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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

*Edit*

Not aimed at all of you but for the majority...... Have a bit of tact and dignity. Desperation and pushy cocky bullshit actually puts me off never mind my missus. We know we are both slutty and absolutely love it within our own understanding of it. We share our stuff on snapchat cause its fun letting people see what we get up to, but having some fuckdribble thinking that's an automatic right to a meet? Stroll on! Unfortunately thats about 90% of the mentality on here! Swinging aint just about getting your hole its about understanding why the other person/couple on here wants theirs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well put

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well put "

Pure d*unken rant but thanks I thought so too

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By *exy gentMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

Couldn't have put it any better, well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s really quite sad that it should be necessary to make this kind of public announcement. It’s even more sad to read that that is the attitude of my fellow singletons. It’s evidently a mindset which has been adopted and no-one or nothing has given these guys a reality check. Perhaps it’s a case of, “it’s a sex site. I’m here for sex. I expect to have sex, as a member in entitled to it”.

In this age of having pretty much anything we want at the push of a button, it’s probably symptomatic of the, “anything, anywhere, right NOW, me me me meeeee” attitude now rife in society. Just because we want it, we think we’re entitled to it and for anyone to say otherwise is an infringement of our rights as (sorry to use the word) snowflakes or more evolved human beings.

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Is it possible they feel encouraged to prove their mettle after reading your bio?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use the delete button like the rest of us do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Use the delete button like the rest of us do? "

Totally unrelated to the op...but you'd have loved the doctor I saw on Monday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*Edit*

Not aimed at all of you but for the majority...... Have a bit of tact and dignity. Desperation and pushy cocky bullshit actually puts me off never mind my missus. We know we are both slutty and absolutely love it within our own understanding of it. We share our stuff on snapchat cause its fun letting people see what we get up to, but having some fuckdribble thinking that's an automatic right to a meet? Stroll on! Unfortunately thats about 90% of the mentality on here! Swinging aint just about getting your hole its about understanding why the other person/couple on here wants theirs! "

Well said. I get guys contacting me with a similar mindset and that's with my rather conservative pics alone!

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

Must be so infuriating that there's loads of guys out there that want to fuck your wife, here, on a site that you've joined for just that reason.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Must be so infuriating that there's loads of guys out there that want to fuck your wife, here, on a site that you've joined for just that reason.

"

No. Its infuriating that there's IDIOTS that think it's their entitlement to be pushy seedy sleazy pricks because we are an open minded couple. Do not doubt for a second you're one of them with that small minded comment

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Must be so infuriating that there's loads of guys out there that want to fuck your wife, here, on a site that you've joined for just that reason.

"

On the other hand youre comment is most welcome... you've just publicly and irrevocably proven our point and shown the type of message you'd send to a couple or female that rejected you. Well done

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Use the delete button like the rest of us do?

Totally unrelated to the op...but you'd have loved the doctor I saw on Monday "

Thats all well and good but when you make a bad judgement and share contact details to arrange a meet for the guy to then become a wankjob? Not so easy then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Use the delete button like the rest of us do?

Totally unrelated to the op...but you'd have loved the doctor I saw on Monday

Thats all well and good but when you make a bad judgement and share contact details to arrange a meet for the guy to then become a wankjob? Not so easy then"

Make better judgements and save yourself the angst

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Use the delete button like the rest of us do?

Totally unrelated to the op...but you'd have loved the doctor I saw on Monday

Thats all well and good but when you make a bad judgement and share contact details to arrange a meet for the guy to then become a wankjob? Not so easy then"

particularly if home address has been given.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Use the delete button like the rest of us do?

Totally unrelated to the op...but you'd have loved the doctor I saw on Monday

Thats all well and good but when you make a bad judgement and share contact details to arrange a meet for the guy to then become a wankjob? Not so easy then

Make better judgements and save yourself the angst "

Please do share with us all how, as a human being, you are able to somehow always make the right judgement. You must be pretty invincible?

