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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I've been here a while and no one wants to meet or even chat. Can any be honest enough to say why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's probably many reasons people can come up with but if you've got shit chat you're immediately fucked. Add to that a shit profile and unappealing pics then its an uphill struggle. Good luck

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By *rmskirk360Woman
over a year ago

Wigan


"So I've been here a while and no one wants to meet or even chat. Can any be honest enough to say why"

Your profile is crap. If your profile messaged you, would you want to chat to you?

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By *ack-of-RollosMan
over a year ago

Rolloshire

My guess: your head shots look like the people in my morning work meetings. Either preserve some mystery or consider removing your Clark Kent's on camera plus maybe swap that suit for kicking festival lineup t-shirt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look at my profile, its a haven of information, I recently took the bus timetable out as that made it too long

I still get people messaging me to chat just because then ended up on my profile and wanted to chat with me

Look at a lot of guys profiles, some with quite a few verifications and figure out what they are doing right

good luck OP

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

You have been here a week!

Your profile text is also empty.

R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you gonna be finished editing?? Ffs if you cba making your profile personal to you then how do us girls knpw were gonna be interest to us? Not exactly shining with your picture take it as constructive criticism us girls like the effort put in, in all things!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP...try and let a little of your personality show when you're messaging folk.

Your profile doesn't need to be long- winded, those that are can come across as a little bit try too hard.

And some humour goes a long way, provided it's actually funny.

Have fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you to everyone for the responses, I will take it on and get my profile and pics sorted.

Hopefully it will attract more attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you to everyone for the responses, I will take it on and get my profile and pics sorted.

Hopefully it will attract more attention.

"

Go into fab chat socialise go to cjs, after 8 wherever, women will not fall at your inbox wanting to fuck you no matter what youve been told lol

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"Thank you to everyone for the responses, I will take it on and get my profile and pics sorted.

Hopefully it will attract more attention.

Go into fab chat socialise go to cjs, after 8 wherever, women will not fall at your inbox wanting to fuck you no matter what youve been told lol"

They won't ffs better up my game

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky

I'm Sure we seen some of your pics as part of a couples profile a couple weeks back?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My guess: your head shots look like the people in my morning work meetings. Either preserve some mystery or consider removing your Clark Kent's on camera plus maybe swap that suit for kicking festival lineup t-shirt "

And they say women are brutal on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My guess: your head shots look like the people in my morning work meetings. Either preserve some mystery or consider removing your Clark Kent's on camera plus maybe swap that suit for kicking festival lineup t-shirt

And they say women are brutal on here! "

He does have a point though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty much what everyone has said on here, can you post a typical first msg you would send to a girl, I have a feeling that's a big part of the problem but can't give you pointers unless we know what it is??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm Sure we seen some of your pics as part of a couples profile a couple weeks back? "

Yeah u did see me as a couple, but I'm now single hence I'm here now myself

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