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By *ola cubes OP   Man
over a year ago

coatbridge

Ive seen on another thread quite a few think that having not attended a club you either cant talk about ir or that you have totally the wrong view of them.

which got me wondering what is this wrong view that club goers believe non club goers have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you go to a club to have sex you'll ruin it for the folk who are there to socialise (so I was told)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive seen on another thread quite a few think that having not attended a club you either cant talk about ir or that you have totally the wrong view of them.

which got me wondering what is this wrong view that club goers believe non club goers have."

Beats me ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you go to a club to have sex you'll ruin it for the folk who are there to socialise (so I was told)"

Who told you that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are in my humble opinion 2 types of club goers..

The ones who go, enjoy and don't cause trouble or drama. They are in general supportive of others, don't suggest that there's only certain ways to enjoy the place.

Then there's the others. Usually cliques, there far too much, look down on others who have fun differently or perhaps turn them down. They create and add fuel to drama and actually ruin it for some people.

Sadly the second Group far outweigh the first whenever I have experienced clubs here (infact sometimes even socials)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are in my humble opinion 2 types of club goers..

The ones who go, enjoy and don't cause trouble or drama. They are in general supportive of others, don't suggest that there's only certain ways to enjoy the place.

Then there's the others. Usually cliques, there far too much, look down on others who have fun differently or perhaps turn them down. They create and add fuel to drama and actually ruin it for some people.

Sadly the second Group far outweigh the first whenever I have experienced clubs here (infact sometimes even socials)

"

Can't agree with the club situation as I've never been but can whole heartily agree that it has happened at a few big fab socials. Not thief then but you could see some stuff simmering

Its a shame but they have all been fantastic nights which I've enjoyed.

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By *dmirationMan
over a year ago

Bathgate


"There are in my humble opinion 2 types of club goers..

The ones who go, enjoy and don't cause trouble or drama. They are in general supportive of others, don't suggest that there's only certain ways to enjoy the place.

Then there's the others. Usually cliques, there far too much, look down on others who have fun differently or perhaps turn them down. They create and add fuel to drama and actually ruin it for some people.

Sadly the second Group far outweigh the first whenever I have experienced clubs here (infact sometimes even socials)

"
Exactly this is one reason we do not go to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you go to a club to have sex you'll ruin it for the folk who are there to socialise (so I was told)

Who told you that "

A renowned bullshitter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you go to a club to have sex you'll ruin it for the folk who are there to socialise (so I was told)

Who told you that

A renowned bullshitter "

pmsl, well stop inviting the fucker to threesomes and listening to him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you go to a club to have sex you'll ruin it for the folk who are there to socialise (so I was told)

Who told you that

A renowned bullshitter

pmsl, well stop inviting the fucker to threesomes and listening to him

"

It was a regular on here who said it

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

Some people, same as on this site really, go to a club expecting guaranteed sex. In some sad cases get bitter and angry they won't get any and will jump at any occasion to slag off the club and the people who go there.

I think people who have never been, who read about all this, can get the wrong impression about those places. Which is a shame, because I've had some fantastic nights in them (with or without kinky fun) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people, same as on this site really, go to a club expecting guaranteed sex. In some sad cases get bitter and angry they won't get any and will jump at any occasion to slag off the club and the people who go there.

I think people who have never been, who read about all this, can get the wrong impression about those places. Which is a shame, because I've had some fantastic nights in them (with or without kinky fun) x"

Agreed

I don't go to clubs or never have and mostly I've heard good stories and how its so relaxing and comfortable n chilled.

personally I would never advice anyone not to go to a club, I've even said they should try it if they think its their thing because its a good social circle to get into.

That's my take on it from all my friends I chat to o fab and lots of other fabbsters

The Op stated the following post;


"Ive seen on another thread quite a few think that having not attended a club you either cant talk about ir or that you have totally the wrong view of them.

which got me wondering what is this wrong view that club goers believe non club goers have. "

I come into the category that a clubber might think I have the wrong idea, when I've praised clubs and the environment they set and I believe all this from all the chats I've had with others fabbers who go, some frequently. The only negative thing I have said is that clubs are not for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t say that you can’t talk about them but can you say that you are in a position to make a judgement on them and present that as fact or incontrovertible. In such circumstances what you have is a personal opinion based on your own preconceptions and an absence of hard facts.

