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"As above, don't drink too much & go with no expectations to play, just to have a good night out, anything else is a bonus. I would also ask if you were 2 singles just pairing up for the night or are you a swinging couple? R "Thank you all for the reaffirming advice  )
We're singles pairing up to meet other swingers/singles (sorry, my original post was not very clear) | |||
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"As above, don't drink too much & go with no expectations to play, just to have a good night out, anything else is a bonus. I would also ask if you were 2 singles just pairing up for the night or are you a swinging couple? R
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We're singles pairing up to meet other swingers/singles (sorry, my original post was not very clear)"
And this is why you may receive a negative backlash. Generally couples who go to this night do so because they do not want to interact with single guys or people who aren't in committed relationships xxx | |||
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"As above, don't drink too much & go with no expectations to play, just to have a good night out, anything else is a bonus. I would also ask if you were 2 singles just pairing up for the night or are you a swinging couple? R
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We're singles pairing up to meet other swingers/singles (sorry, my original post was not very clear)
And this is why you may receive a negative backlash. Generally couples who go to this night do so because they do not want to interact with single guys or people who aren't in committed relationships xxx" | |||
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"As above, don't drink too much & go with no expectations to play, just to have a good night out, anything else is a bonus. I would also ask if you were 2 singles just pairing up for the night or are you a swinging couple? R
Thank you all for the reaffirming advice )
We're singles pairing up to meet other swingers/singles (sorry, my original post was not very clear)
And this is why you may receive a negative backlash. Generally couples who go to this night do so because they do not want to interact with single guys or people who aren't in committed relationships xxx"My apologies. I didn't realise this was an issue. We are a long term fwb couple (we both see other people too). If this is an issue then we're happy to come to a different night. Don't want to step on any toes... | |||
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Different stroke for different folks hence the reason you were asked the question. I would just be honest about your situation when chatting to people and let them make the judgement call. In general, like mentioned do not get too d*unk. Always a big mistake and one that seems to happen. Been there and done that lol. Look at it as a night out to socialise and meet like minded people. You will love it! We'll see you guys there Say hi xxx | |||
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"As above, don't drink too much & go with no expectations to play, just to have a good night out, anything else is a bonus. I would also ask if you were 2 singles just pairing up for the night or are you a swinging couple? R
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We're singles pairing up to meet other swingers/singles (sorry, my original post was not very clear)
And this is why you may receive a negative backlash. Generally couples who go to this night do so because they do not want to interact with single guys or people who aren't in committed relationships xxx
My apologies. I didn't realise this was an issue. We are a long term fwb couple (we both see other people too).
If this is an issue then we're happy to come to a different night.
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"A cpls a cpl if they decide together so what if it's cheaper that way. I personally wouldn't go myself so what's wrong with going with someone else? Bet nothing gets said if 2 chicks go together?" Great point ! OP and friend (with benefits) should just relax and go with the flow  | |||
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"A cpls a cpl if they decide together so what if it's cheaper that way. I personally wouldn't go myself so what's wrong with going with someone else? Bet nothing gets said if 2 chicks go together?" Tbh I can see it from both camps ...some genuinely hook up and effectivly go as a cpl others (single guys) use it to gain entry then go their separate ways looking for cpls and fems to play with .... the whole point of cpls and female nights was to stop that happening on select nights ..there's plenty fun for all nights for guys to go to  | |||
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"I think that cpls are perfectly entitled to want to play only with genuine cpls, chances are they want to meet people they can develop a social connection with and meet again perhaps at their homes, they don’t want to play with folk who are potentially cheating on their real partners, want to play with cpls who are slightly more choosy about their meets and enjoy the dynamic that is evident only with real couples or very familiar fwb, let’s face it anyone will admit the dynamic between people who are familiar with each other and trust each other enhances sex and stretches boundaries far more than someone you’ve just hooked up with ! I go to the cpls single nights very rarely tbh as I only play with single guys but never at a club, I only go to cjs to socialise and flirt " Very well said. Each to their own, as usual, but this is why we prefer couples in a relationship over fuck buddies or fwb. It's not a hard rule, but you can generally tell when people are in love vs just physical, and it's the former dynamic we enjoy. | |||
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"I think that cpls are perfectly entitled to want to play only with genuine cpls, chances are they want to meet people they can develop a social connection with and meet again perhaps at their homes, they don’t want to play with folk who are potentially cheating on their real partners, want to play with cpls who are slightly more choosy about their meets and enjoy the dynamic that is evident only with real couples or very familiar fwb, let’s face it anyone will admit the dynamic between people who are familiar with each other and trust each other enhances sex and stretches boundaries far more than someone you’ve just hooked up with ! I go to the cpls single nights very rarely tbh as I only play with single guys but never at a club, I only go to cjs to socialise and flirt " It's pretty much like this for us. That's why we never meet fuckbuddy couples or friends with benefits etc | |||
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And there it all is!! Lol. Like I said earlier it is each to their own. Some are cool with it, others not so much. All a personal choice.