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Use the delete button like the rest of us do?

Totally unrelated to the op...but you'd have loved the doctor I saw on Monday

Thats all well and good but when you make a bad judgement and share contact details to arrange a meet for the guy to then become a wankjob? Not so easy then

Make better judgements and save yourself the angst

Please do share with us all how, as a human being, you are able to somehow always make the right judgement. You must be pretty invincible? "

That's not quite what I said now, is it?

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

My favorite... advice from a godly male because hes all partnered up.

really cracks me up how folk seem to few a single male as a whole new sub species

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A simple solution is to set filters to block single men from being able to message.

Then you guys can be selective in who you contact.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My favorite... advice from a godly male because hes all partnered up.

really cracks me up how folk seem to few a sibgle male as a whole new sub species "

I was on here as a single male for many years and we are here as a couple to meet ONLY WITH single males but does that mean we deserve sleaze and borderline threats???

My comments are 100% valid knowing how hard it is as a single male to even get a reply and its the arseholes that ruin it for the decent ones. If you disagree with that then you probably shouldn't be here yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A simple solution is to set filters to block single men from being able to message.

Then you guys can be selective in who you contact."

We only meet single males...... That's why we are here. this post was simply to highlight the ones that have the bizarre sense of entitlement that because we are out there with our exhibitionism they deserve a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My favorite... advice from a godly male because hes all partnered up.

really cracks me up how folk seem to few a sibgle male as a whole new sub species

I was on here as a single male for many years and we are here as a couple to meet ONLY WITH single males but does that mean we deserve sleaze and borderline threats???

My comments are 100% valid knowing how hard it is as a single male to even get a reply and its the arseholes that ruin it for the decent ones. If you disagree with that then you probably shouldn't be here yourself "

Arseholes only ruin things for themselves

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Use the delete button like the rest of us do?

Totally unrelated to the op...but you'd have loved the doctor I saw on Monday

Thats all well and good but when you make a bad judgement and share contact details to arrange a meet for the guy to then become a wankjob? Not so easy then

Make better judgements and save yourself the angst

Please do share with us all how, as a human being, you are able to somehow always make the right judgement. You must be pretty invincible?

That's not quite what I said now, is it?"

No not quite but we all make bad judgements now and then regardless of who you are or what the situation is so your point is pretty much moot

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My favorite... advice from a godly male because hes all partnered up.

really cracks me up how folk seem to few a sibgle male as a whole new sub species

I was on here as a single male for many years and we are here as a couple to meet ONLY WITH single males but does that mean we deserve sleaze and borderline threats???

My comments are 100% valid knowing how hard it is as a single male to even get a reply and its the arseholes that ruin it for the decent ones. If you disagree with that then you probably shouldn't be here yourself

Arseholes only ruin things for themselves "

I disagree. One areshole is all it takes to kill a mood you'd set, plans you had, ideas you wanted to try. And put you off wanting to get into a similar situation. So no. They ruin it for everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Use the delete button like the rest of us do?

Totally unrelated to the op...but you'd have loved the doctor I saw on Monday

Thats all well and good but when you make a bad judgement and share contact details to arrange a meet for the guy to then become a wankjob? Not so easy then

Make better judgements and save yourself the angst

Please do share with us all how, as a human being, you are able to somehow always make the right judgement. You must be pretty invincible?

That's not quite what I said now, is it?

No not quite but we all make bad judgements now and then regardless of who you are or what the situation is so your point is pretty much moot"

That's not the point I made though

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"My favorite... advice from a godly male because hes all partnered up.

really cracks me up how folk seem to few a sibgle male as a whole new sub species

I was on here as a single male for many years and we are here as a couple to meet ONLY WITH single males but does that mean we deserve sleaze and borderline threats???

