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By *ittlemissnaughtybutnice OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

At a recent social evening with other fab members, a guy asked me how I could "do this without drinking?" as I was the only person in the group not drinking alcohol. By 'this' he meant swinging. Surely if you need dutch courage to play then it's maybe not for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone's different and some people like a wee drink to take the edge off any nerves.

Personally I don't need a drink at a meet and don't like playing with people that are pretty d*unk but each to their own!

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"At a recent social evening with other fab members, a guy asked me how I could "do this without drinking?" as I was the only person in the group not drinking alcohol. By 'this' he meant swinging. Surely if you need dutch courage to play then it's maybe not for you?"

I get this all the time, at Socials or Clubs in particular!

We are all different. I can only say that I don't need a drink to lift some inhibitions I have.

I am happy to say to myself 'get a grip woman, go for it' but some people may need a couple of drink for that mindset to kick in.

We are all different... Dieu merci

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally prefer to stay sober on play meets but I may have a wee drink socially depending on my mood.

We are all different though and don't mind if someone has a few as long as it doesn't affect performance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I usually meet during the day

I'm always sober

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I quite often drive to clubs so dont need drink but i enjoy a glass of wine or two when not driving

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By *omo65Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

I quite enjoy having a drink or two when in a club,but can also enjoy myself on a social without a drink. Think it more enjoyable when your merry and much better for everyone involved.

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutnice OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I suppose as a single female & from a safety point of view, I prefer not to drink until I get to know & trust people. I also meet during the day at times so drinking not an option.

R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At a recent social evening with other fab members, a guy asked me how I could "do this without drinking?" as I was the only person in the group not drinking alcohol. By 'this' he meant swinging. Surely if you need dutch courage to play then it's maybe not for you?

I get this all the time, at Socials or Clubs in particular!

We are all different. I can only say that I don't need a drink to lift some inhibitions I have.

I am happy to say to myself 'get a grip woman, go for it' but some people may need a couple of drink for that mindset to kick in.

We are all different... Dieu merci "

This my wee Petit Pois lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At a recent social evening with other fab members, a guy asked me how I could "do this without drinking?" as I was the only person in the group not drinking alcohol. By 'this' he meant swinging. Surely if you need dutch courage to play then it's maybe not for you?"

I never drink, if I needed a bit of Dutch courage to do anything I’d be starting to wonder why I’d even contemplate doing something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a drink...it's sociable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it is up to the person.

I don't drink much anyway so I don't need a drink to enjoy myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't need to drink to have a good time, but I do drink on occasion but each to their own. i like to drive so when at a social, club or meet I am sober unless it's in Glasgow and I go let's have one to be sociable.

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By *entleman Caller GlasgowMan
over a year ago

Bellshill

As most people are saying, each to their own. My preference would be not to drink, though where trust can be established then it’s good to relax and chill with a beer or champagne.

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutnice OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"At a recent social evening with other fab members, a guy asked me how I could "do this without drinking?" as I was the only person in the group not drinking alcohol. By 'this' he meant swinging. Surely if you need dutch courage to play then it's maybe not for you?

I never drink, if I needed a bit of Dutch courage to do anything I’d be starting to wonder why I’d even contemplate doing something "

My thoughts too.

R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well my first meet I was blootered so was the woman it was great don't need a drink to shag but I've a big cock naturally confident with my gear aff

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By *ablito88Man
over a year ago

Near you

Generally I prefer to drink some red wine, just a little bit, to feel nice and warm inside. When I’m in CJS, I’m a driver so ney alky.

Everybody’s different. For me it’s a nonsense to go to swingers club and gets d*unk there x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well my first meet I was blootered so was the woman it was great don't need a drink to shag but I've a big cock naturally confident with my gear aff"

Ur ye aye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well my first meet I was blootered so was the woman it was great don't need a drink to shag but I've a big cock naturally confident with my gear aff

Ur ye aye "

Am ur aye come roon the now n join me in my backdoor ill whip my boxers off n give you a wet gusset

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"At a recent social evening with other fab members, a guy asked me how I could "do this without drinking?" as I was the only person in the group not drinking alcohol. By 'this' he meant swinging. Surely if you need dutch courage to play then it's maybe not for you?"

