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"Hi jacs. Don't know what to say here since words are sometimes never enough. Takes courage to cope and even more to post in open forum. My sincerest respect - keep your pecker up and keep smiling. My dad had a battle with the C so I kinda know some of the emotions. In our thoughts xxx" Thanks _oma lusty and silver xxxx lusty hope you get on ok too hun xxxx | |||
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"Words can not express the sorrow I feel for you. You are doing a brave and wonderful thing by sharing with our community. Lets hope that it makes us all think of looking after ourselves. My friend Died last year from Breast Cancer, she ignored her lump as she was scared. When she plucked up the courage, she was advised to go for double breast removal, She only had 3 years after the operation. It spread to her lungs. Take Jacs words to heart and go for a smear or if you feel any changes in your breasts go get it checked. IT COULD SAVE YOUR LIFE." Thank you hunni have had a few mix messages regarding this post to my inbox but i know my reasons for doing it and your right hun this isnt just about meeting people for sex on here its about a community of people who also become your friends in all manner of ways and people who genuinly care about others xxx | |||
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"Hi jacs. Don't know what to say here since words are sometimes never enough. Takes courage to cope and even more to post in open forum. My sincerest respect - keep your pecker up and keep smiling. My dad had a battle with the C so I kinda know some of the emotions. In our thoughts xxx Thanks _oma lusty and silver xxxx lusty hope you get on ok too hun xxxx" Thanks Jac Hunni , xxxx | |||
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"A silly girl here that ignored smear test pleas (well if i have it i dont want to know and die happy)other half noticed a lump so off i trotted .Yes was told the worst but hey radio therapy and removal of the growth and im alive .I will never miss another smear in my life . Never think you are ok or it may be to late ,not everyone gets happy endings. Good luck jacs ,hope all goes well xxx" so glad you finaly went and got things checked out Good luck and i hope all goes well for you too xxxx | |||
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"Thinking of you Jacs xxx I had 3 borderline smears over a year and a half and the 4th one showed changes went to hospital had a biopsy and it showed I needed something called loop treatment (years ago it was called lazer treatment)This all took place in May this year and thankfully 2nd biopsy showed all was ok huge huge relief!! Have to have smear tests every 6 months for the next 2 year but thats nothing to what could have happened!!! As Jacs said please please keep up with your smear tests!!! xxxx" So glad you got checked over too hun and all is well for you, my first dealing with cervical cancer was treated by having 1/4 of my cervex removed by whats called cone biopsy and treatment after that with lots of smear follow ups until 5 years ago then back to 3 yearly. My last smear taken in just jan this year was fine so whats happening to me now is totaly something new but i knew something wasnt right and had it checked out so glad now i did. Truth is i dont know what lies ahead for me now and im scared shitless but need to face it head on as its not going to go away through ignoring it .xxx Good luck again hope all turns out well for you xxxx | |||
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"May I wish you all the best, you bravery in posting this is amazing. If you ever need a shoulder to bitch on, please feel free... Plenty of experiance, due to issues,on going in my life... Hope it all goes well and you get back to your heels as quickly as the docs allow." Jane thank you hun xxxx | |||
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"Thanks randy and toot and serengeti xxxx carolann just wish they were someone elses tails tho thank you hunni xxxxxxx" opppps tales i ment not tailes lol | |||
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"Miss D, take care and hope all goes well for you. Very brave in posting this on here for all to see x" Thank you dave xxx | |||
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"were all behind you jacs wishing you all the best love and kisses xxx " thank you hunni xxx | |||
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"Jacs I know we have had our differences recently but I hope and pray they you treatment is successfull and you make a full and speedy recovery. Jim x " Jim this means such a lot made me cry tho.... thank you so much for your good wishes xxx | |||
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"Jacs my darling. I have said before and I will say it once more. Life is what happens when you are busy making plans. Life throws us all a curve ball from time to time, god knows I have had a lot curve balls myself in the past 5 years. It is easy to say that you need all the resilence you can muster, the support of your family and friends and all thoughts of we band of fellow swingers to rise above it all. However thats what is needed as well as a determination of survive all that life throws at you. I know you are the brave, determined type with a soft heart, I also know that you will see this battle through triumphant. JimXXX" Jim my lovely friend always there for me with words of wisdom thank you hunni xxxxx | |||
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"Sorry to hear this MissD, although I dont know you personally I would like to wish you every success in this battle. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. I'd also like to second and reiterate you call for people to look after themselves and get regular checks. I have not long returned to swinging following a lengthy illness. A word to the guys also - testicular cancer doesnt only affect older guys. Check yourself there regular and seek advice from your doctor if you have the slightest concern, the earlier the better." thank you hunni and good luck too you too xxxxx | |||