My comments are 100% valid knowing how hard it is as a single male to even get a reply and its the arseholes that ruin it for the decent ones. If you disagree with that then you probably shouldn't be here yourself "
nope your comments are not valid.

if you dont want sleaze and borderline threats stop accepting folk who do this

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My favorite... advice from a godly male because hes all partnered up.

really cracks me up how folk seem to few a sibgle male as a whole new sub species

I was on here as a single male for many years and we are here as a couple to meet ONLY WITH single males but does that mean we deserve sleaze and borderline threats???

My comments are 100% valid knowing how hard it is as a single male to even get a reply and its the arseholes that ruin it for the decent ones. If you disagree with that then you probably shouldn't be here yourself nope your comments are not valid.

if you dont want sleaze and borderline threats stop accepting folk who do this "

How are you supposed to know until it happens? We aren't fucking psychic? You chat. Guy seems sound. You arrange a meet. Happy days. You swap numbers because you're in a different country and its easier to txt. He becomes pushy. Withholds his number after you block him. Messages from a different one. You have no clue really do you? Was this our fault aye?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A simple solution is to set filters to block single men from being able to message.

Then you guys can be selective in who you contact.

We only meet single males...... That's why we are here. this post was simply to highlight the ones that have the bizarre sense of entitlement that because we are out there with our exhibitionism they deserve a meet"

And filtering messages from single males doesn't stop you meeting them, it just stops you being inundated from people that aren't suitable, who feel entitled and send sleazy messages.

You then take the time to contact the single male profiles who interest you. The only downside is you have to put the effort in to find suitable males.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Use the delete button like the rest of us do?

Totally unrelated to the op...but you'd have loved the doctor I saw on Monday

Thats all well and good but when you make a bad judgement and share contact details to arrange a meet for the guy to then become a wankjob? Not so easy then

Make better judgements and save yourself the angst

Please do share with us all how, as a human being, you are able to somehow always make the right judgement. You must be pretty invincible?

That's not quite what I said now, is it?

No not quite but we all make bad judgements now and then regardless of who you are or what the situation is so your point is pretty much moot

That's not the point I made though"

What was it then? Because you're really not making any sense.

Your advice: make better judgements

Our reply: tell us how

You're reply: thats not what i meant.

Aye ok then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My favorite... advice from a godly male because hes all partnered up.

really cracks me up how folk seem to few a sibgle male as a whole new sub species

I was on here as a single male for many years and we are here as a couple to meet ONLY WITH single males but does that mean we deserve sleaze and borderline threats???

My comments are 100% valid knowing how hard it is as a single male to even get a reply and its the arseholes that ruin it for the decent ones. If you disagree with that then you probably shouldn't be here yourself nope your comments are not valid.

if you dont want sleaze and borderline threats stop accepting folk who do this

How are you supposed to know until it happens? We aren't fucking psychic? You chat. Guy seems sound. You arrange a meet. Happy days. You swap numbers because you're in a different country and its easier to txt. He becomes pushy. Withholds his number after you block him. Messages from a different one. You have no clue really do you? Was this our fault aye?"

We all learn from our mistakes, its not your fault if it happens once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A simple solution is to set filters to block single men from being able to message.

Then you guys can be selective in who you contact.

We only meet single males...... That's why we are here. this post was simply to highlight the ones that have the bizarre sense of entitlement that because we are out there with our exhibitionism they deserve a meet

And filtering messages from single males doesn't stop you meeting them, it just stops you being inundated from people that aren't suitable, who feel entitled and send sleazy messages.

You then take the time to contact the single male profiles who interest you. The only downside is you have to put the effort in to find suitable males. "

Yes, you would have to put effort in, like anything that’s worth doing. Hopefully it’s time we’ll spent though, and pays dividends in excess of effort expended.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Use the delete button like the rest of us do?

Totally unrelated to the op...but you'd have loved the doctor I saw on Monday

Thats all well and good but when you make a bad judgement and share contact details to arrange a meet for the guy to then become a wankjob? Not so easy then

Make better judgements and save yourself the angst

Please do share with us all how, as a human being, you are able to somehow always make the right judgement. You must be pretty invincible?

That's not quite what I said now, is it?

