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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Has anyone been to this and can tell me if its any good? I'm new to this(verified) but scared to try a club on my own!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this a thing?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes I saw it in the meets and events section!! My preference is BBC but can be difficult to find decent guys who are respectful and not time waster. Just don't think I have balls to go alone!!

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Yes I saw it in the meets and events section!! My preference is BBC but can be difficult to find decent guys who are respectful and not time waster. Just don't think I have balls to go alone!! "

Definitely for cj's?

R

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Am sure I saw it,now can't find it?

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

On CJ’s profile .

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By *inUpGirlWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Think its tje first time shes trying it out x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi thanks for confirming that I wasn't imagining this!! And the people who have messaged me to call me racist have been blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi thanks for confirming that I wasn't imagining this!! And the people who have messaged me to call me racist have been blocked. "

That'll learn 'em!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi thanks for confirming that I wasn't imagining this!! And the people who have messaged me to call me racist have been blocked. "

Definitely don't think you're racist, we all have our preferences.

Maybe I'm being over sensitive, but calling it an interracial night doesn't sit well with me.

Sorry, not explaining it very well

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By *issyForDommeTV/TS
over a year ago

glasgow

Call me cynical, but I'm just imagining a whole load of white women and maybe one or two black guys...the poor guys are going to be exhausted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You never know ppl, Might be a few black ladies there too. However interracial is not just black and white.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You never know ppl, Might be a few black ladies there too. However interracial is not just black and white.

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This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been but when is it I'm up for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I saw it in the meets and events section!! My preference is BBC but can be difficult to find decent guys who are respectful and not time waster. Just don't think I have balls to go alone!! "

If you find you have balls you should have gone on Friday

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think its tje first time shes trying it out x"

Seems a few new things have been tried lately, the cubs and cougars, fuller figure night... would be interested to know if these nights attracted different clientele

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By *andj65Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Looking forward to this nite...

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By *eADevilCouple
over a year ago

Blantyre


"Think its tje first time shes trying it out x

Seems a few new things have been tried lately, the cubs and cougars, fuller figure night... would be interested to know if these nights attracted different clientele"

So how did these nights go , was virtually zero feedback after cougars night. Was it a success or same faces but calling it different . Just asking not having a pop.

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Hi thanks for confirming that I wasn't imagining this!! And the people who have messaged me to call me racist have been blocked.

Definitely don't think you're racist, we all have our preferences.

Maybe I'm being over sensitive, but calling it an interracial night doesn't sit well with me.

Sorry, not explaining it very well "

I agree with you Shorty.

Don't think it is racist at all, am always for people's preferences.

However, I don't like the term 'interracial night' it doesn't ring 'correctly' to my ears.

Personally, I would not attend a night called that like that.

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock


"Call me cynical, but I'm just imagining a whole load of white women and maybe one or two black guys...the poor guys are going to be exhausted "

Yeah, those poor guys.

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock


"Yes I saw it in the meets and events section!! My preference is BBC but can be difficult to find decent guys who are respectful and not time waster. Just don't think I have balls to go alone!! "

Always curious as to women looking for bbc, what's the difference to bwc?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree with you Shorty.

Don't think it is racist at all, am always for people's preferences.

However, I don't like the term 'interracial night' it doesn't ring 'correctly' to my ears.

Personally, I would not attend a night called that like that."

I doubt there can be many more qualified to really express a viewpoint on this Max. Maybe CJ could ask your opinion on a better name?

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I agree with you Shorty.

Don't think it is racist at all, am always for people's preferences.

However, I don't like the term 'interracial night' it doesn't ring 'correctly' to my ears.

Personally, I would not attend a night called that like that.

I doubt there can be many more qualified to really express a viewpoint on this Max. Maybe CJ could ask your opinion on a better name? "

Oh nooo! I was just saying!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I saw it in the meets and events section!! My preference is BBC but can be difficult to find decent guys who are respectful and not time waster. Just don't think I have balls to go alone!!

Always curious as to women looking for bbc, what's the difference to bwc? "

The colour

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"Yes I saw it in the meets and events section!! My preference is BBC but can be difficult to find decent guys who are respectful and not time waster. Just don't think I have balls to go alone!!

Always curious as to women looking for bbc, what's the difference to bwc?

The colour "

The day of the week surely ?