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"Jaccs , All our thoughts are with you, and I know you will be fine. Your advice is very sound. Personnaly if there is anything Just ask. Lots of xxx " Gedd ty hunni xxxxxx | |||
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"Thank you for your warning. I hope your treatment is successful. It is easy to push friends away but true friends will push back and will still be there for you. Good Luck" Nice ,Cheesy and Falcon thank you so much for your kind words and best wishes xxxx luv jacs xxxx | |||
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"good luck with your upcoming treatment miss d. Have had breast cancer 3 years ago, first in one breast and then a year later in the other. 2nd time had to have chemo and radiotherapy. just wanted to say its not too bad - will be thinking of you though xx" thank you TnT xxxxx | |||
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"Jacqs You are one of the nicest people I've ever met and I'm proud to be your friend. Hope all goes well and if there's anything I can do I'm here Anna xx" ty Anna been friends for a few years now so that means a lot hunni ty xxxxxx | |||
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"one thing i have to say dont ever try to explain yourself to anyone, if people dont wish to read the posts they dont have to xxx ive got 3 people i know very well going through dufferent cancer issues, my friends mum is probbly the worst, unfortunately she i the one making plans for her kids future and her grandkids last year she was really ill and had lots of breathing problems and i advised her to go to the doctor, in my heart of hearts I had the gut feeling it was cancer but I didnt say out loud as felt it wouldnt be accepted but i have this horrible ability to have a sixth sense about bad things her daughter, my friend has an alcohol addiction and so much time was spent fussing over her no doctors appointments were ever made this year the diagnosis was made lung and brain cancer and its pretty much too late to do anything, prolong it yes cure it no sometimes life can be chaotic and other things going on but no matter what you cant ignore hea;th issues that last longer than a week etc get it checked out best of luck xxxx " Thank you hun xxxx Sorry to hear about your friends too. your so so right about gut feelings and that inner feeling things aint going to be all right you know your own body and know whats happening to it i know people on the out side looking in mean well when they say dont worry it will be ok when all you want to do is scream at them how the hell do you know that when deep inside you know its not going to be ok . so please yet again people if you get that gut feeling that tells you something isnt right please have it checked out it could save a lot of heartache and possibly your life . ps:Alcohol addiction is something i do know a lot about and i hope your friend finds the help she needs too xxx | |||
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"we have had our diffrences too jacs, but i have been thro something similar to this and i just wanted to say we wish you all the very best with your treatments x avi and allan " yes we have Avril and Allan and it takes somethig like this to make you realise these things aint significant anymore forgive and forget and make the most of life thank you for your best wishes they are appreciated xxxxx | |||
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"just want to say goodluck babe and im here no matter what xx i have dealt with alot with my own mum who i lost due to cancer as u no and u where there for me you will b strong and b allright i no u can do it xxx luv u babes xxxxx " ty guys will keep you posted with my progress xxxx | |||
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"get checked out as soon as possible if think something is wrong,i know from experience,that we do not take enough care of ourselves,thanks jacs and you are in my prayers and thoughts " Thank you hobbie i know you have had a terrible time recenlty too so thank you taking time to post here xxxxx | |||
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"just wishing you the greatest of luck and hope everything goes successfully, lots and lots of love xxxxxx" Thank you lee means a lot to have peoples support hun so ty xxxxx | |||
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"miss d, best wishes to u hope things go well for u, i ignored mine for 10yrs,for reasons stupid or what, now im screened every 6mnths cos of changes, so take each day as it cums, good luck to u, positive thoughts with u xxx" Thanks carricks for your kind wishes and im so glad you finaly plucked up the courage to get things checked over . Maybe a way for you women to get moving and off for your smears is if you cant do it for you then do it for your family ....five minuets of embarassment is surley better than yours of heartache without you | |||
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"hey jac, sorry to hear about your health problems, i will say a wee prayer for you and tell the wee cherubs that your a pal of mines and its ok if you go menapausle on them, your a woman after all, In all seriousness, i hope it all goes great for you and that your back in action in jigg time, the folk on here will miss you in cluding me, so get back soon xxxxxx john x" Thank you john im sure some will miss me and some wont lol but hey least i know the people posting genuinly care will keeep you posted how i get on xxxx | |||
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"i have met this fantastic lady and if anyone can beat it its her ! take care Jacs xxxxx" Michael thank you nice to have your support hun xxxxx | |||
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"Friends are like stars Jacs, can't always see them but they're always there. X " This is so true babes thank you xxxx Thanks everyone much appreciated xxxxxx Will keep you all updated xxx | |||
