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"Why can't it be a flat fee for all? Say £30 for any singles and £50 for cpls? Always think single guys get the rough end of the stick." Spot on, would be nice to see a club buck this trend and give single guys a fair deal for a change. | |||
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"Why can't it be a flat fee for all? Say £30 for any singles and £50 for cpls? Always think single guys get the rough end of the stick." It a great idea and would like to be so fair, however just from personal experience on this site, it not guys get a bum deal, and more thy do little to help themselves, my profile states I’m straight, yet am give no respect, and hounded by bi and gay guys to a point I’d say if I was female you be lifted for it, So without controlling the single male number we have no couples and female coming then it would just be a private gay bar | |||
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"Why can't it be a flat fee for all? Say £30 for any singles and £50 for cpls? Always think single guys get the rough end of the stick. It a great idea and would like to be so fair, however just from personal experience on this site, it not guys get a bum deal, and more thy do little to help themselves, my profile states I’m straight, yet am give no respect, and hounded by bi and gay guys to a point I’d say if I was female you be lifted for it, So without controlling the single male number we have no couples and female coming then it would just be a private gay bar " Easy way to do that is as suggested cap single male numbers, and if I’m right do you not have to pre book to go to CJs could you not do similar. Leave membership fees as is and have a flat rate for entry. I head up north quite a lot and visiting clubs is on my list of things I want to do. Never been to After8 (personal choice) but it sounds like you’ve a good idea what you want | |||
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"Why can't it be a flat fee for all? Say £30 for any singles and £50 for cpls? Always think single guys get the rough end of the stick." its because they think all guys are desporadeos iv stop going for that reason but some guys just pay up as no option | |||
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"Why can't it be a flat fee for all? Say £30 for any singles and £50 for cpls? Always think single guys get the rough end of the stick. It a great idea and would like to be so fair, however just from personal experience on this site, it not guys get a bum deal, and more thy do little to help themselves, my profile states I’m straight, yet am give no respect, and hounded by bi and gay guys to a point I’d say if I was female you be lifted for it, So without controlling the single male number we have no couples and female coming then it would just be a private gay bar " just block them mate thats what i do and if you want to keep a balance at a club only allow a certain amout in stinging them for money not the answer if guys want in they pay but will not be regulars just idiots who dont know how to conduct themselfs | |||
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"Why can't it be a flat fee for all? Say £30 for any singles and £50 for cpls? Always think single guys get the rough end of the stick. Spot on, would be nice to see a club buck this trend and give single guys a fair deal for a change." Agree or give the male members a little something back ie a half price night maybe once a month or a free night once a month since fems are getting in free all year | |||
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"Why can't it be a flat fee for all? Say £30 for any singles and £50 for cpls? Always think single guys get the rough end of the stick." Totally agree with this... don’t think it’s fair guys have to pay more K x | |||
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"Why can't it be a flat fee for all? Say £30 for any singles and £50 for cpls? Always think single guys get the rough end of the stick. Totally agree with this... don’t think it’s fair guys have to pay more K x" Agree its not very fair but its also a business based on supply and demand. Fewer women frequent the clubs so incentives are needed ie cheaper or free entry for that type of clientele . And its the couples and females that attract most male visitors to a club in the hope of fun. Take away the female equation and its just a pub , may as well stick a pool table and dart board in it. After 8 offers a loyalty card with free entry on 6th visit so thats giving a little back to everyone. As for d*unks being admitted because not booking in , does not happen very often but i have seen lots turned away at the door . Booking in does not stop d*unk people turning up at the door, policing the door stops entry. | |||
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"Why can't it be a flat fee for all? Say £30 for any singles and £50 for cpls? Always think single guys get the rough end of the stick. It a great idea and would like to be so fair, however just from personal experience on this site, it not guys get a bum deal, and more thy do little to help themselves, my profile states I’m straight, yet am give no respect, and hounded by bi and gay guys to a point I’d say if I was female you be lifted for it, So without controlling the single male number we have no couples and female coming then it would just be a private gay bar " I view the control number by pricing to be weak you control numbers the same as all clubs do now x amount allowed in on the night. sorry but the differing pricing structure is nothing more than a cash cow | |||
