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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Right so my issue here is and I don’t know if it’s just me, I take the the time to read women’s profiles try to get a feel for what they are like then you see the usual “No face pic no reply” so I send my face pic as you do....

If I get a reply from said women 9/10 I receive no face pic backkkk. I completely understand it is down to the person and how they feel at the time...but it’s kinda Pot kettle black if one is not sent back surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No...it just means they don't want to

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Like I say it’s fully down to the person what they wish to do....I just feel if the favour is given in a way it can be returned if that person in there bio demands a face pic be sent first?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't give in to demands then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like I say it’s fully down to the person what they wish to do....I just feel if the favour is given in a way it can be returned if that person in there bio demands a face pic be sent first? "

It's up to you if you want to send a face pic, it doesn't mean they are obliged to send one back.

if I decide to send a face pic is because I want to and not because they ask for one on their profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't give in to demands then"

It’s harder than that though...if you want to speak with someone it’s probably the only way you can get half a response!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your right mate. Its double standards,if you give a face pic you should be entitled to one back regardless if she likes you or not, but women hold all the aces and that aint gonna change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your right mate. Its double standards,if you give a face pic you should be entitled to one back regardless if she likes you or not, but women hold all the aces and that aint gonna change. "

That's the second time in as many days I've seen someone post nonsense like this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your right mate. Its double standards,if you give a face pic you should be entitled to one back regardless if she likes you or not, but women hold all the aces and that aint gonna change.

That's the second time in as many days I've seen someone post nonsense like this."

Now now haha no arguments here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your right mate. Its double standards,if you give a face pic you should be entitled to one back regardless if she likes you or not, but women hold all the aces and that aint gonna change.

That's the second time in as many days I've seen someone post nonsense like this."

Nonsense in your opinion but not mine. Pretty sure there aint too many guys profiles that boldly state no face pic, no reply on their description. Why is her privacy more important than his? If you enter into conversation with someone, get to the face pic stage and you send one but dont get one back, thats double standards. Just my view, not on here to fall out with anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your right mate. Its double standards,if you give a face pic you should be entitled to one back regardless if she likes you or not, but women hold all the aces and that aint gonna change. "

Two alarming words in this paragraph;

Entitled, and regardless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your right mate. Its double standards,if you give a face pic you should be entitled to one back regardless if she likes you or not, but women hold all the aces and that aint gonna change.

Two alarming words in this paragraph;

Entitled, and regardless.

"

What's alarming about them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your right mate. Its double standards,if you give a face pic you should be entitled to one back regardless if she likes you or not, but women hold all the aces and that aint gonna change.

Two alarming words in this paragraph;

Entitled, and regardless.

What's alarming about them?"

Everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your right mate. Its double standards,if you give a face pic you should be entitled to one back regardless if she likes you or not, but women hold all the aces and that aint gonna change.

Two alarming words in this paragraph;

Entitled, and regardless.

What's alarming about them?"

If you don't know or can't see from what you've written, then there's no helping you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your right mate. Its double standards,if you give a face pic you should be entitled to one back regardless if she likes you or not, but women hold all the aces and that aint gonna change.

Two alarming words in this paragraph;

Entitled, and regardless.

What's alarming about them?

If you don't know or can't see from what you've written, then there's no helping you. "

Guess there's no helping me then. I just need to bow down to your superior knowledge of the English language.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your right mate. Its double standards,if you give a face pic you should be entitled to one back regardless if she likes you or not, but women hold all the aces and that aint gonna change.

Two alarming words in this paragraph;

Entitled, and regardless.

What's alarming about them?

If you don't know or can't see from what you've written, then there's no helping you.

Guess there's no helping me then. I just need to bow down to your superior knowledge of the English language. "

That would be the smart thing to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your right mate. Its double standards,if you give a face pic you should be entitled to one back regardless if she likes you or not, but women hold all the aces and that aint gonna change.

Two alarming words in this paragraph;

Entitled, and regardless.

What's alarming about them?

If you don't know or can't see from what you've written, then there's no helping you.

Guess there's no helping me then. I just need to bow down to your superior knowledge of the English language.

That would be the smart thing to do.

"

Aye ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your right mate. Its double standards,if you give a face pic you should be entitled to one back regardless if she likes you or not, but women hold all the aces and that aint gonna change.

Two alarming words in this paragraph;

Entitled, and regardless.

What's alarming about them?

If you don't know or can't see from what you've written, then there's no helping you.

Guess there's no helping me then. I just need to bow down to your superior knowledge of the English language.

That would be the smart thing to do.

Aye ok "

Good boy. There's hope for you yet.

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By *egs11ABCWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I don't demand a face pic with 1st message but if someone sends one and he's not my type I don't see the point of returning a face pic as i'm not intending meeting or even keep chatting.

If I get a face pic and decide to chat then I'll send one back simple. If u don't get one back she's prob not interested x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's because we are all complete and utter moose. Count yourself lucky you're not needing to buy a new phone screen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't demand a face pic with 1st message but if someone sends one and he's not my type I don't see the point of returning a face pic as i'm not intending meeting or even keep chatting.

