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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Surley alarm bells start to ring when a stranger wants you to fuk them bareback on here!!!

For a single guy it’s hard graft to get regular decent meets but I’m concerned with the bareback request after 2 messages

‘Nor for me thanks’

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Just refuse the meet and move on. It's no big deal

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Just refuse the meet and move on. It's no big deal"
gotta make a post to highlight how safety concious you are compared to everyone else ya know

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By *e gentle 100Woman
over a year ago

Bathgate

I had a meet one time with a guy and he tried to penetrate me without a condom and tried to force my legs open and said he was clean, I told him "I don't care if Ur as clean and the fuckin bloody queen", condoms are a must so he put a condom on, then 2nd round same happened again as I told him he was due to getting a punch in the face, I told him where to go and left, why feel the need for unprotected sex I don't know and he had a bloody cheek to ask me to meet again time and time again, no way xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a meet one time with a guy and he tried to penetrate me without a condom and tried to force my legs open and said he was clean, I told him "I don't care if Ur as clean and the fuckin bloody queen", condoms are a must so he put a condom on, then 2nd round same happened again as I told him he was due to getting a punch in the face, I told him where to go and left, why feel the need for unprotected sex I don't know and he had a bloody cheek to ask me to meet again time and time again, no way xx"

You should have told him to bolt the first time he tried x

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I had a meet one time with a guy and he tried to penetrate me without a condom and tried to force my legs open and said he was clean, I told him "I don't care if Ur as clean and the fuckin bloody queen", condoms are a must so he put a condom on, then 2nd round same happened again as I told him he was due to getting a punch in the face, I told him where to go and left, why feel the need for unprotected sex I don't know and he had a bloody cheek to ask me to meet again time and time again, no way xx"

I woulda fucked him out the door the first time he tried

K x

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By *e gentle 100Woman
over a year ago

Bathgate


"I had a meet one time with a guy and he tried to penetrate me without a condom and tried to force my legs open and said he was clean, I told him "I don't care if Ur as clean and the fuckin bloody queen", condoms are a must so he put a condom on, then 2nd round same happened again as I told him he was due to getting a punch in the face, I told him where to go and left, why feel the need for unprotected sex I don't know and he had a bloody cheek to ask me to meet again time and time again, no way xx

I woulda fucked him out the door the first time he tried

K x"

I was at his house on my own late at night and when he knew I was pissed off he put the condom on but second time I got up dressed and away as he tried to sweet talk to me round, we all learn by our mistakes and I've never let it happen again xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a meet one time with a guy and he tried to penetrate me without a condom and tried to force my legs open and said he was clean, I told him "I don't care if Ur as clean and the fuckin bloody queen", condoms are a must so he put a condom on, then 2nd round same happened again as I told him he was due to getting a punch in the face, I told him where to go and left, why feel the need for unprotected sex I don't know and he had a bloody cheek to ask me to meet again time and time again, no way xx

I woulda fucked him out the door the first time he tried

K x

I was at his house on my own late at night and when he knew I was pissed off he put the condom on but second time I got up dressed and away as he tried to sweet talk to me round, we all learn by our mistakes and I've never let it happen again xx"

As soon as he tried to force my legs open I'd have heard alarm bells, he'd have heard ringing in his ears from my slap and I would have bolted. That reeks of failing to understand consent, and by allowing it to happen its probably only encouraged him to try again with other women

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By *ullie-kingMan
over a year ago

newmains

I struggle to keep it up after a wee bit using one, but still wouldn't go without. No way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a meet one time with a guy and he tried to penetrate me without a condom and tried to force my legs open and said he was clean, I told him "I don't care if Ur as clean and the fuckin bloody queen", condoms are a must so he put a condom on, then 2nd round same happened again as I told him he was due to getting a punch in the face, I told him where to go and left, why feel the need for unprotected sex I don't know and he had a bloody cheek to ask me to meet again time and time again, no way xx

