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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have all had them!

1..do you accept them?

2..do you send them?

3..if you do send them what's your success rate?

Me personally i only accept friends invites once iv actually met you.

Plus most random invites I get..I wait until they are offline than have a nosey lol

But more often than not it's just more knobshots !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've got 4 people on our friends list, people we've met. We don't send any and just delete all the random ones we receive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not that successful lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im not that successful lol "

Maybe read what I just wrote before sending us a friend request then. Deleted btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha i did just done it for a laugh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Woops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have all had them!

1..do you accept them?

2..do you send them?

3..if you do send them what's your success rate?

Me personally i only accept friends invites once iv actually met you.

Plus most random invites I get..I wait until they are offline than have a nosey lol

But more often than not it's just more

knobshots !!"

Never had one.

Never requested one - weird if you have never met them or had any sort of chat

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"We have all had them!

1..do you accept them?

2..do you send them?

3..if you do send them what's your success rate?

Me personally i only accept friends invites once iv actually met you.

Plus most random invites I get..I wait until they are offline than have a nosey lol

But more often than not it's just more knobshots !!"
only accept once I know the person better.

Yes Ive sent but only once we've spoke a while.

Ive also waited until they have gone offline for a wee look

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By *jglas34Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I do send them and have had some success. I do also accept them so people can see my photos of my face which I only have on my private galley.

Interested in why a lot of females have their profiles hidden.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have all had them!

1..do you accept them?

2..do you send them?

3..if you do send them what's your success rate?

Me personally i only accept friends invites once iv actually met you.

Plus most random invites I get..I wait until they are offline than have a nosey lol

But more often than not it's just more knobshots !!only accept once I know the person better.

Yes Ive sent but only once we've spoke a while.

Ive also waited until they have gone offline for a wee look "
think most do too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do send them and have had some success. I do also accept them so people can see my photos of my face which I only have on my private galley.

Interested in why a lot of females have their profiles hidden. "
maybe they have stopped meeting for a while but dosn't want to delete their profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every friend I have on my friends List I have met bar 2, who I get on really well with and enjoy their chat as I do with the friends I have met.

I never ask to be anyone's friend, just chat n go with the flow and if we are getting on then we may end up friends..

I've had random girls n couples who invite me but as I don't know them I just delete. I only have one face pic on my friends and even if I was going to add anyone as a friend if we got that far they would have seen the same face pic anyways

People who send friends invite without asking personally just block if you specifically ask not to be invited as a friend from ransoms n strangers.

That's my view and I'm sticking to it as it's served me well in the past.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"We have all had them!

1..do you accept them?

2..do you send them?

3..if you do send them what's your success rate?

Me personally i only accept friends invites once iv actually met you.

Plus most random invites I get..I wait until they are offline than have a nosey lol

But more often than not it's just more knobshots !!"

1.yes

2.yes

3.what do you class as success ..them accepting or something coming from it

Random friends requests I'll wait til they are offline accept perv private pics then delete unless the lady is hot and I believe genuine lol (not that I get many random requests lol )

However failure to chat usually ends up removing from friends ..it's not all about perving pics (omg did I actually say that ) might scupper chances of a meet as they take the hump at being removed but chatting and getting to know someone is a big thing for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do any of you fab some of the friends only pics from random invites just to wind them up

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"Do any of you fab some of the friends only pics from random invites just to wind them up "

Hahaha no but I might give it a go now! I delete all invites we have a handful of friends on ours x

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"We have all had them!

1..do you accept them?

2..do you send them?

3..if you do send them what's your success rate?

Me personally i only accept friends invites once iv actually met you.

Plus most random invites I get..I wait until they are offline than have a nosey lol

But more often than not it's just more knobshots !!

1.yes

2.yes

3.what do you class as success ..them accepting or something coming from it

Random friends requests I'll wait til they are offline accept perv private pics then delete unless the lady is hot and I believe genuine lol (not that I get many random requests lol )

However failure to chat usually ends up removing from friends ..it's not all about perving pics (omg did I actually say that ) might scupper chances of a meet as they take the hump at being removed but chatting and getting to know someone is a big thing for me "

Bunkie yes you did really say that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have all had them!

1..do you accept them?

2..do you send them?

3..if you do send them what's your success rate?

Me personally i only accept friends invites once iv actually met you.

Plus most random invites I get..I wait until they are offline than have a nosey lol

But more often than not it's just more knobshots !!

1.yes

2.yes

3.what do you class as success ..them accepting or something coming from it

Random friends requests I'll wait til they are offline accept perv private pics then delete unless the lady is hot and I believe genuine lol (not that I get many random requests lol )

However failure to chat usually ends up removing from friends ..it's not all about perving pics (omg did I actually say that ) might scupper chances of a meet as they take the hump at being removed but chatting and getting to know someone is a big thing for me "
success as in them accepting them.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"We have all had them!

1..do you accept them?

2..do you send them?