BBC = Big Bill’s cock Monday to Friday

BWC = Big William’s cock his Sunday name .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I saw it in the meets and events section!! My preference is BBC but can be difficult to find decent guys who are respectful and not time waster. Just don't think I have balls to go alone!!

Always curious as to women looking for bbc, what's the difference to bwc?

The colour

The day of the week surely ?

BBC = Big Bill’s cock Monday to Friday

BWC = Big William’s cock his Sunday name . "

Is Saturday his day of rest?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree with you Shorty.

Don't think it is racist at all, am always for people's preferences.

However, I don't like the term 'interracial night' it doesn't ring 'correctly' to my ears.

Personally, I would not attend a night called that like that.

I doubt there can be many more qualified to really express a viewpoint on this Max. Maybe CJ could ask your opinion on a better name?

Oh nooo! I was just saying! "

So was I!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think its tje first time shes trying it out x

Seems a few new things have been tried lately, the cubs and cougars, fuller figure night... would be interested to know if these nights attracted different clientele"

My first time ever at Cjs was cubs and cougars. Was nervous as hell but everyone was very welcoming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh get over yourselves ...,we live in an inter-racial world,, it's not derogatory,or insulting,certainly not racist.for you to think it is ,tells me that your world is only imagine in black people and white people. We live in a more diverse society than just black and white. Try thinking outside of the B&W,, there's a rainbow of people on our planet and yes that includes Scotland ,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh get over yourselves ...,we live in an inter-racial world,, it's not derogatory,or insulting,certainly not racist.for you to think it is ,tells me that your world is only imagine in black people and white people. We live in a more diverse society than just black and white. Try thinking outside of the B&W,, there's a rainbow of people on our planet and yes that includes Scotland ,,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Apologies didn't mean to start a row in here but in for a penny...anyone been to the greedy girls events?

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Apologies didn't mean to start a row in here but in for a penny...anyone been to the greedy girls events? "

Once, a number of years ago. Never been back since.

R

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"Apologies didn't mean to start a row in here but in for a penny...anyone been to the greedy girls events? "

Yes it was a very religious experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are just one learned person. Interracial is between two races not just for white and black

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s great I’d personally call it multicultural and the theme being costume from home nations or pick a favourite culture and dress up accordingly

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"I think it’s great I’d personally call it multicultural and the theme being costume from home nations or pick a favourite culture and dress up accordingly "

Great idea .

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By *xplorer13Man
over a year ago

glenrothes

Do Asian and black women go to this as I would love to meet them.

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Do Asian and black women go to this as I would love to meet them. "

Probably not.

This night is advertised as an interracial night, This is for the Ladies who Appreciate Black men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do Asian and black women go to this as I would love to meet them.

Probably not.

This night is advertised as an interracial night, This is for the Ladies who Appreciate Black men.

"

So i might be wrong because i cant actually see it advertised to read the detail but why would interracial only mean white women and black men? Surely it means for people who appreciate people if a race which is not their own and that could be any mix of people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do Asian and black women go to this as I would love to meet them.

Probably not.

This night is advertised as an interracial night, This is for the Ladies who Appreciate Black men.

"

If that is the case, then I shouldn't be labeled an 'Interracial Night'. It should simply be called, 'Black Men Only Night'.

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Do Asian and black women go to this as I would love to meet them.

Probably not.

This night is advertised as an interracial night, This is for the Ladies who Appreciate Black men.

So i might be wrong because i cant actually see it advertised to read the detail but why would interracial only mean white women and black men? Surely it means for people who appreciate people if a race which is not their own and that could be any mix of people? "

It's on CJs profile along with a date.

If you want more details message or email Caroline, I am sure she will answer all your questions.

I was only replying to the poster wondering about Black and Asian ladies attending.

Think am well placed to know what 'interracial' means lol

The ladies that appreciate black men can be caucasian, asian, oriental etc...

If you like black men, just go and have fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do Asian and black women go to this as I would love to meet them.

Probably not.

This night is advertised as an interracial night, This is for the Ladies who Appreciate Black men.

So i might be wrong because i cant actually see it advertised to read the detail but why would interracial only mean white women and black men? Surely it means for people who appreciate people if a race which is not their own and that could be any mix of people?

It's on CJs profile along with a date.

