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"Always like a 4some with my hubby Mfmf  "That’s one I still need to tick off my bucket list. Been to a party where there’s been more than that but think a MFMF would be interesting | |||
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"Still not sure about parties... feel there’s an expectation to play n that puts us off. Think that’s why we prefer clubs. One on ones outwith clubs we’ve only had with single females so still go others to tick off. Been discussing mfm but I’m a big fearty
K x"Yea good point I never thought of their being an expectation for you take part but I suppose I’m looking at it from a guys point of view. | |||
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"I like mfm and mfmf " Haha the more the better, right? Lol x | |||
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"Don't get me wrong, I do like threesomes with two guys lol x"Haha two is always better than one I guess. X | |||
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"I think every meet is different and would be unfair to compare against each other. 1-1's are generally far more intimate than mmf/mfmf etc ,where as group fun can be a lot naughtier in terms of Fab fun such as dp/dvp. Having said that with the right partner 1-1's can be as kinky and naughty as multiple people playing can be. So for me I'll take both options "Yea I’m with you each have there pros and both have very few cons lol | |||
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"Don't get me wrong, I do like threesomes with two guys lol x
Haha two is always better than one I guess. X "Lol yes it is x | |||
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"Don't get me wrong, I do like threesomes with two guys lol x
Haha two is always better than one I guess. X
Lol yes it is x"Shame I’m below your age limit or I’d show you a good one can be better than two ok ones lol x | |||
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"1 on 1 private meets for me...group sex is just not for me ...and never had a ffm to know whether I'd survive or not "Yea but what a way to go lol  | |||
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"Group sex is good fun, you get a giggle. But not very satisfying. I much prefer a one to one where I can fuck for hours and cum constantly, then feel completely knackered after. "Haha sounds like you’ve had a good one on one meet lol x | |||
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"Don't get me wrong, I do like threesomes with two guys lol x
Haha two is always better than one I guess. X
Lol yes it is x
Shame I’m below your age limit or I’d show you a good one can be better than two ok ones lol x "Lol last time I did that, the guy got a bit too clingy. Sorry not going there again! x | |||
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"Don't get me wrong, I do like threesomes with two guys lol x
Haha two is always better than one I guess. X
Lol yes it is x
Shame I’m below your age limit or I’d show you a good one can be better than two ok ones lol x
Lol last time I did that, the guy got a bit too clingy. Sorry not going there again! x"Haha fare enough but don’t worry I’m not the clingy type x | |||
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"I think every meet is different and would be unfair to compare against each other. 1-1's are generally far more intimate than mmf/mfmf etc ,where as group fun can be a lot naughtier in terms of Fab fun such as dp/dvp. Having said that with the right partner 1-1's can be as kinky and naughty as multiple people playing can be. So for me I'll take both options "Agreed | |||
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"Still not sure about parties... feel there’s an expectation to play n that puts us off. Think that’s why we prefer clubs. One on ones outwith clubs we’ve only had with single females so still go others to tick off. Been discussing mfm but I’m a big fearty
K x"Maybe some parties have play as an expectation but ask the question first or say , yes would like to attend but we may not play. Our last 2 gatherings from our couples profile have been great nights but we always stress that it is a social party / get together first and foremost. If play happens then its by guests choice ONLY. Absolutely not expected or guaranteed. Maybe stick you guys on next guest list and let you see for yourself lol. | |||
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"Still not sure about parties... feel there’s an expectation to play n that puts us off. Think that’s why we prefer clubs. One on ones outwith clubs we’ve only had with single females so still go others to tick off. Been discussing mfm but I’m a big fearty
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Maybe some parties have play as an expectation but ask the question first or say , yes would like to attend but we may not play. Our last 2 gatherings from our couples profile have been great nights but we always stress that it is a social party / get together first and foremost. If play happens then its by guests choice ONLY. Absolutely not expected or guaranteed. Maybe stick you guys on next guest list and let you see for yourself lol. "Poker night was a great social night. BeADevil are great hosts. He Devil and his wife Mrs She Devil know how to throw a party. | |||
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Love one on ones, where you can really focus on a person. But the greedy girl's got to come out from time to time as well though x | |||
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"Still not sure about parties... feel there’s an expectation to play n that puts us off. Think that’s why we prefer clubs. One on ones outwith clubs we’ve only had with single females so still go others to tick off. Been discussing mfm but I’m a big fearty
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Maybe some parties have play as an expectation but ask the question first or say , yes would like to attend but we may not play. Our last 2 gatherings from our couples profile have been great nights but we always stress that it is a social party / get together first and foremost. If play happens then its by guests choice ONLY. Absolutely not expected or guaranteed. Maybe stick you guys on next guest list and let you see for yourself lol. "Yep we’ve been to both, most party hosts stipulate no pressure to play but there is still an expectation from some people (not always the hosts ) K x | |||
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"Still not sure about parties... feel there’s an expectation to play n that puts us off. Think that’s why we prefer clubs. One on ones outwith clubs we’ve only had with single females so still go others to tick off. Been discussing mfm but I’m a big fearty
K x
Maybe some parties have play as an expectation but ask the question first or say , yes would like to attend but we may not play. Our last 2 gatherings from our couples profile have been great nights but we always stress that it is a social party / get together first and foremost. If play happens then its by guests choice ONLY. Absolutely not expected or guaranteed. Maybe stick you guys on next guest list and let you see for yourself lol.
Yep we’ve been to both, most party hosts stipulate no pressure to play but there is still an expectation from some people (not always the hosts )
K x"Hey is it you that hosting the Glasgow social in the summer? | |||
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"Myself and husband have been to some clubs and private parties And never played at any of them "Been to but Never played at a club either  | |||
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"Still not sure about parties... feel there’s an expectation to play n that puts us off. Think that’s why we prefer clubs. One on ones outwith clubs we’ve only had with single females so still go others to tick off. Been discussing mfm but I’m a big fearty
K x
Maybe some parties have play as an expectation but ask the question first or say , yes would like to attend but we may not play. Our last 2 gatherings from our couples profile have been great nights but we always stress that it is a social party / get together first and foremost. If play happens then its by guests choice ONLY. Absolutely not expected or guaranteed. Maybe stick you guys on next guest list and let you see for yourself lol.
Yep we’ve been to both, most party hosts stipulate no pressure to play but there is still an expectation from some people (not always the hosts )
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Hey is it you that hosting the Glasgow social in the summer? "Myself and another fabber K x | |||
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"Still not sure about parties... feel there’s an expectation to play n that puts us off. Think that’s why we prefer clubs. One on ones outwith clubs we’ve only had with single females so still go others to tick off. Been discussing mfm but I’m a big fearty
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Maybe some parties have play as an expectation but ask the question first or say , yes would like to attend but we may not play. Our last 2 gatherings from our couples profile have been great nights but we always stress that it is a social party / get together first and foremost. If play happens then its by guests choice ONLY. Absolutely not expected or guaranteed. Maybe stick you guys on next guest list and let you see for yourself lol.
Poker night was a great social night. BeADevil are great hosts. He Devil and his wife Mrs She Devil know how to throw a party. "Thank you sexy. Keep an eye on your inbox, if we can sort out a date that suits we are having another we themed night before June. X | |||
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M and F group fun has its dynamic that is different to a F only group fun and same to 1-1 when you can focus more on one person and strangely feels like you have more time to do things.
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"I prefer just me and Mrs though it's good to add a 3rd every now and again " Aw, you old romantic you. | |||
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"I prefer just me and Mrs though it's good to add a 3rd every now and again Aw, you old romantic you. "Romantic as a bunch of dandelions. That's me | |||
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...then it doesn’t mater that we are anly soft swing. There is plenty ov fun for everyone
Tho not keen on crowded party’s, I like to keep it intimate.
We have been to two clubs and it wasn’t for us.
Never had a 3some most ov the fems I have chatted with have said no because there is no sex at the end ov the night for them...as we are soft swing
So looks like I have a to do list!!! | |||
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"Mfm comes way down my list weirdly As I always overthink this dynamic lol Where really I should be lapping up all the attention "I'm a bit like this too...all down to how you interpret the situation and obviously what everyone is looking for. I'd like to think I'd feel incredibly sexy and desired but worry I'd end up feeling used. That's my issue though.... | |||
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"Mfm comes way down my list weirdly As I always overthink this dynamic lol Where really I should be lapping up all the attention
I'm a bit like this too...all down to how you interpret the situation and obviously what everyone is looking for. I'd like to think I'd feel incredibly sexy and desired but worry I'd end up feeling used. That's my issue though...."Its strange you might feel used. Surely no matter what the scenario on a swinger site you run the risk of feeling used after every meet with a guy. At the end of the day the guy wants fun with YOU. | |||
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"Mfm comes way down my list weirdly As I always overthink this dynamic lol Where really I should be lapping up all the attention
I'm a bit like this too...all down to how you interpret the situation and obviously what everyone is looking for. I'd like to think I'd feel incredibly sexy and desired but worry I'd end up feeling used. That's my issue though....
Its strange you might feel used. Surely no matter what the scenario on a swinger site you run the risk of feeling used after every meet with a guy. At the end of the day the guy wants fun with YOU. "I know. Like I said it's my issue and probably why I'm looking for a woman! | |||
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"No I never feel used It's more is 1 thinking am Doing more with the other or not paying enough attention to 1 Where in reality the 2 guys couldn't give a toss as long as we are all having fun lol I overthink.com Lol" Aah....You're a giver and just want to make sure everyone is happy! | |||
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"No I never feel used It's more is 1 thinking am Doing more with the other or not paying enough attention to 1 Where in reality the 2 guys couldn't give a toss as long as we are all having fun lol I overthink.com Lol" You need to quit with the thinking and start with the doing Mrs!!! I will loan out S as a starter for you | |||
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"No I never feel used It's more is 1 thinking am Doing more with the other or not paying enough attention to 1 Where in reality the 2 guys couldn't give a toss as long as we are all having fun lol I overthink.com Lol You need to quit with the thinking and start with the doing Mrs!!! I will loan out S as a starter for you "now your talking!! | |||
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"Mfm comes way down my list weirdly As I always overthink this dynamic lol Where really I should be lapping up all the attention
I'm a bit like this too...all down to how you interpret the situation and obviously what everyone is looking for. I'd like to think I'd feel incredibly sexy and desired but worry I'd end up feeling used. That's my issue though....
Its strange you might feel used. Surely no matter what the scenario on a swinger site you run the risk of feeling used after every meet with a guy. At the end of the day the guy wants fun with YOU.
I know. Like I said it's my issue and probably why I'm looking for a woman! "Have you found that woman yet? Difficult on here isn't it? x | |||
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"Mfm comes way down my list weirdly As I always overthink this dynamic lol Where really I should be lapping up all the attention
I'm a bit like this too...all down to how you interpret the situation and obviously what everyone is looking for. I'd like to think I'd feel incredibly sexy and desired but worry I'd end up feeling used. That's my issue though....
Its strange you might feel used. Surely no matter what the scenario on a swinger site you run the risk of feeling used after every meet with a guy. At the end of the day the guy wants fun with YOU.
I know. Like I said it's my issue and probably why I'm looking for a woman!
Have you found that woman yet? Difficult on here isn't it? x"Was just about to say I have my finger in a few pies but that's possibly not the best turn of phrase to use!
I'm working on it, let's just say that! | |||
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"Mfm comes way down my list weirdly As I always overthink this dynamic lol Where really I should be lapping up all the attention
I'm a bit like this too...all down to how you interpret the situation and obviously what everyone is looking for. I'd like to think I'd feel incredibly sexy and desired but worry I'd end up feeling used. That's my issue though....
Its strange you might feel used. Surely no matter what the scenario on a swinger site you run the risk of feeling used after every meet with a guy. At the end of the day the guy wants fun with YOU.
I know. Like I said it's my issue and probably why I'm looking for a woman!
Have you found that woman yet? Difficult on here isn't it? x
Was just about to say I have my finger in a few pies but that's possibly not the best turn of phrase to use!
I'm working on it, let's just say that!"You should work a little harder then! x | |||
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"1 on 1 for me, I’m shy.... " For some unknown reason im less shy in a crowd of folk | |||
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"Mfm comes way down my list weirdly As I always overthink this dynamic lol Where really I should be lapping up all the attention
I'm a bit like this too...all down to how you interpret the situation and obviously what everyone is looking for. I'd like to think I'd feel incredibly sexy and desired but worry I'd end up feeling used. That's my issue though....
Its strange you might feel used. Surely no matter what the scenario on a swinger site you run the risk of feeling used after every meet with a guy. At the end of the day the guy wants fun with YOU.
I know. Like I said it's my issue and probably why I'm looking for a woman!
Have you found that woman yet? Difficult on here isn't it? x
Was just about to say I have my finger in a few pies but that's possibly not the best turn of phrase to use!
I'm working on it, let's just say that!"Hahahaha love the phrase | |||
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"No I never feel used It's more is 1 thinking am Doing more with the other or not paying enough attention to 1 Where in reality the 2 guys couldn't give a toss as long as we are all having fun lol I overthink.com Lol You need to quit with the thinking and start with the doing Mrs!!! I will loan out S as a starter for you now your talking!! "Anytime, gives me peace | |||
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"Mfm comes way down my list weirdly As I always overthink this dynamic lol Where really I should be lapping up all the attention
I'm a bit like this too...all down to how you interpret the situation and obviously what everyone is looking for. I'd like to think I'd feel incredibly sexy and desired but worry I'd end up feeling used. That's my issue though....
Its strange you might feel used. Surely no matter what the scenario on a swinger site you run the risk of feeling used after every meet with a guy. At the end of the day the guy wants fun with YOU.
I know. Like I said it's my issue and probably why I'm looking for a woman!
Have you found that woman yet? Difficult on here isn't it? x
Was just about to say I have my finger in a few pies but that's possibly not the best turn of phrase to use!
I'm working on it, let's just say that!
You should work a little harder then! x"Thats me telt then! ( cracks whip) | |||
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