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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To my fellow male fabbers, do you get a ton of messages asking if you want a BJ from guys even though haven't uttered a word about being bi/bi curious/gay?

Askin' for a friend

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Always wondered what % of males took up the offer from other guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To my fellow male fabbers, do you get a ton of messages asking if you want a BJ from guys even though haven't uttered a word about being bi/bi curious/gay?

Askin' for a friend "

If men contacting you gives you the heebies you can filter them out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always wondered what % of males took up the offer from other guys."

No straight ones!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Now that, I am curious about!

Presumably quite a few or it wouldn't happen?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I wouldn't say the heebies, I'm all for anyone doing anyone and anything they like, I do find it a bit odd though - like surely any number of bi/gay men would take them up on the offer and reciprocate? No?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't say the heebies, I'm all for anyone doing anyone and anything they like, I do find it a bit odd though - like surely any number of bi/gay men would take them up on the offer and reciprocate? No? "

There's lots of odd stuff goes on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Puzzles me why straight guys don't use their filters to block guys?

Unless they like the attention?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Puzzles me why straight guys don't use their filters to block guys?

Unless they like the attention? "

Agreed !! Used to get a flutter of excitement when I logged on and had messages in my inbox, only to find out that it was discreet guys wanting suck my dick, no questions asked. Grrrr. Easy solved though, filters on, problem goes away.

Mind you....the same could be said about the ladies who do all the complaining about the guys messages...why dont they block guys and just message the profiles they find appealing. Can't help thinking they too lap up the attention...even if most of it is off the none too subtle variety.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"To my fellow male fabbers, do you get a ton of messages asking if you want a BJ from guys even though haven't uttered a word about being bi/bi curious/gay?

Askin' for a friend "

No as I'm straight and have blocked males from messaging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All my fabs have been from guys. It doesn't bother me, It's a compliment, whoever it's from.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The thing is, I enjoy the social aspect of Fab, and I have good chats with single males as much as with women and couples, with no suggestion of anything but chatting like I do in the world every day and I refuse to lose that by using filters, it's not like I don't survive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I learnt the first time I joined that a filter was the best option... then I discovered the chat rooms/forum and could get banter there without any confusion... had a couples profile and that was an eye opener... guys were blocked almost instantly.. holy shit! 30 mails a day with ‘how are you?’ ‘Can I fuck your missus?’ ‘I will show your bird a good time’ seriously? If that’s what single females endure, I don’t blame them for blocking, same for couples...

I read a profile and from there I determine if my message would be appreciated or not... if not.. move on...

A LOT of guys on here are “straight” but they’re not....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all for throwing in to my ranty thread, you're all awesome x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The thing is, I enjoy the social aspect of Fab, and I have good chats with single males as much as with women and couples, with no suggestion of anything but chatting like I do in the world every day and I refuse to lose that by using filters, it's not like I don't survive "

What the fuck are you moaning about then???

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By *witcherooMan
over a year ago

Muirhead

I’ve had a few straight guys messaging me for massages and I always ask before meeting if they’re expecting a wank etc and they always say no no no just a professional massage.

Get to the end then they suddenly decide they want an oily wank

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By *iceGuyEdMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

From the amount of messages I get from "straight" guys, I'd say quite a lot of them would be up for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 things I've discovered being an adult...

1) How many people take drugs.

2) How many "straight guys" are willing to suck another guy off.

3) The price of cheese!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"3 things I've discovered being an adult...

1) How many people take drugs.

2) How many "straight guys" are willing to suck another guy off.

3) The price of cheese!!

"

Is cheese expensive?

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By *iceGuyEdMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"3 things I've discovered being an adult...

1) How many people take drugs.

2) How many "straight guys" are willing to suck another guy off.

3) The price of cheese!!

Amen to this.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To my fellow male fabbers, do you get a ton of messages asking if you want a BJ from guys even though haven't uttered a word about being bi/bi curious/gay?

Askin' for a friend "

Nope, go to account then message filters and select block for males, male couples and TVs

Problem solved, your welcome lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The thing is, I enjoy the social aspect of Fab, and I have good chats with single males as much as with women and couples, with no suggestion of anything but chatting like I do in the world every day and I refuse to lose that by using filters, it's not like I don't survive "

I'm sorta confuzzled as one minute you're having a moan and next this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"3 things I've discovered being an adult...

1) How many people take drugs.

2) How many "straight guys" are willing to suck another guy off.

3) The price of cheese!!

Is cheese expensive? "

Duno... just seemed like a reasonable argument

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"3 things I've discovered being an adult...

1) How many people take drugs.

2) How many "straight guys" are willing to suck another guy off.

3) The price of cheese!!

Is cheese expensive?

Duno... just seemed like a reasonable argument "

Let's hope 2 & 3 don't get mixed up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have my filters. I still get pictures fabbed and the odd message now and then...

Have one guy messages me most days asking to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have my filters. I still get pictures fabbed and the odd message now and then...

Have one guy messages me most days asking to meet.

"

Can you just imagine....lying back and letting him play with your beard?

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