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By *parkle13 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dundee

Is it just me or does anybody else hate getting asked “what are you into "by a complete stranger

...I wouldn't tell a guy at a bus stop so why should I tell somebody iv never saw or met just cause there on here ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or does anybody else hate getting asked “what are you into "by a complete stranger

...I wouldn't tell a guy at a bus stop so why should I tell somebody iv never saw or met just cause there on here ..."

Cause you're at a bus stop waiting for a bus and you're on here looking for sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...and that wasn't meant in an arsey way...just the first thought that came to mind when I read your post.

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

If that was the first message then we probably wouldn't give it a second glance. But in the beginnings of a conversation it's fine, helps to continue the chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not a question I'd answer...they're probably just after wank material and I'm not here for that shit

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By *parkle13 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dundee

I find it a bit invasive. If that makes sense

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By *oast888Man
over a year ago

cambuslang

So what's everyone here in to?

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By *igD262Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually reply "Medieval History, cooking, classic horror movies & F1".

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Golf

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By *erigoodMan
over a year ago

glasgow

I suppose you’ll kick off then if someone asks ‘how you are’ Or ‘what you up to’? Because they maybe being invasive, I must be doing something wrong clearly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The craic lol x

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By *egs11ABCWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Golf "

Seems to be the pastime of most of the males on our profession!!

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By *parkle13 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dundee


"I suppose you’ll kick off then if someone asks ‘how you are’ Or ‘what you up to’? Because they maybe being invasive, I must be doing something wrong clearly "
typical kind of thing is expect as an answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prob just reply bk with

.good adult mutual fun.. Then if chat continues i suppose it has to come up in the conversation at some point.. No use getting involved with someone who might be into hanging you from the raffters if thats not your thing lol

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By *parkle13 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dundee


"I prob just reply bk with

.good adult mutual fun.. Then if chat continues i suppose it has to come up in the conversation at some point.. No use getting involved with someone who might be into hanging you from the raffters if thats not your thing lol "

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By *parkle13 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dundee


"I prob just reply bk with

.good adult mutual fun.. Then if chat continues i suppose it has to come up in the conversation at some point.. No use getting involved with someone who might be into hanging you from the raffters if thats not your thing lol "
thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate that question!

I usually say if I ever meet you il tell you in person.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"Golf

Seems to be the pastime of most of the males on our profession!! "

Plenty time on our hands during the week

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By *entish79Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I sometimes ask after a few messages with someone. Some women don’t like it to get too sexual too soon, others get bored of small talk if it goes on too long.

So it’s kind of ambiguous and gives the woman to go down the sex route, or the badminton and hill walking route.

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Hate that question too!

And it's a complete turn off for me!

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By *eep.Man
over a year ago

Just a background character

All these complete strangers responding to a 'what are you into' post. I'm into that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or does anybody else hate getting asked “what are you into "by a complete stranger

...I wouldn't tell a guy at a bus stop so why should I tell somebody iv never saw or met just cause there on here ..."

It doesn't say on your profile so it's as good a way to find out as any x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t talk about sex unless I’m having sex with that person, what I’m into depends on who I’m with how much trust I feel i have with them how often I’ve met them etc it’s on a need to know basis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what's everyone here in to? "

Toast

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By *oast888Man
over a year ago

cambuslang


"So what's everyone here in to?

Toast "

Aren't we all

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By *parkle13 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dundee


"I don’t talk about sex unless I’m having sex with that person, what I’m into depends on who I’m with how much trust I feel i have with them how often I’ve met them etc it’s on a need to know basis "
exactly

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By *oast888Man
over a year ago

cambuslang


"I don’t talk about sex unless I’m having sex with that person, what I’m into depends on who I’m with how much trust I feel i have with them how often I’ve met them etc it’s on a need to know basis exactly "

But how's that fair if everyone else wants to know?

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By *egs11ABCWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Golf

Seems to be the pastime of most of the males on our profession!!

Plenty time on our hands during the week "

Not just here then?? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or does anybody else hate getting asked “what are you into "by a complete stranger

...I wouldn't tell a guy at a bus stop so why should I tell somebody iv never saw or met just cause there on here ..."

Yep I agree with that it’s such a awkward question I never know how to answer really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never know how to respond as I have the most bizzare fetishes so I don’t wanna tell them incase they judge and it blows my chances lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So...what are you into...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that question is asked because the person asking generally wants to compare their tastes to other people. Sometimes being into something that seems initially different might turn out to be a common fetish or fantasy.

Being with a woman dressed as Wonder Woman in a bath of raspberry jam MIGHT just be a common fantasy but having sex with a pantomime horse might be a little on the unusual side...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky

If its within the first couple of messages we reply with "it's on our profile"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t talk about sex unless I’m having sex with that person, what I’m into depends on who I’m with how much trust I feel i have with them how often I’ve met them etc it’s on a need to know basis exactly

But how's that fair if everyone else wants to know? "

Each to their own, I’m a very private a discrete person and I’m not going to tell

Someone the things I enjoy and give them their wank material

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By *witcherooMan
over a year ago

Muirhead


"So what's everyone here in to? "

Not meeting folk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually direct them to read our profile before blocking.

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