FabSwingers.com forum: Do You Have A Crush On Fab

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do You Have A Crush On Fab and do you intend to do something about it.

I messaged a female ladt year about her status and then later found out I was her crush on fab. It was a surprise and really lovely to know and I thought she was a stinnng hottie. We met a few times which was fantastic and when in her company I always thought wooow but she then pushed me away as she said she liked me too much

. but that's life. So I had someone crushing on me so I'm so happy. I think if I had a crush I prob wouldn't do anything about it, just admire from afar

So folks, common Do You Have A Crush On Fab and do you intend to do anything about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do. It's someone I've been chatting to and she's just lovely. No, I don't intend to do anything about it, for various reasons, the most important one being that we might actually have the chance of being good friends, and a friendship is way more important to me than a fling.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes I do. It's someone I've been chatting to and she's just lovely. No, I don't intend to do anything about it, for various reasons, the most important one being that we might actually have the chance of being good friends, and a friendship is way more important to me than a fling."

Agreed

although might make it worse as you become more friends then she's horny and you know she's away to fuck someone even though you have a crush on her

Sure there is a way to let her know you have a crush on her and remain pals so she might decide to jump on you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed

although might make it worse as you become more friends then she's horny and you know she's away to fuck someone even though you have a crush on her

Sure there is a way to let her know you have a crush on her and remain pals so she might decide to jump on you

Ah, I'm not the jealous sort, and I wouldn't want to deny any man or woman the chance to enjoy her.

As for letting her know… she does. And she indicated an attraction to me as well, but it's one of those things where experience tells me friendship's the better option, you know?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Agreed

although might make it worse as you become more friends then she's horny and you know she's away to fuck someone even though you have a crush on her

Sure there is a way to let her know you have a crush on her and remain pals so she might decide to jump on you

Ah, I'm not the jealous sort, and I wouldn't want to deny any man or woman the chance to enjoy her.

As for letting her know… she does. And she indicated an attraction to me as well, but it's one of those things where experience tells me friendship's the better option, you know? "

Well that actually sounds as if it's a good friendship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed

although might make it worse as you become more friends then she's horny and you know she's away to fuck someone even though you have a crush on her

Sure there is a way to let her know you have a crush on her and remain pals so she might decide to jump on you

Ah, I'm not the jealous sort, and I wouldn't want to deny any man or woman the chance to enjoy her.

As for letting her know… she does. And she indicated an attraction to me as well, but it's one of those things where experience tells me friendship's the better option, you know?

Well that actually sounds as if it's a good friendship

Time will tell.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Define crush

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Define crush

Hmmm can mean different things to many people but here goes

Someone on fab yiu thing wooow and everything they do is just kl and I'd love to meet and wish to meet (and ur prob won't message)

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"Define crush

Hmmm can mean different things to many people but here goes

Someone on fab yiu thing wooow and everything they do is just kl and I'd love to meet and wish to meet (and ur prob won't message)

Then in that case yes ..there's 1 or 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

I wouldn't not message them tho unless I couldn't due to filters

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Define crush

Hmmm can mean different things to many people but here goes

Someone on fab yiu thing wooow and everything they do is just kl and I'd love to meet and wish to meet (and ur prob won't message)

Then in that case yes ..there's 1 or 2

Yeah I'm the same but these people are chatty and I have messaged about their status or summit else like that but wouldn't let them know the crush I have

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

I have a couple of ladies who I know are waaaay out of my league and I’m friends with.

But, they are awesome friends and wonderful people.

I just wish they saw me differently as they are drop dead gorgeous in my opinion but c’est la vie. I’m not willing to ruin the friendship for a shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few crushes on here and have sometimes let them know. I kind a feel like Tom cruise in top gun(although admittedly I look absolutely nothing like him.nor does my bank balance resemble his. Lol), crashed and burned a few times, a couple of others, I'll let you know but it's liking good so far. Pmsl. I would never ever risk a friendship over a shag though. I did make that known to one of them recently. The way I look at it is if it's meant to be it will be. If not, it's my loss. Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a small number. Chatted with some but not all.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Im too old for crushes. There are folk i like alot more than others but i would not call it a crush.