If you want more details message or email Caroline, I am sure she will answer all your questions.

I was only replying to the poster wondering about Black and Asian ladies attending.

Think am well placed to know what 'interracial' means lol

The ladies that appreciate black men can be caucasian, asian, oriental etc...

If you like black men, just go and have fun! "

See it now thanks ... thats not what i would have thought i was getting if i went to an interracial night ... sounds more like bbc night

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Do Asian and black women go to this as I would love to meet them.

Probably not.

This night is advertised as an interracial night, This is for the Ladies who Appreciate Black men.

So i might be wrong because i cant actually see it advertised to read the detail but why would interracial only mean white women and black men? Surely it means for people who appreciate people if a race which is not their own and that could be any mix of people?

It's on CJs profile along with a date.

If you want more details message or email Caroline, I am sure she will answer all your questions.

I was only replying to the poster wondering about Black and Asian ladies attending.

Think am well placed to know what 'interracial' means lol

The ladies that appreciate black men can be caucasian, asian, oriental etc...

If you like black men, just go and have fun!

See it now thanks ... thats not what i would have thought i was getting if i went to an interracial night ... sounds more like bbc night "

I checked as I wanted to know before commenting on here!

And yes, I was surprised myself.

The Black guys will have a ball lol

I have a black skin but... Maybe I will sneak in using my 'amerindian/oriental' race card lol

Saying all that... Always good for a Club to propose a different night and see if it works!

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By *eADevilCouple
over a year ago

Blantyre

Sry i dont get this night again , on any normal open club night you get all colours, shapes and sizes. Why would you limit your pottential customers for a particular themed night. By all means at cjs set aside a lounge for this theme but not the whole venue. Sounds bonkers to me. So the cougars had a night now the bbc lovers get a night these groupings could easily have had these options on ANY open night. As i said the last time on these themed nights , theres nothing in it for the single guys that they cant get on an open night so wheres the benefit of attending. Less options for the guys, as less females to choose from since they are only looking for certain type of man .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sry i dont get this night again , on any normal open club night you get all colours, shapes and sizes. Why would you limit your pottential customers for a particular themed night. By all means at cjs set aside a lounge for this theme but not the whole venue. Sounds bonkers to me. So the cougars had a night now the bbc lovers get a night these groupings could easily have had these options on ANY open night. As i said the last time on these themed nights , theres nothing in it for the single guys that they cant get on an open night so wheres the benefit of attending. Less options for the guys, as less females to choose from since they are only looking for certain type of man . "

Personally having spoken to a few black guys they actually feel alienated by a lot of people on the site, not everyone is welcoming to them and they feel they get tarred with a racist brush, the idea that cj is letting these guys know that there are lots of women who actually like black men is quite good, personally I’m attracted to men of all backgrounds and don’t go for a particular type, a guy who I can have a laugh with and chemistry is good I’m

More gutted the fact the ffa nights are Fridays and cpls and fems nights are a Saturday

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By *erigoodMan
over a year ago

glasgow


"Sry i dont get this night again , on any normal open club night you get all colours, shapes and sizes. Why would you limit your pottential customers for a particular themed night. By all means at cjs set aside a lounge for this theme but not the whole venue. Sounds bonkers to me. So the cougars had a night now the bbc lovers get a night these groupings could easily have had these options on ANY open night. As i said the last time on these themed nights , theres nothing in it for the single guys that they cant get on an open night so wheres the benefit of attending. Less options for the guys, as less females to choose from since they are only looking for certain type of man .

Personally having spoken to a few black guys they actually feel alienated by a lot of people on the site, not everyone is welcoming to them and they feel they get tarred with a racist brush, the idea that cj is letting these guys know that there are lots of women who actually like black men is quite good, personally I’m attracted to men of all backgrounds and don’t go for a particular type, a guy who I can have a laugh with and chemistry is good I’m

More gutted the fact the ffa nights are Fridays and cpls and fems nights are a Saturday "

I wouldn’t say it’s just black guys

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By *arroness NikkiWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

My 2 cents.....

I think it's good that CJ's is at least attempting to put on different types of nights, the bottom line is it's still a business and dedicating one night to trial it can't hurt. There is other interracial nights elsewhere in the UK that are quite successful from what i can gather so why not give it a go.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a nonsense (just my opinion don't take the hump) that a group, any kind of group in this day and age is targeted, cosseted, encouraged, promoted whatever you call it because of their ethnicity/percieved sexual prowess/libido/donkey dicked-ness etc.

