

Then we won’t do it. Sensory deprevation to a point is fine. She knows us both and we’re not bams so she can’t trust us which makes it exciting rather than apprehensive

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can NOT can’t!! Fecking predictive txt!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can NOT can’t!! Fecking predictive txt!!"

It's probably best not to have a to do list either

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can NOT can’t!! Fecking predictive txt!!

It's probably best not to have a to do list either"

Shit! I had my ticklist printed as well! Although if she’s blindfolded she won’t see it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can NOT can’t!! Fecking predictive txt!!

It's probably best not to have a to do list either

Shit! I had my ticklist printed as well! Although if she’s blindfolded she won’t see it... "

You've just reminded me that I actually compiled a list once

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m always making lists of things I want to try, positions or places etc etc...

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By *exyCouple999Couple
over a year ago

South Bucks

We generally prefer to not have a preset agenda of whom should do what etc., and just let the time flow naturally. Seems to work for us. xx

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