FabSwingers.com forum: Anyone On Fab Your Too Nervous To Chat or Meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Anyone On Fab Your Nervous To Chat or Meet.

As the title says you ever see a profile or see someone on fab, either on the forums or chat room or even at socials and think, naw they would never be interested in me. Doesn't have to be a crush on here just people you think you'd like to meet but think they wouldn't be interested in you.

Don't need to name them but you can say why, obviously outside age range or they are hot, intelllectually not at their level blah blah blah.

So hit us with it

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't tend to think like that

Just more that there would be zero compatibility

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get nervous when I see a message in my inbox from fabswingers.com

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope you know me Peter xx

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I’m really shy.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m really shy."

Really!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *r huskyMan
over a year ago

cockenzie

With me I find it's the age range

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

No, never. I’m happy to chat to anyone. Whether anything happens or not doesn’t bother me. Making a new friend is always good in my book

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. They are all just humans.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. They are all just humans."

Sometimes I wonder

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

Nope...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

"No. They are all just humans.

Sometimes I wonder

Some are only just

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Yep all the time I don't see myself as most ladies type but have been pleasantly surprised over the years

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Like Bunkie has said yes there have been a few who Ive thought they wouldnt be interested in me but was proved wrong on several occations thankfully

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep all the time I don't see myself as most ladies type but have been pleasantly surprised over the years

There speaks the voice of confidence

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do I get nervous 1st time meeting someone on a social meet...hell yes!! But that's what Its all about.

Do I have folk that I'm intimidated by speaking to? No why would I? on here I don't know any of them personally so everyone surely should be approachable?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. They are all just humans.

Sometimes I wonder

Some are only just"

Oh hello young man xx long Time No see

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

"No. They are all just humans.

Sometimes I wonder

Some are only just

Oh hello young man xx long Time No see "

Well you see .. ive ..

.ive been too nervous

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. They are all just humans.

Sometimes I wonder

I give them the benefit of the doubt!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am pretty shy

. So just about everyone

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Nope.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one is above anyone else.... it’s an even playing field as far as I am concerned. If I like a guy I will wink and occassionally message if feeling really horny

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No problem chatting on here with anyone but one or two who would give me serious butterflies if I was meeting them.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No problem chatting on here with anyone but one or two who would give me serious butterflies if I was meeting them."

Yeah this is similar to what I mean, kinda

ffs, see me trying to explain myself

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say nervous, I am happy to go and chat to anyone. I'm more worried about them thinking I'm minging in person or that. Haha

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't say nervous, I am happy to go and chat to anyone. I'm more worried about them thinking I'm minging in person or that. Haha"

Fuck'em. You'll never be everybody's cup of tea so it's a pointless exercise even trying.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a meet with one guy who us spectacularly beautiful(model) and when he came over I literally babbled like an idiot for an hour as he was so good looking it made me nervous!! Great shag too

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"No problem chatting on here with anyone but one or two who would give me serious butterflies if I was meeting them.

Yeah this is similar to what I mean, kinda

ffs, see me trying to explain myself

Cos you’re a tube

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No problem chatting on here with anyone but one or two who would give me serious butterflies if I was meeting them.

Yeah this is similar to what I mean, kinda

ffs, see me trying to explain myself

Cos you’re a tube

If your gonna act like that to me then there's no way I'm gonna hold you down, making you look back at me and tell me that you love me.

nope,

don't care how much you beggggg, it aint happening

oh I know im gonna get a batein

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"No problem chatting on here with anyone but one or two who would give me serious butterflies if I was meeting them.

Yeah this is similar to what I mean, kinda

ffs, see me trying to explain myself

Cos you’re a tube

If your gonna act like that to me then there's no way I'm gonna hold you down, making you look back at me and tell me that you love me.

nope,

don't care how much you beggggg, it aint happening

oh I know im gonna get a batein

Stop that turns on porn talk

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think we all get those nervous butterflies on a first meet which makes it what it is in my opinion. Not ever really been too intimated or nervous to initially message someone though, getting a reply is another thing lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No problem chatting on here with anyone but one or two who would give me serious butterflies if I was meeting them.

Yeah this is similar to what I mean, kinda

ffs, see me trying to explain myself

Cos you’re a tube

If your gonna act like that to me then there's no way I'm gonna hold you down, making you look back at me and tell me that you love me.

nope,

don't care how much you beggggg, it aint happening

oh I know im gonna get a batein

Stop that turns on porn talk

you've not had that from me yet, well the truly weak at the knee stuff.

That little breath upon your ear as your hair is pushed back, the slightest touch and you gasp for breath not knowing what I'm going to say

"do you like connect4"

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes we all have our vulnreable sides be interesting to meet someone that sparks mine

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"No problem chatting on here with anyone but one or two who would give me serious butterflies if I was meeting them.

