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By *othianGuy41 OP   Man
over a year ago

Livingston

Do any of you ever worry that someone you know will see your profile & recognise you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

But that's why I don't show my face until we have spoken and I know we don't know each other

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Once upon a time i did but not now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah i get recognised all the time lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah i get recognised all the time lol"

You're kind of memorable Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do worry a bit so don't show my face until I really trust someone. Already seen quite a few folk we know from real life on here.

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By *T1980Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I am not sure if its good no one recognises you or bad as your just not memorable lol

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By *othianGuy41 OP   Man
over a year ago

Livingston


"I do worry a bit so don't show my face until I really trust someone. Already seen quite a few folk we know from real life on here. "

Does it make you think differently of them, knowing their on here, seeing their pictures ect, maybe like “you’re the last person I thought would be into this? Kinda thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do worry a bit so don't show my face until I really trust someone. Already seen quite a few folk we know from real life on here.

Does it make you think differently of them, knowing their on here, seeing their pictures ect, maybe like “you’re the last person I thought would be into this? Kinda thing? "

Not at all....there's maybe an initial shock, then I have a wee giggle, then I think fair dos. I have no right to judge, would be completely hypocritical. We have no idea what may be going on in someone's relationship or personal life that will bring them here.

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By *ecorumtvTV/TS
over a year ago

Ayr

I used to worry but life is too short to do that anymore. Besides, what's that person doing on here trawling my photos anyway?

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Nope not at all... I’m not doing anything wrong

K x

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By *othianGuy41 OP   Man
over a year ago

Livingston

Kinda made me think about having my full face as my profile picture, so i made another. I don’t have any adventures pictures that I could show off, as of yet. Besides fab is all about having fun so why not have a fun picture? x

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By *exy gentMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

I've made contact with 2 people who.knew me, blocked me and promised to not say a word , adds to the excitement I think

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

We have messaged people and found out we knew each other. They have been as discreet as us and never mentioned it again . Never met but fair play to them . I think most genuine Fabbers have very high standards when it comes to discretion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I seen a guy I went to school with on here. I immediately informed his work, parents and friends cause I'm discreet like that

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"I seen a guy I went to school with on here. I immediately informed his work, parents and friends cause I'm discreet like that "

The centre spread in the Hamilton Advertisor was low key too .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I seen a guy I went to school with on here. I immediately informed his work, parents and friends cause I'm discreet like that

The centre spread in the Hamilton Advertisor was low key too . "

It was a nice touch I thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had my son out for the day a few weeks back and someone said hi to me when he was with me wtf !! By the time I got home they'd mailed me to say that they'd said hi to me that day !! Hence now my face pic is private and won't give it out unless I have to !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get recognised all the time. Not out and about, but from other people who use the site! It use to annoy me because I never had a clue who they were but now I'm just like aye, whatever!

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By *bandAbCouple
over a year ago

lanarkshire.

we had somebody the other week message us using a different name once we send face pics they said they knew us. we arent one to kiss and tell people about it cause anybody we tell would ask. so how do you know giving up our little secret aswell so other than maube being a bit awkward if we saw them we wouldnt go blabbing but thats mainly why we keep face pics hidden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone who thinks they know me feel free to mail me my name ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crazy one on here claimed to know me and said i loved c. Oke

Anyone thay knows me knows that's no me, crank ??

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By *hosewhomgonakedCouple
over a year ago

Scotland

Been recognised a few times now, some have nicely said who they were and then others decide to say they know you then don't say who they are and disappear.

We don't really mind, is not like we're doing anything wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn’t bother me at all

Anyone who knows or think they know me then say hello not an issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesnt bother me.

If you know me, say hello

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only once I think

I’ve a very public job so I’d be in bother if people found out.

I had issues before and caused me a lot of problems

I try and be really careful now though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a little discretion required but if someone recognises me then fine.

Can’t help that.

Anyone who has in the past have never made an issue of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have seen someone I know on fabguys cant stand the bastard and I know it would end his marriage but it’s not my style, discretion is assured regardless of who it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I deliver to 5 guy's on here, and they have no clue!!

because they never read my profile at the start! so...tough

but they will never ever know I know them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I deliver to 5 guy's on here, and they have no clue!!

because they never read my profile at the start! so...tough

but they will never ever know I know them. "

Quickly cancels his PayPal account lol

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By *othianGuy41 OP   Man
over a year ago

Livingston


"I deliver to 5 guy's on here, and they have no clue!!

because they never read my profile at the start! so...tough

but they will never ever know I know them. "

I didn’t realise that Five guys was a swingers restaurant. Maybe I’ll start eating there more often

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill

Mr has been recognised several times at Cjs by old school friends to old neighbours. It’s never been awkward as they are there for the same thing

Mrs

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By *hargMan
over a year ago

Erskine

I wasn’t active on the site while I lived with my parents. Was too worried about them getting to know anything.

But now I have no one to answer to in regard of being concerned about anyone recognising me.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Lol can be fun..

But very careful with single guy as they talk and point you out to their friends couples and Single Ladies smile just walk on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do worry a bit so don't show my face until I really trust someone. Already seen quite a few folk we know from real life on here. "

If i seen someone on here that i do im not that bothered as we looking for the same thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I deliver to 5 guy's on here, and they have no clue!!

because they never read my profile at the start! so...tough

but they will never ever know I know them.

Quickly cancels his PayPal account lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I deliver to 5 guy's on here, and they have no clue!!

because they never read my profile at the start! so...tough

but they will never ever know I know them.

I didn’t realise that Five guys was a swingers restaurant. Maybe I’ll start eating there more often "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be worse, on my last profile I met someone last minute , they initiated the meet, waited until the deed was done then she proceeded to tell me she wasn’t trying to turn me off but that we work at the same site, I told her she was on the noise up, which was disproved when she showed me her ID badge for work, needless to say it was at the time a turn off but what can you do nothing, she knew who I was before even messaging me,

Me though I had no clue haha

Now walk past her often at works and face up yto the awkward eye contact, was weirded out for ages but don’t bother any more, not recognised much though I’ve seen loads I recognise

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By *pinCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

We don’t mind I guess but folk that realize it’s us when they’re cheating get annoyed and can’t be bothered with the hassle.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Dont know if ive been recognised out n about as no one has ever said and in my job you'd expect to be recognised lol xx

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"Dont know if ive been recognised out n about as no one has ever said and in my job you'd expect to be recognised lol xx "

Not many folk watch crimewatch any more .

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By *ettyboop66Woman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

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By *ettyboop66Woman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Deleted that by mistake haha I have not been recognised as yet well maybe I have but they have not said anything, but if I was I wouldn't worry about it as It's my life and I'm not embarrassed or ashamed of it, if someone did recognise me I would say hi lol

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By *irsttimecouple2018Couple
over a year ago

South Ayrshire

If anyone "local" who knew us outwith this site it wouldnt be too hard to work it out!

Met a very old school friend at cj's the first time we went, caught up with 30 odd years of gossip.

We arent worried as we are both adults and it aint illegal, just being discreet and taking it slowly!

Will eventually bump into people I know from a previous career and that will be funny.

A.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol can be fun..

But very careful with single guy as they talk and point you out to their friends couples and Single Ladies smile just walk on."

And that's the kind of misconceived shite that gives singles a bad name. #sweepingstatements

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

Someone “recognised” me from One of my tattoos and was adamant I was working in a certain shop and served him. Err wrong pal, I was in Intensive Care in the Royal the day I “served” you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been noticed by a girl i used to go to school with who messaged me.

Still keep in touch.

Also got noticed by my sisters pal.

I dont mind who notices me lol xxx

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