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By *ola cubes OP   Man
over a year ago

coatbridge


"I wouldn’t say that you can’t talk about them but can you say that you are in a position to make a judgement on them and present that as fact or incontrovertible. In such circumstances what you have is a personal opinion based on your own preconceptions and an absence of hard facts."
no I wouldnt agree with you there though i am with-holding my reasons for not using clubs as im nosey as to club goers thoughts as yet no one has given what they percieve a non club goers thinking is

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

Maybe some think in some ways they’d be paying for sex .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must admit the reason myself and my hubby stopped trying cjs was the fact it was the same folk going and none we would play with

Yes you say nothing is guaranteed but we would rather pay the money to book a nice hotel arrange a meet with whoever than pay money to stand in a kitchen drinking my own booze knowing within the 1st 10 mins of arriving there no one there I want to have sex with ?

Excluding my hubby of course lol

But hey each to their own

We joined this site for the sex!

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By *pinCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh


"There are in my humble opinion 2 types of club goers..

The ones who go, enjoy and don't cause trouble or drama. They are in general supportive of others, don't suggest that there's only certain ways to enjoy the place.

Then there's the others. Usually cliques, there far too much, look down on others who have fun differently or perhaps turn them down. They create and add fuel to drama and actually ruin it for some people.

Sadly the second Group far outweigh the first whenever I have experienced clubs here (infact sometimes even socials)

Exactly this is one reason we do not go to them."

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"Maybe some think in some ways they’d be paying for sex . "

Some really do and will actually call them brothels. They're most likely the bitter ones who tried to snap their fingers and no one came running oddly enough. People who go are not paying for sex. They're paying for a good night out and £30 is not expensive for a night out, considering food and drink is in general included x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe some think in some ways they’d be paying for sex .

Some really do and will actually call them brothels. They're most likely the bitter ones who tried to snap their fingers and no one came running oddly enough. People who go are not paying for sex. They're paying for a good night out and £30 is not expensive for a night out, considering food and drink is in general included x"
last time I was at cjs you had to bring your own booze and sorry but wouldn't touch a buffet in a sex club

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"Must admit the reason myself and my hubby stopped trying cjs was the fact it was the same folk going and none we would play with

Yes you say nothing is guaranteed but we would rather pay the money to book a nice hotel arrange a meet with whoever than pay money to stand in a kitchen drinking my own booze knowing within the 1st 10 mins of arriving there no one there I want to have sex with ?

Excluding my hubby of course lol

But hey each to their own

We joined this site for the sex!

"

We all go for different reasons I love the social aspect and meeting people x

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"Must admit the reason myself and my hubby stopped trying cjs was the fact it was the same folk going and none we would play with

Yes you say nothing is guaranteed but we would rather pay the money to book a nice hotel arrange a meet with whoever than pay money to stand in a kitchen drinking my own booze knowing within the 1st 10 mins of arriving there no one there I want to have sex with ?

Excluding my hubby of course lol

But hey each to their own

We joined this site for the sex!

We all go for different reasons I love the social aspect and meeting people x"

I'd be lying if I'd said I hadn't thoroughly enjoyed some kinky fun upstairs from time to time mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Must admit the reason myself and my hubby stopped trying cjs was the fact it was the same folk going and none we would play with

Yes you say nothing is guaranteed but we would rather pay the money to book a nice hotel arrange a meet with whoever than pay money to stand in a kitchen drinking my own booze knowing within the 1st 10 mins of arriving there no one there I want to have sex with ?

Excluding my hubby of course lol

But hey each to their own

We joined this site for the sex!

We all go for different reasons I love the social aspect and meeting people x"
yip and that's great

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"Maybe some think in some ways they’d be paying for sex .

Some really do and will actually call them brothels. They're most likely the bitter ones who tried to snap their fingers and no one came running oddly enough. People who go are not paying for sex. They're paying for a good night out and £30 is not expensive for a night out, considering food and drink is in general included xlast time I was at cjs you had to bring your own booze and sorry but wouldn't touch a buffet in a sex club "

I get to the food early. You think the local chinese or whatever takeaway is any better? I actually was about to dig into my chinese takeaway, when my friend found a pubic hair on hers. Put me off for the last decade and still not wanting to get back to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol I work with food

I know what it's like

So hense I don't go near public buffets

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"Lol I work with food

I know what it's like

So hense I don't go near public buffets "

I'm trying not to think about it too much when I tuck into a good looking buffet. And you're not helping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All I can say about clubs (having never been) is that they really don't sound like the kind of place I'd want to have sex in for a variety of reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol I work with food

I know what it's like

So hense I don't go near public buffets

I'm trying not to think about it too much when I tuck into a good looking buffet. And you're not helping "

Just stay away from the chipolatas..whether that be at the buffet or in any potential partner's pants

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"Lol I work with food

I know what it's like

So hense I don't go near public buffets "

Surely it the pubic buffets you need to avoid ?

