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"What is it with people who ask to meet you for a social and to see what happens but won’t send you a face pic? I mean, I don’t want to take the time and effort to get ready for a meet and find out that when I turn up that she looks like Shrek. I just don’t get it. For me, there needs to be an attraction. " They are just after free coffee and cake. | |||
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"No pic No social End of conversation " Agree totally | |||
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"No pic No social End of conversation " Yep | |||
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"What is it with people who ask to meet you for a social and to see what happens but won’t send you a face pic? I mean, I don’t want to take the time and effort to get ready for a meet and find out that when I turn up that she looks like Shrek. I just don’t get it. For me, there needs to be an attraction. " Aside from that, how would you recognise them in Costa? | |||
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"If I don't get a face pic then I don't meet them. Simple. Begs the question, what are they hiding? x"Probably a big nose | |||
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"If I don't get a face pic then I don't meet them. Simple. Begs the question, what are they hiding? x
Probably a big nose"Mine is visible without pictures.  | |||
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"It doesn't always work, though. My first meet, on my old profile, we swapped pics, and while it was her in the pic, it had clearly been taken about 10 years earlier. It didn't go beyond the social, and the only consolation was, we went dutch. It didn't put me off meeting, obviously, but it did make me more wary. Does the direct pic thing make it better?" It does make it better to see who you are chatting too, I always ask is that a recent pic or an old one as I would like to see what you look like now lol better to be upfront  | |||
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"If I don't get a face pic then I don't meet them. Simple. Begs the question, what are they hiding? x
Probably a big nose"A big something! Lol x | |||
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"If I don't get a face pic then I don't meet them. Simple. Begs the question, what are they hiding? x
Probably a big nose
A big something! Lol x"And in lots of cases a small something | |||
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"What is it with people who ask to meet you for a social and to see what happens but won’t send you a face pic? I mean, I don’t want to take the time and effort to get ready for a meet and find out that when I turn up that she looks like Shrek. I just don’t get it. I don’t share pics before a social meet For me, there needs to be an attraction. " | |||
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"No pic No social End of conversation " Most definitely | |||
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"It doesn't always work, though. My first meet, on my old profile, we swapped pics, and while it was her in the pic, it had clearly been taken about 10 years earlier. It didn't go beyond the social, and the only consolation was, we went dutch. It didn't put me off meeting, obviously, but it did make me more wary. Does the direct pic thing make it better?" No because you can still send an old picture from your gallery | |||
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"I always meet blind have t sent anyone pics before a meet " What if it's someone you know, has that ever happened? | |||
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"I always meet blind have t sent anyone pics before a meet What if it's someone you know, has that ever happened?" A few times it’s no big deal to me tbh met a former work colleague at a party last night and used to have guys I worked with sending me pics all time back in the day they were married I was single, I don’t hurt anyone and I’m respectful of others and I just expect same tbh there’s women and cpls on here look for me verifying guys as being nice because if I’ve got on with them then generally they’re pretty decent folk,I tend to find no pics filters out a lot more time wasters and assholes than any other means been on and off fab for dinner get ten years and have never had any problem meeting guys who tick all my boxes and I’m super fussy | |||
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"I always meet blind have t sent anyone pics before a meet What if it's someone you know, has that ever happened? A few times it’s no big deal to me tbh met a former work colleague at a party last night and used to have guys I worked with sending me pics all time back in the day they were married I was single, I don’t hurt anyone and I’m respectful of others and I just expect same tbh there’s women and cpls on here look for me verifying guys as being nice because if I’ve got on with them then generally they’re pretty decent folk,I tend to find no pics filters out a lot more time wasters and assholes than any other means been on and off fab for dinner get ten years and have never had any problem meeting guys who tick all my boxes and I’m super fussy " Lol iPhone autocorrect dinner wtf | |||