No not quite but we all make bad judgements now and then regardless of who you are or what the situation is so your point is pretty much moot

That's not the point I made though

What was it then? Because you're really not making any sense.

Your advice: make better judgements

Our reply: tell us how

You're reply: thats not what i meant.

Aye ok then"

What you actually asked was how to always make the 'right' judgement, not a better one as I suggested

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A simple solution is to set filters to block single men from being able to message.

Then you guys can be selective in who you contact.

We only meet single males...... That's why we are here. this post was simply to highlight the ones that have the bizarre sense of entitlement that because we are out there with our exhibitionism they deserve a meet

And filtering messages from single males doesn't stop you meeting them, it just stops you being inundated from people that aren't suitable, who feel entitled and send sleazy messages.

You then take the time to contact the single male profiles who interest you. The only downside is you have to put the effort in to find suitable males. "

We have lots of filters on... age, veri, newbies etc. Its not fool proof. This isn't to fucking slate single guys for gods sake it was a message to hopefully show guys that just because people are here looking for fun it doesn't mean they can intimidate. No idea why this is turning into a fight with people the post was a pointedly valid one based on a recent experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Amen, and hopefully here endeth the lesson.

That all got rather messy.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"My favorite... advice from a godly male because hes all partnered up.

really cracks me up how folk seem to few a sibgle male as a whole new sub species

I was on here as a single male for many years and we are here as a couple to meet ONLY WITH single males but does that mean we deserve sleaze and borderline threats???

My comments are 100% valid knowing how hard it is as a single male to even get a reply and its the arseholes that ruin it for the decent ones. If you disagree with that then you probably shouldn't be here yourself nope your comments are not valid.

if you dont want sleaze and borderline threats stop accepting folk who do this

How are you supposed to know until it happens? We aren't fucking psychic? You chat. Guy seems sound. You arrange a meet. Happy days. You swap numbers because you're in a different country and its easier to txt. He becomes pushy. Withholds his number after you block him. Messages from a different one. You have no clue really do you? Was this our fault aye?"
what I take from what you have written here is your method is at fault change that you may get on better.

another lirtle nugget for you im not the one complaining about folk acting like cockwombles so perhaps im happy with the methods I use to meet folk ergo I must have a clue

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Use the delete button like the rest of us do?

Totally unrelated to the op...but you'd have loved the doctor I saw on Monday

Thats all well and good but when you make a bad judgement and share contact details to arrange a meet for the guy to then become a wankjob? Not so easy then

Make better judgements and save yourself the angst

Please do share with us all how, as a human being, you are able to somehow always make the right judgement. You must be pretty invincible?

That's not quite what I said now, is it?

No not quite but we all make bad judgements now and then regardless of who you are or what the situation is so your point is pretty much moot

That's not the point I made though

What was it then? Because you're really not making any sense.

Your advice: make better judgements

Our reply: tell us how

You're reply: thats not what i meant.

Aye ok then

What you actually asked was how to always make the 'right' judgement, not a better one as I suggested"

Lol. Seriously? Sorry but right and better? thats one in the same thing really. Can we please stop this anyway?? we didn't post this looking for a fight we come to the forum all the time to post opinions, fun stuff, questions and this is now being taken totally out of context. We don't want to argue with people!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The post is just a whinge about single guys. You just don't like the suggestions offered about how to avoid the ones you're whingeing about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Own your words and don't bemoan what you beget

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My favorite... advice from a godly male because hes all partnered up.

really cracks me up how folk seem to few a sibgle male as a whole new sub species

I was on here as a single male for many years and we are here as a couple to meet ONLY WITH single males but does that mean we deserve sleaze and borderline threats???

