FabSwingers.com forum: Cougars

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So a 38 year old female and a 19year old male !!!! I let my brain think too long and perhaps missed a good opportunity !!

How low would you go ?

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Can guys get involved in this lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be plenty more opportunities on here.. easy come easy go..

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"So a 38 year old female and a 19year old male !!!! I let my brain think too long and perhaps missed a good opportunity !!

How low would you go ? "
35

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By *ubbly2012Woman
over a year ago

inver somewhere

"So a 38 year old female and a 19year old male !!!! I let my brain think too long and perhaps missed a good opportunity !!

Revisit? I know where hes goingvto be on the 12th and so do you....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So a 38 year old female and a 19year old male !!!! I let my brain think too long and perhaps missed a good opportunity !!

Revisit? I know where hes goingvto be on the 12th and so do you...."

Yeah haha he’s my plus one

oh did I say he was picking us up

Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can guys get involved in this lol"

Of course you can

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can guys get involved in this lol"

Of course you can

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By *oney4uCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Mid to late 20’s

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"Can guys get involved in this lol

Of course you can "

I'd say for me ladies mid 20''s upward but have to be mature enough.. gotta be able to talk to them not just shag them lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think

mine is 30. See loads of gorgeous younger folk out in the real world and on here, but I'd just feel like a durty auld woman playing with them.

I have admiration for those who don't have my hang ups though! Go for it if everyone is happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So a 38 year old female and a 19year old male !!!! I let my brain think too long and perhaps missed a good opportunity !!

How low would you go ? "

Chronological age is irrelevant (as long as they're an adult). People assume that is someone is older and have seen more of life they will be more mature and will have more to talk about. F*@k that!! There are some very immature chronological older women on here. If someone is thick, they're thick whatever age they are!

So do your thing. It's sex, don't dress it up as anything else and you won't be let down. He's clearly after the older women scenario and you take what you want from him. Win win!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can guys get involved in this lol

Of course you can

I'd say for me ladies mid 20''s upward but have to be mature enough.. gotta be able to talk to them not just shag them lol

Ffs bunks it's a shagging site, not a dating site

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"Can guys get involved in this lol

Of course you can

I'd say for me ladies mid 20''s upward but have to be mature enough.. gotta be able to talk to them not just shag them lol

Ffs bunks it's a shagging site, not a dating site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can guys get involved in this lol"

I think for us, it's how how old will we settle for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with Bunkie,I cannot have sex with someone I can't have a half decent conversation with.

I'm 43 and my lowest was 28 but recently lowered it to 23!! But highest I would go is 38 as I prefer younger guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'd be much more likely to go older than younger actually now I thinj about it. As appealing as a young, toned body is, you can't beat a filthy older mind.

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By *awaiianguyMan
over a year ago

East Ayrshire

One off, met in a pub, had a laugh ended up in bed - 25

FB - 35+

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"I agree with Bunkie,I cannot have sex with someone I can't have a half decent conversation with.

I'm 43 and my lowest was 28 but recently lowered it to 23!! But highest I would go is 38 as I prefer younger guys. "

Ffs that me out

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Tbh the more I think of it ...age don't really matter to me as long as there's that connection and can get on out of bed as well as in as I prefer regular meets to 1 offs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tbh the more I think of it ...age don't really matter to me as long as there's that connection and can get on out of bed as well as in as I prefer regular meets to 1 offs

No matter how attractive someone was, if they couldn't make me laugh we won't be playing hide the sausage.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"Tbh the more I think of it ...age don't really matter to me as long as there's that connection and can get on out of bed as well as in as I prefer regular meets to 1 offs

No matter how attractive someone was, if they couldn't make me laugh we won't be playing hide the sausage."

Knock knock .....

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

half your age plus seven is the general rule of thumb, but too low for me!

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By *ubbly2012Woman
over a year ago

inver somewhere

"half your age plus seven is the general rule of thumb, but too low for me!"

That would be 29 for me...

Cant go lower than 30... in my head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tbh the more I think of it ...age don't really matter to me as long as there's that connection and can get on out of bed as well as in as I prefer regular meets to 1 offs

No matter how attractive someone was, if they couldn't make me laugh we won't be playing hide the sausage.

Knock knock .....

Deja vu?

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Youngest was 18 but then I was 16 at the time lol.

