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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes I said winking not wanking lol. Now that we’re over that.....

Does anyone on here ever react to a wink? I occasionally wink at people but very seldom do I get a wink back or any kind of reaction. I’m pretty new to this so I would appreciate anyone’s thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Different horses for different courses. Some act on it some don't. If you're gonna wink, might as well message least you know if you're ignored that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wipe the grit out of my eye when it happens

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

A very handsome man winked at me. No message just a wink. I messaged him, we chatted then met. Sometimes winks can be so very good.x

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"A very handsome man winked at me. No message just a wink. I messaged him, we chatted then met. Sometimes winks can be so very good.x"

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By *inky KatzCouple
over a year ago

Scotland


"Yes I said winking not wanking lol. Now that we’re over that.....

Does anyone on here ever react to a wink? I occasionally wink at people but very seldom do I get a wink back or any kind of reaction. I’m pretty new to this so I would appreciate anyone’s thoughts. "

I will be honest, from time to time I check in on the winks and will respond if the person looks hot but most of the time there is just simply to many for us to look through

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will be honest, from time to time I check in on the winks and will respond if the person looks hot but most of the time there is just simply to many for us to look through"

Oh to be popular

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By *inky KatzCouple
over a year ago

Scotland


"I will be honest, from time to time I check in on the winks and will respond if the person looks hot but most of the time there is just simply to many for us to look through

Oh to be popular "

Haha I’m under no illusion that it’s all for my fine ass mrs and not me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will be honest, from time to time I check in on the winks and will respond if the person looks hot but most of the time there is just simply to many for us to look through

Oh to be popular

Haha I’m under no illusion that it’s all for my fine ass mrs and not me"

I'd beg to differ but i dunno how you'd take that. So i'll agree instead.

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

If I like the look of a “winker” I send a wee thanks message.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys

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By *inky KatzCouple
over a year ago

Scotland


"I will be honest, from time to time I check in on the winks and will respond if the person looks hot but most of the time there is just simply to many for us to look through

Oh to be popular

Haha I’m under no illusion that it’s all for my fine ass mrs and not me

I'd beg to differ but i dunno how you'd take that. So i'll agree instead. "

Hahaha thanks dude

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I don’t often check my winks

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I check them occasionally and I’ll either wink back or message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forget about them and it's usually Mr who reminds me to have a nosey...the occasional wee hidden gem to be found among the winkers.

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill

My mr is a serial winker lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah i react to winks because they arent as pushy as some messages x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Check them quite often and have replied to 1 or 3

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By *uriousCouple999Couple
over a year ago

edinburgh

We use winks & react to them to Mrs x

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By *oast888Man
over a year ago

cambuslang

I think the wink is a good idea, as mentioned before it’s not too pushy and as the ladies on here get inundated with messages and unwarranted pictures of junk at least it gives them a chance to take a look at who sent the wink and acknowledge it with a return wink or message to start a conversation.

I at least believe that’s the theory behind it but not sure if that’s the way it is in reality

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By *entleman Caller GlasgowMan
over a year ago

Bellshill

I think it is a nice way of introducing yourself and let someone know that you like their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like a good wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the wink function and tend to use it more often than the message

I send winks to profiles I am genuinely interested in and yes I do receive winks back. Then I know I’m not wasting my time sending a follow up message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

must be an east coast thing that no-one responds to them, or very little amount do. Or im a troll, either or

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally forgot about winks!

Thanks to this thread for reminding me..

Wink wink!

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour

I use them all time some folks think it lazy I think it just a way of letting a profile know I like the look of them

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By *dmirationMan
over a year ago

Bathgate

I think winks are just a way of disregarding what people ask for on their profiles! It means you do not have to put any effort into a mail You don't have to send a face photo.. We state on our profile we don't except winks but still get them! We ignore them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think winks are just a way of disregarding what people ask for on their profiles! It means you do not have to put any effort into a mail You don't have to send a face photo.. We state on our profile we don't except winks but still get them! We ignore them! "

What about winks from exceptional males? Do you accept those ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think winks are just a way of disregarding what people ask for on their profiles! It means you do not have to put any effort into a mail You don't have to send a face photo.. We state on our profile we don't except winks but still get them! We ignore them! "

Sorry to be a dick but, it's ACCEPT not "except". Just saying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm interested

I wink back

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By *oast888Man
over a year ago

cambuslang


"If I'm interested

I wink back "

If their a site supporter lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I'm interested

I wink back

If their a site supporter lol"
no just verified

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By *oast888Man
over a year ago

cambuslang


"If I'm interested

I wink back

If their a site supporter lolno just verified "

I think not

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

rarely even check them same as most msgs just gay mail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I'm interested

I wink back

If their a site supporter lolno just verified

I think not "
erm...my filters so think I should know?