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"Lol I work with food

I know what it's like

So hense I don't go near public buffets

I'm trying not to think about it too much when I tuck into a good looking buffet. And you're not helping

Just stay away from the chipolatas..whether that be at the buffet or in any potential partner's pants "

I'll keep that in mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people like clubs, some don’t but I would completely disagree that they are tantamount to being brothels as there is no exchange of cash in return for sexual services. Personally we wouldn’t go to either of the clubs in Scotland as on the single occasion we did as a couple (male of couple was fairly regular as a single male) we found the staff to be fantastic but the patrons to be quite cliquish and up their own arses with a few guys circling between the bar and the lounge area next to where the buffet was set up (CJ’s) in a quite predatory manner. Our decision is based upon having actually attended said club and not based on what we have read on forums or what other Fab members have told us. English clubs are the way for us

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By *r humanMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

Your social and have sex at club at same time so not worry people get jealous of your have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol I work with food

I know what it's like

So hense I don't go near public buffets

I'm trying not to think about it too much when I tuck into a good looking buffet. And you're not helping "
woops sorry lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn’t say that you can’t talk about them but can you say that you are in a position to make a judgement on them and present that as fact or incontrovertible. In such circumstances what you have is a personal opinion based on your own preconceptions and an absence of hard facts.no I wouldnt agree with you there though i am with-holding my reasons for not using clubs as im nosey as to club goers thoughts as yet no one has given what they percieve a non club goers thinking is "

I dont think club goers should be perceiving non club goers thinking at all ... is that not the point ... your OP suggests that the club goers are advising the non club goers not to perceive/ comment / advise on things they have no experience of? So surely for any of the people you refer to, to answer your OP would be hypocritical?

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"I wouldn’t say that you can’t talk about them but can you say that you are in a position to make a judgement on them and present that as fact or incontrovertible. In such circumstances what you have is a personal opinion based on your own preconceptions and an absence of hard facts.no I wouldnt agree with you there though i am with-holding my reasons for not using clubs as im nosey as to club goers thoughts as yet no one has given what they percieve a non club goers thinking is "

How the heck can a club goer know what a non club goers thoughts are on clubs ????. Like said you can't make definite impression of a club scenario until you go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn’t say that you can’t talk about them but can you say that you are in a position to make a judgement on them and present that as fact or incontrovertible. In such circumstances what you have is a personal opinion based on your own preconceptions and an absence of hard facts.no I wouldnt agree with you there though i am with-holding my reasons for not using clubs as im nosey as to club goers thoughts as yet no one has given what they percieve a non club goers thinking is

I dont think club goers should be perceiving non club goers thinking at all ... is that not the point ... your OP suggests that the club goers are advising the non club goers not to perceive/ comment / advise on things they have no experience of? So surely for any of the people you refer to, to answer your OP would be hypocritical? "

Sorry I’m lost who was that comment addressed to Kola or us?

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"I wouldn’t say that you can’t talk about them but can you say that you are in a position to make a judgement on them and present that as fact or incontrovertible. In such circumstances what you have is a personal opinion based on your own preconceptions and an absence of hard facts.no I wouldnt agree with you there though i am with-holding my reasons for not using clubs as im nosey as to club goers thoughts as yet no one has given what they percieve a non club goers thinking is

I dont think club goers should be perceiving non club goers thinking at all ... is that not the point ... your OP suggests that the club goers are advising the non club goers not to perceive/ comment / advise on things they have no experience of? So surely for any of the people you refer to, to answer your OP would be hypocritical? "

Haha that's what I just said. You word it much more eloquently.

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"There are in my humble opinion 2 types of club goers..

The ones who go, enjoy and don't cause trouble or drama. They are in general supportive of others, don't suggest that there's only certain ways to enjoy the place.

Then there's the others. Usually cliques, there far too much, look down on others who have fun differently or perhaps turn them down. They create and add fuel to drama and actually ruin it for some people.

