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"Still not sure what your asking PMSL " Suppose do you take into account that meeting a newbie might not be the fun you want or to inexperienced, even if they are stunning or do you not bother at all if they are a newbie and could be vanilla in bed. Supppose that's one of the questions Ffs I hope it is, I'll need to go and read my post again   | |||
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"This is a hard one to project without people readiing it wrong or not reading it the way I wanted it conveyed but here goes. Reading a post about improved sex life and got me thinking also remembering a chat with my friend. I was at my pal to find a regular, she's east coast so I'm to far away but eventually she told me she met a guy who was 10 mins drive away. Brilliant I said and she said yeah BUT he's so vanilla I'm having to show him n teach him and try n stop him from cumming to early. She still sees him once a moth and tells me he is way better but doesn't stimulate her enough to make it more regular. I myself have met newbies and also 'vanillas', NOT meaning in a derogatory sense, but some like to explore and open up, some need led. For me confidence, willing to learn, explore is everything whether the female is Sub, Dom, Switch, Equal etc... Do I have it in my mind when I read a profile of a newbie or general profile that the fun might not be the level of fun I'm looking for or want, yeah I suppose I do. I have been wrong and surprised right enough in the past so I suppose that's why I chat a lot to find that interest is there in what I want and if I'm what the person wants. Newbies have to start sometime as I was once a newbie and vanillas are vanilla for a reason they are either just that or not been with the right people to explore themselves. So Meeting A Newbie or Vanilla On Fab do you ever look deep into it or think fuck it. I know I do look into it more even if she is stunningly beautiful. And yes I have met some newbies who have been amazing. "You stull talking shite?   | |||
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Just because folk arnt on a sex site dosn't mean there gonna be less adventurous when it comes to sex?
Iv met guys with loads of experiences on fab that have been less adventurous.
Fab life is not the be all and end all of how you are sexually.
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"Tbh I've never gave it a thought ...every meet is different whether newbie or not ..each 1 is unique ...embrace the uniqueness "Oh agreed everyone and every meet is unique in their own right .
I suppose I do look into it more as too much to early for a newbie might put them off fab but I'm known for going with their flow so I recognise that their pace is the ideal scenario for them.
We are on fab and are guys, well I hope us two are guys, and choice is limited so most guys do jump when they see an opening looo where as I know I don't, well not until I know there's something there after chatting. I know, I know am a fanny. But hey hoe.
Any meet I've ever had, has always been fantastic either in fun or chat or both so I definetly ain't complaining that's for sure
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"1..you have ALOT of friends for every situation brought up on a post on here
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Just because folk arnt on a sex site dosn't mean there gonna be less adventurous when it comes to sex?
Iv met guys with loads of experiences on fab that have been less adventurous.
Fab life is not the be all and end all of how you are sexually.
Believe it or not."I Never said anything you stated there. I know people can be on fab for a long time and still not be adventurers or even crap in bed. I know that newbies can also be fucking amazing in bed. I know that fab isn't the be all and end all of sexually Holyness. Actually yeah I have a lot of friends, why because I'm told I'm likeable and treat everyone with respect, even if they are not that type of person. | |||
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"To long for me to read got bored after first sentence loll" Pmsl that happens when you hear my name lolooolol | |||
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"This is a hard one to project without people readiing it wrong or not reading it the way I wanted it conveyed but here goes. Reading a post about improved sex life and got me thinking also remembering a chat with my friend. I was at my pal to find a regular, she's east coast so I'm to far away but eventually she told me she met a guy who was 10 mins drive away. Brilliant I said and she said yeah BUT he's so vanilla I'm having to show him n teach him and try n stop him from cumming to early. She still sees him once a moth and tells me he is way better but doesn't stimulate her enough to make it more regular. I myself have met newbies and also 'vanillas', NOT meaning in a derogatory sense, but some like to explore and open up, some need led. For me confidence, willing to learn, explore is everything whether the female is Sub, Dom, Switch, Equal etc... Do I have it in my mind when I read a profile of a newbie or general profile that the fun might not be the level of fun I'm looking for or want, yeah I suppose I do. I have been wrong and surprised right enough in the past so I suppose that's why I chat a lot to find that interest is there in what I want and if I'm what the person wants. Newbies have to start sometime as I was once a newbie and vanillas are vanilla for a reason they are either just that or not been with the right people to explore themselves. So Meeting A Newbie or Vanilla On Fab do you ever look deep into it or think fuck it. I know I do look into it more even if she is stunningly beautiful. And yes I have met some newbies who have been amazing.