Now I’m 50 I have played with a 30 year old. Met at the Cougar and cub Night

If someone acts mature enough then age is irrelevant although as I have kids I’d not knowingly go lower than 30.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So a 38 year old female and a 19year old male !!!! I let my brain think too long and perhaps missed a good opportunity !!

How low would you go ?

So do your thing. It's sex, don't dress it up as anything else and you won't be let down. He's clearly after the older women scenario and you take what you want from him. Win win! "

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest under 30 has pretty much always been a no for me. However recently I've encountered a few younger than that and have found my opinion changing!

Chemistry is chemistry

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I will stick with the older guys as find them easier to talk to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will stick with the older guys as find them easier to talk to"

Just wait until we get dementia, you'll change your mind.

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

Age is irrelevant if the chemistry and attraction is there

My oldest woman was in her mid 50s when i was 27 or so.

When I'm back in London later this month, I'm hoping to meet up with a 51yr old woman..

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By *aenMan
over a year ago

Here and There

Ah but wouldn't a fab 19 mean they were most likely in their 30s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

35 - ish...

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By *hedevilwearspradaWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere nearby

Mid 20s for me. Anything lower just feels a bit weird for me

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

Prob mid 30s

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By *egs11ABCWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Age is just a number. My best meet was guy of 30 but iv spoken to guys in there late 40s that are immature. Depends on the individual x

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By *rassyknollMan
over a year ago

Kirkmuirhill

"Age is just a number. My best meet was guy of 30 but iv spoken to guys in there late 40s that are immature. Depends on the individual x"

I completely agree, it depends on the person and the connection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am I the only one who actually hates the name terms cougar, milf etc?

When it comes to meets on fab then yes I stick to my age preference because I find the younger I go the more immature they get or the older I go the more creepy they get

But I have been with guys early 20's and have never regretted it

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"half your age plus seven is the general rule of thumb, but too low for me!"

32 here then. Sounds fairly reasonable as I have a minimum age of 35. Anything within a decade of my oldest child is definitely a no.

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By *ubbly2012Woman
over a year ago

inver somewhere

44 here... used to be 10 years down and 10 years up... iv now changed it to lowest 30 highest 47

Lol

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"Am I the only one who actually hates the name terms cougar, milf etc?

When it comes to meets on fab then yes I stick to my age preference because I find the younger I go the more immature they get or the older I go the more creepy they get

But I have been with guys early 20's and have never regretted it"

Damn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Age is just a number. My best meet was guy of 30 but iv spoken to guys in there late 40s that are immature. Depends on the individual x"

Agree with this! Youngest was 18 but i didnt find that out til the next day...he lied about his age and i fell gor it as he looked and behaved older. I thought he was in his mid to late 20s...oh how we laughed!! But attraction isnt ageist xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where are the women looking for dilfs and dad bods?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm with Bunkie on this too. What's the point in having sex with someone if you don't click with them? How are you going to know if you can't at least have a decent conversation?

Each to their own but I wouldn't have sex with someone young enough to be my son. That's why we all have age filters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where are the women looking for dilfs and dad bods?"

Is there women who want a Daddy who is fit as fuck, hot, amazing body and can out last any younger guy with vast experience and a thick cock too boot and not think about themselves

fecking wish I was a dilf

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By *ubbly2012Woman
over a year ago

inver somewhere

"I'm with Bunkie on this too. What's the point in having sex with someone if you don't click with them? How are you going to know if you can't at least have a decent conversation?

Each to their own but I wouldn't have sex with someone young enough to be my son. That's why we all have age filters

Totally agree with you... iv had to say no a few times because they were the same age or a year or so older than my oldest

Nope

Not happening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where are the women looking for dilfs and dad bods?

Is there women who want a Daddy who is fit as fuck, hot, amazing body and can out last any younger guy with vast experience and a thick cock too boot and not think about themselves

fecking wish I was a dilf

We've all seen your picture, you rippedswine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the guys who don't use pictures of when they had a little less padding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me I look for older women. Much better.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well conversation is a must with any meet regardless of age I’ve just always avoided younger perhaps because of my job lol

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By *witcherooMan
over a year ago

Muirhead

"I will stick with the older guys as find them easier to talk to"

Just need to talk a bit louder....in case their hearing aid isn’t on.

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By *witcherooMan
over a year ago

Muirhead

"half your age plus seven is the general rule of thumb, but too low for me!"