Sadly the second Group far outweigh the first whenever I have experienced clubs here (infact sometimes even socials)

Can't agree with the club situation as I've never been but can whole heartily agree that it has happened at a few big fab socials. Not thief then but you could see some stuff simmering

Its a shame but they have all been fantastic nights which I've enjoyed. "

Maybe it was simmering as there were to separate groups. A group made up of new people and the clique group. And yes we have been and seen it with our own eyes. We last 45 minutes then left. Recent social in Dundee was amazing. No cliques and everyone chatting to everyone, that's a social bud.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are in my humble opinion 2 types of club goers..

The ones who go, enjoy and don't cause trouble or drama. They are in general supportive of others, don't suggest that there's only certain ways to enjoy the place.

Then there's the others. Usually cliques, there far too much, look down on others who have fun differently or perhaps turn them down. They create and add fuel to drama and actually ruin it for some people.

Sadly the second Group far outweigh the first whenever I have experienced clubs here (infact sometimes even socials)

Can't agree with the club situation as I've never been but can whole heartily agree that it has happened at a few big fab socials. Not thief then but you could see some stuff simmering

Its a shame but they have all been fantastic nights which I've enjoyed.

Maybe it was simmering as there were to separate groups. A group made up of new people and the clique group. And yes we have been and seen it with our own eyes. We last 45 minutes then left. Recent social in Dundee was amazing. No cliques and everyone chatting to everyone, that's a social bud. "

Nope, no cliques in regards to the last two socials I'm on about. Found out the reasoning why there was a little touch n go and certainly no way was there a divide between newbies and experienced etc.. they all mixed well

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"There are in my humble opinion 2 types of club goers..

The ones who go, enjoy and don't cause trouble or drama. They are in general supportive of others, don't suggest that there's only certain ways to enjoy the place.

Then there's the others. Usually cliques, there far too much, look down on others who have fun differently or perhaps turn them down. They create and add fuel to drama and actually ruin it for some people.

Sadly the second Group far outweigh the first whenever I have experienced clubs here (infact sometimes even socials)

Can't agree with the club situation as I've never been but can whole heartily agree that it has happened at a few big fab socials. Not thief then but you could see some stuff simmering

Its a shame but they have all been fantastic nights which I've enjoyed.

Maybe it was simmering as there were to separate groups. A group made up of new people and the clique group. And yes we have been and seen it with our own eyes. We last 45 minutes then left. Recent social in Dundee was amazing. No cliques and everyone chatting to everyone, that's a social bud.

Nope, no cliques in regards to the last two socials I'm on about. Found out the reasoning why there was a little touch n go and certainly no way was there a divide between newbies and experienced etc.. they all mixed well

"

I'm genuinely pleased to hear that , can't comment as it was over a yr ago that happened to us. And there was definitely a clique there. But sounds like things have changed for the better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn’t say that you can’t talk about them but can you say that you are in a position to make a judgement on them and present that as fact or incontrovertible. In such circumstances what you have is a personal opinion based on your own preconceptions and an absence of hard facts.no I wouldnt agree with you there though i am with-holding my reasons for not using clubs as im nosey as to club goers thoughts as yet no one has given what they percieve a non club goers thinking is

I dont think club goers should be perceiving non club goers thinking at all ... is that not the point ... your OP suggests that the club goers are advising the non club goers not to perceive/ comment / advise on things they have no experience of? So surely for any of the people you refer to, to answer your OP would be hypocritical?

Sorry I’m lost who was that comment addressed to Kola or us? "

Quote and reply to kola

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn’t say that you can’t talk about them but can you say that you are in a position to make a judgement on them and present that as fact or incontrovertible. In such circumstances what you have is a personal opinion based on your own preconceptions and an absence of hard facts.no I wouldnt agree with you there though i am with-holding my reasons for not using clubs as im nosey as to club goers thoughts as yet no one has given what they percieve a non club goers thinking is

I dont think club goers should be perceiving non club goers thinking at all ... is that not the point ... your OP suggests that the club goers are advising the non club goers not to perceive/ comment / advise on things they have no experience of? So surely for any of the people you refer to, to answer your OP would be hypocritical?

Sorry I’m lost who was that comment addressed to Kola or us?

