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By *dog87Slutty Sue91 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stirling

Been on here for a bit now but seem to be no further forward in our quest to be joined by another female since signing up, don't think we're the best thing since sliced bread but not by far the worst looking we'll at least shes not (10/10 lol and had a couple experiences (not quite full 3way sharing) but need to figure out how to fix it so don't all jummp at one

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

Have you's had any meets yet? If not then that could be a reason, lots like to know that someone will actually turn up and if they have done so before are likely to do so again...so a meet verification always helps. But that might have nothing to do with it....just guessing lol.

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By *dog87Slutty Sue91 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stirling

Not like wee haven't tried but only had one or two reply think that might be down to the fact I seem to go on a bit when mailing these days trying to hard to come across real and easy going but end up the total opposite as it seems like a fantasy that will be just that fuckimg hope not lol

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Maybe let Sue do the replies then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it you or sue that messages women you think mught be interested?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a female on here I’ll weigh in. You look like a nice couple.

What would put me off your profile is that you say you’re inexperienced. While that might be true I can tell you from first hand experience that that’s a first red flag to a lot of people.

When you join a couple you want to know that no one is going to freak out half way through and blame the other woman and it’s all gonna go tits up.

You even say you don’t want a 10/10 because of jealousy! HUGE red flag!!

You say you want someone with experience to teach you guys but what woman wants to spend a night playing teacher ( in a non-kink setting!!) rather than having fun!

Your status is a little off putting. While it’s meant to be written by misses, I’d bet anything it was written by Mr!

Anyway this isn’t meant to slate you guys, more like help you!

I hope you find what you’re looking for but have a think about exactly what that is first xx

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour


"As a female on here I’ll weigh in. You look like a nice couple.

What would put me off your profile is that you say you’re inexperienced. While that might be true I can tell you from first hand experience that that’s a first red flag to a lot of people.

When you join a couple you want to know that no one is going to freak out half way through and blame the other woman and it’s all gonna go tits up.

You even say you don’t want a 10/10 because of jealousy! HUGE red flag!!

You say you want someone with experience to teach you guys but what woman wants to spend a night playing teacher ( in a non-kink setting!!) rather than having fun!

Your status is a little off putting. While it’s meant to be written by misses, I’d bet anything it was written by Mr!

Anyway this isn’t meant to slate you guys, more like help you!

I hope you find what you’re looking for but have a think about exactly what that is first xx "

This

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By *dog87Slutty Sue91 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stirling

Bit of both but would say me mostly now and think it may be no the best idea am no good at mailing a don't feel what I right sounds like how I would say it and I over think and say to much to soon but in person am so much different proberly comes across too a bet to the ones that get the mail lol the miss has the opposite she gets mailed bk a lot just never gets in the end what wee are on here for and stays off for a bit a think they call that a no win situation lol

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By *dog87Slutty Sue91 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stirling


"As a female on here I’ll weigh in. You look like a nice couple.

What would put me off your profile is that you say you’re inexperienced. While that might be true I can tell you from first hand experience that that’s a first red flag

to a lot of people.

When you join a couple you want to know that no one is going to freak out half way through and blame the other woman and it’s all gonna go tits up.

You even say you don’t want a 10/10 because of jealousy! HUGE red flag!!

You say you want someone with experience to teach you guys but what woman wants to spend a night playing teacher ( in a non-kink setting!!) rather than having fun!

Your status is a little off putting. While it’s meant to be written by misses, I’d bet anything it was written by Mr!

Anyway this isn’t meant to slate you guys, more like help you!

I hope you find what you’re looking for but have a think about exactly what that is first xx

This "

Its fine no offence took it is what I wrote this for a bit advice to be fair. I would say I get the inexperienced thing but don't no how else to put it as believe me I have tried the update is changed constantly because I think that way no matter what way I write it but the jealous thing is more a two way street with us as wee have had a few tries twice where one it was mostly her and the other me but weren't planned just happened after nights out and never got fully going, but after realised it was proberly unsure about what we both thought now no to late as far as past times concerned into it, can get how on the outside jealousy Sounds but to us wee feed of it as its always together we get it and not an issue type of jealous your points been took in though especially the bet its me writing the it was but the misses was part of it I just try new ways to see what mite work to even start up getting. Spoke to at least, hope to get it right sooner than later lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your username would put me clean off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your username would put me clean off. "

I was gonna put this too but I’d already moaned enough, I thought I’d leave it!