I woulda fucked him out the door the first time he tried

K x

I was at his house on my own late at night and when he knew I was pissed off he put the condom on but second time I got up dressed and away as he tried to sweet talk to me round, we all learn by our mistakes and I've never let it happen again xx

As soon as he tried to force my legs open I'd have heard alarm bells, he'd have heard ringing in his ears from my slap and I would have bolted. That reeks of failing to understand consent, and by allowing it to happen its probably only encouraged him to try again with other women "

Steady on - the poster is in no way responsible for what that prick decides to go on and do with other women !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a meet one time with a guy and he tried to penetrate me without a condom and tried to force my legs open and said he was clean, I told him "I don't care if Ur as clean and the fuckin bloody queen", condoms are a must so he put a condom on, then 2nd round same happened again as I told him he was due to getting a punch in the face, I told him where to go and left, why feel the need for unprotected sex I don't know and he had a bloody cheek to ask me to meet again time and time again, no way xx

I woulda fucked him out the door the first time he tried

K x

I was at his house on my own late at night and when he knew I was pissed off he put the condom on but second time I got up dressed and away as he tried to sweet talk to me round, we all learn by our mistakes and I've never let it happen again xx

As soon as he tried to force my legs open I'd have heard alarm bells, he'd have heard ringing in his ears from my slap and I would have bolted. That reeks of failing to understand consent, and by allowing it to happen its probably only encouraged him to try again with other women

Steady on - the poster is in no way responsible for what that prick decides to go on and do with other women ! "

I never said responsible, he should never have attempted it but she should never have allowed him to carry on. It gives tbe wrong impression. Its a shame she didn't feel able to stop him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Judging by the majority of profile pics on here,bareback seems to be the choice of many.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People can do what they want tbh, can’t lie I’ve gone bareback sometimes, but lately I do try to keep my health perfect and I’m always aware there are some that aren’t keen on the idea

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By *itznBobz2018Couple
over a year ago

edinburgh


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As soon as he tried to force my legs open I'd have heard alarm bells, he'd have heard ringing in his ears from my slap and I would have bolted. That reeks of failing to understand consent, and by allowing it to happen its probably only encouraged him to try again with other women

Steady on - the poster is in no way responsible for what that prick decides to go on and do with other women !

I never said responsible, he should never have attempted it but she should never have allowed him to carry on. It gives tbe wrong impression. Its a shame she didn't feel able to stop him. "

Wow talk about victim shaming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People can do what they want tbh, can’t lie I’ve gone bareback sometimes, but lately I do try to keep my health perfect and I’m always aware there are some that aren’t keen on the idea "

Before “lately” how many times were you STD infected?

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By *e gentle 100Woman
over a year ago

Bathgate


"I had a meet one time with a guy and he tried to penetrate me without a condom and tried to force my legs open and said he was clean, I told him "I don't care if Ur as clean and the fuckin bloody queen", condoms are a must so he put a condom on, then 2nd round same happened again as I told him he was due to getting a punch in the face, I told him where to go and left, why feel the need for unprotected sex I don't know and he had a bloody cheek to ask me to meet again time and time again, no way xx

I woulda fucked him out the door the first time he tried

K x

I was at his house on my own late at night and when he knew I was pissed off he put the condom on but second time I got up dressed and away as he tried to sweet talk to me round, we all learn by our mistakes and I've never let it happen again xx

As soon as he tried to force my legs open I'd have heard alarm bells, he'd have heard ringing in his ears from my slap and I would have bolted. That reeks of failing to understand consent, and by allowing it to happen its probably only encouraged him to try again with other women

Steady on - the poster is in no way responsible for what that prick decides to go on and do with other women !

