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"Very good point thank you ![]() ![]() Single ladies a lot of messages. As Bluebell said, we have lives outside of Fab. Some profiles make the cut, some don’t. You shouldn’t give up as there will be ladies you will mesh with, but you can’t expect everyone you send a message to, to respond. | |||
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"If you were rude or disrespectful, I’d block you! Conversation works, but you need common interests and chemistry for chat to continue." this ![]() | |||
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"Time is precious and i have a life outside Fab. I cant spare time to have conversations with 100's of men who i have no intentions of meeting." I agree 100% on that ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Very good point thank you ![]() ![]() Lol I never said anything about giving up ![]() ![]() | |||
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"It's possible that folk just lose interest in the chat ...nothing to do with being too nice" Also that ![]() | |||
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"Ohh just bombard them with fancy a fuck messages ...usually works ![]() ![]() Hmmmm I have to agree polite and respectful can be bland I guess ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Ohh just bombard them with fancy a fuck messages ...usually works ![]() ![]() Well said Bunkie ![]() | |||
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"It's possible that folk just lose interest in the chat ...nothing to do with being too nice" You make a good point, a very good point Infact but after 2 messages, that’s kinda quick to lose interest....I have ADD and couldnt lose interest that fast lol ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"It's possible that folk just lose interest in the chat ...nothing to do with being too nice You make a good point, a very good point Infact but after 2 messages, that’s kinda quick to lose interest....I have ADD and couldnt lose interest that fast lol ![]() ![]() ![]() You're not really accepting any of the explanations you're being offered...why is that? And folk can lose interest even after 1 message ...its often not there to begin with | |||
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"One thing I don't appreciate is unsolicited profile advice. If I wanted it, I'd post a stupid thread about it. I don't tell other people what to say, so don't expect me to appreciate it." Did you mean to post this in another thread? It seems a wee bit out of context for this one | |||
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"It's possible that folk just lose interest in the chat ...nothing to do with being too nice You make a good point, a very good point Infact but after 2 messages, that’s kinda quick to lose interest....I have ADD and couldnt lose interest that fast lol ![]() ![]() ![]() This... Plus I sometimes return messages to be polite before checking a persons profile. Elements of their profile might put me off which will halt and further messages being sent from my end. | |||
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"I read a lot of profiles on here and a lot of them say the same things regarding not wanting dick pics, some good conversation and wanting politeness and respect (rightfully enough of course, everyone deserves that) but well it doesn’t really seem to work as I’ve had more than a few 2 or 3 message convos then been completely ignored lol I’ve been nothing but respectful and tbh I don’t send dick pics out as there are plenty on my profile so I don’t feel the need.....it just gets me thinking do manners, respect and politeness really work....I’d love to hear what everyone else thinks about that ![]() ![]() I have to admit I think you’ve hit the nail on the head with your response Chef ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"One thing I don't appreciate is unsolicited profile advice. If I wanted it, I'd post a stupid thread about it. I don't tell other people what to say, so don't expect me to appreciate it." Eh? Think you maybe posting here by mistake aye ? No one said anything to you about your profile.....this is a thread bout politeness during conversation ![]() | |||
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"One thing I don't appreciate is unsolicited profile advice. If I wanted it, I'd post a stupid thread about it. I don't tell other people what to say, so don't expect me to appreciate it. Eh? Think you maybe posting here by mistake aye ? No one said anything to you about your profile.....this is a thread bout politeness during conversation ![]() I'm saying it's impolite to try to interfere in someone elses' profile content. Either in private, or in the forum. I've had both, and both are impolite. Got it now? | |||
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"It's possible that folk just lose interest in the chat ...nothing to do with being too nice You make a good point, a very good point Infact but after 2 messages, that’s kinda quick to lose interest....I have ADD and couldnt lose interest that fast lol ![]() ![]() ![]() Sorry to say this but I think you’ll find out that I am accepting and have been listening to replies especially the one from Chef as he pretty much nailed everything ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"It's possible that folk just lose interest in the chat ...nothing to do with being too nice You make a good point, a very good point Infact but after 2 messages, that’s kinda quick to lose interest....I have ADD and couldnt lose interest that fast lol ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() All you can do is be who you are and if folk like it I’m sure you’ll strike a good rapport with them. | |||
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"One thing I don't appreciate is unsolicited profile advice. If I wanted it, I'd post a stupid thread about it. I don't tell other people what to say, so don't expect me to appreciate it. Eh? Think you maybe posting here by mistake aye ? No one said anything to you about your profile.....this is a thread bout politeness during conversation ![]() No I don’t get it now because no one is interfering with my profile content.....I asked the question about politeness, NOT YOU, It’s MY profie we are chatting about now so your opinion on how rude and impolite it is, is actually rude and impolite in itself unless I’ve asked you to speak on my behal and I’ve not-remember my profile not yours-then tbh just bypass this thread, it’s not a hard thing to do OK ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Shit happen mate. Plenty more folk out there to talk to. " Definitely my second favourite answer tonight ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"It's possible that folk just lose interest in the chat ...nothing to do with being too nice You make a good point, a very good point Infact but after 2 messages, that’s kinda quick to lose interest....I have ADD and couldnt lose interest that fast lol ![]() ![]() ![]() Thanks this answer makes a lot of sense tbh and you’re second point is a gd one....I’m gonna definitely have a profile review once I’ve stopped replying as I think it could def be toned down a little....sorry that’s a lie it could do with a lot ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"It's possible that folk just lose interest in the chat ...nothing to do with being too nice You make a good point, a very good point Infact but after 2 messages, that’s kinda quick to lose interest....I have ADD and couldnt lose interest that fast lol ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I like this, it’s very true! I have actually got 2 Ladies on here I do have a good rapport with and we can chat about anything which I do enjoy, the social element is just as much fun as the sexual element sometimes ![]() | |||