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"Friends are like stars Jacs, can't always see them but they're always there. X " That's lovely and so true! xx | |||
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"Hi Everyone, As most of the regulars and my friends know on here i had cervical cancer in 2001 which was treated sucessfully. Quiet a few of you know i have been experiancing health issues once again. four weeks ago i was diagnosed with cell changes on the lining of my womb so last thursday i was in hospital to have some biospys taken to grade the cell changes and also to have the lining of my womb removed which was not sucessfull . Last night i got the news that i have low grade cell changes grade1 . The treatmen for me now is i have to start hormone injections to shut down my ovaries and in effect what that will do is force me into an earlie meopause I will also need a hysterectomy which will be done sometime in the new year . and possibly radiotherapy too. my reason for bring this to the forums is to make people aware of how important heath checks are if something doesnt feel right please please have it checked out its always better to face things head on than to bury your head in the sand. Id also like to take the chance to thank all my friends on here for words of comfort and support i know ive not been the best of friends to you over the past few months often pushing you away when i should have been grasping you all with both hands (which i intend to do now )if you will let me lol special thanks to my dear dear friend Carolann aka Serengeti whos been my rock for months now and always been there for me . please guys if your worried about anything get it checked out xxx" agree with you - had a lump in my breast and ended up with breast cancer 2 years running, 2 mastectomy's, reconstructions, radiotherapy, chemotherapy, ovary removal later - and an early menopause i am cancer free so everything can be beaten!! Will be thinking of you xx | |||
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"Another we update got my op date this morning 5 weeks today the 1st march yikeeessss all becoming so real now . " We'll be thinking of you jacs, keep ur chin up, Im sure it will all turn out well in the long run, hugs xxx | |||
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"Another we update got my op date this morning 5 weeks today the 1st march yikeeessss all becoming so real now . " hope your going to behave between now and then. will be thinking of you. | |||
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"Another we update got my op date this morning 5 weeks today the 1st march yikeeessss all becoming so real now . hope your going to behave between now and then. will be thinking of you. " Of course i will BADLY of course | |||
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"Another we update got my op date this morning 5 weeks today the 1st march yikeeessss all becoming so real now . " Keep strong Hunny, i have a op coming up soon and it seemed so far away then i looked at the calender and thought eeek! lol You take care xx | |||
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"Another we update got my op date this morning 5 weeks today the 1st march yikeeessss all becoming so real now . Keep strong Hunny, i have a op coming up soon and it seemed so far away then i looked at the calender and thought eeek! lol You take care xx" Thank you hun and good luck with yours too hope all goes well xxxxx | |||
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"Another we update got my op date this morning 5 weeks today the 1st march yikeeessss all becoming so real now . Keep strong Hunny, i have a op coming up soon and it seemed so far away then i looked at the calender and thought eeek! lol You take care xx Thank you hun and good luck with yours too hope all goes well xxxxx" Thank you, this is part 1 of 3 ops this year so here's hoping the first is a success. My brother gave me a giggle he said'S you would make a very good pirate with all your scars BUT a very good tiger with all your silver stretchmarks' Ahhh deep joy lol | |||
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"Jacs. I've been away from forums/chat for a while now and just come across your thread. Good luck, stay strong and I thinkin of ya. xx" ty hun surgery a week tomorrow xxxxxx | |||
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"Best wishes Jacs. Will be thinking of you H xx" thank you hunni xxx | |||
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"Absolutely ridiculous. Hope you get your date next week and all goes well. Takes courage to speak out on things so personal, it's very touching. Shirley xxx" Thanks guys just couldnt believe it was so shocked xx | |||
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"Get well soon... J" Thank you jane xxx | |||
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"Jacs, Thanks for the link. I rarely ventue into the Forums. Other sites Ive used make it easier to access & I really do get lost in here. Sorry to hear the new on the cells, but good to see loads of the folk I met at your BD party including Lusty, Bren & co all gathering round. Hope it all goes well & knowing how cheerful & positive you are you'll come through this smiling. Take good care & let me know how ya are. Best wishes, Andy (aka Scot)" Scot ive known you for years way long before here your good wishes mean a lot babes so thank you ...glad you finaly found the link to the post lol | |||
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"glad you are ok i know how hard it is i was diagnosed 4 yrs ago with cervical cancer i had a radical hysterectomy at he age of 34 but i came through it and im glad to say im all healthy now lol even got myself a toyboy xxxx " Thanks again hun one last hurdle to face and hopefully il be given the all clear xxxxx | |||
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