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"Why can't it be a flat fee for all? Say £30 for any singles and £50 for cpls? Always think single guys get the rough end of the stick. Spot on, would be nice to see a club buck this trend and give single guys a fair deal for a change." | |||
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"Why can't it be a flat fee for all? Say £30 for any singles and £50 for cpls? Always think single guys get the rough end of the stick. It a great idea and would like to be so fair, however just from personal experience on this site, it not guys get a bum deal, and more thy do little to help themselves, my profile states I’m straight, yet am give no respect, and hounded by bi and gay guys to a point I’d say if I was female you be lifted for it, So without controlling the single male number we have no couples and female coming then it would just be a private gay bar I view the control number by pricing to be weak you control numbers the same as all clubs do now x amount allowed in on the night. sorry but the differing pricing structure is nothing more than a cash cow" Yes you could say its a cash cow but its a business at the end of the day . Guys are willing to pay higher prices if theres a chance of some fun once inside. | |||
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"Why can't it be a flat fee for all? Say £30 for any singles and £50 for cpls? Always think single guys get the rough end of the stick. It a great idea and would like to be so fair, however just from personal experience on this site, it not guys get a bum deal, and more thy do little to help themselves, my profile states I’m straight, yet am give no respect, and hounded by bi and gay guys to a point I’d say if I was female you be lifted for it, So without controlling the single male number we have no couples and female coming then it would just be a private gay bar I view the control number by pricing to be weak you control numbers the same as all clubs do now x amount allowed in on the night. sorry but the differing pricing structure is nothing more than a cash cow Yes you could say its a cash cow but its a business at the end of the day . Guys are willing to pay higher prices if theres a chance of some fun once inside. " Not a case of willing to pay higher prices, no other option but to pay if we want to attend. Yes it's a business but it's a business based on over charging one group to accommodate the lower income from other groups. And that's not a direct dig at CJ's as I've been many a time myself, all clubs rip the arse out the single guy. | |||
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"Why can't it be a flat fee for all? Say £30 for any singles and £50 for cpls? Always think single guys get the rough end of the stick. It a great idea and would like to be so fair, however just from personal experience on this site, it not guys get a bum deal, and more thy do little to help themselves, my profile states I’m straight, yet am give no respect, and hounded by bi and gay guys to a point I’d say if I was female you be lifted for it, So without controlling the single male number we have no couples and female coming then it would just be a private gay bar I view the control number by pricing to be weak you control numbers the same as all clubs do now x amount allowed in on the night. sorry but the differing pricing structure is nothing more than a cash cow Yes you could say its a cash cow but its a business at the end of the day . Guys are willing to pay higher prices if theres a chance of some fun once inside. Not a case of willing to pay higher prices, no other option but to pay if we want to attend. Yes it's a business but it's a business based on over charging one group to accommodate the lower income from other groups. And that's not a direct dig at CJ's as I've been many a time myself, all clubs rip the arse out the single guy." Well 2 options dont go as a protest . Or try to find a female friend to go with. As said its not personal just simply business. | |||
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"Why can't it be a flat fee for all? Say £30 for any singles and £50 for cpls? Always think single guys get the rough end of the stick." What the lady said. By all means restrict single male member numbers to keep equilibrium but why in this day and age should a man have to pay more for the facilities. It's pure bull shit. If I was charged ten pence more for a Mars bar because of my gender I'd be on it like a car bonnet as they say. Equal pay rights too BTW. | |||
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"We prefer Glasgow over Edinburgh because you must pre book (so the very d*unk, spur of the moment types won’t just turn up), the amount of single men allowed is restricted (too many can be very overwhelming), there is much more room in Glasgow club compared to Edinburgh. Something to think about. The distance doesn’t bother us if the club was nice and attracted a good mix of people. " | |||