I never said responsible, he should never have attempted it but she should never have allowed him to carry on. It gives tbe wrong impression. Its a shame she didn't feel able to stop him. "

I did manage to stop him and made my own choice to carry on with the meet then when he started again I made my own decision to leave as the situation could've turned nasty and we all learn by our mistakes xx

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

It's a handy filter to get rid of undesirables for me

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"I had a meet one time with a guy and he tried to penetrate me without a condom and tried to force my legs open and said he was clean, I told him "I don't care if Ur as clean and the fuckin bloody queen", condoms are a must so he put a condom on, then 2nd round same happened again as I told him he was due to getting a punch in the face, I told him where to go and left, why feel the need for unprotected sex I don't know and he had a bloody cheek to ask me to meet again time and time again, no way xx

I woulda fucked him out the door the first time he tried

K x

I was at his house on my own late at night and when he knew I was pissed off he put the condom on but second time I got up dressed and away as he tried to sweet talk to me round, we all learn by our mistakes and I've never let it happen again xx

As soon as he tried to force my legs open I'd have heard alarm bells, he'd have heard ringing in his ears from my slap and I would have bolted. That reeks of failing to understand consent, and by allowing it to happen its probably only encouraged him to try again with other women

Steady on - the poster is in no way responsible for what that prick decides to go on and do with other women !

I never said responsible, he should never have attempted it but she should never have allowed him to carry on. It gives tbe wrong impression. Its a shame she didn't feel able to stop him.

I did manage to stop him and made my own choice to carry on with the meet then when he started again I made my own decision to leave as the situation could've turned nasty and we all learn by our mistakes xx"

I hope you didnt leave him a good verification

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By *e gentle 100Woman
over a year ago

Bathgate


"I had a meet one time with a guy and he tried to penetrate me without a condom and tried to force my legs open and said he was clean, I told him "I don't care if Ur as clean and the fuckin bloody queen", condoms are a must so he put a condom on, then 2nd round same happened again as I told him he was due to getting a punch in the face, I told him where to go and left, why feel the need for unprotected sex I don't know and he had a bloody cheek to ask me to meet again time and time again, no way xx

I woulda fucked him out the door the first time he tried

K x

I was at his house on my own late at night and when he knew I was pissed off he put the condom on but second time I got up dressed and away as he tried to sweet talk to me round, we all learn by our mistakes and I've never let it happen again xx

As soon as he tried to force my legs open I'd have heard alarm bells, he'd have heard ringing in his ears from my slap and I would have bolted. That reeks of failing to understand consent, and by allowing it to happen its probably only encouraged him to try again with other women

Steady on - the poster is in no way responsible for what that prick decides to go on and do with other women !

I never said responsible, he should never have attempted it but she should never have allowed him to carry on. It gives tbe wrong impression. Its a shame she didn't feel able to stop him.

I did manage to stop him and made my own choice to carry on with the meet then when he started again I made my own decision to leave as the situation could've turned nasty and we all learn by our mistakes xx

I hope you didnt leave him a good verification"

I certainly didn't as I reported him xx

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Each to their own I say

It’s a big old world with lots of kinks and preferences . To me bareback is a preference ....yes it’s risky etc

Look after yourself and let others do as they please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did manage to stop him and made my own choice to carry on with the meet then when he started again I made my own decision to leave as the situation could've turned nasty and we all learn by our mistakes xx"

I think its awful that some are coming in and victim shaming you.. you did nothing wrong and that guy acted like a complete prick. You handled the situation your way and thats all any of us can do.. you convinced him to use a condom, and left when he tried again. Anything the guy goes onto do in the future has nothing to do with your choices on that evening and its disgusting that some people are trying to make you feel bad. xxx

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By *e gentle 100Woman
over a year ago

Bathgate


"I did manage to stop him and made my own choice to carry on with the meet then when he started again I made my own decision to leave as the situation could've turned nasty and we all learn by our mistakes xx

I think its awful that some are coming in and victim shaming you.. you did nothing wrong and that guy acted like a complete prick. You handled the situation your way and thats all any of us can do.. you convinced him to use a condom, and left when he tried again. Anything the guy goes onto do in the future has nothing to do with your choices on that evening and its disgusting that some people are trying to make you feel bad. xxx"

People won't make me feel bad for a choice or choices that I made at the time, not everyone will agree with what I did or didn't do and until Ur in a situation then only u can judge the person, mood and situation is at the time, as long as we learn by what we did or didn't do then that's fine by me. Xx

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

I think bareback is a choice and is certainly MY choice. The operative word is CHOICE and anyone who forces something you don't want deserves a kick in the ball sack. I find it offensive to read that some bloke tried to force open legs how sick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ffs pack it in with victim shaming!! Its disgraceful. As for all the sanctimony about bareback? Plenty of pics on here to prove many folk happy to do it.

