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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't understand how it's so hard to actually get a meet it is a site designed for meeting for fun after all.

how would you go about enhancing your chances?

what are the right things to say because as they say everyone is different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's also a site with actual people...ya know, people who maybe just want to meet others that they like or get this...ones they fancy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone fancies you they will

If they don't

They won't

Simple.

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By *he templarMan
over a year ago

Paisley

Try to attend a cpl if socials mate, that the best way, thats how i met the ppl i know. Good laugh to be had and good to let ppl meet you in a safe enviroment

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The amount of rubbish people say on their profiles

e.g message me when you do people never get back to you

maybe that's just people today

if you look at my profile what would you change?l

what would make it more appealing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex swap op.....as soon as you have a vagina and breasts you will get more offers than you know what to do with!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Like the idea of socials

But this whole verified by photo then verified again when you meet

bit clunky

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It does seem like guys etc outnumber women 4-1

so they say in their profile no cock pics

ok I get that then folk tell you you've not got enough pics on your profile

seems to me like you can't win lol

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By *he templarMan
over a year ago

Paisley

Stimulate the mind and the rest will follow, if you dont interest the ladies theres not much you can do on here, so once again get to a social or 2 bud.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stimulate the mind and the rest will follow, if you dont interest the ladies theres not much you can do on here, so once again get to a social or 2 bud. "

That's one of the most over used and misinterpreted cliches on fab

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"It does seem like guys etc outnumber women 4-1

so they say in their profile no cock pics

ok I get that then folk tell you you've not got enough pics on your profile

seems to me like you can't win lol"

Bigger odds than 4-1.....

Plus, You can have more pictures without having your cock in them!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So if you go to a meet will you then get verified?

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By *he templarMan
over a year ago

Paisley

Yes usually, and you might even enjoy yourself!

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"So if you go to a meet will you then get verified?

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Most likely

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By *pinCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Stimulate the mind and the rest will follow, if you dont interest the ladies theres not much you can do on here, so once again get to a social or 2 bud.

That's one of the most over used and misinterpreted cliches on fab "

Seconded, I think some need a pretty picture and it wouldn’t matter how eloquent you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was you Mr Big I would serenade women with that song you wrote and released back in November '91.

That should work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put a similar question on the forum a few days ago which caused a bit of a hoo haa it's definitely not as easy as people make it out to be, on the plus side 14 did view my profile but surprise surprise no message, wink etc

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just not sure what exactly will work tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just not sure what exactly will work tbh"

Well no amount of whingeing is gonna work...that's for sure

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By *aenMan
over a year ago

Here and There

I wish I could have a tenner for every time a silhouette profile posts a thread like this

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

No profile pic then no chance. Just being honest. One public pic of a hard looking male then no chance. Just being honest again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm glad there is something constructive

yes I was thinking about a pic but what of??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And not whingeing I actually do want to get meets but obv my profile is putting people off so it needs fixed lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm glad there is something constructive

yes I was thinking about a pic but what of??"

According to an article I once read there were 12 things that women generally love in men. These are planning, great listener, vulnerability, good in bedroom, cooking, shopping, nerdy, compromise, sporty, kisses, likes family, dominating.

So from that I've deduced that you should have a picture of the following - you lying on top of a calendar on your bed, wear a hearing aid, cry a little in picture, hold a frying pan in one hand and blow kisses with other. Scatter some shopping bags around you. Wear glasses, skis and leather trousers. Don't compromise that's for fannies.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Mate that's brilliant

somehow don't think I suit ski's pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mate that's brilliant

somehow don't think I suit ski's pmsl"

Well, you'll never get anywhere then. My stuff is gold!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go bisexual, double your chances.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What's the best meets then guys girls

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By *witcherooMan
over a year ago

Muirhead

Tbh I always see this “attend a social” nonsense.

I have neither the time nor inclination. I joined here looking for an easily arranged one off meet with horny like minded individuals.

If I want a social I’ll wait till I’m 80 and go to the bingo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbh I always see this “attend a social” nonsense.

I have neither the time nor inclination. I joined here looking for an easily arranged one off meet with horny like minded individuals.

If I want a social I’ll wait till I’m 80 and go to the bingo. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbh I always see this “attend a social” nonsense.

I have neither the time nor inclination. I joined here looking for an easily arranged one off meet with horny like minded individuals.

If I want a social I’ll wait till I’m 80 and go to the bingo. "

FAB bingo

Legs eleven - group sex involving a one legged man

Unlucky for some - catching crabs from said sex

Two Fat Ladies - users arguing over the use of the word curvy

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By *witcherooMan
over a year ago

Muirhead


"Tbh I always see this “attend a social” nonsense.

I have neither the time nor inclination. I joined here looking for an easily arranged one off meet with horny like minded individuals.

If I want a social I’ll wait till I’m 80 and go to the bingo.

FAB bingo

Legs eleven - group sex involving a one legged man

Unlucky for some - catching crabs from said sex

Two Fat Ladies - users arguing over the use of the word curvy "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First and foremost what I believe and what I've also found out that being a gent and not horngry always works !! I can have a decent conversation and it swings both ways with this as I need decent chat back or I lose interest quickly !! Due to the ratio between M/F it bodes well to have decent banter and can string more than two words together other than " here's my cock want to fuck it " as probably a high ratio of men do here !!

My private pics are private for a reason and every one of them are tasteful maybe even teasing but I'd rather get to know a person before I get the " wee guy " out as it saves disappointment in the flesh lol !!

But in all honesty you've got to treat people like actual people and not think for a second that they're easy " fucks " as if you do this ain't the site for you !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sex swap op.....as soon as you have a vagina and breasts you will get more offers than you know what to do with! "

Now this here comment is a winner, made my food go down the wrong way pmsl

*note to self do not read forum comments when eating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First and foremost what I believe and what I've also found out that being a gent and not horngry always works !! I can have a decent conversation and it swings both ways with this as I need decent chat back or I lose interest quickly !! Due to the ratio between M/F it bodes well to have decent banter and can string more than two words together other than " here's my cock want to fuck it " as probably a high ratio of men do here !!

My private pics are private for a reason and every one of them are tasteful maybe even teasing but I'd rather get to know a person before I get the " wee guy " out as it saves disappointment in the flesh lol !!

But in all honesty you've got to treat people like actual people and not think for a second that they're easy " fucks " as if you do this ain't the site for you !!"

I like this reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First and foremost what I believe and what I've also found out that being a gent and not horngry always works !! I can have a decent conversation and it swings both ways with this as I need decent chat back or I lose interest quickly !! Due to the ratio between M/F it bodes well to have decent banter and can string more than two words together other than " here's my cock want to fuck it " as probably a high ratio of men do here !!

My private pics are private for a reason and every one of them are tasteful maybe even teasing but I'd rather get to know a person before I get the " wee guy " out as it saves disappointment in the flesh lol !!

But in all honesty you've got to treat people like actual people and not think for a second that they're easy " fucks " as if you do this ain't the site for you !!

I like this reply "

It is true though well for me and what I've found anyway but we all know 99.9% have different ideas on how to entice someone

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