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By *lba2022 OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Possibly hosting a fun night late April early May and looking for fun people . Maybe 4 males and couples and ladies. Not too large as some may be new to scene. So just testing waters for potential response. Bring your own alcohol. Nibbles provided. Please dress smart casual . No denims or trainers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would denims and trainers detract from the fun night with the fun people?

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"Would denims and trainers detract from the fun night with the fun people?"
Dress code is clearly more important than knowing how many people are going, who they are, where they’re going, and what they’ll be doing when they get there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would denims and trainers detract from the fun night with the fun people?Dress code is clearly more important than knowing how many people are going, who they are, where they’re going, and what they’ll be doing when they get there."

The fun people should all turn up wearing denims for a laugh just to prove how much fun they are

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By *eefyBangerMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

If people don’t wish to adhere to the OPs dress code then they don’t have to attend. What is it with some people on here? By nit picking the OP and rubbishing his event does that make them feel like they have some sort of superiority over other users

Good luck in your search OP

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By *lba2022 OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Thank you for your supportive statement Beefybanger.Much appreciated. Joke is some of the negative contributors are not even in Aberdeen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Possibly hosting a fun night late April early May and looking for fun people . Maybe 4 males and couples and ladies. Not too large as some may be new to scene. So just testing waters for potential response. Bring your own alcohol. Nibbles provided. Please dress smart casual . No denims or trainers. "

This would be new to me but would be happy to discuss ! Realise numbers will be limited so would not build my hopes up nor go into a strop if not selected ! Normal clothes are entirely manageable for me without any issues !!!

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By *eather47Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I allways thought if you go to a party you would never wear trainers or denims Now i know you can have nice denims BUT come on let be sensible its nice to dress nice for a party

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"If people don’t wish to adhere to the OPs dress code then they don’t have to attend. What is it with some people on here? By nit picking the OP and rubbishing his event does that make them feel like they have some sort of superiority over other users. Good luck in your search OP "

So one or two wry comments constitutes nit-picking or rubbishing? No. Simmer down. I sorely doubt my comment would put anyone off of expressing an interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people don’t wish to adhere to the OPs dress code then they don’t have to attend. What is it with some people on here? By nit picking the OP and rubbishing his event does that make them feel like they have some sort of superiority over other users

Good luck in your search OP "

It was the over use of the word fun I was having a laugh about. He's welcome to have any dress code he likes at his fun house party.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is smart casual...especially for a guy?

The fun would already be sucked out of a party (for me) if I was being told what to wear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck OP. Your party, your preferences.

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"Your party, your preferences."
Nobody has disputed that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your party, your preferences.Nobody has disputed that."

HIYA!!

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By *eADevilCouple
over a year ago

Blantyre


"Would denims and trainers detract from the fun night with the fun people?Dress code is clearly more important than knowing how many people are going, who they are, where they’re going, and what they’ll be doing when they get there.

The fun people should all turn up wearing denims for a laugh just to prove how much fun they are "

See thats funny. For this little slice of wit to be labelled as nit picking or anything else by the organiser of any party tells me its probably NOT going to be fun as the host does not seem to have a sense of humour. Dress code was a bit ott in my opinion as people would go dressed how they felt comfortable. People that feel comfotable have FUN. People that have FUN means others are possibly joining that FUN. What this host wanted was people to do what he wanted as its his party, what else might he WANT at HIS party.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would denims and trainers detract from the fun night with the fun people?Dress code is clearly more important than knowing how many people are going, who they are, where they’re going, and what they’ll be doing when they get there.

The fun people should all turn up wearing denims for a laugh just to prove how much fun they are

See thats funny. For this little slice of wit to be labelled as nit picking or anything else by the organiser of any party tells me its probably NOT going to be fun as the host does not seem to have a sense of humour. Dress code was a bit ott in my opinion as people would go dressed how they felt comfortable. People that feel comfotable have FUN. People that have FUN means others are possibly joining that FUN. What this host wanted was people to do what he wanted as its his party, what else might he WANT at HIS party. "

Everyone to be there by 8, everyone to be having sex by 8.30, everyone to be having sex with him... well the females anyway. I imagine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I better go dig my ballgown out of the cupboard then but note to self..dont wear my denim jacket with it.

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By *lba2022 OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

And you wonder why genuine people cant be bothered to host events.

Thank you to the genuine people who have messaged me directly and have expressed an interest.

To the rest of the sarcastic folks you know what you all can do. Just make sure the parachute is not working.