Quote and reply to kola "

Which included our post hence clarification sought Thanks for clearing it up lol

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By *ola cubes OP   Man
over a year ago

coatbridge

Cant and wont name a user/s.

it was/is on other posts that club goers feel non club goers have a"wrong perception" of what club use is about.

my question was what are these "wrong perceptions" as my perceptions are 100% correct.

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

Your perception being 100% correct is surely a misconception if you haven’t used your own sensory experience of being in a club ?

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By *ola cubes OP   Man
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Your perception being 100% correct is surely a misconception if you haven’t used your own sensory experience of being in a club ? "
dont want to get bogged down in it my reason for not attending clubs is sexual discrimination.

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"Your perception being 100% correct is surely a misconception if you haven’t used your own sensory experience of being in a club ? dont want to get bogged down in it my reason for not attending clubs is sexual discrimination."

That’s easy for me to understand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd agree with that yip

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"Your perception being 100% correct is surely a misconception if you haven’t used your own sensory experience of being in a club ? dont want to get bogged down in it my reason for not attending clubs is sexual discrimination."

I 100% agree with this have never understood why there is a difference in regards to single blokes. The costs should be the same regardless of what sex you are. Can I ask one question, IF the cost had always been the same for everyone from the outset would you have been inclined to try it out? X

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By *ola cubes OP   Man
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Your perception being 100% correct is surely a misconception if you haven’t used your own sensory experience of being in a club ? dont want to get bogged down in it my reason for not attending clubs is sexual discrimination.

I 100% agree with this have never understood why there is a difference in regards to single blokes. The costs should be the same regardless of what sex you are. Can I ask one question, IF the cost had always been the same for everyone from the outset would you have been inclined to try it out? X"
yes ive no problem with any other aspect of a clubs use

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is the difference in the proce for males a deliberate ploy to put them off attending as they are perceived as being the pests of the swinging world (not our viewpoint - just for the purposes of clarification) or is it exploitation as club owners reckon guys will pay that premium as some (note I said some not all) view it as a guaranteed means of “getting their hole”?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is the difference in the proce for males a deliberate ploy to put them off attending as they are perceived as being the pests of the swinging world (not our viewpoint - just for the purposes of clarification) or is it exploitation as club owners reckon guys will pay that premium as some (note I said some not all) view it as a guaranteed means of “getting their hole”? "

This kinda thing has been in existence for 30 odd years that I can remember, the Savoy night club, Cardinal Follies, Victoria's charging guys, letting girls get in for free. Not constant though but it changed every so often but guys were often having to pay more.

not just those clubs, there was many more that did it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is the difference in the proce for males a deliberate ploy to put them off attending as they are perceived as being the pests of the swinging world (not our viewpoint - just for the purposes of clarification) or is it exploitation as club owners reckon guys will pay that premium as some (note I said some not all) view it as a guaranteed means of “getting their hole”?

This kinda thing has been in existence for 30 odd years that I can remember, the Savoy night club, Cardinal Follies, Victoria's charging guys, letting girls get in for free. Not constant though but it changed every so often but guys were often having to pay more.

not just those clubs, there was many more that did it

"

God man Cardinal Follies, there is a blast from the past!

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By *ola cubes OP   Man
over a year ago

coatbridge

Many moons ago nightclubs are a head price now irrespective of gender though this really isnt what I posted about and best to move away from or will end up closed as usual

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"Your perception being 100% correct is surely a misconception if you haven’t used your own sensory experience of being in a club ? dont want to get bogged down in it my reason for not attending clubs is sexual discrimination.

I 100% agree with this have never understood why there is a difference in regards to single blokes. The costs should be the same regardless of what sex you are. Can I ask one question, IF the cost had always been the same for everyone from the outset would you have been inclined to try it out? Xyes ive no problem with any other aspect of a clubs use"

Supply and demand mate. Women is the supply and demand is the blokes.

I'm curious too though. If it was just the pricing , why not go with a female friend. Couple prices are set so you would not pay any more than any other couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Many moons ago nightclubs are a head price now irrespective of gender though this really isnt what I posted about and best to move away from or will end up closed as usual "

agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are in my humble opinion 2 types of club goers..

The ones who go, enjoy and don't cause trouble or drama. They are in general supportive of others, don't suggest that there's only certain ways to enjoy the place.

Then there's the others. Usually cliques, there far too much, look down on others who have fun differently or perhaps turn them down. They create and add fuel to drama and actually ruin it for some people.