3..if you do send them what's your success rate?

Me personally i only accept friends invites once iv actually met you.

Plus most random invites I get..I wait until they are offline than have a nosey lol

But more often than not it's just more knobshots !!

1.yes

2.yes

3.what do you class as success ..them accepting or something coming from it

Random friends requests I'll wait til they are offline accept perv private pics then delete unless the lady is hot and I believe genuine lol (not that I get many random requests lol )

However failure to chat usually ends up removing from friends ..it's not all about perving pics (omg did I actually say that ) might scupper chances of a meet as they take the hump at being removed but chatting and getting to know someone is a big thing for me success as in them accepting them."

99.9% you've not accepted or it'd be 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t send random requests purely because so many profiles clearly state that ‘random friend requests will result in getting blocked’ then I can’t even perv their public gallery... false economy that really

Not sure what the hell I would do if I received one... not a situation I have had to deal with...

I currently have none on my list... I did on a previous profile but only those who I met or intended to meet...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never end them unless requested...or by mutual agreement.

Have had them... so far I have only accepted one... and that was after asking the girl why she sent me one even although we had never spoken...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No onee else admitting to perving them when the sender is offline then deleting them?

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By *ripleXrateDWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I only accept them if we have been chatting and I fell comfortable enough they are genuine.

I always check things like if they are verified or not and if I know someone that has verified them.

I only send if weve been chatting and I normally ask if its ok first xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't send

I only accept if we have a meet arranged

And I don't tend to keep anyone on my friends.list if we never meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont have a large friends list most are who i have met at some point...

Never accept randum invites but wud accept if chat goes well...

And yes been known to accept a few randums after there offline then delete after a nosey lol

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By *ndygunnMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Excuse my ignorance, but why perve when they're off line? They'll still know eventually surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Excuse my ignorance, but why perve when they're off line? They'll still know eventually surely? "

They wont know if you just have a quick look out of curiosity then delete again

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By *ripleXrateDWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"

And yes been known to accept a few randums after there offline then delete after a nosey lol "

I do that to lol xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Excuse my ignorance, but why perve when they're off line? They'll still know eventually surely?

They wont know if you just have a quick look out of curiosity then delete again"

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

I’m happy to accept them from people I’ve spoken to or met.

But who is or isn’t on my friends list is my business so I don’t show a list

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's not about who's on your list lol

Its about do you send or accept random friends invites lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a few on my list but it’s all people I’ve been chatting to for a while.

Don’t see the point in random requests

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"It's not about who's on your list lol

Its about do you send or accept random friends invites lol"

I wouldn’t say I send ‘random’ invites....maybe the odd cheeky one though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No onee else admitting to perving them when the sender is offline then deleting them? "

I used to do this, but if you delete the request they can send you another!

Now I just ignore them all and keep a hotlist instead.

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"No onee else admitting to perving them when the sender is offline then deleting them? "

Yep. Guilty

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"No onee else admitting to perving them when the sender is offline then deleting them?

Yep. Guilty "

Only if the profile pic looks interesting enough though. Otherwise I just delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No onee else admitting to perving them when the sender is offline then deleting them? "

nope, just delete immediately, Got no interest in randoms who sends friend invites

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)


"We have all had them!

1..do you accept them?

2..do you send them?

3..if you do send them what's your success rate?

Me personally i only accept friends invites once iv actually met you.

Plus most random invites I get..I wait until they are offline than have a nosey lol

But more often than not it's just more knobshots !!"

Aye right lol xxx

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By *ogostick72Man
over a year ago

Scotland

If I'm chatting with some one and we seem to be getting on well then I ask them if they would mind if i sent a friends request / invite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have all had them!

1..do you accept them?

2..do you send them?

"

Yes....but it's a bit like that time I decided to dye my hair pink when pished and went on a night out. Seemed like fun at the time then you see the pictures sober.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No onee else admitting to perving them when the sender is offline then deleting them? "

Yeah I do this ALL the time

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"No onee else admitting to perving them when the sender is offline then deleting them?

Yeah I do this ALL the time "

I’ll hold my hands up to this too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just leave them that way the same person can't try to add you again for a while I think it's 30 days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suppose it all depends if I’m interested or not

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have all had them!

1..do you accept them?

2..do you send them?

Yes....but it's a bit like that time I decided to dye my hair pink when pished and went on a night out. Seemed like fun at the time then you see the pictures sober."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope can’t say I have ever had one. But all people on friends list are folk I have chatted with and have known for a long time

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By *outhsider69Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"No onee else admitting to perving them when the sender is offline then deleting them?

Yeah I do this ALL the time

I’ll hold my hands up to this too! "

I’m sure most folk do, but let me ask all of you who have had a peek a hypothetical question..

You’ve accepted their invite once they’ve logged off at night, you have a sneaky peek at their pics, nothing weird in there just clearer face pics, but you aren’t attracted, so you just unfriend them before they wake up in the morning... now, do you leave it at that or do you message them to tell them you accepted it when they were asleep, looked around their private pics, decide you didn’t fancy them, then unfriended them?