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"I think if you were thinking of going some of the judgy comments would put you off "I think its you who is being judgy. Everyone is stating there opinions only .  | |||
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"Whole point of a couples and single fem night is exactly that. Not for single guys to act like they do on a fun for all night. This is why couples go to this night. They do not expect to be annoyed. If it is a couple that have paired up, i don't see a great problem so long as they stay as a couple. It is when they split up once inside and we then have the single guys patrolling the hallway then that is a different issue and should be prevented" this is my point everyone is saying about single guys cpl up? Not 1 mention of the fem that's doing it also? | |||
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"I'm saying live and let live How's that judgy?" I totally agree with you but you called people judgy because they merely expressed an opinion. So that means YOU judged those people when all they did was comment. No one said a fwb couple or a single guy coupling up with a female were the pits or scum they just said they didnt like that scenario. But YOU called them JUDGY . | |||
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"Whole point of a couples and single fem night is exactly that. Not for single guys to act like they do on a fun for all night. This is why couples go to this night. They do not expect to be annoyed. If it is a couple that have paired up, i don't see a great problem so long as they stay as a couple. It is when they split up once inside and we then have the single guys patrolling the hallway then that is a different issue and should be preventedthis is my point everyone is saying about single guys cpl up? Not 1 mention of the fem that's doing it also?" Being a couples and single females night I think it's expected there will be single females.... Unless I've got the wrong idea | |||
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"Whole point of a couples and single fem night is exactly that. Not for single guys to act like they do on a fun for all night. This is why couples go to this night. They do not expect to be annoyed. If it is a couple that have paired up, i don't see a great problem so long as they stay as a couple. It is when they split up once inside and we then have the single guys patrolling the hallway then that is a different issue and should be preventedthis is my point everyone is saying about single guys cpl up? Not 1 mention of the fem that's doing it also?" I think you've forgotten the fact that it's a couples and "SINGLE FEMALES" night. | |||
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"As a couple in a committed relationship who attend these nights we would echo what has already been said. We don't really care about your background as a couple as long as you are playing as a couple whilst attending this particular night. We attend the couples and single females nights specifically to avoid the atmosphere that having single guys hanging about at the top of the stairs, wandering up and down the corridors and trying locked doors of private rooms creates. If you turn up as a couple then the male half takes off on his own as soon as you get in the door you clearly have no respect for the ethos of the event. D " Exactly this | |||
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"Whole point of a couples and single fem night is exactly that. Not for single guys to act like they do on a fun for all night. This is why couples go to this night. They do not expect to be annoyed. If it is a couple that have paired up, i don't see a great problem so long as they stay as a couple. It is when they split up once inside and we then have the single guys patrolling the hallway then that is a different issue and should be preventedthis is my point everyone is saying about single guys cpl up? Not 1 mention of the fem that's doing it also?" It's something I would never do. R | |||
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"As a couple in a committed relationship who attend these nights we would echo what has already been said. We don't really care about your background as a couple as long as you are playing as a couple whilst attending this particular night. We attend the couples and single females nights specifically to avoid the atmosphere that having single guys hanging about at the top of the stairs, wandering up and down the corridors and trying locked doors of private rooms creates. If you turn up as a couple then the male half takes off on his own as soon as you get in the door you clearly have no respect for the ethos of the event. D " This is bang on | |||
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"I'm saying live and let live How's that judgy? I totally agree with you but you called people judgy because they merely expressed an opinion. So that means YOU judged those people when all they did was comment. No one said a fwb couple or a single guy coupling up with a female were the pits or scum they just said they didnt like that scenario. But YOU called them JUDGY . " no need to shout  | |||
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"As a couple in a committed relationship who attend these nights we would echo what has already been said. We don't really care about your background as a couple as long as you are playing as a couple whilst attending this particular night. We attend the couples and single females nights specifically to avoid the atmosphere that having single guys hanging about at the top of the stairs, wandering up and down the corridors and trying locked doors of private rooms creates. If you turn up as a couple then the male half takes off on his own as soon as you get in the door you clearly have no respect for the ethos of the event. D " Woe , wait a minute . We almost always play separate and have been a couple for over 30 years. So are you saying we cant go to this night ? but if we did i '_e devil ' cannot go looking for a single female. I wonder if your attitude would change if s_e devil said she would join another couple in a room without ME. Would you tell her 'no' as she is only allowed to play as part of the couple she walked through the door with. I think not . | |||