So in theory I should be looking at 32+

Yeah, seems about right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love old women I'd be up for someone up to 60 as long as she's no at the stage she's wearing a Tena lady

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour

"So a 38 year old female and a 19year old male !!!! I let my brain think too long and perhaps missed a good opportunity !!

How low would you go ? "

I'm 30+ which means 19 years either way so your 19 also so just go with what makes your boat float

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with the comment about Milf not being a compliment. Any guy that calls me that has automatically ruled himself out of play!!! I'm in .y prime,in my prime I tell you!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would personally love to have something with an older female as it is a lot harder to get any sort of connection with females my own age

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By *ablito88Man
over a year ago

Near you

Personally I prefer ladies 35+, more experienced generally, but I know as well some 22-26 with nice skills. Good if there’s a chemistry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

25 and even then I tend to think it’s too young. I’m 34 but I’m usually attracted To people older!

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"25 and even then I tend to think it’s too young. I’m 34 but I’m usually attracted To people older!

Hope for us old guys yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"25 and even then I tend to think it’s too young. I’m 34 but I’m usually attracted To people older!

Hope for us old guys yet

Always.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"25 and even then I tend to think it’s too young. I’m 34 but I’m usually attracted To people older!

Hope for us old guys yet

Always.

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By *ubbly2012Woman
over a year ago

inver somewhere

"Agree with the comment about Milf not being a compliment. Any guy that calls me that has automatically ruled himself out of play!!! I'm in .y prime,in my prime I tell you!!!

Same as when they say..."still" hot

Wtf!!

Dont say still

AM HOT... LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am 35 and to be honest I am more likely to go older than younger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've gone off cougars since that cyclist got mauled at the weekend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I would pick cougars any day as 1 they know what want 2 know how to get haha and don't fuck you around like most my age or younger simply due to they don't know what they really want haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I prefer ages 35 to 50. If someone younger came along and we clicked I'd play along.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say I actually prefer a more mature woman I do find more sensuality and an elegance that younger folk don’t quite carry off. Just my likes but yes I have played with younger but limit 30

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can we also ask how high might go? and not just because I am a crusty ancient and still got me marbles, well most of them

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By *parkle13Woman
over a year ago

Dundee

Pet hate is guys saying .you can teach me ..I'm here to have fun not to teach .rather have somebody with experience than a wham bam

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By *oast888Man
over a year ago

east kilbride

As long as there is a connection and you can genuinely enjoy all aspects of each other's company then age shouldn't really be a problem as long as it's legal.

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

Probably mid 30s down...up they way ...well really depends on what they look like and their standards ....plenty of lovely looking older women.

Got to be conversation though that intertwines

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"So a 38 year old female and a 19year old male !!!! I let my brain think too long and perhaps missed a good opportunity !!

How low would you go ?

Chronological age is irrelevant (as long as they're an adult).

People assume that is someone is older and have seen more of life they will be more mature and will have more to talk about. F*@k that!! There are some very immature chronological older women on here. If someone is thick, they're thick whatever age they are!

So do your thing. It's sex, don't dress it up as anything else and you won't be let down. He's clearly after the older women scenario and you take what you want from him. Win win! "

Chrono age is irrelevant however I will not fuck in my son's peer group, knowing me the random guy I hook up with is a colleague or fellow student of his and the "I've had your maw" happens when they see a family pic.

Nothing under thirty is my guideline. Plus, older guys seem to last longer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never been able to go with anyone even a day younger than me! Older men have always been my thing... but we’ll see how that goes the older I get!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve never been able to go with anyone even a day younger than me! Older men have always been my thing... but we’ll see how that goes the older I get!! "

I'm the same. As handsome as some young guys can be I like a face with a bit character, that looks as though he's lived.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve never been able to go with anyone even a day younger than me! Older men have always been my thing... but we’ll see how that goes the older I get!!

I'm the same. As handsome as some young guys can be I like a face with a bit character, that looks as though he's lived."

How about one who looks as though he's lived a hundred years?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mid 20's

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

Just read that one killed a person and seriously injured another in America.

Apparently their attacks are increasing.

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By *implyJayGeeMan
over a year ago

Garthamlock

I’m now at a spot in my life where I can go either way, however.... I feel going younger which for me would probably be 25 depending on maturity would be a lot of hard work which quite honestly, I can’t be doing with. Going older, the ladies know what they want, can hold half a conversation and generally are a lot easier to get on with (no offence young uns). So yup I’m probably gonna look up the way as a first option. (But it’s fab so it’s no gonna happen either way lol)

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