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"Very strange but if it works for you then great " Well let’s face it not a lot of pics on here actually reflect the person who’s sending it so I’d rather not go with any pre conceived notions and besides as I’ve gotten older I’m not quite so vain and finding I’m attracted to guys in te past I’d never have looked twice at, don’t get me wrong I do still like to pull the best looking guy in a room but I’m not after one night s_ands anymore so much rather someone I can have fun and a laugh and some regular fun with than a bit of eye candy who I defo wouldn’t want to meet again because they have zero personality | |||
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"I always meet blind have t sent anyone pics before a meet What if it's someone you know, has that ever happened? A few times it’s no big deal to me tbh met a former work colleague at a party last night and used to have guys I worked with sending me pics all time back in the day they were married I was single, I don’t hurt anyone and I’m respectful of others and I just expect same tbh there’s women and cpls on here look for me verifying guys as being nice because if I’ve got on with them then generally they’re pretty decent folk,I tend to find no pics filters out a lot more time wasters and assholes than any other means been on and off fab for dinner get ten years and have never had any problem meeting guys who tick all my boxes and I’m super fussy " But what if you are not attracted to them at all has it not been a waste of your time going out to meet them, I've had some guys send me pictures of themselves and it's a massive no based on Their looks, I'm sure it has gone the other way as well when I've sent pictures of myself I just don't get why you would go to the bother of meeting people you are not attracted to | |||
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"I always meet blind have t sent anyone pics before a meet What if it's someone you know, has that ever happened? A few times it’s no big deal to me tbh met a former work colleague at a party last night and used to have guys I worked with sending me pics all time back in the day they were married I was single, I don’t hurt anyone and I’m respectful of others and I just expect same tbh there’s women and cpls on here look for me verifying guys as being nice because if I’ve got on with them then generally they’re pretty decent folk,I tend to find no pics filters out a lot more time wasters and assholes than any other means been on and off fab for dinner get ten years and have never had any problem meeting guys who tick all my boxes and I’m super fussy But what if you are not attracted to them at all has it not been a waste of your time going out to meet them, I've had some guys send me pictures of themselves and it's a massive no based on Their looks, I'm sure it has gone the other way as well when I've sent pictures of myself I just don't get why you would go to the bother of meeting people you are not attracted to" Oh I’m not just on fab for the sex tbh I could get that anywhere several times a week I just love meeting new people and socialising, I go to cjs sometimes every week and don’t ever play, I was at a house party last night and didn’t play, there’s lots of lovely people out there I’m happy to meet anyone for a social even guys who have pics on their profile and I’m like nope wouldn’t go near them not my type but still happy to meet and chat and if we get on I’ll give them verification as such, if you were to see the folk I’ve verified you’ll notice most of them are just social meets, some folk I’ve met I’ve just thought yep your a complete arsehole so I refuse to verify them and don’t chat again, I don’t see it as time wasted but then I’m always a bit different from most folk lol  | |||
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"My time for meeting is limited so Id rather make sure I was meeting someone I was attracted to than someone I might not be so no pic no meet for me too "This plus if they can't sent a photo it makes me think they've got something to hide. | |||
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"My time for meeting is limited so Id rather make sure I was meeting someone I was attracted to than someone I might not be so no pic no meet for me too
This plus if they can't sent a photo it makes me think they've got something to hide. " | |||
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"My time for meeting is limited so Id rather make sure I was meeting someone I was attracted to than someone I might not be so no pic no meet for me too "Same for me. I hate even getting too far into a chat without swapping faces as it’s such a dealbreaker | |||
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"My time for meeting is limited so Id rather make sure I was meeting someone I was attracted to than someone I might not be so no pic no meet for me too
This plus if they can't sent a photo it makes me think they've got something to hide.
"Some people shouldn’t send pics though eh lol | |||
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"My time for meeting is limited so Id rather make sure I was meeting someone I was attracted to than someone I might not be so no pic no meet for me too
This plus if they can't sent a photo it makes me think they've got something to hide.