My comments are 100% valid knowing how hard it is as a single male to even get a reply and its the arseholes that ruin it for the decent ones. If you disagree with that then you probably shouldn't be here yourself nope your comments are not valid.

if you dont want sleaze and borderline threats stop accepting folk who do this

How are you supposed to know until it happens? We aren't fucking psychic? You chat. Guy seems sound. You arrange a meet. Happy days. You swap numbers because you're in a different country and its easier to txt. He becomes pushy. Withholds his number after you block him. Messages from a different one. You have no clue really do you? Was this our fault aye?what I take from what you have written here is your method is at fault change that you may get on better.

another lirtle nugget for you im not the one complaining about folk acting like cockwombles so perhaps im happy with the methods I use to meet folk ergo I must have a clue"

Already said we made a bad judgement. Happens to everyone. For the last time the post was to highlight that people shouldn't have a sense of entitlement just because you are a dirty couple. Fuck sake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the end of the day, start of the day or middle of the day, the couple are looking for single guys so its easy to understand they will get all manner of emails from guys.

If some are disrespectful, nasty, egits or just not nice people then the couple have won a watch, meaning they know that they should avoid them straight away. Then hopefully they are left with the genuine ones and out of them they have to decide who interest them. Hopefully out of those there wont be any timewasters but it does not guarantee they are and if they do cancel it might be a genuine reason

Just good luck, you've had your rant at the stat and I believe its justified due to the sound of the messages you receive.

Good luck in picking the right ones .

p.s. if getting too much hassle then I do think, blocking all guys and looking through the profiles that interest you will be best but you have your own ideas so good luck

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Folk are answering your question and replys to their answers.

perhaps read the thread back if you constantly call folks answers and reasonings into questions they will often reply.

this isnt in your term a "fight" its a diffrence of opinion.

Your post started of about single males and awee lesson for them.

Its now about FOLK and entitlement your words

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"At the end of the day, start of the day or middle of the day, the couple are looking for single guys so its easy to understand they will get all manner of emails from guys.

If some are disrespectful, nasty, egits or just not nice people then the couple have won a watch, meaning they know that they should avoid them straight away. Then hopefully they are left with the genuine ones and out of them they have to decide who interest them. Hopefully out of those there wont be any timewasters but it does not guarantee they are and if they do cancel it might be a genuine reason

Just good luck, you've had your rant at the stat and I believe its justified due to the sound of the messages you receive.

Good luck in picking the right ones .

p.s. if getting too much hassle then I do think, blocking all guys and looking through the profiles that interest you will be best but you have your own ideas so good luck"

Thank you for seeing our point. In this case the initial messages on here were great. Perfect match in terms of what we wanted. We were looking forward to a meet. Then it went downhill because we were out for dinner and didn't reply.

Had the guy kept his tact and not got pushy and wankish it would have went ahead and THAT was the message we were trying to convey not a whinge against single guys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your post has perhaps not come across to others the way you had intended it too OP.. it does read to me as a moan and groan about the attitude and entitlement projected by some single males on the site. As others have said perhaps a change in the way you select potential meets would help.. also the issue with texts etc why don't you consider buying a cheap pay as you go phone which you can use for arranging meets/chatting to potential playmates that way your not giving out your personal number. If said person does take umbridge and send silly messages, calling from blocked numbers etc you have the option to switch it off without it effecting your day to day use of your personal mobile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*Edit*

Not aimed at all of you but for the majority...... Have a bit of tact and dignity. Desperation and pushy cocky bullshit actually puts me off never mind my missus. We know we are both slutty and absolutely love it within our own understanding of it. We share our stuff on snapchat cause its fun letting people see what we get up to, but having some fuckdribble thinking that's an automatic right to a meet? Stroll on! Unfortunately thats about 90% of the mentality on here! Swinging aint just about getting your hole its about understanding why the other person/couple on here wants theirs! "

Thanks very much for your most enlightened view.

I'm sure dozens and dozens of single guys will really, really appreciate this post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a free sex site so you're going to get the occasional arsehole contacting you. If you realise that early on it makes for a much happier experience. I do agree that maybe you should look at your selection process though if you're picking so many arseholes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think the arseholes outweigh decent pervs bu bout 20/1. Can there no be a page that can be updated for the arseholes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its a free sex site so you're going to get the occasional arsehole contacting you. If you realise that early on it makes for a much happier experience. I do agree that maybe you should look at your selection process though if you're picking so many arseholes "

Agree. But I never give numbers out, not on Snapchat or Kik and use the block button in abundance!