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"Someone pass the Gin, this is going to take a while to read, reread and read again.... (need the gin till the morphine kicks in). Pete, can you not JUST ONCE put up a thread saying "wid ye shag me or no". "Am still giggling lololol Fucking scared to do that all the replies would say NO, or would theyyyyyy lolollollll | |||
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"Someone pass the Gin, this is going to take a while to read, reread and read again.... (need the gin till the morphine kicks in). Pete, can you not JUST ONCE put up a thread saying "wid ye shag me or no".
Am still giggling lololol
Fucking scared to do that all the replies would say NO, or would theyyyyyy
lolollollll "Yer probably right with the NO | |||
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" Pete, can you not JUST ONCE put up a thread saying "wid ye shag me or no". "He does but just in a roundabout, drawn out 200 word essay kinda way | |||
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" Pete, can you not JUST ONCE put up a thread saying "wid ye shag me or no".
He does but just in a roundabout, drawn out 200 word essay kinda way "You missed a couple of zero’s there!!! | |||
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"Someone pass the Gin, this is going to take a while to read, reread and read again.... (need the gin till the morphine kicks in). Pete, can you not JUST ONCE put up a thread saying "wid ye shag me or no".
Am still giggling lololol
Fucking scared to do that all the replies would say NO, or would theyyyyyy
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Yer probably right with the NO "Where do you get the probably from? You’re too kind to him!!! | |||
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" Pete, can you not JUST ONCE put up a thread saying "wid ye shag me or no".
He does but just in a roundabout, drawn out 200 word essay kinda way
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"i think you should just meet who ever you connect with dose it matter how long they been around on fab no u connect meet them don't have expectations relax and have fun isn't that what its ment to be about? " Don’t bloody encourage him... he’ll be messaging you soon with his life story, theory of being and the meaning of life!!!! | |||
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"This is a hard one to project without people readiing it wrong or not reading it the way I wanted it conveyed but here goes. Reading a post about improved sex life and got me thinking also remembering a chat with my friend. I was at my pal to find a regular, she's east coast so I'm to far away but eventually she told me she met a guy who was 10 mins drive away. Brilliant I said and she said yeah BUT he's so vanilla I'm having to show him n teach him and try n stop him from cumming to early. She still sees him once a moth and tells me he is way better but doesn't stimulate her enough to make it more regular. I myself have met newbies and also 'vanillas', NOT meaning in a derogatory sense, but some like to explore and open up, some need led. For me confidence, willing to learn, explore is everything whether the female is Sub, Dom, Switch, Equal etc... Do I have it in my mind when I read a profile of a newbie or general profile that the fun might not be the level of fun I'm looking for or want, yeah I suppose I do. I have been wrong and surprised right enough in the past so I suppose that's why I chat a lot to find that interest is there in what I want and if I'm what the person wants. Newbies have to start sometime as I was once a newbie and vanillas are vanilla for a reason they are either just that or not been with the right people to explore themselves. So Meeting A Newbie or Vanilla On Fab do you ever look deep into it or think fuck it. I know I do look into it more even if she is stunningly beautiful. And yes I have met some newbies who have been amazing. "So newbies, especially Vanilla newbies are shite shags and need to be taught??? Well - I’m a relative newbie, not into fetishes so call myself Vanilla. Never had any complaints and don’t need anyone to teach me. The biggest thing that can stimulate someone is conversation and intelligence. The biggest things to deflate someone are arrogance and conceitedness. If the personality isn’t there nothing else will be and that can be judged in a handful of messages. | |||
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" Pete, can you not JUST ONCE put up a thread saying "wid ye shag me or no".
