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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why when you post a status is there always one person who misunderstands and messages just to give abuse ? I don’t think it’s unreasonable to want to see face pics in private messages. I’m here to meet guys I’m attracted to not have endless chat with faceless profiles. This place boggles my Brains sometimes .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as you send 1 in return i dont see a problem

If you don't tho..then I have a problem

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By *exicolaMan
over a year ago

West Lothian

Some folk on here are here for the sole purpose of abusing women in particular.

In real life they would be worth watching. You certainly wouldn't want to have any kind of involvement with them that's for sure.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

My take is you dont ask for a pic unless you send one first

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

Just 1?

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"My take is you dont ask for a pic unless you send one first "

What if I sent you one? Would you be scared?

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown


"Some folk on here are here for the sole purpose of abusing women in particular.

In real life they would be worth watching. You certainly wouldn't want to have any kind of involvement with them that's for sure."

This

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock


"My take is you dont ask for a pic unless you send one first

What if I sent you one? Would you be scared?"

I highly doubt it

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"My take is you dont ask for a pic unless you send one first

What if I sent you one? Would you be scared?

I highly doubt it "

Hahaha thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My take is you dont ask for a pic unless you send one first

What if I sent you one? Would you be scared?"

You can send one tomorrow, and find out.

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"My take is you dont ask for a pic unless you send one first

What if I sent you one? Would you be scared?

You can send one tomorrow, and find out."

Nah he’s different from the others.

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By *kplayingMan
over a year ago

In town

It is so good for the confidence though when you do send one - you then hear nothing or are blocked!

at least a thanks but no thanks would be nice lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is so good for the confidence though when you do send one - you then hear nothing or are blocked!

at least a thanks but no thanks would be nice lol"

Or when they go UNLOS?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is so good for the confidence though when you do send one - you then hear nothing or are blocked!

at least a thanks but no thanks would be nice lol"

If you hear nothing, it might mean they've fainted, or been carried off in a straitjacket.

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By *kplayingMan
over a year ago

In town


"It is so good for the confidence though when you do send one - you then hear nothing or are blocked!

at least a thanks but no thanks would be nice lol

Or when they go UNLOS? "

United Nations Law of the Sea??

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By *kplayingMan
over a year ago

In town


"It is so good for the confidence though when you do send one - you then hear nothing or are blocked!

at least a thanks but no thanks would be nice lol

If you hear nothing, it might mean they've fainted, or been carried off in a straitjacket. "

Well i suppose you could interpret fainted as good - but the straightjacket not so much

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My take is you dont ask for a pic unless you send one first "

I rarely message first

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Don't think I have ever send a face pic with a first message ..unless it's face pic friday lol I never ask for 1 either it's just a natural progression usually while chatting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As long as you send 1 in return i dont see a problem

If you don't tho..then I have a problem "

I suppose she should send one back but I don't see the point if not attracted to the guy then don't send one back as she knows she wont be going any further.

Personally I would put that information on the profile. 'Send me a face pic in first message, if not for me I wont send one back'

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As long as you send 1 in return i dont see a problem

If you don't tho..then I have a problem

I suppose she should send one back but I don't see the point if not attracted to the guy then don't send one back as she knows she wont be going any further.

Personally I would put that information on the profile. 'Send me a face pic in first message, if not for me I wont send one back'

"

I mostly send a polite reply saying not for me but happy fabbing/swinging xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't think I have ever send a face pic with a first message ..unless it's face pic friday lol I never ask for 1 either it's just a natural progression usually while chatting "

I just think it’s best to get a pic straightaway as if I’m not attracted or vice versa we aren’t spending days/ weeks chatting only to realise we don’t wanna meet xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My take is you dont ask for a pic unless you send one first

What if I sent you one? Would you be scared?

You can send one tomorrow, and find out.

Nah he’s different from the others. "

Different good, or different bad?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My take is you dont ask for a pic unless you send one first

What if I sent you one? Would you be scared?

You can send one tomorrow, and find out.

Nah he’s different from the others. "

Every guy thinks he's different from the others and they all think in a good way. If others think that a guy is different than most or give an experience not the usual from fab then its good. But guys never know until they send that pic to start. For guys like me, I don't mind sending face pic but feck me, I think and been told I look better in the flesh so catch 22 (1,2,3 awwwww)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But asking for something and getting nothing back is a tad ignorant?

If your not prepared to offer 1 back don't ask for 1 1st?.

I like to get face pics out the way early if I do ask I always send 1 1st.even if it's a no thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But asking for something and getting nothing back is a tad ignorant?

If your not prepared to offer 1 back don't ask for 1 1st?.

I like to get face pics out the way early if I do ask I always send 1 1st.even if it's a no thanks

"

Ive stopped sending one back if im not interested purely because I’ve had guys message again attempting to change my mind .... if I don’t fancy them I’m not meeting simple really !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Entirely up to you.

But you cant then moan that you getting abuse.

It does work both ways

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"My take is you dont ask for a pic unless you send one first

What if I sent you one? Would you be scared?

You can send one tomorrow, and find out.

Nah he’s different from the others.

Different good, or different bad?"

It’s a hard one to explain....he knows!

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