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By *ittlemissnaughtybutnice OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

....... and do you ever stray from them?

R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to think of them as guidelines...i've strayed from mine and been rather pleasantly surprised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A really interesting question. I’ve only been here just over a week, but after thoroughly exploring, I’ve got a really clear vision of what I would like, ideally, to get out of the site. I also have the start of some rules for myself – a couple of them the result of some self-inflicted negative experiences so far.

As for breaking them, I also have some thoughts on just what would make me do that… I would, but only in very particular circumstances.

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By *TBSMan
over a year ago

close enough

My rule is to just chat to people and never have sex on this site.......its been going well for many years!!!!!!

M

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutnice OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I never really had any 'rules' on my old couple profile, but I have a list since joining as a single female. I rarely (only once) stray from them as they seem to work for me.

R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never really had any 'rules' on my old couple profile, but I have a list since joining as a single female. I rarely (only once) stray from them as they seem to work for me.

R "

Without asking for specifics, what was the general circumstance in which you strayed from your rules? I’m curious as to what tempted you off the path.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Yup I have rules I won't stray from

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutnice OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I never really had any 'rules' on my old couple profile, but I have a list since joining as a single female. I rarely (only once) stray from them as they seem to work for me.

R

Without asking for specifics, what was the general circumstance in which you strayed from your rules? I’m curious as to what tempted you off the path. "

We had chatted for ages & exchanged clear face pics. Only time I've ever bent the rules.

R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never really had any 'rules' on my old couple profile, but I have a list since joining as a single female. I rarely (only once) stray from them as they seem to work for me.

R

Without asking for specifics, what was the general circumstance in which you strayed from your rules? I’m curious as to what tempted you off the path.

We had chatted for ages & exchanged clear face pics. Only time I've ever bent the rules.

R "

Fair. Thanks for replying.

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutnice OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I prefer to think of them as guidelines...i've strayed from mine and been rather pleasantly surprised "

I think I drive someone on fab mad with my rules . I worry if I do stray, then my luck might change as they have served me well.

R

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutnice OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Yup I have rules I won't stray from "

Mine have, on the whole, ensured safe & successful choices & fun.

R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guidelines yes

Rules no as Iv broken most

I go with gut feelings.

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By *rassyknollMan
over a year ago

Near Hamilton

Im amazed at the amount of pirates of the Caribbean references in this thread

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

As part of a cpl I wouldn't say rules as such ..more agreed boundaries and guidelines lol ..we have found over the years that the boundaries can and do move xxx

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By *ripleXrateDWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"As part of a cpl I wouldn't say rules as such ..more agreed boundaries and guidelines lol ..we have found over the years that the boundaries can and do move xxx "

^^^^ Same as above, one rule we do have as we don't meet MF couples solo

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"....... and do you ever stray from them?

R "
yes if it feels right to do so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am quite strict regarding my rules on fab which a few can concur

But yes I have strayed, unintentionally and in the heat of the moment, intentionally

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By *evilsAdvocate94Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh

I have my own rules for me, and I have my message settings for a reason. Even though I discovered someone trying to bypass them by having 2 accounts!! Which was annoying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, but rules are made to be broken.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"Yes, but rules are made to be broken."

Ohh what 1s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've strayed away from my rule of going with my gut instinct.... only ever made that mistake once ..won't happen again

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By *anarkshirelassCouple
over a year ago

lanarkshire

One rule we have and are strict and that's that we wont add anyone to our friends list until we have actually met them.

We've been speaking to peeps in Scotland chat for ages but we still don't deviate from it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, but rules are made to be broken.

Ohh what 1s "

It's no the rule regarding men and face pics so your phone screen won't be cracking anytime soon.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"Yes, but rules are made to be broken.

Ohh what 1s

It's no the rule regarding men and face pics so your phone screen won't be cracking anytime soon. "

thank fuck it's a new phone

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutnice OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I almost deviated from them a few months ago but cancelled prior to meeting as something didn't feel right .... and I was proved right. Would put me off thinking about breaking them again.

R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My only rule is to stay safe and enjoy myself

Has worked for years now

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By *pinCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh


"I almost deviated from them a few months ago but cancelled prior to meeting as something didn't feel right .... and I was proved right. Would put me off thinking about breaking them again.

R "

Have to elaborate???? What was the rule ?

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By *40ffCouple
over a year ago

Anstruther

I think as a Cpl its very important to agree unpon and stick to guidelines but if one wants to change the lines that it can be spoke about and new agreement's can be set if that makes any sense at all lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think as a Cpl its very important to agree unpon and stick to guidelines but if one wants to change the lines that it can be spoke about and new agreement's can be set if that makes any sense at all lol "

It does. Circumstances, needs and desires change, so guidelines sometimes need to be redrawn to fit the reality of the situation.

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutnice OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I almost deviated from them a few months ago but cancelled prior to meeting as something didn't feel right .... and I was proved right. Would put me off thinking about breaking them again.

R

Have to elaborate???? What was the rule ?"

1 rule is I only ever arranging to meet socially first. I never arrange/agree to play on the same day.

R

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We don’t really have rules we just kinda know what’s acceptable to each of us. Each situation is different.

K x

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutnice OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"We don’t really have rules we just kinda know what’s acceptable to each of us. Each situation is different.

K x"

I do think it's different being on as a single though x

R

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"We don’t really have rules we just kinda know what’s acceptable to each of us. Each situation is different.

K x

I do think it's different being on as a single though x

R "

Ye definately... if I was single I’d be letting at least 10 people know where I was, I’d have all sorts scenarios running through my head lol

K x

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutnice OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"We don’t really have rules we just kinda know what’s acceptable to each of us. Each situation is different.

K x

I do think it's different being on as a single though x

R

Ye definately... if I was single I’d be letting at least 10 people know where I was, I’d have all sorts scenarios running through my head lol

K x"

1 of the reasons I never rush into meeting & have my list of rules. Lol x

R

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

Didn't follow my basic 1 rule once and it was a bad move ...never again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Didn't follow my basic 1 rule once and it was a bad move ...never again "

Oh do tell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no rules. I am actually curious as to what rules you could have?! I just go with the flow and trust my gut.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

Not rules, but more gut instinct!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not rules, but more gut instinct!! "

She does not allow people to leave with her videos

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"Not rules, but more gut instinct!!

She does not allow people to leave with her videos "

Damn right I don't!!! You were lucky to see them and get a cuppa!! x

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)


"Didn't follow my basic 1 rule once and it was a bad move ...never again

Oh do tell "

Please refer to the 1 basic rule ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Didn't follow my basic 1 rule once and it was a bad move ...never again

Oh do tell

Please refer to the 1 basic rule ..."

never suck your own cock in a public place while on a meet

or is that number 2, I canny remember, DAMG! I always do things at the wrong time

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