Some people shouldn’t send pics though eh lol "Sorry i'll stop  | |||
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"Here's one. If say you wouldn't normally go with anyone that you would rate say less than 7 out of ten but you had engaged in enjoyable conversation with someone for sometime before seeing their face and they only come in at about a 5 would the intellectual connection make up for this or would you just advise them to get back in their cage?" Sorry but never in my life have I given a lady a number rating ..I either fancy them or I dont  | |||
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"If I don't get a face pic then I don't meet them. Simple. Begs the question, what are they hiding? x
Probably a big nose
A big something! Lol x
And in lots of cases a small something "There is that too x | |||
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"Here's one. If say you wouldn't normally go with anyone that you would rate say less than 7 out of ten but you had engaged in enjoyable conversation with someone for sometime before seeing their face and they only come in at about a 5 would the intellectual connection make up for this or would you just advise them to get back in their cage? Sorry but never in my life have I given a lady a number rating ..I either fancy them or I dont "Pretty black and white, fair enough | |||
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"Here's one. If say you wouldn't normally go with anyone that you would rate say less than 7 out of ten but you had engaged in enjoyable conversation with someone for sometime before seeing their face and they only come in at about a 5 would the intellectual connection make up for this or would you just advise them to get back in their cage?" I don’t think rating out of 10 works. It’s just either attracted or not attracted. Based on both chat and face | |||
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"Here's one. If say you wouldn't normally go with anyone that you would rate say less than 7 out of ten but you had engaged in enjoyable conversation with someone for sometime before seeing their face and they only come in at about a 5 would the intellectual connection make up for this or would you just advise them to get back in their cage? Sorry but never in my life have I given a lady a number rating ..I either fancy them or I dont "Ha snap! | |||
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"Here's one. If say you wouldn't normally go with anyone that you would rate say less than 7 out of ten but you had engaged in enjoyable conversation with someone for sometime before seeing their face and they only come in at about a 5 would the intellectual connection make up for this or would you just advise them to get back in their cage?" I would go with the flow and see where it takes me like I said before I’ve grew up massively and I was in a long term relationship with a guy that was so far away from my type when I met him but I fell head over heels and loved everything about him and he just did it for me but his own lack of confidence was what ultimately destroyed our relationship and broke my heart | |||
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"My time for meeting is limited so Id rather make sure I was meeting someone I was attracted to than someone I might not be so no pic no meet for me too
This plus if they can't sent a photo it makes me think they've got something to hide.
Some people shouldn’t send pics though eh lol
Sorry i'll stop "Just kidding lol I’d have blocked you ages ago and you’re one of the few who has seen me | |||
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"My time for meeting is limited so Id rather make sure I was meeting someone I was attracted to than someone I might not be so no pic no meet for me too
This plus if they can't sent a photo it makes me think they've got something to hide.
Some people shouldn’t send pics though eh lol
Sorry i'll stop
Just kidding lol I’d have blocked you ages ago and you’re one of the few who has seen me "Indeed  | |||
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"I'll leave the numbers rating to the any holes a goal brigade that keep scores "I'm not sure the any holes a goal brigade would keep ratings on the basis that they are the any holes a goal brigade | |||
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"My time for meeting is limited so Id rather make sure I was meeting someone I was attracted to than someone I might not be so no pic no meet for me too
This plus if they can't sent a photo it makes me think they've got something to hide.
Some people shouldn’t send pics though eh lol "
True...many a phone screen broken that way... | |||
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"Here's one. If say you wouldn't normally go with anyone that you would rate say less than 7 out of ten but you had engaged in enjoyable conversation with someone for sometime before seeing their face and they only come in at about a 5 would the intellectual connection make up for this or would you just advise them to get back in their cage?" Their personality would definitely "up" their rating for me and something could probably, mibbes, sorta happen... | |||
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"Face pics are hard for us ugly buggers ya ken  "True | |||
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