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

It sounds like there are more specific circumstances around the incident OP is referring to ..ie the guy is in another country and turned into an entitled fuck when you were waiting for the bill

Without more appreciation of these events we can only talk in generalities

With two sides to every story is it possible he is on another forum talking about timewasters

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock


"Must be so infuriating that there's loads of guys out there that want to fuck your wife, here, on a site that you've joined for just that reason.

On the other hand youre comment is most welcome... you've just publicly and irrevocably proven our point and shown the type of message you'd send to a couple or female that rejected you. Well done "

Well that's me pigeonholed cos I've dared to suggest that a couple who are on the site specifically for single males should dry their eyes about messages from said males who's interested in fulfilling your fantasies.

There are knobheads on the site as there is in the big world out there, believe me, I know realise that.

You only need to block single males, make an effort and contact ones that you've an interest in, simples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find that on here I have to be insanely picky when chatting to people! Way pickier than I’d be in real life because all communication is via message and who knows if their pics are real.

While this is a swinging site, I’d still expect to be treated with respect and spoken to in an appropriate manner.

I’ve spoken to really lovely guys on here but yeah some of the messages I receive are at best disgusting and at worst, borderline offensive!

Unfortunately there is no way to avoid it. Like I said there are some lovely single guys out there but you just need to take the arseholes with the princes and move on!

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley


"*Edit*

Not aimed at all of you but for the majority...... Have a bit of tact and dignity. Desperation and pushy cocky bullshit actually puts me off never mind my missus. We know we are both slutty and absolutely love it within our own understanding of it. We share our stuff on snapchat cause its fun letting people see what we get up to, but having some fuckdribble thinking that's an automatic right to a meet? Stroll on! Unfortunately thats about 90% of the mentality on here! Swinging aint just about getting your hole its about understanding why the other person/couple on here wants theirs! "

Maybe you should reconsider what pics you show on your profile if you don’t want the type of single guy that you describe messaging you.

There’s always going to be the good, the bad and the ugly on here. How you deal with them is up to you. Using snapchat obviously suits your exhibitionist side and will always attract guys who want to see pics. Be warned they can still take screenshots of your snapchats.

Perhaps you should be careful about how you communicate with meets and meet in a public place before going to yours.

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over a year ago


"I find that on here I have to be insanely picky when chatting to people! Way pickier than I’d be in real life because all communication is via message and who knows if their pics are real.

While this is a swinging site, I’d still expect to be treated with respect and spoken to in an appropriate manner.

I’ve spoken to really lovely guys on here but yeah some of the messages I receive are at best disgusting and at worst, borderline offensive!

Unfortunately there is no way to avoid it. Like I said there are some lovely single guys out there but you just need to take the arseholes with the princes and move on!

"

Google reverse image can help with fake photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*Edit*

Not aimed at all of you but for the majority...... Have a bit of tact and dignity. Desperation and pushy cocky bullshit actually puts me off never mind my missus. We know we are both slutty and absolutely love it within our own understanding of it. We share our stuff on snapchat cause its fun letting people see what we get up to, but having some fuckdribble thinking that's an automatic right to a meet? Stroll on! Unfortunately thats about 90% of the mentality on here! Swinging aint just about getting your hole its about understanding why the other person/couple on here wants theirs!

Maybe you should reconsider what pics you show on your profile if you don’t want the type of single guy that you describe messaging you.

There’s always going to be the good, the bad and the ugly on here. How you deal with them is up to you. Using snapchat obviously suits your exhibitionist side and will always attract guys who want to see pics. Be warned they can still take screenshots of your snapchats.

Perhaps you should be careful about how you communicate with meets and meet in a public place before going to yours.

"

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