Can take or leave drink tbh ..had meets with a few beers first and meets when there hasnt been any ....would never have that much I'd end up pissed tho lol xxx

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By *kblueeyesCouple
over a year ago

kilkenny

It's nice to have a few drinks and relax, sometimes it's just a social thing and always good fun x

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutnice OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"It's nice to have a few drinks and relax, sometimes it's just a social thing and always good fun x"

It is, but he was basically asking how I could participate in swinging, or even a non playing social event without drinking.

R

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By *kblueeyesCouple
over a year ago

kilkenny


"It's nice to have a few drinks and relax, sometimes it's just a social thing and always good fun x

It is, but he was basically asking how I could participate in swinging, or even a non playing social event without drinking.

R "

Good for you, you're relaxed I could do a social without drink but definitely need a couple for a meet just to chillax

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Because like me you are confident enough without it no doubt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to see how confident you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At a recent social evening with other fab members, a guy asked me how I could "do this without drinking?" as I was the only person in the group not drinking alcohol. By 'this' he meant swinging. Surely if you need dutch courage to play then it's maybe not for you?"

Disagree. Got completely hammered once (all four of us were very d*unk) and it arguably killed swinging for me (us), a few drinks though, I think helps with relaxing and killing the initial nerves.

Don’t drink at all now but can see how your companion would have that thought train.

Each to their own as others have mentioned.

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By *mberbCouple
over a year ago

Lothians


"At a recent social evening with other fab members, a guy asked me how I could "do this without drinking?" as I was the only person in the group not drinking alcohol. By 'this' he meant swinging. Surely if you need dutch courage to play then it's maybe not for you?"
We don't drink and 100% agree with what you say

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By *hedevilwearspradaWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere nearby

I’ve never d*unk before a meet - but have during. We shared a bottle of prosecco and fancy biscuits in bed! If I hadn’t trusted him I wouldn’t have had a drink though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot are demonstrating a not very healthy relationship with alcohol

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutnice OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Because like me you are confident enough without it no doubt"

I suppose I am. I do also think that if you need something to enable you to do something then is it really worth it?

R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and ex partner had it on here she was chatting to a guy for ages and he was telling her everything he was going to do, arranged to meet at cjs, he got trollied and fell asleep on couch trying to get his courage level up. Im always driving when i go to parties or clubs so just have to go in sober

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because like me you are confident enough without it no doubt

I suppose I am. I do also think that if you need something to enable you to do something then is it really worth it?

R "

Some folk might question the need for swingers to swing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because like me you are confident enough without it no doubt

I suppose I am. I do also think that if you need something to enable you to do something then is it really worth it?

R "

I need a drink to enable me to do karaoke ... thats definitely worth it

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By *rsFine-MrBallsCouple
over a year ago

markinch

Mrs is always sober, or non drinking for a better phrase, dont need it to enjoy myself

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I like a drink in a club or at a social gathering. Don’t need a drink for a meet though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never needed a drink when I'm having a meet but I like to drink socially and in moderation. I don't do d*unk sex either as it's better sober x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone's different and some people like a wee drink to take the edge off any nerves.

Personally I don't need a drink at a meet and don't like playing with people that are pretty d*unk but each to their own!"

Agree with this one

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

Always best sober ..saviour the moment

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour


"I like a drink...it's sociable "

Think I would need bottle of jack to meet you

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour

Sober for me ,well when I get I my licence back as drive to meets ,as I only accomadate just now I do like a shandy ,yes shandy if it a evening meet

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I don’t need a drink to enjoy myself and won’t play with anyone that’s d*unk either. Situations can get out of control when alcohol is involved.

Everyone should always be aware of what they are doing and who they are with.

As missnaughtybutnice points out, if you need a drink then maybe this isn’t for you. There’s lots of fun to be had without a drink. Equally so I don’t mind having a drink with people I trust but I still wouldn’t get to the stage where I wasn’t in control of my personal safety.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At a recent social evening with other fab members, a guy asked me how I could "do this without drinking?" as I was the only person in the group not drinking alcohol. By 'this' he meant swinging. Surely if you need dutch courage to play then it's maybe not for you?"

Totally agree

I don't drink and at all meets, social or fun or big socials I'm sober. Always have an amazing time as I hope my company does. Best way to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer sober meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At a recent social evening with other fab members, a guy asked me how I could "do this without drinking?" as I was the only person in the group not drinking alcohol. By 'this' he meant swinging. Surely if you need dutch courage to play then it's maybe not for you?