Load of pish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well. you opinion is a load of pish.

people like people for different reasons - if you don’t like it, don’t go. it’s a theme and no ones excluded, and no race is being held above another.

It’s one night. there’s a hundred other nights you can go to if you don’t like this one. get over yourself.

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By *arroness NikkiWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"well. you opinion is a load of pish.

people like people for different reasons - if you don’t like it, don’t go. it’s a theme and no ones excluded, and no race is being held above another.

It’s one night. there’s a hundred other nights you can go to if you don’t like this one. get over yourself. "

I assume your gonna be in attendance at this night ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m intrigued as to how this is going to work/pan out?

is there going to be a room, or rooms where there have to be equal number of different ethicities - the same way there’s couples only rooms?

will attendance be culled to see a better mix? I’m just wondering.

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By *arroness NikkiWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I’m intrigued as to how this is going to work/pan out?

is there going to be a room, or rooms where there have to be equal number of different ethicities - the same way there’s couples only rooms?

will attendance be culled to see a better mix? I’m just wondering. "

I'm curious to how its gonna pan out as well as surely the night can only succeed if enough black men or women turn up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hopefully. fingers crossed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m intrigued as to how this is going to work/pan out?

is there going to be a room, or rooms where there have to be equal number of different ethicities - the same way there’s couples only rooms?

will attendance be culled to see a better mix? I’m just wondering.

I'm curious to how its gonna pan out as well as surely the night can only succeed if enough black men or women turn up "

*enough diverse ethnicities show up you mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sry i dont get this night again , on any normal open club night you get all colours, shapes and sizes. Why would you limit your pottential customers for a particular themed night. By all means at cjs set aside a lounge for this theme but not the whole venue. Sounds bonkers to me. So the cougars had a night now the bbc lovers get a night these groupings could easily have had these options on ANY open night. As i said the last time on these themed nights , theres nothing in it for the single guys that they cant get on an open night so wheres the benefit of attending. Less options for the guys, as less females to choose from since they are only looking for certain type of man .

Personally having spoken to a few black guys they actually feel alienated by a lot of people on the site, not everyone is welcoming to them and they feel they get tarred with a racist brush, the idea that cj is letting these guys know that there are lots of women who actually like black men is quite good, personally I’m attracted to men of all backgrounds and don’t go for a particular type, a guy who I can have a laugh with and chemistry is good I’m

More gutted the fact the ffa nights are Fridays and cpls and fems nights are a Saturday "

also it can be a tad intimidating to be the only one of your kind among a huge crowd. a party where you don’t stand out like a sore thumb would be refreshing lol.

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By *eADevilCouple
over a year ago

Blantyre

Im not knocking the ideas of themed nights just questioning the pottential interest for it. These nights work down south as the numbers of people swinging are vast. Last night at 3am down south webcam users were in hundreds scotland had 7 lmao. Thats the reason its possible south of border for these nights to work. All i can say is if your part of the minority population in Scotland and go to this interracial night you better have the stamina of a porn movie star as yer gonna be busy, lucky lads .

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Sry i dont get this night again , on any normal open club night you get all colours, shapes and sizes. Why would you limit your pottential customers for a particular themed night. By all means at cjs set aside a lounge for this theme but not the whole venue. Sounds bonkers to me. So the cougars had a night now the bbc lovers get a night these groupings could easily have had these options on ANY open night. As i said the last time on these themed nights , theres nothing in it for the single guys that they cant get on an open night so wheres the benefit of attending. Less options for the guys, as less females to choose from since they are only looking for certain type of man .

Personally having spoken to a few black guys they actually feel alienated by a lot of people on the site, not everyone is welcoming to them and they feel they get tarred with a racist brush, the idea that cj is letting these guys know that there are lots of women who actually like black men is quite good, personally I’m attracted to men of all backgrounds and don’t go for a particular type, a guy who I can have a laugh with and chemistry is good I’m

More gutted the fact the ffa nights are Fridays and cpls and fems nights are a Saturday "

And I know some black guys that do just fine on here and in Clubs!