Yeah this is similar to what I mean, kinda

ffs, see me trying to explain myself

Cos you’re a tube

If your gonna act like that to me then there's no way I'm gonna hold you down, making you look back at me and tell me that you love me.

nope,

don't care how much you beggggg, it aint happening

oh I know im gonna get a batein

Stop that turns on porn talk

you've not had that from me yet, well the truly weak at the knee stuff.

That little breath upon your ear as your hair is pushed back, the slightest touch and you gasp for breath not knowing what I'm going to say

"do you like connect4"

Hmmm

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"No problem chatting on here with anyone but one or two who would give me serious butterflies if I was meeting them."

Och I'm not THAT special

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No problem chatting on here with anyone but one or two who would give me serious butterflies if I was meeting them.

Och I'm not THAT special

(rumbled)

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No problem chatting on here with anyone but one or two who would give me serious butterflies if I was meeting them.

Yeah this is similar to what I mean, kinda

ffs, see me trying to explain myself

Cos you’re a tube

If your gonna act like that to me then there's no way I'm gonna hold you down, making you look back at me and tell me that you love me.

nope,

don't care how much you beggggg, it aint happening

oh I know im gonna get a batein

Stop that turns on porn talk

you've not had that from me yet, well the truly weak at the knee stuff.

That little breath upon your ear as your hair is pushed back, the slightest touch and you gasp for breath not knowing what I'm going to say

"do you like connect4"

Hmmm

Hide the sausage is your game Janet, isn't it.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon I chat too much..could quickly start to do yer head in haha

Like others nothing to lose by saying hi....

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get extremely nervous hence why Iv been here a while but never met anyone I know it’s pathetic but just don’t have the bollocks to go through with it wish it wasn’t like that

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"No problem chatting on here with anyone but one or two who would give me serious butterflies if I was meeting them.

Yeah this is similar to what I mean, kinda

ffs, see me trying to explain myself

Cos you’re a tube

If your gonna act like that to me then there's no way I'm gonna hold you down, making you look back at me and tell me that you love me.

nope,

don't care how much you beggggg, it aint happening

oh I know im gonna get a batein

Stop that turns on porn talk

you've not had that from me yet, well the truly weak at the knee stuff.

That little breath upon your ear as your hair is pushed back, the slightest touch and you gasp for breath not knowing what I'm going to say

"do you like connect4"

Hmmm

Hide the sausage is your game Janet, isn't it.

It is tonight, Mrs D.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"No problem chatting on here with anyone but one or two who would give me serious butterflies if I was meeting them.

Och I'm not THAT special

(rumbled)

You sure it's butterflies and not just a dickie tummy at thought of having to put up with meeting pmsfl

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No problem chatting on here with anyone but one or two who would give me serious butterflies if I was meeting them.

Yeah this is similar to what I mean, kinda

ffs, see me trying to explain myself

Cos you’re a tube

If your gonna act like that to me then there's no way I'm gonna hold you down, making you look back at me and tell me that you love me.

nope,

don't care how much you beggggg, it aint happening

oh I know im gonna get a batein

Stop that turns on porn talk

you've not had that from me yet, well the truly weak at the knee stuff.

That little breath upon your ear as your hair is pushed back, the slightest touch and you gasp for breath not knowing what I'm going to say

"do you like connect4"

Hmmm

Hide the sausage is your game Janet, isn't it.

It is tonight, Mrs D.

Is that because pecker-sniffing is taken?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No problem chatting on here with anyone but one or two who would give me serious butterflies if I was meeting them.

Yeah this is similar to what I mean, kinda

ffs, see me trying to explain myself

Cos you’re a tube

If your gonna act like that to me then there's no way I'm gonna hold you down, making you look back at me and tell me that you love me.

nope,

don't care how much you beggggg, it aint happening

oh I know im gonna get a batein

Stop that turns on porn talk

you've not had that from me yet, well the truly weak at the knee stuff.

That little breath upon your ear as your hair is pushed back, the slightest touch and you gasp for breath not knowing what I'm going to say

"do you like connect4"

Hmmm

Hide the sausage is your game Janet, isn't it.

It is tonight, Mrs D.

Is that because pecker-sniffing is taken?"

Only one pecker sniffer in da house!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

No I’m happy to chat to anyone

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No problem chatting on here with anyone but one or two who would give me serious butterflies if I was meeting them.

Yeah this is similar to what I mean, kinda

ffs, see me trying to explain myself

Cos you’re a tube

If your gonna act like that to me then there's no way I'm gonna hold you down, making you look back at me and tell me that you love me.

nope,

don't care how much you beggggg, it aint happening

oh I know im gonna get a batein

Stop that turns on porn talk

you've not had that from me yet, well the truly weak at the knee stuff.