Goodbye all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people don’t wish to adhere to the OPs dress code then they don’t have to attend. What is it with some people on here? By nit picking the OP and rubbishing his event does that make them feel like they have some sort of superiority over other users. Good luck in your search OP

So one or two wry comments constitutes nit-picking or rubbishing? No. Simmer down. I sorely doubt my comment would put anyone off of expressing an interest."

You're comment wouldn't put me off expressing an interest in this event no. Knowing the OP is like 18 years older than his profile suggests... that put me off for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And you wonder why genuine people cant be bothered to host events.

Thank you to the genuine people who have messaged me directly and have expressed an interest.

To the rest of the sarcastic folks you know what you all can do. Just make sure the parachute is not working.

Goodbye all."

I manage to be genuinely sarcastic

But I've no need for a parachute up here on my high horse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give the guy a break. At least he is trying and it’s a fucking dessert up here. I would have been up for giving this a go and supporting the event.

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"And you wonder why genuine people cant be bothered to host events."

I dread to think what’ll happen if somebody dares to make a joke at your party. Jeez.

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It just made me smile that you didn’t include very much detail at all about the party, except the dress policy. An unusual detail.

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Can you give me an idea of the kind of nibbles will be available

And ill dress to suit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there's cocktail sausages you have to wear a dickie bow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Give the guy a break. At least he is trying and it’s a fucking dessert up here. I would have been up for giving this a go and supporting the event. "

To be fair last time he was arranging a party and got sarky comments on the forum, I stuck up for him as you have done. That was on my last profile. Turned out I shouldn't have bothered. But yeah the swingers of Aberdeen are grown-ups. They will find out for themselves I'm sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people don’t wish to adhere to the OPs dress code then they don’t have to attend. What is it with some people on here? By nit picking the OP and rubbishing his event does that make them feel like they have some sort of superiority over other users. Good luck in your search OP

So one or two wry comments constitutes nit-picking or rubbishing? No. Simmer down. I sorely doubt my comment would put anyone off of expressing an interest.

You're comment wouldn't put me off expressing an interest in this event no. Knowing the OP is like 18 years older than his profile suggests... that put me off for sure"

Profiles don't give a suggestion of someone's age, they give a specific age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its like being back at school and getting a bollocking for wearing something apart from your uniform.

Jeez what happened to the 'fun' element of FAB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people don’t wish to adhere to the OPs dress code then they don’t have to attend. What is it with some people on here? By nit picking the OP and rubbishing his event does that make them feel like they have some sort of superiority over other users. Good luck in your search OP

So one or two wry comments constitutes nit-picking or rubbishing? No. Simmer down. I sorely doubt my comment would put anyone off of expressing an interest.

You're comment wouldn't put me off expressing an interest in this event no. Knowing the OP is like 18 years older than his profile suggests... that put me off for sure

Profiles don't give a suggestion of someone's age, they give a specific age. "

Well yes if you want to get pedantic about it. Either way, his profile is lying. And not just by a year or two. Let's just say closer to 60 than 40... Go big or go home eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people don’t wish to adhere to the OPs dress code then they don’t have to attend. What is it with some people on here? By nit picking the OP and rubbishing his event does that make them feel like they have some sort of superiority over other users. Good luck in your search OP

So one or two wry comments constitutes nit-picking or rubbishing? No. Simmer down. I sorely doubt my comment would put anyone off of expressing an interest.

You're comment wouldn't put me off expressing an interest in this event no. Knowing the OP is like 18 years older than his profile suggests... that put me off for sure

Profiles don't give a suggestion of someone's age, they give a specific age.

Well yes if you want to get pedantic about it. Either way, his profile is lying. And not just by a year or two. Let's just say closer to 60 than 40... Go big or go home eh?"

People lie on their profiles all the time. On the evidence of some public pictures, it would appear that lying about body type is quite common.

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"Profiles don't give a suggestion of someone's age, they give a specific age."

If it’s a lie, then it ‘suggests’ something that is incorrect. It’s a fairly common way to use the word.

.

Other ways to use the word are to denote a small amount or hint of something, e.g. “There’s just a suggestion of herb in this cocktail sausage,” or the most basic use, of introducing a thought or idea, e.g. “I suggest you stop trying to be smart, because it never seems to work out for you.”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Profiles don't give a suggestion of someone's age, they give a specific age.

If it’s a lie, then it ‘suggests’ something that is incorrect. It’s a fairly common way to use the word.

.