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By *oast888Man
over a year ago

cambuslang


"If I'm interested

I wink back

If their a site supporter lolno just verified

I think not erm...my filters so think I should know? "

Must just be me then, here’s a

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By *vanabeusedTV/TS
over a year ago

somewhere

Always x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we are interested we wink back,but nine times out of ten the winker has nothing in their profile so we don't return the wink.

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By *exy gentMan
over a year ago

Midlothian


"If I like the look of a “winker” I send a wee thanks message. "

Just tried to wink you not allow me

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By *exy gentMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

I'm a serial winker, I think it's a far more subtle and polite way of saying hi

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

Will give an occasional wink, just to show I'm interested.

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By *dmirationMan
over a year ago

Bathgate


"I think winks are just a way of disregarding what people ask for on their profiles! It means you do not have to put any effort into a mail You don't have to send a face photo.. We state on our profile we don't except winks but still get them! We ignore them!

What about winks from exceptional males? Do you accept those ? "
Don't even look at a wink we go in once a week and Delete all winks. No such thing as an exceptional Male! Nice thought though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think winks are just a way of disregarding what people ask for on their profiles! It means you do not have to put any effort into a mail You don't have to send a face photo.. We state on our profile we don't except winks but still get them! We ignore them!

What about winks from exceptional males? Do you accept those ? Don't even look at a wink we go in once a week and Delete all winks. No such thing as an exceptional Male! Nice thought though "

What about acceptional males

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Rarely I'm afraid. Almost always reply to a message though.

R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think winks are just a way of disregarding what people ask for on their profiles! It means you do not have to put any effort into a mail You don't have to send a face photo.. We state on our profile we don't except winks but still get them! We ignore them!

What about winks from exceptional males? Do you accept those ? Don't even look at a wink we go in once a week and Delete all winks. No such thing as an exceptional Male! Nice thought though "

Oh I was just having a little wordplay

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By *awaiianguyMan
over a year ago

East Ayrshire


"I will be honest, from time to time I check in on the winks and will respond if the person looks hot but most of the time there is just simply to many for us to look through

Oh to be popular

Haha I’m under no illusion thatit’s all for my fine ass mrs and not me"

Just had a look at your photos- yup!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think winks are just a way of disregarding what people ask for on their profiles! It means you do not have to put any effort into a mail You don't have to send a face photo.. We state on our profile we don't except winks but still get them! We ignore them!

What about winks from exceptional males? Do you accept those ? Don't even look at a wink we go in once a week and Delete all winks. No such thing as an exceptional Male! Nice thought though

Oh I was just having a little wordplay "

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By *T1980Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"A very handsome man winked at me. No message just a wink. I messaged him, we chatted then met. Sometimes winks can be so very good.x"

Just for you

lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send a message to some winks .. some winks I miss in error but normally I'll message with a hi n thanking them for the wink .. if they've made the effort then why not xx

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By *inky KatzCouple
over a year ago

Scotland


"I send a message to some winks .. some winks I miss in error but normally I'll message with a hi n thanking them for the wink .. if they've made the effort then why not xx"

Well WINK WINK to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to send winks, I see it as an unintrusive acknowledgement that I like what I see.

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By *arroness NikkiWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Nah just ignore them

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

I have responded with a message to a wink, and made many great "friends" from doing so.. TO ME, it's no different from a hello..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I send a message to some winks .. some winks I miss in error but normally I'll message with a hi n thanking them for the wink .. if they've made the effort then why not xx

Well WINK WINK to you "

WINK WINK WINK back at you guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all honesty I only respond to winks if the profile picture catches my eye, then I will click on the profile - if it’s any good I will reply / wink back

It can be a rarity to be honest - too many shadows and cocks wink lol

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By *inky KatzCouple
over a year ago

Scotland


"I send a message to some winks .. some winks I miss in error but normally I'll message with a hi n thanking them for the wink .. if they've made the effort then why not xx

Well WINK WINK to you

WINK WINK WINK back at you guys "

Well thank you very much. Come chat with us privately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not something I ever use. I prefer not to get message replies than not get wink ones haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I send a message to some winks .. some winks I miss in error but normally I'll message with a hi n thanking them for the wink .. if they've made the effort then why not xx

Well WINK WINK to you

WINK WINK WINK back at you guys

Well thank you very much. Come chat with us privately "

Aww I would but I'm outside your age range boohoo my lovelies xxx

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