He does but just in a roundabout, drawn out 200 word essay kinda way "Subtle as a brick | |||
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" Pete, can you not JUST ONCE put up a thread saying "wid ye shag me or no".
He does but just in a roundabout, drawn out 200 word essay kinda way
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"This is a hard one to project without people readiing it wrong or not reading it the way I wanted it conveyed but here goes. Reading a post about improved sex life and got me thinking also remembering a chat with my friend. I was at my pal to find a regular, she's east coast so I'm to far away but eventually she told me she met a guy who was 10 mins drive away. Brilliant I said and she said yeah BUT he's so vanilla I'm having to show him n teach him and try n stop him from cumming to early. She still sees him once a moth and tells me he is way better but doesn't stimulate her enough to make it more regular. I myself have met newbies and also 'vanillas', NOT meaning in a derogatory sense, but some like to explore and open up, some need led. For me confidence, willing to learn, explore is everything whether the female is Sub, Dom, Switch, Equal etc... Do I have it in my mind when I read a profile of a newbie or general profile that the fun might not be the level of fun I'm looking for or want, yeah I suppose I do. I have been wrong and surprised right enough in the past so I suppose that's why I chat a lot to find that interest is there in what I want and if I'm what the person wants. Newbies have to start sometime as I was once a newbie and vanillas are vanilla for a reason they are either just that or not been with the right people to explore themselves. So Meeting A Newbie or Vanilla On Fab do you ever look deep into it or think fuck it. I know I do look into it more even if she is stunningly beautiful. And yes I have met some newbies who have been amazing.
So newbies, especially Vanilla newbies are shite shags and need to be taught???
Well - I’m a relative newbie, not into fetishes so call myself Vanilla. Never had any complaints and don’t need anyone to teach me.
The biggest thing that can stimulate someone is conversation and intelligence. The biggest things to deflate someone are arrogance and conceitedness. If the personality isn’t there nothing else will be and that can be judged in a handful of messages."Pmsl aww Ffs somebody tell her it's me.
Not what I mean, not what I said. But It's been read the way you want to read it and then judged the OP as what you expect during reading.
So far from the truth Lolol. But hey hoe. | |||
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"Anyway I'm gonna leave and come back a newbie and see how am treated "We'll know it's you, so you will be treated accordingly. (with ridicule and nonsense xx) | |||
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"Anyway I'm gonna leave and come back a newbie and see how am treated "but who would do story time then? | |||
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"This is a hard one to project without people readiing it wrong or not reading it the way I wanted it conveyed but here goes. Reading a post about improved sex life and got me thinking also remembering a chat with my friend. I was at my pal to find a regular, she's east coast so I'm to far away but eventually she told me she met a guy who was 10 mins drive away. Brilliant I said and she said yeah BUT he's so vanilla I'm having to show him n teach him and try n stop him from cumming to early. She still sees him once a moth and tells me he is way better but doesn't stimulate her enough to make it more regular. I myself have met newbies and also 'vanillas', NOT meaning in a derogatory sense, but some like to explore and open up, some need led. For me confidence, willing to learn, explore is everything whether the female is Sub, Dom, Switch, Equal etc... Do I have it in my mind when I read a profile of a newbie or general profile that the fun might not be the level of fun I'm looking for or want, yeah I suppose I do. I have been wrong and surprised right enough in the past so I suppose that's why I chat a lot to find that interest is there in what I want and if I'm what the person wants. Newbies have to start sometime as I was once a newbie and vanillas are vanilla for a reason they are either just that or not been with the right people to explore themselves. So Meeting A Newbie or Vanilla On Fab do you ever look deep into it or think fuck it. I know I do look into it more even if she is stunningly beautiful. And yes I have met some newbies who have been amazing.
You stull talking shite?