Other ways to use the word are to denote a small amount or hint of something, e.g. “There’s just a suggestion of herb in this cocktail sausage,” or the most basic use, of introducing a thought or idea, e.g. “I suggest you stop trying to be smart, because it never seems to work out for you.”"

Thanks dad!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Profiles don't give a suggestion of someone's age, they give a specific age.

If it’s a lie, then it ‘suggests’ something that is incorrect. It’s a fairly common way to use the word.

.

Other ways to use the word are to denote a small amount or hint of something, e.g. “There’s just a suggestion of herb in this cocktail sausage,” or the most basic use, of introducing a thought or idea, e.g. “I suggest you stop trying to be smart, because it never seems to work out for you.”

Thanks dad! "

Aww can you two not shake cocks or something and call a truce

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Handbags at dawn,just not the prada I need that to accompany my ballgown

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Profiles don't give a suggestion of someone's age, they give a specific age.

If it’s a lie, then it ‘suggests’ something that is incorrect. It’s a fairly common way to use the word.

.

Other ways to use the word are to denote a small amount or hint of something, e.g. “There’s just a suggestion of herb in this cocktail sausage,” or the most basic use, of introducing a thought or idea, e.g. “I suggest you stop trying to be smart, because it never seems to work out for you.”

Thanks dad!

Aww can you two not shake cocks or something and call a truce "

I like his flirting, it's sweet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Profiles don't give a suggestion of someone's age, they give a specific age.

If it’s a lie, then it ‘suggests’ something that is incorrect. It’s a fairly common way to use the word.

.

Other ways to use the word are to denote a small amount or hint of something, e.g. “There’s just a suggestion of herb in this cocktail sausage,” or the most basic use, of introducing a thought or idea, e.g. “I suggest you stop trying to be smart, because it never seems to work out for you.”

Thanks dad!

Aww can you two not shake cocks or something and call a truce "

They would make a lovely couple eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Profiles don't give a suggestion of someone's age, they give a specific age.

If it’s a lie, then it ‘suggests’ something that is incorrect. It’s a fairly common way to use the word.

.

Other ways to use the word are to denote a small amount or hint of something, e.g. “There’s just a suggestion of herb in this cocktail sausage,” or the most basic use, of introducing a thought or idea, e.g. “I suggest you stop trying to be smart, because it never seems to work out for you.”

Thanks dad!

Aww can you two not shake cocks or something and call a truce

They would make a lovely couple eh "

Can you ask him for me, I'm shy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im off to buy a new hat to be prepared

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By *egs11ABCWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Handbags at dawn,just not the prada I need that to accompany my ballgown "

Include some mud and we.d have an ace night of entertainment for us ladies. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Profiles don't give a suggestion of someone's age, they give a specific age.

If it’s a lie, then it ‘suggests’ something that is incorrect. It’s a fairly common way to use the word.

.

Other ways to use the word are to denote a small amount or hint of something, e.g. “There’s just a suggestion of herb in this cocktail sausage,” or the most basic use, of introducing a thought or idea, e.g. “I suggest you stop trying to be smart, because it never seems to work out for you.”

Thanks dad!

Aww can you two not shake cocks or something and call a truce

They would make a lovely couple eh

Can you ask him for me, I'm shy. "

The dubious butlers has a nice ring to it

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By *egs11ABCWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Im off to buy a new hat to be prepared "

U allowed to wear a hat ???? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But remember folks no denim to be worn at the wedding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Profiles don't give a suggestion of someone's age, they give a specific age.

If it’s a lie, then it ‘suggests’ something that is incorrect. It’s a fairly common way to use the word.

.

Other ways to use the word are to denote a small amount or hint of something, e.g. “There’s just a suggestion of herb in this cocktail sausage,” or the most basic use, of introducing a thought or idea, e.g. “I suggest you stop trying to be smart, because it never seems to work out for you.”

Thanks dad!

Aww can you two not shake cocks or something and call a truce

They would make a lovely couple eh

Can you ask him for me, I'm shy.

The dubious butlers has a nice ring to it "

He'll be my butler when we hook up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people don’t wish to adhere to the OPs dress code then they don’t have to attend. What is it with some people on here? By nit picking the OP and rubbishing his event does that make them feel like they have some sort of superiority over other users. Good luck in your search OP

So one or two wry comments constitutes nit-picking or rubbishing? No. Simmer down. I sorely doubt my comment would put anyone off of expressing an interest.

You're comment wouldn't put me off expressing an interest in this event no. Knowing the OP is like 18 years older than his profile suggests... that put me off for sure

Profiles don't give a suggestion of someone's age, they give a specific age.

