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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi!

Since I'm pretty much new to swinging and this site I look for some genuine advice on my profile.

It may be tempting to say I should add public photos, but I have good reasons not to do it and I'd feel more comfortable sharing them in PMs.

So now, what do people usually do next? I'm a rather shy guy, at least at first, not quite sure if I should get straight to messaging people or perhaps go to chat?

Given all that I'll really appreciate any tiny piece of genuine advice (other than to put pics on my profile )

Thanks in advance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you not even put up a torso pic? You say (on your profile) that you don't have any tattoos so unless you have any other unusual physical characteristics, it's highly unlikely someone will identify you.

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Can you not even put up a torso pic? You say (on your profile) that you don't have any tattoos so unless you have any other unusual physical characteristics, it's highly unlikely someone will identify you. "

She’s right...

lots of women block guys with no profile pic. You are selling yourself to a smaller audience immediately by not having a pic.

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

I’m sorry to say but you at going to struggle. There are literally thousands of guys on here not many women are going to look at your photo-less profile and like it enough to send you mail.

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

* Are not at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You been on the site 9 months... not exactly new..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Joined 9 month ago and not had your Nat King Cole ?

Delete account mate. Your welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Joined 9 month ago and not had your Nat King Cole ?

Delete account mate. Your welcome "

Brutal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Joined 9 month ago and not had your Nat King Cole ?

Delete account mate. Your welcome

Brutal "

He wanted genuine advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You been on the site 9 months... not exactly new.."

Yeah, well, I created an account 9 months ago and didn't come back here until yesterday really

Thanks for all the advice so far, I'm aware I'm limiting my audience by not having profile pics. It's actually encouraging to here people repeatedly pointing that out, may seriously consider it.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Dont admit to being shy. I find that a turn off as like my men to be confident like me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont admit to being shy. I find that a turn off as like my men to be confident like me."

ffs, that's me out then, I'm well shy

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Dont admit to being shy. I find that a turn off as like my men to be confident like me.

ffs, that's me out then, I'm well shy "

Ppppffffffttttt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aye...so ..

Scrap the current profile, get a torso pic, new wee bio about how confident you are and you'll be beating us off with a shitey stick.

You can thank me later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi!

Since I'm pretty much new to swinging and this site I look for some genuine advice on my profile.

It may be tempting to say I should add public photos, but I have good reasons not to do it and I'd feel more comfortable sharing them in PMs.

So now, what do people usually do next? I'm a rather shy guy, at least at first, not quite sure if I should get straight to messaging people or perhaps go to chat?

Given all that I'll really appreciate any tiny piece of genuine advice (other than to put pics on my profile )

Thanks in advance "

How close have you came to meeting someone off the site?

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