I always practise safe sex but I have had a few guys off here turn up without condoms and I'm like really?!!! I have a plentiful supply but those things are expensive!! Please show some manners guys and bring your own!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think anyone could argue with the fact that it IS a gamble. Life is full of gamblers and it's also full of the safe-players. I honestly don't know what the chances of catching something unpleasant from full on vaginal/anal sex are, just as I don't know what the chances are from oral sex with strangers. All's I know is that I happier with the latter rather than the former. I guess you play the odds.

Han Solo: "Never tell me the odds!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had a bareback meet but always will to try 1 if any couple can help me out

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By *ardbob01Man
over a year ago

perth

If a condom is asked for the condom should be woren....anything else is out of order....forcing legs open to have unprotected sex when protected was the order of the day .... not good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For what it’s worth, i do want to chip in here to say it’s not always the guys that are trying to be sneaky and get away without protection.

I remember some time ago having to cause a little bit of a scene in the middle of a bed because the wife of a couple I was visiting was all poised to sit on me, sans condom. I had just laid back and before I knew what was going on she’d gotten on top and was in the process of manoeuvring me inside her.

I had just (foolishly) assumed that a condom was ALWAYS to be worn and if there was any intention to go bareback this would at least have been discussed in advance.

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By *e gentle 100Woman
over a year ago

Bathgate


"For what it’s worth, i do want to chip in here to say it’s not always the guys that are trying to be sneaky and get away without protection.

I remember some time ago having to cause a little bit of a scene in the middle of a bed because the wife of a couple I was visiting was all poised to sit on me, sans condom. I had just laid back and before I knew what was going on she’d gotten on top and was in the process of manoeuvring me inside her.

I had just (foolishly) assumed that a condom was ALWAYS to be worn and if there was any intention to go bareback this would at least have been discussed in advance. "

I agree, some women are just as bad as it's not just the men wanting unprotected sex which to me is not on and everyone's wishes should be respected no matter what the situation, we are all grown consenting adults xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For what it’s worth, i do want to chip in here to say it’s not always the guys that are trying to be sneaky and get away without protection.

I remember some time ago having to cause a little bit of a scene in the middle of a bed because the wife of a couple I was visiting was all poised to sit on me, sans condom. I had just laid back and before I knew what was going on she’d gotten on top and was in the process of manoeuvring me inside her.

I had just (foolishly) assumed that a condom was ALWAYS to be worn and if there was any intention to go bareback this would at least have been discussed in advance.

I agree, some women are just as bad as it's not just the men wanting unprotected sex which to me is not on and everyone's wishes should be respected no matter what the situation, we are all grown consenting adults xx"

Don't forget to respect the wishes of those who choose to go without

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By *e gentle 100Woman
over a year ago

Bathgate


"For what it’s worth, i do want to chip in here to say it’s not always the guys that are trying to be sneaky and get away without protection.

I remember some time ago having to cause a little bit of a scene in the middle of a bed because the wife of a couple I was visiting was all poised to sit on me, sans condom. I had just laid back and before I knew what was going on she’d gotten on top and was in the process of manoeuvring me inside her.

I had just (foolishly) assumed that a condom was ALWAYS to be worn and if there was any intention to go bareback this would at least have been discussed in advance.

I agree, some women are just as bad as it's not just the men wanting unprotected sex which to me is not on and everyone's wishes should be respected no matter what the situation, we are all grown consenting adults xx

Don't forget to respect the wishes of those who choose to go without "

If people go without then that's their choice but they still need to respect people that want to use protection xx

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