Well yes if you want to get pedantic about it. Either way, his profile is lying. And not just by a year or two. Let's just say closer to 60 than 40... Go big or go home eh?

People lie on their profiles all the time. On the evidence of some public pictures, it would appear that lying about body type is quite common.

"

This is true, many lie. I don't. And if I am putting enough trust in a person to attend their party, I would prefer that they weren't lying about their age by almost two decades. Because even by fab standards, that is a fair porkie. You will note also that the OP has seen my post, had posted since, has even managed to block me. But has not denied what I have said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people don’t wish to adhere to the OPs dress code then they don’t have to attend. What is it with some people on here? By nit picking the OP and rubbishing his event does that make them feel like they have some sort of superiority over other users. Good luck in your search OP

So one or two wry comments constitutes nit-picking or rubbishing? No. Simmer down. I sorely doubt my comment would put anyone off of expressing an interest.

You're comment wouldn't put me off expressing an interest in this event no. Knowing the OP is like 18 years older than his profile suggests... that put me off for sure

Profiles don't give a suggestion of someone's age, they give a specific age.

Well yes if you want to get pedantic about it. Either way, his profile is lying. And not just by a year or two. Let's just say closer to 60 than 40... Go big or go home eh?

People lie on their profiles all the time. On the evidence of some public pictures, it would appear that lying about body type is quite common.

This is true, many lie. I don't. And if I am putting enough trust in a person to attend their party, I would prefer that they weren't lying about their age by almost two decades. Because even by fab standards, that is a fair porkie. You will note also that the OP has seen my post, had posted since, has even managed to block me. But has not denied what I have said

"

It's okay, I've had my English lesson from my not-so-secret admirer, I'm totally down with what's going on now!

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By *egs11ABCWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"If people don’t wish to adhere to the OPs dress code then they don’t have to attend. What is it with some people on here? By nit picking the OP and rubbishing his event does that make them feel like they have some sort of superiority over other users. Good luck in your search OP

So one or two wry comments constitutes nit-picking or rubbishing? No. Simmer down. I sorely doubt my comment would put anyone off of expressing an interest.

You're comment wouldn't put me off expressing an interest in this event no. Knowing the OP is like 18 years older than his profile suggests... that put me off for sure

Profiles don't give a suggestion of someone's age, they give a specific age.

Well yes if you want to get pedantic about it. Either way, his profile is lying. And not just by a year or two. Let's just say closer to 60 than 40... Go big or go home eh?

People lie on their profiles all the time. On the evidence of some public pictures, it would appear that lying about body type is quite common.

This is true, many lie. I don't. And if I am putting enough trust in a person to attend their party, I would prefer that they weren't lying about their age by almost two decades. Because even by fab standards, that is a fair porkie. You will note also that the OP has seen my post, had posted since, has even managed to block me. But has not denied what I have said

"

No that's because everyone who has seen him in person knows u are telling the truth. He blocked about a dozen of us from last year's birthday bash cos of something 1 person sd he didn't like. So everyone going got blocked. x

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

I guess oatcakes is the nibbles then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess oatcakes is the nibbles then "

Bland and dry?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How would you dress suitably for those nibbles?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont mind oatcakes as long as they come on top of stovies with a bit of beetroot on the side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess oatcakes is the nibbles then

Bland and dry? "

that's mean. I think oatcakes is tasty

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow


"How would you dress suitably for those nibbles?"

I was thinking of shirtcocking it

Id need a bib too obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess oatcakes is the nibbles then

Bland and dry?

that's mean. I think oatcakes is tasty"

Oatcakes are left on the shelf all but once a year!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How would you dress suitably for those nibbles?

I was thinking of shirtcocking it

Id need a bib too obviously"

For the crumbs....obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry I’m into double stonewash denim.. and my name is Dave so no chance me getting in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry I’m into double stonewash denim.. and my name is Dave so no chance me getting in "

Go the whole hog. Jacket, jeans, shirt and waistcoat.

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow


"Sorry I’m into double stonewash denim.. and my name is Dave so no chance me getting in

Go the whole hog. Jacket, jeans, shirt and waistcoat. "

Thats an Aberdeen Tuxedo ...youll be absolutely fine

They hand out Quo patches at the door if you dont have one .... cant have you entering underdressed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont mind oatcakes as long as they come on top of stovies with a bit of beetroot on the side "

This by the plate full !!! Yum !!

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