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"As a couple in a committed relationship who attend these nights we would echo what has already been said. We don't really care about your background as a couple as long as you are playing as a couple whilst attending this particular night. We attend the couples and single females nights specifically to avoid the atmosphere that having single guys hanging about at the top of the stairs, wandering up and down the corridors and trying locked doors of private rooms creates. If you turn up as a couple then the male half takes off on his own as soon as you get in the door you clearly have no respect for the ethos of the event. D Woe , wait a minute . We almost always play separate and have been a couple for over 30 years. So are you saying we cant go to this night ? but if we did i '_e devil ' cannot go looking for a single female. I wonder if your attitude would change if s_e devil said she would join another couple in a room without ME. Would you tell her 'no' as she is only allowed to play as part of the couple she walked through the door with. I think not ." Now I know why we got on so well in the kitchen prior to you realising who I was lol your spoon is bigger than mine lol | |||
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" Woe , wait a minute . We almost always play separate and have been a couple for over 30 years. So are you saying we cant go to this night ? but if we did i '_e devil ' cannot go looking for a single female. I wonder if your attitude would change if s_e devil said she would join another couple in a room without ME. Would you tell her 'no' as she is only allowed to play as part of the couple she walked through the door with. I think not ." You miss the point, couples and females only nights are just that. Couples are not looking for single males. Neither are females. Couples are looking for other couples and just maybe the ellusive unicorn. Females are going to either socialise or play with couples. As there are not supposed to be single guys there then they will not go expecting to find any. That is what the Fun for ALL nights are for. It really is easy to understand | |||
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"As a couple in a committed relationship who attend these nights we would echo what has already been said. We don't really care about your background as a couple as long as you are playing as a couple whilst attending this particular night. We attend the couples and single females nights specifically to avoid the atmosphere that having single guys hanging about at the top of the stairs, wandering up and down the corridors and trying locked doors of private rooms creates. If you turn up as a couple then the male half takes off on his own as soon as you get in the door you clearly have no respect for the ethos of the event. D Woe , wait a minute . We almost always play separate and have been a couple for over 30 years. So are you saying we cant go to this night ? but if we did i '_e devil ' cannot go looking for a single female. I wonder if your attitude would change if s_e devil said she would join another couple in a room without ME. Would you tell her 'no' as she is only allowed to play as part of the couple she walked through the door with. I think not . Now I know why we got on so well in the kitchen prior to you realising who I was lol your spoon is bigger than mine lol " Who asked you. !  xx | |||
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" Woe , wait a minute . We almost always play separate and have been a couple for over 30 years. So are you saying we cant go to this night ? but if we did i '_e devil ' cannot go looking for a single female. I wonder if your attitude would change if s_e devil said she would join another couple in a room without ME. Would you tell her 'no' as she is only allowed to play as part of the couple she walked through the door with. I think not . You miss the point, couples and females only nights are just that. Couples are not looking for single males. Neither are females. Couples are looking for other couples and just maybe the ellusive unicorn. Females are going to either socialise or play with couples. As there are not supposed to be single guys there then they will not go expecting to find any. That is what the Fun for ALL nights are for. It really is easy to understand "Yes i suppose thats true. If you look at it from that point of view. | |||
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"As a couple in a committed relationship who attend these nights we would echo what has already been said. We don't really care about your background as a couple as long as you are playing as a couple whilst attending this particular night. We attend the couples and single females nights specifically to avoid the atmosphere that having single guys hanging about at the top of the stairs, wandering up and down the corridors and trying locked doors of private rooms creates. If you turn up as a couple then the male half takes off on his own as soon as you get in the door you clearly have no respect for the ethos of the event. D Woe , wait a minute . We almost always play separate and have been a couple for over 30 years. So are you saying we cant go to this night ? but if we did i '_e devil ' cannot go looking for a single female. I wonder if your attitude would change if s_e devil said she would join another couple in a room without ME. Would you tell her 'no' as she is only allowed to play as part of the couple she walked through the door with. I think not ." I don’t think anyone is saying you can’t go to the night, as for you looking for a single female that would go against the nature of the night as you wouldn’t be doing so as a couple. As far as the Mrs going looking,for me that’s a kinda grey area... take the couples room, I can go in on my own because I’m a female but John can’t go in unless he’s with me, if we’re in there together and I leave then he has to come with me. So when it comes down to it us females can do what we like but you guys can’t but hey we don’t make the rules