Just wait yo the porn chat starts, then ur fucked "Think site admins see peter logging in say crap better clear the database. | |||
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"Loath the term vanilla. Yes it IS intended to be derogatory. No such thing as vanilla sex. A fuck is a fuck. Not wanting to take it up the arse does not make me "vanilla". Neither does another lady who enjoys anal " kinky" or "non vanilla" . And what the fuck is a newbie? Who gets to decide when you are "new" or not? I have only been on site 6 months,am.I still a newbie then? So much bollocks. Did you take a football to the head at the last training session?" kind of agree the use of vanilla implies elitism imo it's a term I've never and will never use | |||
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"I (kind of) see what you are getting at but by fuck it does come across as "I've been here 10 years and am willing to train or teach newbies because Im epic" No doubt NOT what you are implying but read that way by me Peter. M" Pmsl definetly not. That ain't me imy view nor in any capacity. Total opposite and treat everyone as an individual and with respect, even some on the forum who clearly don't like me. I still don't give the same shite back that they try and dish out. I personally don't mind taking hits on here, I want it worth the while fir paying customers on the forum
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"This is a hard one to project without people readiing it wrong or not reading it the way I wanted it conveyed but here goes. Reading a post about improved sex life and got me thinking also remembering a chat with my friend. I was at my pal to find a regular, she's east coast so I'm to far away but eventually she told me she met a guy who was 10 mins drive away. Brilliant I said and she said yeah BUT he's so vanilla I'm having to show him n teach him and try n stop him from cumming to early. She still sees him once a moth and tells me he is way better but doesn't stimulate her enough to make it more regular. I myself have met newbies and also 'vanillas', NOT meaning in a derogatory sense, but some like to explore and open up, some need led. For me confidence, willing to learn, explore is everything whether the female is Sub, Dom, Switch, Equal etc... Do I have it in my mind when I read a profile of a newbie or general profile that the fun might not be the level of fun I'm looking for or want, yeah I suppose I do. I have been wrong and surprised right enough in the past so I suppose that's why I chat a lot to find that interest is there in what I want and if I'm what the person wants. Newbies have to start sometime as I was once a newbie and vanillas are vanilla for a reason they are either just that or not been with the right people to explore themselves. So Meeting A Newbie or Vanilla On Fab do you ever look deep into it or think fuck it. I know I do look into it more even if she is stunningly beautiful. And yes I have met some newbies who have been amazing.
You stull talking shite?
Just wait yo the porn chat starts, then ur fucked
Think site admins see peter logging in say crap better clear the database. "Pmslllllllllllll | |||
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Ffs that must be bad if it confused you "It confused me too lol x | |||
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"Loath the term vanilla. Yes it IS intended to be derogatory. No such thing as vanilla sex. A fuck is a fuck. Not wanting to take it up the arse does not make me "vanilla". Neither does another lady who enjoys anal " kinky" or "non vanilla" . And what the fuck is a newbie? Who gets to decide when you are "new" or not? I have only been on site 6 months,am.I still a newbie then? So much bollocks. Did you take a football to the head at the last training session?" Haha best reply ive seen on forums for a long time lol | |||
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"Loath the term vanilla. Yes it IS intended to be derogatory. No such thing as vanilla sex. A fuck is a fuck. Not wanting to take it up the arse does not make me "vanilla". Neither does another lady who enjoys anal " kinky" or "non vanilla" . And what the fuck is a newbie? Who gets to decide when you are "new" or not? I have only been on site 6 months,am.I still a newbie then? So much bollocks. Did you take a football to the head at the last training session?" "Not wanting to take it up the arse does not make me "vanilla". Neither does another lady who enjoys anal " kinky" or "non vanilla" . " Where does it say that and why are you saying 'Lady'. I take it if someone doesn't like anal, then its that, they don't like anal. If someone loves anal then I take it as that, they love anal. If you think a 'fuck is a fuck' then that's your view and if its the view of most then unfortunately for me it isn't. Everyone is different, some very different from others. If you take vanilla as a derogatory term, then please do so, I cant and will not ask you to view anything a certain way other than make your own judgment on it, I don't think its a derogatory term. Do you term 'kinky' as a derogatory or 'dirty' as a derogatory term. Then again, your idea of kinky might be someone's view of a bore or they might view your idea of kinky as way out there, we are all different, FACT Who is classed as a newbie on fab, well there was a newbie on fab chat room last night but they have been on fab for over a year. So they are a newbie to the scots chat room. "And what the fuck is a newbie? Who gets to decide when you are "new" or not?" I suppose officially a newbie by fab is when they have the wee image beside their name that says 'new'. Actually come to think of it, glad you stated that but I don't know when that term is officially taken off. Also just cause someone has joined fab doesn't mean they are new to the swinging world. I was new to fab but previously before that, my first swinging experience with a couple was 15 years earlier .