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Your username would put me clean off. "

Me too plus you both smoke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps your best bet is to go along to a cpls and females night at cjs or after8 socialise talk to other cpls or get yourselves along to a social event and then rewrite your profile as per the points above, obviously be honest but there’s overkill which is what you’ve done with it so far. Hope you find what you’re looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nightclubs and pubs are the best way for an ffm. I know some women on here meet couples but it's a lot of fucking about for a night of sex. Get out and pull a random together

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By *dog87Slutty Sue91 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stirling


"Your username would put me clean off.

Me too plus you both smoke "

It was only made like that as we had seen a few people we no get slated for being on here before we joined and mine was name I got of someone and hers was the first thing that popped In my head lol is cringey as fuck I no though don't actually think it looks good but the smoking shits a bit harsh can't change that in a day even if we wanted but make up for it in the gym so point not took on board there lol x

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By *dog87Slutty Sue91 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stirling

Nightclubs and pubs are the best way for an ffm. I know some women on here meet couples but it's a lot of fucking about for a night of sex. Get out and pull a random together

would agree with you there like as we have had experiences after a nite out when we lived down south though was more a bit her and the girl then me and the girl different times but they were unplanned and never new wee both wanted the same so could definitely be the way it will happen for us for sure man

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

If messaging people on here is a problem then it's better to meet in person, so get along to cjs or after8. You'll then get verifications which will help you get off the starting line on fab.

In the meantime, change your username to something a bit easier to say when you're telling people who you are, short and snappy is easier to remember and find later.

Also make your pics more appealing, no one needs to see graphic pics right off the bat. Maybe save them for your friends folder.

And rewrite your profile to tell people what you are looking for and what you have to offer. If you're unsure what to put then have a nosy at some other profiles and you'll get the idea.

Good luck

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By *dog87Slutty Sue91 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stirling


"If messaging people on here is a problem then it's better to meet in person, so get along to cjs or after8. You'll then get verifications which will help you get off the starting line on fab.

In the meantime, change your username to something a bit easier to say when you're telling people who you are, short and snappy is easier to remember and find later.

Also make your pics more appealing, no one needs to see graphic pics right off the bat. Maybe save them for your friends folder.

And rewrite your profile to tell people what you are looking for and what you have to offer. If you're unsure what to put then have a nosy at some other profiles and you'll get the idea.

Good luck "
thanks all advice is took on board as it can't make us get any less attention at the moment

had actually just changed our pic stuff before I readw this but thanks again and the profile has bothered me from day one as it seemed a bit needy and clueless no matter how I wrote it but folks advice today has got me to right it in a way that at least doesn't look so blah but is still us thanks folks

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

there is no golden profile blurb be yourselves. it should attract those that suit you far better than a hodge podge of what a few tell you they like to see and read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If folk fancy you they will meet you.that simple.

Maybe try some better pics to see what who they will be meeting?

If it's a fem your after she will prob be no and need to see more pics of your Mrs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If folk fancy you they will meet you.that simple.

Maybe try some better pics to see what who they will be meeting?

If it's a fem your after she will prob be no and need to see more pics of your Mrs?"
bi*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with the others, get yourself along to a club.

And ageeed less is more in terms of pics.. save for friends.

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By *an from UncleMan
over a year ago

ml1

Always better with a club mate this is no good for a meet a club saves time n effort

Its all about the spark or go to a social if too nervous for a club

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By *dog87Slutty Sue91 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stirling


"Always better with a club mate this is no good for a meet a club saves time n effort

Its all about the spark or go to a social if too nervous for a club "
it does seem like most are saying the same mate and wee would be fine at either not the shy type just think especially me is a lot better with people socialy than over a screen hence I avoid social media shit unless I need to thanks for the taking the time to give a bit advice man

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By *dog87Slutty Sue91 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stirling


"there is no golden profile blurb be yourselves. it should attract those that suit you far better than a hodge podge of what a few tell you they like to see and read."
get what your saying like no point trying to change to much to get the outcome then it's not really real is it. must be a name for it like socialy awkward, I'm not and she definitely isn't lol but for mailing over anything I just seem to put the opposite of what I am trying to achieve lol cheers for the advice anyway bud

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

I dont understand the advertisments for clubs.

cost....tiny fraction of people..... especially what the ops after.....added hassle of single guys and cpls that they probably aint after. Seems like paying money to get alot less imo

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