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By *cottish_trucker_dave OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

This place is so hard for a guy

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By *luteguyMan
over a year ago

Here and There

No it isn’t

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

More so for guys who dont have pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its that hard even getting a reply is as good as getting a meet

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By *rlo67Man
over a year ago

Dumfries

It is hard in the sense that single straight men greatly outnumber single women who can therefore be very selective. But don’t despair: get some pictures, take advice, think carefully about the messages you send. And be patient.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More so for guys who don't have pics."

This. At least put up one picture. From what I've learned being alive everyone loves chips. So even a plate of chips would entice them in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No it isn’t "

Definitely agree

You need to honest on here in what you want and what your looking for. Clear n concise on your profile and some decent pics, no cock. Use the forums, the chat rooms n go to socials or parties.

My profile is actually too long and will chase away certain people but that's me and it works for what I want n looking for. Make the profile about you to show you as a person and as they said in 'field of dreams' 'build it and they will come'

Good luck OP and always, always be positive

Regards Peter

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"This place is so hard for a guy"

Yep your right better just give up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It definitely getting alot harder to get any replies or meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This place is so hard for a guy

Yep your right better just give up "

More for you ehhh

You nit fed up with all the women yet.

Remember am yer pal, pass any my way

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

I don’t think it’s hard for the guys that make an effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No it isn’t

Definitely agree

You need to honest on here in what you want and what your looking for. Clear n concise on your profile and some decent pics, no cock. Use the forums, the chat rooms n go to socials or parties.

My profile is actually too long and will chase away certain people but that's me and it works for what I want n looking for. Make the profile about you to show you as a person and as they said in 'field of dreams' 'build it and they will come'

Good luck OP and always, always be positive

Regards Peter "

This!

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"This place is so hard for a guy

Yep your right better just give up

More for you ehhh

You nit fed up with all the women yet.

Remember am yer pal, pass any my way "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This place is so hard for a guy"

I'd actually say delete your account, over a year and never met anyone!!! Think that means zero effort from you and you'll never ever get a meet, so unclog the system buddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This place is so hard for a guy

I'd actually say delete your account, over a year and never met anyone!!! Think that means zero effort from you and you'll never ever get a meet, so unclog the system buddy"

There's a fair bit of truth in this. Over a year on the site with no meets means many women will just regard you as a time waster. It's harsh but that's just the way it is

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

It's the summer as well ladies have their families , holidays and setting the world to rights over gin's or prosecco . When school holidays are over it will get back to normal I hope .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This place is so hard for a guy"

That’s because your profile is shite. Harsh but true.

Maybe you need to put some effort into it in order to get the rewards?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To quote Coldplay, no body said this was easy!

I've tried arranging a mfm this week and failed, but I didn't expect to click my fingers and find a suitable so I'm not disappointed

Expect nothing, anything else is a bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is for guys who have no pics and put in little effort! I know guys who do bloody “fab” with meeting girls. X

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill

It’s not hard for guys who have a decent profile and are willing to get themselves along to clubs or socials to get their face out there. Unfortunately some people have a bad reputation that follows them despite frequent new profiles, hence the difficulty.

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

There's guys who do put the effort in, who fill out their profile, put pics up, who try to be witty and polite, honest in what they want when messaging.

Yet, still messages deleted without reading or no reply, sometimes replied but rudely.

Please don't assume we don't try or put in the effort on here, we do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's guys who do put the effort in, who fill out their profile, put pics up, who try to be witty and polite, honest in what they want when messaging.

Yet, still messages deleted without reading or no reply, sometimes replied but rudely.

Please don't assume we don't try or put in the effort on here, we do.