That little breath upon your ear as your hair is pushed back, the slightest touch and you gasp for breath not knowing what I'm going to say

"do you like connect4"

Hmmm

Hide the sausage is your game Janet, isn't it.

It is tonight, Mrs D.

Is that because pecker-sniffing is taken?

Only one pecker sniffer in da house!"

That's a relief.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *T1980Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I’m really shy."

hahahahahahaha! That I definitely do not think so lol x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *awaiianguyMan
over a year ago

East Ayrshire

Happy to chat to anyone new, but do find myself talking complete pish sometimes

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes if they are older

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Yes if they are older"

Well as you are only 21 guess that means nearly everybody then.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes if they are older

Well as you are only 21 guess that means nearly everybody then."

Yeah I feel his pain, I'm like that a well with older

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Yes if they are older

Well as you are only 21 guess that means nearly everybody then.

Yeah I feel his pain, I'm like that a well with older

And so you should be. We are monsters.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes if they are older

Well as you are only 21 guess that means nearly everybody then.

Yeah I feel his pain, I'm like that a well with older

And so you should be. We are monsters."

Monesters ! neverrrrrrrrrrr

I think you women are all lovely, quiet wee things. I just wait till I'm spoken too

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"I’m really shy.

hahahahahahaha! That I definitely do not think so lol x"

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"Yes if they are older

Well as you are only 21 guess that means nearly everybody then.

Yeah I feel his pain, I'm like that a well with older

And so you should be. We are monsters.

Monesters ! neverrrrrrrrrrr

I think you women are all lovely, quiet wee things. I just wait till I'm spoken too

Pass the gag!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ubbly2012Woman
over a year ago

inver somewhere

"Happy to chat to anyone new, but do find myself talking complete pish sometimes"

I have a degree in talking pish...

Hahahaha

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes if they are older

Well as you are only 21 guess that means nearly everybody then.

Yeah I feel his pain, I'm like that a well with older

And so you should be. We are monsters.

Monesters ! neverrrrrrrrrrr

I think you women are all lovely, quiet wee things. I just wait till I'm spoken too

Pass the gag!

yeah that will work if your too nervous to meet me, just gag me

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *exicolaMan
over a year ago

West Lothian

Struggle with self confidence so this happens a lot. A lot of people I’m thinking they are way out my league. Whether that’s true or not I’m insure but it’s the way I’m tuned up!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happy to chat to anyone new, but do find myself talking complete pish sometimes

I have a degree in talking pish...

Hahahaha"

You’ve got a PhD in it.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ubbly2012Woman
over a year ago

inver somewhere

"Happy to chat to anyone new, but do find myself talking complete pish sometimes

I have a degree in talking pish...

Hahahaha

You’ve got a PhD in it.

Hahahahaha.... high 5 sista!!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes if they are older

Well as you are only 21 guess that means nearly everybody then.

Yeah I feel his pain, I'm like that a well with older

And so you should be. We are monsters.

Monesters ! neverrrrrrrrrrr

I think you women are all lovely, quiet wee things. I just wait till I'm spoken too

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Struggle with self confidence so this happens a lot. A lot of people I’m thinking they are way out my league. Whether that’s true or not I’m insure but it’s the way I’m tuned up!"

Well if it help you in any way to realise that we are all equal.

In the next, say 96 hours, everyone of us will be sitting on the toilet pan, forcing a number two out. Some will be using gold toilet paper to clean up, some will be using cheap Tesco paper. That's the only difference

What maddies will have a vision now lollllll

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *exicolaMan
over a year ago

West Lothian

"Struggle with self confidence so this happens a lot. A lot of people I’m thinking they are way out my league. Whether that’s true or not I’m insure but it’s the way I’m tuned up!

Well if it help you in any way to realise that we are all equal.

What maddies will have a vision now lollllll

That really is something to chew on

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"Struggle with self confidence so this happens a lot. A lot of people I’m thinking they are way out my league. Whether that’s true or not I’m insure but it’s the way I’m tuned up!

Well if it help you in any way to realise that we are all equal.

What maddies will have a vision now lollllll

Ffs man

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I've met someone at a social and they were ridiculously good looking and I didn't think he would be interested at all, he came over to chat and I babbled like an idiot! Tends to happen when I'm nervous.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *otGeorgeClooneyMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Lots n lots.

So many gorgeous folk at recent edinbra social.

I thought wow they're premier league

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah I've met someone at a social and they were ridiculously good looking and I didn't think he would be interested at all, he came over to chat and I babbled like an idiot! Tends to happen when I'm nervous. "

I'm being really nosey now but want to know who this was?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread