FabSwingers.com forum: Spontaneous Fun

By *berdeenMale OP Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Evening All,

Hope you’ve all had a good weekend.

Have been chatting to a few fab friends & discussion came on to “Spontaneous Fun”

Is still a thing?

Do you get offers for it?

With the ermergance of so many faceless profiles that appear / disappear does this put you off entertaining the conversation?

Thoughts & discussion welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All our meets are spontaneous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d do a spontaneous meet. But never without a face pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s the only kind of meets we have. We’re very content on our own but occasionally just feel the need to change it up a bit so will put up a status or meet in the meets section. Keeps things interesting lol. L

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By *licker77Man
over a year ago

Stirling

Would like them as can be very exciting (yes, there’s still a need for attraction!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had spontaneous meets in past and had some amazing fun times but still felt a connection with everything that went on but being an experienced swinger I feel meets where I have been chatting for a while getting to know the persons more is far better time in many aspects.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love spontaneous meets. But not totally random, attraction has to be there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Way back in the day we used to spontaneous meets all the time!

Some great meets and some horrendous meets came of it.

Not so much these days as way too many crazy folk on here so now it takes alot of chatting for us to actually meet.

Getting older and wiser lol

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

Only ever done one meet where we literally exchanged pics half an hour before meeting! It was a totally amazing night x

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By *ubbly2012Woman
over a year ago

inver somewhere

"Had spontaneous meets in past and had some amazing fun times but still felt a connection with everything that went on but being an experienced swinger I feel meets where I have been chatting for a while getting to know the persons more is far better time in many aspects.

Totally agree...

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By *ustforfun1759Couple
over a year ago

IRVINE

had one or two meets just like that mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spontaneous...............COMBUSTION

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

When I originally joined on a couple profile that's pretty much how we had all our meets. Now as a single I never do. I don't even meet for play without a social meet first, even if we have been chatting for a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I originally joined on a couple profile that's pretty much how we had all our meets. Now as a single I never do. I don't even meet for play without a social meet first, even if we have been chatting for a while.

this for older me now

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By *egs11ABCWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Totally agree..."

Yep i agree. Have done it but my better meets been with people iv built up a rapport with 1st x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had some spontaneous meets and they're a lot of fun. Once in a while it's good to have something like that but majority of the time I like to chat and get get to know someone furst, build up the attraction. I think it works better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol first

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By *entleman Caller GlasgowMan
over a year ago

Bellshill

I suppose it depends how busy your life is, though I can see why a female would like to try and get to know the guy first rather than rushing in to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would like to get to know the person/people first but sometimes it is fun just to go for it

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

Nout wrong with spontaneous meets, sometimes the chat goes on for too long that the opportunity or mystery has vanished and you're left with blue balls.

Ps. What's the female equivalent of blue balls?

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Spontaneous can be fun and unexpected but I do like to get to know the lady before hand ..the lead up to that first meet can be intense

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"Spontaneous can be fun and unexpected but I do like to get to know the lady before hand ..the lead up to that first meet can be intense

I agree. Had some spontaneous meets that have went well, others not so well!

But I love the lead up to a meet, when you are massaging each other finding out what makes the other tick. To me that’s part of the foreplay! Makes me really excited for the meet to begin in person!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It takes a little planning to be spontaneous

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

Spontaneous can be great fun, but I generally enjoy getting to know some a little first, less risk of a disappointment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In Aberdeen Monday Tuesday. Next week.

Edinburgh Wednesday

Glasgow Thursday

Hit me up if you want some excitement xx

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