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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My Mrs has said she is thinking of trying mmf, she said she would like to try it to see what sex with two men at the same time is like, but she is worried that she won't enjoy it/regret it, she might not find a guy she is attracted to (she is very fussy). I am trying to stay on the fence and not push her, any advice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let her have a single chick profile to match yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she’s nervous and fussy you have to give her the control to choose who she wants let her decide , give her time and she will enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Let her have a single chick profile to match yours "
pst shes already got one lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He never said that lol

So if she's got 1 all she needs yo do is pick 2 guys she fancies?

Or...

Maybe ask the question herself?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe she doesn't want to ask herself, in case she gets overwhelmed by messages from (just about) every guy on the site?

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"Let her have a single chick profile to match yours pst shes already got one lol"

What's the profile so I can maybe peruse LMAO

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

Maybe it’s Mr Bond plus another male ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tie her to the bed, blindfold her and pop some earphones in with her favourite music on then just let another guy in to join you, have your fun then send him on his way before removing the blindfold and earphones. My Mrs fuckin loves that scenario.

I do have her consent beforehand though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to avoid the forums, but I knew this thread was being posted as we have no secrets.

The reasons for posting mainly are I have only ever been sexual with one man (I have been with a few women as I prefer women), the idea of sex with another man scares me but also intrigues. If I did decide to bring another guy in he would need to be bi, as for me being fussy I am, I struggle to find guys attractive.

I have been told that once you have sex with a guy it is easy to have sex with another as it is no different from one to another (there will obviously be differences in size, technique).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tie her to the bed, blindfold her and pop some earphones in with her favourite music on then just let another guy in to join you, have your fun then send him on his way before removing the blindfold and earphones. My Mrs fuckin loves that scenario.

I do have her consent beforehand though "

Do you pick some right ugly bastard just to be twisted as she's blindfolded so wouldn't know? . My Mr would...then tell me he was a hottie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tie her to the bed, blindfold her and pop some earphones in with her favourite music on then just let another guy in to join you, have your fun then send him on his way before removing the blindfold and earphones. My Mrs fuckin loves that scenario.

I do have her consent beforehand though

Do you pick some right ugly bastard just to be twisted as she's blindfolded so wouldn't know? . My Mr would...then tell me he was a hottie "

No chance. I'm the one that's got to look at the cunt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I have been told that once you have sex with a guy it is easy to have sex with another as it is no different from one to another (there will obviously be differences in size, technique). "

Whoever told you that, ffs don't ever listen to them again, ever.

oh am just saying like prob everyone might agree with that person who advised you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does he have to be bi?

I thought it was for you to have sex with him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why does he have to be bi?

I thought it was for you to have sex with him?"

If she doesn't fancy him, then the boys can have fun with each other?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just had a wee look at your single profile

So you say your actually a gay woman..married with kids on here looking to meet bi guys.

Ok now I'm really confused

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does my profile say anything about bi guys?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Does my profile say anything about bi guys? "

No it doesnt but you are looking for a bi male in your MMF which makes us wonder whose pleasure he is for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to avoid the forums, but I knew this thread was being posted as we have no secrets.

The reasons for posting mainly are I have only ever been sexual with one man (I have been with a few women as I prefer women), the idea of sex with another man scares me but also intrigues. If I did decide to bring another guy in he would need to be bi, as for me being fussy I am, I struggle to find guys attractive.

I have been told that once you have sex with a guy it is easy to have sex with another as it is no different from one to another (there will obviously be differences in size, technique). "
you say on thet they need to be bi?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I said it on here, not on my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either or

Why do they need to be bi ?

Hey I'm not having a pop just weird you say you seem to not really make any sense if what your looking for

If it's a bi guy for you and your hubby cool but you really need to be more clearer so the guy in question knows what to expect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The original post was about seeking advice about something I an we have been talking about, if we decide to go ahead and actually actively seek a mmf then we would start a couples profile where we would explain everything in detail, at this moment we are not looking, just talking.

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

What kind of advice are you actually looking for? You might enjoy it but you might not... you might regret it but you might not! Everyone is completely different so it’s irrelevant what their opinions are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am sure that there are other couples where one wants to play and the other is unsure, so would be nice to hear their experiences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tie her to the bed, blindfold her and pop some earphones in with her favourite music on then just let another guy in to join you, have your fun then send him on his way before removing the blindfold and earphones. My Mrs fuckin loves that scenario.

I do have her consent beforehand though

Do you pick some right ugly bastard just to be twisted as she's blindfolded so wouldn't know? . My Mr would...then tell me he was a hottie

No chance. I'm the one that's got to look at the cunt "

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By *ermahornMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Genuinely interested to see how this one goes!

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By *estlo-mMan
over a year ago

west lothian

In my opinion, if either of you are unsure then you really shouldn't do it. If yous decide to go through with it, i suggest having the guy watch to start and, if everyone is comfortable, then take it from there. I've been involved with a few couples and this is how we did it and it worked for all involved.

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