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"I personally have paired up with a single female to attend CJ's but on a fun for all night as I know a lot of couple's frown upon this sort of thing.... on the nights I stayed with the girl I was with and acted as though any couple would I image. I have been seeing a girl recently and she is interested in the club scene and lifestyle as a whole so have decide we would like to attend a club night together.... Again I would probably opt for the fun for all night but if this goes well and she enjoys CJ's as much as I have both as a single guy and as 'a couple' then I think we would probably want to try the couple's and single females night. I just wondered what the views on this would be?" In my opinion from what you’ve said you’d be attending as a couple, the problem people have is single guys pairing up just to get in then going their own way once inside K x | |||
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"I personally have paired up with a single female to attend CJ's but on a fun for all night as I know a lot of couple's frown upon this sort of thing.... on the nights I stayed with the girl I was with and acted as though any couple would I image. I have been seeing a girl recently and she is interested in the club scene and lifestyle as a whole so have decide we would like to attend a club night together.... Again I would probably opt for the fun for all night but if this goes well and she enjoys CJ's as much as I have both as a single guy and as 'a couple' then I think we would probably want to try the couple's and single females night. I just wondered what the views on this would be? In my opinion from what you’ve said you’d be attending as a couple, the problem people have is single guys pairing up just to get in then going their own way once inside K x" Yeah I don't agree with that myself and image there would be a lot of guys who'd use a girl to gain entry to this sort of night and then ditch her once inside... Definitely not something I'd do myself... Hence the reason I've opted to attend fun for all when pairing up with a single female. Here's hoping this girl is a fan of the fun for all night when we eventually get the time to get there together | |||
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"I personally have paired up with a single female to attend CJ's but on a fun for all night as I know a lot of couple's frown upon this sort of thing.... on the nights I stayed with the girl I was with and acted as though any couple would I image. I have been seeing a girl recently and she is interested in the club scene and lifestyle as a whole so have decide we would like to attend a club night together.... Again I would probably opt for the fun for all night but if this goes well and she enjoys CJ's as much as I have both as a single guy and as 'a couple' then I think we would probably want to try the couple's and single females night. I just wondered what the views on this would be? In my opinion from what you’ve said you’d be attending as a couple, the problem people have is single guys pairing up just to get in then going their own way once inside K x" Yes i agree , a single guy should not pair up to get in with the sole purpose of ditching the female once through the door , thats definitely not right. | |||
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"I personally have paired up with a single female to attend CJ's but on a fun for all night as I know a lot of couple's frown upon this sort of thing.... on the nights I stayed with the girl I was with and acted as though any couple would I image. I have been seeing a girl recently and she is interested in the club scene and lifestyle as a whole so have decide we would like to attend a club night together.... Again I would probably opt for the fun for all night but if this goes well and she enjoys CJ's as much as I have both as a single guy and as 'a couple' then I think we would probably want to try the couple's and single females night. I just wondered what the views on this would be? In my opinion from what you’ve said you’d be attending as a couple, the problem people have is single guys pairing up just to get in then going their own way once inside K x" I would agree with K. Lucky lady, Boris . Joking aside, you are a regular attendee & respectful of set nights.
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"I personally have paired up with a single female to attend CJ's but on a fun for all night as I know a lot of couple's frown upon this sort of thing.... on the nights I stayed with the girl I was with and acted as though any couple would I image. I have been seeing a girl recently and she is interested in the club scene and lifestyle as a whole so have decide we would like to attend a club night together.... Again I would probably opt for the fun for all night but if this goes well and she enjoys CJ's as much as I have both as a single guy and as 'a couple' then I think we would probably want to try the couple's and single females night. I just wondered what the views on this would be? In my opinion from what you’ve said you’d be attending as a couple, the problem people have is single guys pairing up just to get in then going their own way once inside K x I would agree with K. Lucky lady, Boris . Joking aside, you are a regular attendee & respectful of set nights.