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour

Oh yes and no I won't because the reality may be a let down to the fantasy if we met in real life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't know if I would say a crush...I'd like to do a pick n mix with some of the folk on here. One person's body with another's personality.

Chatting to someone just now who has tickled my fancy though. And I have messaged folk in the past and told them I liked them.

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By *tsallthesame77Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Yes and nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't know if I would call it crush but met someone recently who made me stop and think?

Also developed some feelings for one person I met so having to go cold turkey as feelings are not good on here!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't know if I would call it crush but met someone recently who made me stop and think?

Also developed some feelings for one person I met so having to go cold turkey as feelings are not good on here!!!"

Unless it's reciprocated? Or is that still a no no.

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I suppose I do, but it's soneone I meet regularly. Otherwise, I'm not good at making the first contact.

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I have a few crushes... some I talk to on and off the site and 1 or 2 from the forums

K x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't know if I would call it crush but met someone recently who made me stop and think?

Also developed some feelings for one person I met so having to go cold turkey as feelings are not good on here!!!

Unless it's reciprocated? Or is that still a no no."

No its definitely not reciprocated!! I'm simply a shag to him when he can be bothered. Hence going radio silence on him as not prepared to put up with that crap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't know if I would call it crush but met someone recently who made me stop and think?

Also developed some feelings for one person I met so having to go cold turkey as feelings are not good on here!!!

Unless it's reciprocated? Or is that still a no no.

No its definitely not reciprocated!! I'm simply a shag to him when he can be bothered. Hence going radio silence on him as not prepared to put up with that crap. "

Fuck em then.

Smart move

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Would be nice to be someone's crush

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By *ero666Man
over a year ago

fife

Yes,I suppose I do

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Would be nice to be someone's crush

OK you are

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"Would be nice to be someone's crush

OK you are

I'm not your crush horsey I'm your fucking hero

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im too old for crushes. There are folk i like alot more than others but i would not call it a crush."

This about sums it up for me too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Would be nice to be someone's crush

OK you are

I'm not your crush horsey I'm your fucking hero

ffs you sure you can carry my frame down the ladder form the burning building

please say yes, don't destroy my dream ffs

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"Would be nice to be someone's crush

OK you are

I'm not your crush horsey I'm your fucking hero

ffs you sure you can carry my frame down the ladder form the burning building

please say yes, don't destroy my dream ffs

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, but he's a bit young so I'm just going to admire him from afar

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By *40ffCouple
over a year ago

lala land

"Define crush

Hmmm can mean different things to many people but here goes

Someone on fab yiu thing wooow and everything they do is just kl and I'd love to meet and wish to meet (and ur prob won't message)

going by this then yes I do but I have spoke to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course, otherwise i would just have left the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a crush, did something about it now very complicated. Waiting game now.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"Yup, but he's a bit young so I'm just going to admire him from afar

Awww I'm not that young lol

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

"Yup, but he's a bit young so I'm just going to admire him from afar

Awww I'm not that young lol

No, he’s really not

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

"Yup, but he's a bit young so I'm just going to admire him from afar

Why? You never know......

He may be an old soul in a young body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yup, but he's a bit young so I'm just going to admire him from afar

Awww I'm not that young lol

No, he’s really not

Ahem... Same age as me!!!

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

Nah, bit old for that malarkey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nah, bit old for that malarkey "

Nonsense? You're never too old for your heart to go pitter-patter when you see that particular someone's name pop up in your inbox. :p And you're barely any age at all, so definitely not too old!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well everyone is human and all you can do is move on and be happy.

Getting back into a social side having conversations and fun if it happens.

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By *TBSMan
over a year ago

close enough

Been there done it, I can safely say it will not happen again

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I don’t have any Fab crushes. Life is too short. Message them and tell them how you feel.

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