Sadly the second Group far outweigh the first whenever I have experienced clubs here (infact sometimes even socials)

"

Sums it up perfectly

We still like going but we go infrequently and to meet new people not the same croud in the same corner lol

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"Many moons ago nightclubs are a head price now irrespective of gender though this really isnt what I posted about and best to move away from or will end up closed as usual

agreed "

That statement is priceless. You started a thread called club thoughts then when the conversation is in full flow you pull the plug and say let's talk about something else.

Anyone know if it's meant to rain tomorrow.?

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By *ola cubes OP   Man
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Many moons ago nightclubs are a head price now irrespective of gender though this really isnt what I posted about and best to move away from or will end up closed as usual

agreed

That statement is priceless. You started a thread called club thoughts then when the conversation is in full flow you pull the plug and say let's talk about something else.

Anyone know if it's meant to rain tomorrow.?"
you really do try to create arguments at every turn a nightclub is not what my initial post was about again only highlighting your stupidity wont answer you further

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"Many moons ago nightclubs are a head price now irrespective of gender though this really isnt what I posted about and best to move away from or will end up closed as usual

agreed

That statement is priceless. You started a thread called club thoughts then when the conversation is in full flow you pull the plug and say let's talk about something else.

Anyone know if it's meant to rain tomorrow.?you really do try to create arguments at every turn a nightclub is not what my initial post was about again only highlighting your stupidity wont answer you further"

I asked a question on YOUR thread subject. Ie the couple pricing on swinger clubs being the same for every couple. What has that got to do with Glasgow city nightclubs. ?? But wait, IM the one starting an argument?? . Like your friend who started the other club thread, the dummy has been spat out because you have to make the post personal because you can't have a rational debate. If you refer back to your original question , you asked us club goers to tell YOU what we thought you were thinking about clubs . LMAO. But hey I'm highlighting MY stupidity. Two posts on clubs started by 2 guys that don't go to clubs and both closed their own threads because they didn't like the answers. Like i said , if you dont want all viewpoints , dont start a thread, as being the OP dosnt give you any extra privaledges than any other posters .Mods when this post is reported please take into account the post above where the OP clearly set out to insult me before issuing my ban

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about we start a Fab Fight Club? BYOC (bring your own chib)

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

And breathe !!!

And as said, I actually agree with the OPS point, that it's unfair to charge more to get into clubs, I always either go as a couple or take a friend with me. So we actually agree on his reasons for not attending SWINGER clubs.

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By *ola cubes OP   Man
over a year ago

coatbridge

To re-itterate this post is not about pricing....nightclubs.... or socials it is about comments made by club users stating they believe non club users have the wrong perceptions about what clubs are I wanted to find out what these wrong perceptions are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To re-itterate this post is not about pricing....nightclubs.... or socials it is about comments made by club users stating they believe non club users have the wrong perceptions about what clubs are I wanted to find out what these wrong perceptions are."

I know I'm a non club goer but will put my view down on it;

Yes I expect club goers views on none club goers to be negative when they make a comment about clubs and actually I don't blame them. If I went to a club and enjoyed it and seen someone post that they didn't want to go and never sampled clubs then I'd say its great, come along before you comment.

Personally and factually stated in the past, for me I don't hate swinging clubs, never have, I don't judge swinging clubbers, never have. I have stated my rational reasons why I wont go as they are just not for me.

and yes I've been to house parties, social parties and sex parties I just wont go to club parties but truly understand and don't blame clubbers to look at my comments on clubs good or bad as negative.

Onwards and upwards to a good debate

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

[Removed by poster at 15/08/18 13:37:35]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No takers on the Fight Club suggestion then?

(Wanders off in a huff to find a wee person to batter).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To re-itterate this post is not about pricing....nightclubs.... or socials it is about comments made by club users stating they believe non club users have the wrong perceptions about what clubs are I wanted to find out what these wrong perceptions are.

I know I'm a non club goer but will put my view down on it;

Yes I expect club goers views on none club goers to be negative when they make a comment about clubs and actually I don't blame them. If I went to a club and enjoyed it and seen someone post that they didn't want to go and never sampled clubs then I'd say its great, come along before you comment.

Personally and factually stated in the past, for me I don't hate swinging clubs, never have, I don't judge swinging clubbers, never have. I have stated my rational reasons why I wont go as they are just not for me.

and yes I've been to house parties, social parties and sex parties I just wont go to club parties but truly understand and don't blame clubbers to look at my comments on clubs good or bad as negative.