Totally agree

I don't drink and at all meets, social or fun or big socials I'm sober. Always have an amazing time as I hope my company does. Best way to be

"

Think if your drinking so you can swing then you should reevaluate why your drinking, should you really be swinging ? If you enjoy the lifestyle then you should be able to do both, drinking or not drinking easily.

but a wee drink may help some people's nerves or some may have a drink to be sociable or just enjoy drinking, nothing wrong with that as long as it doesn't spoil the night for others and you

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow


"I like a drink...it's sociable

Think I would need bottle of jack to meet you "

They tried to make you go to refab but you said no no no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's strange. I'd need a bevvy to go up and sing karaoke ( the rest need bevvy to get through it)

However any meets I've had and visits to Cjs/Parties in the past I've always been sober as I'm driving.

Guess when you know what's potentially on the agenda you are more relaxed (well I am anyway)

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By *oney4uCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I (honey) always stay sober in a club scenario. I like to have my wits about me. I don’t mind a little drink when on a social/private meet. We’re both not particularly big drinkers in general.

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By *atsnTitsCouple
over a year ago

Land Of Naughtiness

I need alcohol for Dutch courage, however don’t like to be steaming d*unk that I don’t know what’s happening. Just one or two(bottles) to keep the nerves at bay . Don’t like playing with people who are d*unk for two reasons one they dunno what they are doing usually & I want them to remember that intense pleasure with me lolllllll and two in most cases can’t get it up

Tits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like to have a glass or two and a chat after we have all finished the sex .

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over a year ago

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By *eeling hot hot hotCouple
over a year ago

Ardrossan


"At a recent social evening with other fab members, a guy asked me how I could "do this without drinking?" as I was the only person in the group not drinking alcohol. By 'this' he meant swinging. Surely if you need dutch courage to play then it's maybe not for you?"

Totally agree we don't drink and swing. We do drink and we do swing just don't think that they mix well xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At a recent social evening with other fab members, a guy asked me how I could "do this without drinking?" as I was the only person in the group not drinking alcohol. By 'this' he meant swinging. Surely if you need dutch courage to play then it's maybe not for you?

I never drink, if I needed a bit of Dutch courage to do anything I’d be starting to wonder why I’d even contemplate doing something

My thoughts too.

R "

Nice ass and I’m straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will always have a few glasses of red during a meet. Not for a confidence boost but just because i enjoy a glass or two of wine with someone. But I have been known to enjoy a cup of tea on occasion!

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By *ranco75Man
over a year ago

Renfrew

Depends on the situation! If it’s a social I like a few drinks, playtime on the other hand I like to have all my senses about me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd only be drinking in someone"s company if I was completely relaxed around them and knew them well. Also, booze kills the butterflies in the tummy which is a nice feeling.

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By *an from UncleMan
over a year ago

ml1

I never drink at a meet but have had a few beers at end of night if at a club Im off to PDI for a week so i dont know that will work

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutnice OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"At a recent social evening with other fab members, a guy asked me how I could "do this without drinking?" as I was the only person in the group not drinking alcohol. By 'this' he meant swinging. Surely if you need dutch courage to play then it's maybe not for you?

I never drink, if I needed a bit of Dutch courage to do anything I’d be starting to wonder why I’d even contemplate doing something

My thoughts too.

R

Nice ass and I’m straight "

Thank you

R

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By *ac a feeCouple
over a year ago

dundee

we drink and have no problem with those that do or don't ... one thing for sure we go to enjoy OURSELVES not to abide by others moral values . each to their own .. its a short life ...

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutnice OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"we drink and have no problem with those that do or don't ... one thing for sure we go to enjoy OURSELVES not to abide by others moral values . each to their own .. its a short life ..."

I certainly wasn't judging him or anyone else that drinks. It was him that approached me. My initial point was that he thought I was strange for being able to swing whilst alcohol free.

On an additional note, they have now deleted their profile, so possibly swinging isn't for them after all.

R

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By *uncity1Man
over a year ago

dundee


"we drink and have no problem with those that do or don't ... one thing for sure we go to enjoy OURSELVES not to abide by others moral values . each to their own .. its a short life ...

I certainly wasn't judging him or anyone else that drinks. It was him that approached me. My initial point was that he thought I was strange for being able to swing whilst alcohol free.

On an additional note, they have now deleted their profile, so possibly swinging isn't for them after all.

R "
he probably didn't drink enough x

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