If I get a face pic and decide to chat then I'll send one back simple. If u don't get one back she's prob not interested x"

Yeah, I get this. If a guy randomly sends a face pic without being asked for one, then fine, I dont think he should be entitled to one back. But if the convo goes well, you agree to swap pics, and the one who goes first (usually the guy),doesn't get one back then thats not right.

Hope the wording of this is correct for the English aficionado.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't demand a face pic with 1st message but if someone sends one and he's not my type I don't see the point of returning a face pic as i'm not intending meeting or even keep chatting.

If I get a face pic and decide to chat then I'll send one back simple. If u don't get one back she's prob not interested x

Yeah, I get this. If a guy randomly sends a face pic without being asked for one, then fine, I dont think he should be entitled to one back. But if the convo goes well, you agree to swap pics, and the one who goes first (usually the guy),doesn't get one back then thats not right.

Hope the wording of this is correct for the English aficionado."

if you exchange messages and everything seems well and you say ill send a face pic and you can send one back.

great but if they don't reply then there is nothing you can do and they just might not decide you are for them.

its honestly no big deal, just move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't demand a face pic with 1st message but if someone sends one and he's not my type I don't see the point of returning a face pic as i'm not intending meeting or even keep chatting.

If I get a face pic and decide to chat then I'll send one back simple. If u don't get one back she's prob not interested x

Yeah, I get this. If a guy randomly sends a face pic without being asked for one, then fine, I dont think he should be entitled to one back. But if the convo goes well, you agree to swap pics, and the one who goes first (usually the guy),doesn't get one back then thats not right.

Hope the wording of this is correct for the English aficionado.

if you exchange messages and everything seems well and you say ill send a face pic and you can send one back.

great but if they don't reply then there is nothing you can do and they just might not decide you are for them.

its honestly no big deal, just move on "

I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't agree with profiles demanding face pictures in opening messages of they're hiding behind empty profiles, I pass these types of profile by.

However if someone sends me an unsolicited face picture and I'm not interested there is no chance I'm replying with my own picture. Given the numbers of site users who become nasty after a refusal it's simply a case of being careful.

Why would I want someone with a grudge being able to identify me in public

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your right mate. Its double standards,if you give a face pic you should be entitled to one back regardless if she likes you or not, but women hold all the aces and that aint gonna change.

Two alarming words in this paragraph;

Entitled, and regardless.

What's alarming about them?

Everything "

There's no room for entitlement when it comes to sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'll only send a face pic if we're arranging to meet. It wouldn't matter a jot if the guy had sent his with every fuckin message (Yes, that happened) we still won't send one to someone we're only chatting with

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Alot of men send me face pics with first messages even though i dont request one. I never feel obliged to send one back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send someone a face pic with a first message..

Feck Naw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think woman do hold all the aces on here.

It's no different to real life, guys are more likely to fuck just anything than the majority of women yes, that is merely reflected probably on here.

So what if there are 100 times more males on here than females? Yes it's easier for females to get laid I imagine because of that if they are merely playing a numbers game. And let's not beat about the bush there are a lot of very easy women on here who are looking notches on bedposts and it's totally hypocritical to say otherwise. And I bet a lot of them have had a lot of pretty crap meets whether the respective verifications say that or not.

But if you're looking a quality meet with a decent woman or vice versa, no one holds the aces when it comes to standards, everyone has to sift through the shit!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Right so my issue here is and I don’t know if it’s just me, I take the the time to read women’s profiles try to get a feel for what they are like then you see the usual “No face pic no reply” so I send my face pic as you do....

If I get a reply from said women 9/10 I receive no face pic backkkk. I completely understand it is down to the person and how they feel at the time...but it’s kinda Pot kettle black if one is not sent back surely? "
If men are willing to bow down to womens demands thats upto them .

If you are not then move onto the next non demanding profile.

They say that women have the upper hand on here and in a way they are right but thats only because most men allow it .

If men ignored such a profile then the owner of the profile would have no option than to change how they interact on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think woman do hold all the aces on here.

It's no different to real life, guys are more likely to fuck just anything than the majority of women yes, that is merely reflected probably on here.

So what if there are 100 times more males on here than females? Yes it's easier for females to get laid I imagine because of that if they are merely playing a numbers game. And let's not beat about the bush there are a lot of very easy women on here who are looking notches on bedposts and it's totally hypocritical to say otherwise. And I bet a lot of them have had a lot of pretty crap meets whether the respective verifications say that or not.

But if you're looking a quality meet with a decent woman or vice versa, no one holds the aces when it comes to standards, everyone has to sift through the shit!"

^^^ Absolutely spot on.

The mistake most guys on here make is, they forget there is an infinite supply of women in the real world who want sex. Just because you're on a sex site, doesn't make you sexier, more atractive or more desirable, in fact, in most cases, it's the complete opposite.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This whole thread has completely opened my eyes haha

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