FabSwingers.com forum: How Many People/Friends Know Your On Fab

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How Many People/Friends Know Your On Fab.

None of my friends know that I'm on fab as in, I don't have anyone to confide in regarding experiences, relationships, problems etc..

What I do find however, quite a few women I have met during socials etc... have usually one friend in their private life that they confide in.

So folks, what about you, do you have someone from your private life that you confide in?

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By *bandAbCouple
over a year ago

lanarkshire.

1 or 2 close friends know but dont know how far down the rabbit hole weve went.

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

It's not common knowledge among my friends but a few know, I don't hide it and makes things easier if friends close to me know

That said a few of my friends are on fab anyway

John

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my friends knows only cos i help set up her profile on fab but other than that dont think theres others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 of Mr's closest friends know, it was him who suggested here to us.

As for me, my 2 closest friends know and probably more than they should (but I'd trust them with my life), and then a few others.

While I'm not going to walk round telling everyone, I'm not going to hide it either x

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By *loobookMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

most of my close friends do - not ashamed of it tho family dont - not going to get into that convo over dinner anytime soon :P

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I have 2 close friends that know, but couldn't tell anyone else. I've been lucky to make a few good friends on fab though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

close friends know 1 a couple I introduced to Fab and loved it .

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

My best friend knows but no one else to my knowlage

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

My female friend who recently left Fab and a male friend who was going to start swinging with me but chickened out.

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By *ottieBBWWoman
over a year ago

West of Scotland

My sister and few closer friends know that I swing but don’t know which site. No one except some fab Friends know the extent of that lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the same way I wouldn’t discuss a vanilla sex life with friends and family, I’m DEFINITELY not going to discuss/share details about my swinging lifestyle.

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By *dmirationMan
over a year ago

Bathgate

Not so much we are on fab but it is well known in among our friends and family what we do. Not ashamed of it so don't hide it lol so if that counts?

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By *eep.Man
over a year ago

Just a background character

Apart from my academic colleagues here at the University of Sydney, I don't think anyone else knows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just one friend who knows where I am when I have meets ....none of my friends and family would "get" it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Touchy subject for me.

I confided in a friend/colleague on condition of it being confidential, who confided in their friend/colleague (also my colleague), who confided...

And so at this point it's barely a secret. Funny looks at work occasionally these days.

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By *erfectly Average CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Just one who's on here aswell. Not really bothered if anyone finds out but it's probably easier keeping it in the down low.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How Many People/Friends Know Your On Fab.

None of my friends know that I'm on fab as in, I don't have anyone to confide in regarding experiences, relationships, problems etc..

What I do find however, quite a few women I have met during socials etc... have usually one friend in their private life that they confide in.

So folks, what about you, do you have someone from your private life that you confide in?

I've got several close friends on here and lots of people I know, I'm a bit of an open book perhaps too honest with people for my own good so plenty people know about fab

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By *gowbhoy4funMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Most of my friends know I'm on here ..I'm not shy in letting ppl know

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By *gowbhoy4funMan
over a year ago

glasgow

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Not a soul

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By *aughty-Scots68Man
over a year ago

Angus

No one apart from my wife know that I am on Fab, but I do know ppl that I work alongside with are on it and they don’t know I am .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one apart from my wife know that I am on Fab, but I do know ppl that I work alongside with are on it and they don’t know I am .

If you know about them, it's likely they know about you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my friends know I am pretty open minded, but they don't know about fab.

I have stumbled across some old neighbours, uni friends and work colleagues on here though. So I am potentially the talk of the steamie.

Rugby

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By *idingawayCouple
over a year ago

Central

No one except ourselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one that I know off

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

"Not a soul

All her shoes know you are .

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By *aughty-Scots68Man
over a year ago

Angus

It’s a possibility, but I’m guessing that with one of them they have no idea

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By *ullpa72Man
over a year ago

Isle of Arran

As a widower with kids ,I keep it away from them but don't give a hoot what "other"people think .it's my life and it's too short to worry about others opinions.so yes some do know but I have not had any hassle as yet .fingers crossed it stays that way

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By *ookie an creamCouple
over a year ago

Fife

We have a few friends That know but not something we announce to the world, not something we ashamed of just not something that comes up in every day convo lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of my friends are fellow fabbers

so i cant complain x all my family ect know im on here, the people that do the most complaining about me being on here is actually the single guys!

go figure

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Just two non fabbers know I’m on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ppl knowing your on fab ,who you want to meet on fab how many ppl youv met on fab ect should be for you and no one else to know ,its knowones business who when or why ppl meet ,discretion discretion discretion

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By *imbo57Man
over a year ago

kilmarnock ish

None of my work people and the only other friends that know i have meet on fab .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My uncle Bert and aunt jemima know. That's all as far as I'm aware

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Agreed

that's the way it should be.

But to be honest what I'm asking is there, say, like a friend whom you chat to confide in outside of fab about fab matters or ur fab experience

Obviously more directed to singles on fab but a lot of couples have a friend they chat with, well the female sometimes does who chat to her friend about it.

I'm not meaning people who know your on fab cause they are on it etc....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None. I have however came across people that I know but wouldn’t contact them want to keep real life and fab separate

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

I'm not one for sharing every facet of my life though my friends and family know lm not not conventional so wouldn't surprise them

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By *ettercallsaul118Man
over a year ago

lanarkshire

I'm sure few friends or people who know me are on fab few have made sly comments put haven't come out and said it to my face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn’t know that I was on here until I sobered up the next day.....bored, horny and pissed is a dangerous combination

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None and it will stay that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None hopefully although I've spotted a few people we know so anything is possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just the one. Though a select few know of my last on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few and I've introduced a few people to fab too x

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By *picy ItalianMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Just a few of the lads. There find it all a bit weird lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most of my friends know I'm on here ..I'm not shy in letting ppl know

This so comes across as male bravado bragging rather than confiding in a friend ... and i think its more and more of that which has brought more and more of the instashag people on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most of my friends know I'm on here ..I'm not shy in letting ppl know

This so comes across as male bravado bragging rather than confiding in a friend ... and i think its more and more of that which has brought more and more of the instashag people on

Agreed

This site is less about swingers meeting swingers and more about single guys trying to target single women and the female halfs of couples.

It's sad not fab

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Ppl knowing your on fab ,who you want to meet on fab how many ppl youv met on fab ect should be for you and no one else to know ,its knowones business who when or why ppl meet ,discretion discretion discretion "
The one friend I have that knows about fab certainly doesnt know who I want to meet,how many ive met or anything other than Im here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The majority of my friends know I’m on here. I’m their entertainment when discussing meets that haven’t gone to plan

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By *rassyknollMan
over a year ago

Leeds

"None and it will stay that way"

Snap

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By *rand Central CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

A few...

Would only hide it from those who would judge us.... and then you wonder why they're friends at all.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

No one of my friends or family members know i'm here. Fab is my secret, delicious, exciting double life and that just adds to the appeal. No one I know pre fab has even the slightest clue of what I can often times get up to

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By *auradCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

None of our ‘real life’ friends but we have some good friends that we have met from this and an other alternative lifestyle website.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not one knows keeping it that way x

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