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"One thing I don't appreciate is unsolicited profile advice. If I wanted it, I'd post a stupid thread about it. I don't tell other people what to say, so don't expect me to appreciate it. Eh? Think you maybe posting here by mistake aye ? No one said anything to you about your profile.....this is a thread bout politeness during conversation ![]() ![]() ![]() I can see why people lose interest in you quickly. | |||
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"It's possible that folk just lose interest in the chat ...nothing to do with being too nice You make a good point, a very good point Infact but after 2 messages, that’s kinda quick to lose interest....I have ADD and couldnt lose interest that fast lol ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"One thing I don't appreciate is unsolicited profile advice. If I wanted it, I'd post a stupid thread about it. I don't tell other people what to say, so don't expect me to appreciate it. Eh? Think you maybe posting here by mistake aye ? No one said anything to you about your profile.....this is a thread bout politeness during conversation ![]() I’d take it this comment was in reference to Me? As it was posted directly after my comment, as I had offered the OP my own personal opinion as a guy on and off the site, I at first found it difficult to establish myself, Nobody as far as I can see on the thread, myself included has interfered or told the OP to change his profile, he was looking for advice and opinions of which I felt I gave an impartial unbias one based on my own personal opinion! Not sure how to take this at all buddy, are you on the wind up? Has someone interfered with your profile structure? Anyway not vying for arguments I’ve enough drama in my life lol Think if you thought I was interfering you have taken it out out context with regards to the purpose of my comment being constructive not objective ![]() | |||
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"One thing I don't appreciate is unsolicited profile advice. If I wanted it, I'd post a stupid thread about it. I don't tell other people what to say, so don't expect me to appreciate it. Eh? Think you maybe posting here by mistake aye ? No one said anything to you about your profile.....this is a thread bout politeness during conversation ![]() ![]() ![]() Well hopefully you’ll lose interest in me and this thread even quicker than anyone else and just go away ![]() | |||
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"One thing I don't appreciate is unsolicited profile advice. If I wanted it, I'd post a stupid thread about it. I don't tell other people what to say, so don't expect me to appreciate it. Eh? Think you maybe posting here by mistake aye ? No one said anything to you about your profile.....this is a thread bout politeness during conversation ![]() ![]() Very well said Chef and appreciated too as is everyone’s comments too, no one has been objective every answer has been of great help....the only person being objective here is the other person that’s being very rude and politely abusive lol it would be a lot easier for him to just not say anything at all and not even look at this thread ![]() | |||
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"Time is precious and i have a life outside Fab. I cant spare time to have conversations with 100's of men who i have no intentions of meeting." Exactly this x | |||
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"I read a lot of profiles on here and a lot of them say the same things regarding not wanting dick pics, some good conversation and wanting politeness and respect (rightfully enough of course, everyone deserves that) but well it doesn’t really seem to work as I’ve had more than a few 2 or 3 message convos then been completely ignored lol I’ve been nothing but respectful and tbh I don’t send dick pics out as there are plenty on my profile so I don’t feel the need.....it just gets me thinking do manners, respect and politeness really work....I’d love to hear what everyone else thinks about that ![]() yes I do believe it does. But to demand manners,respect & politness from others you must first have to have manners,respect & politness and a lot who demand it dont ![]() | |||
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"Shit happen mate. Plenty more folk out there to talk to. Definitely my second favourite answer tonight ![]() ![]() ![]() it happened to me last year was getting on great with a lass went on a wee date spent the night together. Next day everything is good. Then like two days later it all changed. I was gutted and had no idea what I had done wrong. Kept asking myself all the time what happened. Then eventually I just thought fuck it shit happens. ‘‘Tis the best way | |||
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"Women do get a lot of messages. One thing i have noticed tho, is the increasing number of copy and paste paragraphs for the initial message. Us women can notice a copy and paste job a mile away. Its an instant no reply from me. Us women are not generic...we are individuals... and like to be treated and spoke to as such" Exactly what she said! Haha | |||
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"Women do get a lot of messages. One thing i have noticed tho, is the increasing number of copy and paste paragraphs for the initial message. Us women can notice a copy and paste job a mile away. Its an instant no reply from me. Us women are not generic...we are individuals... and like to be treated and spoke to as such" Awww Ffs I'll need to find another copy n paste job. Didn't think I was found out. Was hoping that I'd be seen as an individual who gives an experience different from most guys. Walks away over the sunset with a bucket over my head dripping from paste ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Women do get a lot of messages. One thing i have noticed tho, is the increasing number of copy and paste paragraphs for the initial message. Us women can notice a copy and paste job a mile away. Its an instant no reply from me. Us women are not generic...we are individuals... and like to be treated and spoke to as such Awww Ffs I'll need to find another copy n paste job. Didn't think I was found out. Was hoping that I'd be seen as an individual who gives an experience different from most guys. Walks away over the sunset with a bucket over my head dripping from paste ![]() ![]() Go grab a banana...and a tunnocks tea cake... and meet me in the local library.... Walks away....mission impossible tune playing on low in the background........ | |||
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