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"I think it would be a great idea, I would certainly offer to help, I regularly travel to clubs as we have nothing to offer in Aberdeen or surrounding area . I really hope this works." I’d be up for helping too | |||
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"Why can't it be a flat fee for all? Say £30 for any singles and £50 for cpls? Always think single guys get the rough end of the stick. It a great idea and would like to be so fair, however just from personal experience on this site, it not guys get a bum deal, and more thy do little to help themselves, my profile states I’m straight, yet am give no respect, and hounded by bi and gay guys to a point I’d say if I was female you be lifted for it, So without controlling the single male number we have no couples and female coming then it would just be a private gay bar " Struggling to see your logic in that!! | |||
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"Now this does sound interesting! If a club could open in Aberdeen I would most certainly join. Membership for single guys could be higher in order to out those who are not really swingers (and I am a single guy). For me the social side is just if not more important than the play .So could there be comfy areas where people can mingle and chat? I wish you success in this venture and hope it happens soon.please keep us all updated ,and if you need help just ask." Higher membership for single guys to out them if they're not real swingers, where's the logic in that???? | |||
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"I definitely agree with the policy of limiting the amount of single guys in ratio even on normal nights. A club rammed with single guys following people round (the wanking dead/penguins I've seen it described as) would be of putting to most couples or single women. Certainly we would be unlikely to return to one as such. The model cj's use where you must be invited seem's to work well, contacting even on the night before turning up. " Well going on the ops rational of free entry to single girls and over charging single guys! Who do you think is going to fund the place? I'm no mathematician but if it's 30 females to 5 guys, there's no much revenue getting taken in! So there's a good chance it'll be 30 guys to 5 girls | |||
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"Why can't it be a flat fee for all? Say £30 for any singles and £50 for cpls? Always think single guys get the rough end of the stick." Fee mentioned a bit hefty I think, but do think it would be fair for everyone to pay the same x | |||
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"Have you actually been to a club. This sort of pricing scale happens in every club that we have been to in Scotland and a few in England" Yeah I've been to a couple of clubs, none of which give free entry to single girls, and yes single guys get charged more and best value for money is if you go as a couple, also makes for a better night as you're more likely to meet, chat and fuck | |||
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"Both me and the sexy wife would definitely go. And think the charges sound about right. Not as a thought you could drop the price slightly and introduce a minimum spend at the bar. " Some don't drink when playing though. R | |||
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"Hi guys thanks for reading, I am ask to find what level of interest people from the swinging and adult play community, after the only club in the north east closed, we are no lacking a venue furnished and set up to offer respectful, tolerant, and open minded social club for meet and playing, I have found myself access and use of the ideal place set over two level, close to centre of town, but still maintains discussion when coming and going. However knowing I would be putting a portion of capital at risk should things fail, I thought I’d put out a post see what people in and from surrounding area would feel and maybe answer some key point, 1 how many local singles and couple would have interest, join and use the venue regular enough so it isn’t running at a loss leading to closing. 2 would new members be put off joining, if there is a reasonable priced membership fee, eg females £20 years membership and free entry to all nights, couples £30 for the year £10 for nights entry, single males £40 for the year and £25 per night, 3 what ideas for would possible future members have for possible equipment and furnishings, I have my current front runner is a hot tub for 6 or more people, Anyway any suggestions or ideas please feel free to get in touch Thank for reading if you have lol" | |||
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"Good point about poeple not drinking. Sexy profile by the way x" Thank you. R | |||
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"I would be interested, long as decent hotel beside venue " I am thinking this post has been blown out the water as last comment before your one was 9weeks ago , and really could you see Aberdeen having a new club, getting people along to Socials is hard enough if i mind the last one was around a year ago | |||
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