I have rolled my eyes and been sharp at some black guys messages not because am racist but because they were being twats or some thought being a Black guy gave them some kind of priority

Am a bit tired of the 'racist' word being thrown on here every time colour is being discussed.

All the white guys I say no too don't throw the racist card out!!

You been turned down full stop! Move on!

My opinion anyway

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I’m intrigued as to how this is going to work/pan out?

is there going to be a room, or rooms where there have to be equal number of different ethicities - the same way there’s couples only rooms?

will attendance be culled to see a better mix? I’m just wondering.

I'm curious to how its gonna pan out as well as surely the night can only succeed if enough black men or women turn up "

Like I said before it says for ladies that appreciate Black men!

The word interracial being the 'title' of the night gives me a clue that no black women will attend... as they are same race

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Sry i dont get this night again , on any normal open club night you get all colours, shapes and sizes. Why would you limit your pottential customers for a particular themed night. By all means at cjs set aside a lounge for this theme but not the whole venue. Sounds bonkers to me. So the cougars had a night now the bbc lovers get a night these groupings could easily have had these options on ANY open night. As i said the last time on these themed nights , theres nothing in it for the single guys that they cant get on an open night so wheres the benefit of attending. Less options for the guys, as less females to choose from since they are only looking for certain type of man .

Personally having spoken to a few black guys they actually feel alienated by a lot of people on the site, not everyone is welcoming to them and they feel they get tarred with a racist brush, the idea that cj is letting these guys know that there are lots of women who actually like black men is quite good, personally I’m attracted to men of all backgrounds and don’t go for a particular type, a guy who I can have a laugh with and chemistry is good I’m

More gutted the fact the ffa nights are Fridays and cpls and fems nights are a Saturday

also it can be a tad intimidating to be the only one of your kind among a huge crowd. a party where you don’t stand out like a sore thumb would be refreshing lol. "

That's a comment I have never understood!!

I go to places where I am the only black woman or person there and so what?!

I am ME not my colour.

I have never felt i stand out because of my colour!

I find it really sad if people feel this way because of their colours.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"I’m intrigued as to how this is going to work/pan out?

is there going to be a room, or rooms where there have to be equal number of different ethicities - the same way there’s couples only rooms?

will attendance be culled to see a better mix? I’m just wondering.

I'm curious to how its gonna pan out as well as surely the night can only succeed if enough black men or women turn up

Like I said before it says for ladies that appreciate Black men!

The word interracial being the 'title' of the night gives me a clue that no black women will attend... as they are same race"

is this not discrimination at a minimum then ?

Can you imagine pitching up at a pub and the door staff tell you sorry no white asian black african latino...... madness

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I’m intrigued as to how this is going to work/pan out?

is there going to be a room, or rooms where there have to be equal number of different ethicities - the same way there’s couples only rooms?

will attendance be culled to see a better mix? I’m just wondering.

I'm curious to how its gonna pan out as well as surely the night can only succeed if enough black men or women turn up

Like I said before it says for ladies that appreciate Black men!

The word interracial being the 'title' of the night gives me a clue that no black women will attend... as they are same raceis this not discrimination at a minimum then ?

Can you imagine pitching up at a pub and the door staff tell you sorry no white asian black african latino...... madness

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You mean, usual Friday/Saturday night in some French Clubs lol

They just don't give you a reason! But you're refused entry just the same.

Shrug your shoulders, roll your eyes to the bouncer and go to the next place.

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By *is vixen at playCouple
over a year ago

Dundee


"My 2 cents.....

I think it's good that CJ's is at least attempting to put on different types of nights, the bottom line is it's still a business and dedicating one night to trial it can't hurt. There is other interracial nights elsewhere in the UK that are quite successful from what i can gather so why not give it a go.....

"

Exactly, hoping thsy do a hotwife/stag vixen at some point. G

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sry i dont get this night again , on any normal open club night you get all colours, shapes and sizes. Why would you limit your pottential customers for a particular themed night. By all means at cjs set aside a lounge for this theme but not the whole venue. Sounds bonkers to me. So the cougars had a night now the bbc lovers get a night these groupings could easily have had these options on ANY open night. As i said the last time on these themed nights , theres nothing in it for the single guys that they cant get on an open night so wheres the benefit of attending. Less options for the guys, as less females to choose from since they are only looking for certain type of man .