Onwards and upwards to a good debate

Club goers and non club goers are two different groups of people obviously. Everyone is entitled to choose what group they stand in and can opt out of either group when they choose but there should never be an us and them attitude towards one another. Both sides will defend their standpoint when negative views are expressed about the side they stand on. Peter you said to quote"

I expect club goers views on none club goers to be negative when they make a comment about clubs and actually I don't blame them. "

That is simply not true imo. If the view is of a negative nature whether from a club goer or non club goer then the people that know and have had great experiences in a club will obviously challenge that negative view. "

you can't say "that is simply not true" as you do not speak for everyone

My view and I'm not stating everyone else must view it the same is that theres more chance of it being negative, that's all.

Just put your view down on it and that fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No takers on the Fight Club suggestion then?

(Wanders off in a huff to find a wee person to batter)."

Stop shit-stirring you and what your views on the Op's Post

clubbers views of non clubbers commenting on posts about clubs

ffs, nearly confused myself there

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

Club goers and non club goers are two different groups of people obviously. Everyone is entitled to choose what group they stand in and can opt out of either group when they choose but there should never be an us and them attitude towards one another. Both sides will defend their standpoint when negative views are expressed about the side they stand on. Peter you said to quote"

I expect club goers views on none club goers to be negative when they make a comment about clubs and actually I don't blame them. "

That is simply not true imo. If the view is of a negative nature whether from a club goer or non club goer then the people that know and have had great experiences in a club will obviously challenge that negative view. But if the comment is just simply a reason why they don't go or whatever , those comments won't result in a backlash from others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kola, your right

lolllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"To re-itterate this post is not about pricing....nightclubs.... or socials it is about comments made by club users stating they believe non club users have the wrong perceptions about what clubs are I wanted to find out what these wrong perceptions are.

I know I'm a non club goer but will put my view down on it;

Yes I expect club goers views on none club goers to be negative when they make a comment about clubs and actually I don't blame them. If I went to a club and enjoyed it and seen someone post that they didn't want to go and never sampled clubs then I'd say its great, come along before you comment.

Personally and factually stated in the past, for me I don't hate swinging clubs, never have, I don't judge swinging clubbers, never have. I have stated my rational reasons why I wont go as they are just not for me.

and yes I've been to house parties, social parties and sex parties I just wont go to club parties but truly understand and don't blame clubbers to look at my comments on clubs good or bad as negative.

Onwards and upwards to a good debate

Club goers and non club goers are two different groups of people obviously. Everyone is entitled to choose what group they stand in and can opt out of either group when they choose but there should never be an us and them attitude towards one another. Both sides will defend their standpoint when negative views are expressed about the side they stand on. Peter you said to quote"

I expect club goers views on none club goers to be negative when they make a comment about clubs and actually I don't blame them. "

That is simply not true imo. If the view is of a negative nature whether from a club goer or non club goer then the people that know and have had great experiences in a club will obviously challenge that negative view.

you can't say "that is simply not true" as you do not speak for everyone

My view and I'm not stating everyone else must view it the same is that theres more chance of it being negative, that's all.

Just put your view down on it and that fine.

"

Has ANY club goer ever started 1 thread let alone 2 about non club members attitude towards clubs , members views or contradictions on their profiles , NO .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No takers on the Fight Club suggestion then?

(Wanders off in a huff to find a wee person to batter).

Stop shit-stirring you and what your views on the Op's Post

clubbers views of non clubbers commenting on posts about clubs

ffs, nearly confused myself there "

Fuck knows.....I needed a lie down in a dark room with an Anadin after reading this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No takers on the Fight Club suggestion then?

(Wanders off in a huff to find a wee person to batter)."

Is this taking place before or after the purge

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy


"Ive seen on another thread quite a few think that having not attended a club you either cant talk about ir or that you have totally the wrong view of them.

which got me wondering what is this wrong view that club goers believe non club goers have."

Like everything else in life opinions vary from person to person. If you were to ask every member on Fab you would find son agree and others would disagree regardless if they have attended any club in past or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No takers on the Fight Club suggestion then?

(Wanders off in a huff to find a wee person to batter).

Is this taking place before or after the purge "

Survivors of the Purge graduate to Fight Club.

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