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I get loads of friend invites but only accept those I’ve met or chatted to. Nothing nude in my private pics anyway for those that think there might be.

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"I get loads of friend invites but only accept those I’ve met or chatted to. Nothing nude in my private pics anyway for those that think there might be. "

This, except I do have some risqué pics in my private pics. No foo foo pics though!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No onee else admitting to perving them when the sender is offline then deleting them?

Yeah I do this ALL the time

I’ll hold my hands up to this too!

I’m sure most folk do, but let me ask all of you who have had a peek a hypothetical question..

You’ve accepted their invite once they’ve logged off at night, you have a sneaky peek at their pics, nothing weird in there just clearer face pics, but you aren’t attracted, so you just unfriend them before they wake up in the morning... now, do you leave it at that or do you message them to tell them you accepted it when they were asleep, looked around their private pics, decide you didn’t fancy them, then unfriended them? "
hell NO! I don't contact them again lol if they send a random invite that's the chance they take

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By *outhsider69Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"No onee else admitting to perving them when the sender is offline then deleting them?

Yeah I do this ALL the time

I’ll hold my hands up to this too!

I’m sure most folk do, but let me ask all of you who have had a peek a hypothetical question..

You’ve accepted their invite once they’ve logged off at night, you have a sneaky peek at their pics, nothing weird in there just clearer face pics, but you aren’t attracted, so you just unfriend them before they wake up in the morning... now, do you leave it at that or do you message them to tell them you accepted it when they were asleep, looked around their private pics, decide you didn’t fancy them, then unfriended them? hell NO! I don't contact them again lol if they send a random invite that's the chance they take "

Oh yeah with randoms of course. No I meant someone you’d chatted to, but not seen their face clearly. Would you admit to the sneaky peak when messaging to say ‘not for me thanks’, or just leave it like you never accepted the friend invite in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No onee else admitting to perving them when the sender is offline then deleting them?

Yeah I do this ALL the time

I’ll hold my hands up to this too!

I’m sure most folk do, but let me ask all of you who have had a peek a hypothetical question..

You’ve accepted their invite once they’ve logged off at night, you have a sneaky peek at their pics, nothing weird in there just clearer face pics, but you aren’t attracted, so you just unfriend them before they wake up in the morning... now, do you leave it at that or do you message them to tell them you accepted it when they were asleep, looked around their private pics, decide you didn’t fancy them, then unfriended them? hell NO! I don't contact them again lol if they send a random invite that's the chance they take

Oh yeah with randoms of course. No I meant someone you’d chatted to, but not seen their face clearly. Would you admit to the sneaky peak when messaging to say ‘not for me thanks’, or just leave it like you never accepted the friend invite in the first place "

I'd tell them I looked but didn't find them attractive.

It's best to be honest I think

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No onee else admitting to perving them when the sender is offline then deleting them?

Yeah I do this ALL the time

I’ll hold my hands up to this too!

I’m sure most folk do, but let me ask all of you who have had a peek a hypothetical question..

You’ve accepted their invite once they’ve logged off at night, you have a sneaky peek at their pics, nothing weird in there just clearer face pics, but you aren’t attracted, so you just unfriend them before they wake up in the morning... now, do you leave it at that or do you message them to tell them you accepted it when they were asleep, looked around their private pics, decide you didn’t fancy them, then unfriended them? hell NO! I don't contact them again lol if they send a random invite that's the chance they take

Oh yeah with randoms of course. No I meant someone you’d chatted to, but not seen their face clearly. Would you admit to the sneaky peak when messaging to say ‘not for me thanks’, or just leave it like you never accepted the friend invite in the first place "
leave it as if I never looked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only accept friends invites from people Iv met x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So no one wants to be my pal then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quietly taking notes of all the women that I def don’t want to send a random invite to....

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By *outhsider69Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"No onee else admitting to perving them when the sender is offline then deleting them?

Yeah I do this ALL the time

I’ll hold my hands up to this too!

I’m sure most folk do, but let me ask all of you who have had a peek a hypothetical question..

You’ve accepted their invite once they’ve logged off at night, you have a sneaky peek at their pics, nothing weird in there just clearer face pics, but you aren’t attracted, so you just unfriend them before they wake up in the morning... now, do you leave it at that or do you message them to tell them you accepted it when they were asleep, looked around their private pics, decide you didn’t fancy them, then unfriended them? hell NO! I don't contact them again lol if they send a random invite that's the chance they take

Oh yeah with randoms of course. No I meant someone you’d chatted to, but not seen their face clearly. Would you admit to the sneaky peak when messaging to say ‘not for me thanks’, or just leave it like you never accepted the friend invite in the first place leave it as if I never looked "

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour

Have 4 friends 2 I've met 2 I chat and want to meet don't do random friends

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