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How Many Of Your Socials Turn Into A Play Meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How Many Of Your Socials Turn Into A Play Meet

Well as the title says, what you think.

Personally not many of mine as usually arrange fun later but mainly because I like to let the female instigate it if there will be any fun pluses im terrible at reading women if they are into me n aroused during a social.

So what about you folks, how many turn to fun during a social

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"How Many Of Your Socials Turn Into A Play Meet

Well as the title says, what you think.

Personally not many of mine as usually arrange fun later but mainly because I like to let the female instigate it if there will be any fun pluses im terrible at reading women if they are into me n aroused during a social.

So what about you folks, how many turn to fun during a social"

It had never been my initial intentions but yes this has happened on a few occassions where a coffee meet has finished up in the bedroom. Due to work it takes a while for me to plan my socials so when the man you meet is so bloody handsome it just seems the most natural thing to do. I also think spontaneous sex is far more exciting then preplanned sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None for me unfortunately Pedro

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Its happend a few times for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's happened a few times with me.

Hasn't been planned, but was just a natural progression.

L x

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Yeah, it happens. I’ve got a bit carried away on a couple of occasions.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

All of them. All of my socials are with the understanding it can progress that night if we get on. I take a while to get to know someone through messaging before I'd meet them in person, even socially, so I'm normally quite sure I want it to go further anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How Many Of Your Socials Turn Into A Play Meet

Well as the title says, what you think.

Personally not many of mine as usually arrange fun later but mainly because I like to let the female instigate it if there will be any fun pluses im terrible at reading women if they are into me n aroused during a social.

So what about you folks, how many turn to fun during a social"

Very few tbh asked me this question years ago alot more but now for me a social is only ever that, I rarely play these days tbh and tend to stick with the same guy and quite happy to go. Without if I'm honest I'm. Not missing sex that much these days I'm happy to wait for quality, I've not even been on the site much of late anyway to be arranging a social, just been chatting to my fab friends on kik or WhatsApp tbh happy just going along to cjs or private parties and having a good laugh and a gossip lol I'm really getting old and boring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All of them. All of my socials are with the understanding it can progress that night if we get on. I take a while to get to know someone through messaging before I'd meet them in person, even socially, so I'm normally quite sure I want it to go further anyway."

This is me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im actually heading out on one soon , and we talked about it and if we get on then we can meet again with intent but i always go in to things trying to keep expectations at an absolute minimum

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By *ad ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"How Many Of Your Socials Turn Into A Play Meet

Well as the title says, what you think.

Personally not many of mine as usually arrange fun later but mainly because I like to let the female instigate it if there will be any fun pluses im terrible at reading women if they are into me n aroused during a social.

So what about you folks, how many turn to fun during a social

It had never been my initial intentions but yes this has happened on a few occassions where a coffee meet has finished up in the bedroom. Due to work it takes a while for me to plan my socials so when the man you meet is so bloody handsome it just seems the most natural thing to do. I also think spontaneous sex is far more exciting then preplanned sex."

Totally agree although not had any meets for a while, no one seems to even want a social nowadays

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All our meets are play meets. Don't really see the need for socials as we find out everything we need to know about someone before organising anything. I honestly couldn't imagine any scenario that would have us doing a social meet first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How Many Of Your Socials Turn Into A Play Meet

Well as the title says, what you think.

Personally not many of mine as usually arrange fun later but mainly because I like to let the female instigate it if there will be any fun pluses im terrible at reading women if they are into me n aroused during a social.

So what about you folks, how many turn to fun during a social

It had never been my initial intentions but yes this has happened on a few occassions where a coffee meet has finished up in the bedroom. Due to work it takes a while for me to plan my socials so when the man you meet is so bloody handsome it just seems the most natural thing to do. I also think spontaneous sex is far more exciting then preplanned sex."

I want a social with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its happend a few times for me "

And you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's happened a few times with me.

Hasn't been planned, but was just a natural progression.

L x"

Sms you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah, it happens. I’ve got a bit carried away on a couple of occasions. "

And you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All of them. All of my socials are with the understanding it can progress that night if we get on. I take a while to get to know someone through messaging before I'd meet them in person, even socially, so I'm normally quite sure I want it to go further anyway."

And you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All of them. All of my socials are with the understanding it can progress that night if we get on. I take a while to get to know someone through messaging before I'd meet them in person, even socially, so I'm normally quite sure I want it to go further anyway.

This is me too "

And you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All our meets are play meets. Don't really see the need for socials as we find out everything we need to know about someone before organising anything. I honestly couldn't imagine any scenario that would have us doing a social meet first "

And you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never, I’ve never had a meet

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I can probably count on two hands the number of times a social has ended up as a play meet on the same day. I’ve had more social meets than I can count. I don’t expect to play on the same day as a social meet but if I do it’s a bonus.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

Only 1 in the past year. Mind you, I've only had 2 meets in that time lol

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"All our meets are play meets. Don't really see the need for socials as we find out everything we need to know about someone before organising anything. I honestly couldn't imagine any scenario that would have us doing a social meet first "

This for us too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When me n he hubby meet together its a play meet.

No need for a social.

When we meet alone...always a social meet 1st then if we click we meet at a later date for sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we click, then yes sometimes, but never on the cards there definetly getting fucked sometimes i need a wee 10 mins n a drink bought :p peter lol xx

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By *sf650Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

NEVER as I live in Aberdeen, can't even get a social let alone have fun.

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

A couple of times, when the chemistry was good. Happened today actually

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By *ilveryFoxMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

None

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's happened a few times with me.

Hasn't been planned, but was just a natural progression.

L x

Sms you "

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a nightmare i organise a social. Next thing we are fucking in the toilets,then up to mines/ hotel anywere so we can have fantastic sex . It gets so bad i have stopped asking for social meets. Bonus is i save money in coffee

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By *izzdeeWoman
over a year ago


"All of them. All of my socials are with the understanding it can progress that night if we get on. I take a while to get to know someone through messaging before I'd meet them in person, even socially, so I'm normally quite sure I want it to go further anyway."

Snap me too ...it annoys me that some guys are so impatient though and dont understand the need for a single woman to chat for a bit to feel comfortable and safe to meet someone

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By *kplayingMan
over a year ago

In town

All of my socials have been just that!

All very pleasant and behaved. Its nice to get to know someone a bit and see if there is chemistry, or maybe I'm just doing something wrong! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All of them. All of my socials are with the understanding it can progress that night if we get on. I take a while to get to know someone through messaging before I'd meet them in person, even socially, so I'm normally quite sure I want it to go further anyway."

Fancy a coffee? Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No comment from me Pedro

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

I dont have that many 1 to 1 socials tbh (quite a rarity) but those I have had tended to be solely social ..that being said 1 or 2 have progressed to a lovely play meet that day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to do a social... meet... chat... tea... cake...

And walk away... a cooling off or a heating up. Always works best that way both party's are well aware of what happens on the next one.

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown


"...it annoys me that some guys are so impatient though and dont understand the need for a single woman to chat for a bit to feel comfortable and safe to meet someone "

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

It's rare I arrange a social that leads straight into play as I'm wary, as a single woman, about either going to a guy's place or invite him to mine. It has happened though

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By *hargMan
over a year ago

Erskine

Other than the very first one, all of my meets started as socials with the idea it could progress. Of course I’ve had socials where it was clear prior it would be just a social.

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