"Did you take a football to the head at the last training session?" Nope, am totally fine and totally sane and put posts on and don't worry if people read it differently from what it was intended to convey. I do wonder why they do view them differently than intended though but that's me to make my own call on that as they do on me | |||
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"i think you should just meet who ever you connect with dose it matter how long they been around on fab no u connect meet them don't have expectations relax and have fun isn't that what its ment to be about? Don’t bloody encourage him... he’ll be messaging you soon with his life story, theory of being and the meaning of life!!!! "Well I sure fucking know how to walk through 14 inch of snow at 3am in the morning | |||
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"Loath the term vanilla. Yes it IS intended to be derogatory. No such thing as vanilla sex. A fuck is a fuck. Not wanting to take it up the arse does not make me "vanilla". Neither does another lady who enjoys anal " kinky" or "non vanilla" . And what the fuck is a newbie? Who gets to decide when you are "new" or not? I have only been on site 6 months,am.I still a newbie then? So much bollocks. Did you take a football to the head at the last training session? Not wanting to take it up the arse does not make me "vanilla". Neither does another lady who enjoys anal " kinky" or "non vanilla" . Where does it say that and why are you saying 'Lady'. I take it if someone doesn't like anal, then its that, they don't like anal. If someone loves anal then I take it as that, they love anal. If you think a 'fuck is a fuck' then that's your view and if its the view of most then unfortunately for me it isn't. Everyone is different, some very different from others. If you take vanilla as a derogatory term, then please do so, I cant and will not ask you to view anything a certain way other than make your own judgment on it, I don't think its a derogatory term. Do you term 'kinky' as a derogatory or 'dirty' as a derogatory term. Then again, your idea of kinky might be someone's view of a bore or they might view your idea of kinky as way out there, we are all different, FACT Who is classed as a newbie on fab, well there was a newbie on fab chat room last night but they have been on fab for over a year. So they are a newbie to the scots chat room. And what the fuck is a newbie? Who gets to decide when you are "new" or not? I suppose officially a newbie by fab is when they have the wee image beside their name that says 'new'. Actually come to think of it, glad you stated that but I don't know when that term is officially taken off. Also just cause someone has joined fab doesn't mean they are new to the swinging world. I was new to fab but previously before that, my first swinging experience with a couple was 15 years earlier .
Did you take a football to the head at the last training session? Nope, am totally fine and totally sane and put posts on and don't worry if people read it differently from what it was intended to convey. I do wonder why they do view them differently than intended though but that's me to make my own call on that as they do on me
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Am I feck, I've slept through 9 of those years on fab and missed everything "Awe thought you could have taught us a few things about fab as we have only been here 9 yrs | |||
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Am I feck, I've slept through 9 of those years on fab and missed everything
Awe thought you could have taught us a few things about fab as we have only been here 9 yrs "I can tell you that if you meet Fugy and he turns up with a sheep on a leash then you are both in for a long, long night just saying like | |||
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"The voice of experience
Am I feck, I've slept through 9 of those years on fab and missed everything
Awe thought you could have taught us a few things about fab as we have only been here 9 yrs
I can tell you that if you meet Fugy and he turns up with a sheep on a leash then you are both in for a long, long night
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"Tbh I've never gave it a thought ...every meet is different whether newbie or not ..each 1 is unique ...embrace the uniqueness "Definitely this , good answer. Slightly off topic though, i have to say the posts in here have been feckin hilarious | |||
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