"

Don't think anyone was implying we're all a waste of space, but if you haven't been privi to see a girls in box (pardon the pun) they are bombarded with msgs from the biggest retards you can imagine, for every 50 dip shits that msg there's one of the good guys, so the good guys get missed due to volume not ignorance!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"This place is so hard for a guy"
if the shop window is empty there is nothing of interest to entice someone in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is for guys who have no pics and put in little effort! I know guys who do bloody “fab” with meeting girls. X"

oh aye, gonny ask them to seed me some tips

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By *ustcantgetenuf50Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"This place is so hard for a guyif the shop window is empty there is nothing of interest to entice someone in "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This place is so hard for a guy"

OP, you've also got to factor in that some guys have fake female profiles as well just to bam folk up.

Which I think is absolutely shocking, btw.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This place is so hard for a guy

OP, you've also got to factor in that some guys have fake female profiles as well just to bam folk up.

Which I think is absolutely shocking, btw. "

Bam folk up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use the force son.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's guys who do put the effort in, who fill out their profile, put pics up, who try to be witty and polite, honest in what they want when messaging.

Yet, still messages deleted without reading or no reply, sometimes replied but rudely.

Please don't assume we don't try or put in the effort on here, we do.

Don't think anyone was implying we're all a waste of space, but if you haven't been privi to see a girls in box (pardon the pun) they are bombarded with msgs from the biggest retards you can imagine, for every 50 dip shits that msg there's one of the good guys, so the good guys get missed due to volume not ignorance!"

Is that what she told you?...Well if it makes you feel better son

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"This place is so hard for a guy

OP, you've also got to factor in that some guys have fake female profiles as well just to bam folk up.

Which I think is absolutely shocking, btw. "

And vice versa. Wouldn't say it was shocking though , more sad. But your right .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This place is so hard for a guy

OP, you've also got to factor in that some guys have fake female profiles as well just to bam folk up.

Which I think is absolutely shocking, btw.

And vice versa. Wouldn't say it was shocking though , more sad. But your right . "

*you're

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This place is so hard for a guy

OP, you've also got to factor in that some guys have fake female profiles as well just to bam folk up.

Which I think is absolutely shocking, btw.

Bam folk up "

Lots of folk get bammed up very easily. It's always amusing to see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its that hard even getting a reply is as good as getting a meet "

Do you get a flutter of excitement when your renewal message pops into your inbox?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's guys who do put the effort in, who fill out their profile, put pics up, who try to be witty and polite, honest in what they want when messaging.

Yet, still messages deleted without reading or no reply, sometimes replied but rudely.

Please don't assume we don't try or put in the effort on here, we do.

Don't think anyone was implying we're all a waste of space, but if you haven't been privi to see a girls in box (pardon the pun) they are bombarded with msgs from the biggest retards you can imagine, for every 50 dip shits that msg there's one of the good guys, so the good guys get missed due to volume not ignorance!

Is that what she told you?...Well if it makes you feel better son "

Mum! What have I told you about acknowledging me on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's guys who do put the effort in, who fill out their profile, put pics up, who try to be witty and polite, honest in what they want when messaging.

Yet, still messages deleted without reading or no reply, sometimes replied but rudely.

Please don't assume we don't try or put in the effort on here, we do.

Don't think anyone was implying we're all a waste of space, but if you haven't been privi to see a girls in box (pardon the pun) they are bombarded with msgs from the biggest retards you can imagine, for every 50 dip shits that msg there's one of the good guys, so the good guys get missed due to volume not ignorance!

Is that what she told you?...Well if it makes you feel better son

Mum! What have I told you about acknowledging me on here "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s only hard if your looking for it to be easy it’s challenging at times but I like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This place is so hard for a guy"

Your profile is another below average male profile in the mists of thousands.. oh and I said below average, that's only slightly better than most male. profiles!!

Nothing particularly s_ands out in it.

Nothing particularly entices ladies to go weak at the knees.

So unless you make the effort, you are going to get zip,nada,zero back out of it..

But have a nice day.

Mistress Amelia

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"Its that hard even getting a reply is as good as getting a meet

Do you get a flutter of excitement when your renewal message pops into your inbox? "

Funnily enough I do then a tinge of disappointment when I remember I've just renewed lol

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