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I'm not usually one to play by the rules but CJ's and the lifestyle is the exception to that as I believe it's one place that rules should always be adhered to and respect for this sort of thing is a must | |||
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"As a couple in a committed relationship who attend these nights we would echo what has already been said. We don't really care about your background as a couple as long as you are playing as a couple whilst attending this particular night. We attend the couples and single females nights specifically to avoid the atmosphere that having single guys hanging about at the top of the stairs, wandering up and down the corridors and trying locked doors of private rooms creates. If you turn up as a couple then the male half takes off on his own as soon as you get in the door you clearly have no respect for the ethos of the event. D Woe , wait a minute . We almost always play separate and have been a couple for over 30 years. So are you saying we cant go to this night ? but if we did i '_e devil ' cannot go looking for a single female. I wonder if your attitude would change if s_e devil said she would join another couple in a room without ME. Would you tell her 'no' as she is only allowed to play as part of the couple she walked through the door with. I think not ." I'm saying that if you want to go to this night then you either go as a couple or the female half goes on her own. Its a "couples and single females" night, it's really not rocket science. | |||
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"I personally have paired up with a single female to attend CJ's but on a fun for all night as I know a lot of couple's frown upon this sort of thing.... on the nights I stayed with the girl I was with and acted as though any couple would I image. I have been seeing a girl recently and she is interested in the club scene and lifestyle as a whole so have decide we would like to attend a club night together.... Again I would probably opt for the fun for all night but if this goes well and she enjoys CJ's as much as I have both as a single guy and as 'a couple' then I think we would probably want to try the couple's and single females night. I just wondered what the views on this would be?" That's absolutely fine as far as we are concerned, as long as you're going along to play as a couple then that's exactly what the night is for. | |||
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"I personally have paired up with a single female to attend CJ's but on a fun for all night as I know a lot of couple's frown upon this sort of thing.... on the nights I stayed with the girl I was with and acted as though any couple would I image. I have been seeing a girl recently and she is interested in the club scene and lifestyle as a whole so have decide we would like to attend a club night together.... Again I would probably opt for the fun for all night but if this goes well and she enjoys CJ's as much as I have both as a single guy and as 'a couple' then I think we would probably want to try the couple's and single females night. I just wondered what the views on this would be? That's absolutely fine as far as we are concerned, as long as you're going along to play as a couple then that's exactly what the night is for. " | |||
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"Phew sorted "now don't you be leaving your poor hubby alone tracey...folk might think he's a single bloke | |||
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"Phew sorted now don't you be leaving your poor hubby alone tracey...folk might think he's a single bloke "Hahaha they are welcome to him | |||
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"Cosaurus’s FWB checking in to say- wow!! What a lot of... opinions! And opinions, as we all know, are like... Anyway. We went, we played, we respected boundaries, we had fun. We were truthful and we received and provided pleasure. There were no complaints. There was no roaming of any corridors. As a single female who’s relatively new to the scene, it was actually me who asked Cosaurus to go to the night with me, not any coercive behaviour on his part. He’s a total gent, and we had the same type of conversation I imagine any ‘couple’ would have beforehand. What’s ok, what’s not ok. I do understand the whole ‘real in love couple’ thing, but I think as long as everyone is honest and upfront on the night, we can all trust each other to make our own informed choices. One unicorn, galloping off into the sunset. (I’ll be going back to CJs. It was AWESOME!!). " Glad you had a fantastic night and couldn't agree more Cjs is awesome | |||
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"Cosaurus’s FWB checking in to say- wow!! What a lot of... opinions! And opinions, as we all know, are like... Anyway. We went, we played, we respected boundaries, we had fun. We were truthful and we received and provided pleasure. There were no complaints. There was no roaming of any corridors. As a single female who’s relatively new to the scene, it was actually me who asked Cosaurus to go to the night with me, not any coercive behaviour on his part. He’s a total gent, and we had the same type of conversation I imagine any ‘couple’ would have beforehand. What’s ok, what’s not ok. I do understand the whole ‘real in love couple’ thing, but I think as long as everyone is honest and upfront on the night, we can all trust each other to make our own informed choices. One unicorn, galloping off into the sunset. (I’ll be going back to CJs. It was AWESOME!!). " fantastic! Just goes to show Grown ups can act like grown ups. Glad you both had a good night | |||
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"Cosaurus’s FWB checking in to say- wow!! What a lot of... opinions! And opinions, as we all know, are like... Anyway. We went, we played, we respected boundaries, we had fun. We were truthful and we received and provided pleasure. There were no complaints. There was no roaming of any corridors. As a single female who’s relatively new to the scene, it was actually me who asked Cosaurus to go to the night with me, not any coercive behaviour on his part. He’s a total gent, and we had the same type of conversation I imagine any ‘couple’ would have beforehand. What’s ok, what’s not ok. I do understand the whole ‘real in love couple’ thing, but I think as long as everyone is honest and upfront on the night, we can all trust each other to make our own informed choices. One unicorn, galloping off into the sunset. (I’ll be going back to CJs. It was AWESOME!!). " Glad you both had fun! Couldn't agree more, it's an awesome place. Maybe bump into you at CJ's sometime. .
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