Personally having spoken to a few black guys they actually feel alienated by a lot of people on the site, not everyone is welcoming to them and they feel they get tarred with a racist brush, the idea that cj is letting these guys know that there are lots of women who actually like black men is quite good, personally I’m attracted to men of all backgrounds and don’t go for a particular type, a guy who I can have a laugh with and chemistry is good I’m

More gutted the fact the ffa nights are Fridays and cpls and fems nights are a Saturday

also it can be a tad intimidating to be the only one of your kind among a huge crowd. a party where you don’t stand out like a sore thumb would be refreshing lol.

That's a comment I have never understood!!

I go to places where I am the only black woman or person there and so what?!

I am ME not my colour.

I have never felt i stand out because of my colour!

I find it really sad if people feel this way because of their colours.

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lol. good for you. its bot about confidence, its about preconceived stereotypes. when your existence has been reduced to being a simple bbc, even before people have spoken to you at sex parties - thats a bit different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I go to places where I am the only black woman or person there and so what?!

I am ME not my colour.

I have never felt i stand out because of my colour!

I find it really sad if people feel this way because of their colours.

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Sry i dont get this night again , on any normal open club night you get all colours, shapes and sizes. Why would you limit your pottential customers for a particular themed night. By all means at cjs set aside a lounge for this theme but not the whole venue. Sounds bonkers to me. So the cougars had a night now the bbc lovers get a night these groupings could easily have had these options on ANY open night. As i said the last time on these themed nights , theres nothing in it for the single guys that they cant get on an open night so wheres the benefit of attending. Less options for the guys, as less females to choose from since they are only looking for certain type of man .

Personally having spoken to a few black guys they actually feel alienated by a lot of people on the site, not everyone is welcoming to them and they feel they get tarred with a racist brush, the idea that cj is letting these guys know that there are lots of women who actually like black men is quite good, personally I’m attracted to men of all backgrounds and don’t go for a particular type, a guy who I can have a laugh with and chemistry is good I’m

More gutted the fact the ffa nights are Fridays and cpls and fems nights are a Saturday

also it can be a tad intimidating to be the only one of your kind among a huge crowd. a party where you don’t stand out like a sore thumb would be refreshing lol.

That's a comment I have never understood!!

I go to places where I am the only black woman or person there and so what?!

I am ME not my colour.

I have never felt i stand out because of my colour!

I find it really sad if people feel this way because of their colours.

lol. good for you. its bot about confidence, its about preconceived stereotypes. when your existence has been reduced to being a simple bbc, even before people have spoken to you at sex parties - thats a bit different. "

Am black... and French so 2 stereotypes right here!

You can let people put labels on you or you can just do your own thing and assume your own personality and individuality.

Nothing to do with confidence.

'When your existence is reduce to...' in my opinion only you can reduce your own existence or let it being reduced.

When you speak to people you can easily suss out who they really are. Some are direct and say 'Wanna try a bit of black'!

The parties and social I have organised and been to have always been about the people and their personalities.

Maybe the parties you attend are not for you. Attending BBC events will do nothing for the stereotype you speak of either unfortunately.

Hope this makes sense

And thanks for the comment. Interesting to read a black guy's perception.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely all nights are interracial? People of all shapes, sizes, colours and creeds attend/ can attend.

Not a fan of that term at all.

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By *is vixen at playCouple
over a year ago

Dundee


"Surely all nights are interracial? People of all shapes, sizes, colours and creeds attend/ can attend.

Not a fan of that term at all.

"

Its just a themed night like any other type of themed night. Of course all will be welcome, its just that for this night the emphasis will be on interracial, which like it or not has its own niche as does greedy girls nights and tv nights. G

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about the men that appreciate black women

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"How about the men that appreciate black women "

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

If I thought this night included a lot of women of different colour (don't know if that's the right way to say it ) I'd be interested surely an interacial nite isn't just black men and white ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I thought this night included a lot of women of different colour (don't know if that's the right way to say it ) I'd be interested surely an interacial nite isn't just black men and white ladies "

The term you’re looking for is different races.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about the men that appreciate black women "

I feel you x

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"If I thought this night included a lot of women of different colour (don't know if that's the right way to say it ) I'd be interested surely an interacial nite isn't just black men and white ladies

The term you’re looking for is different races. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

White ladies that appreciate black ladies?

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"White ladies that appreciate black ladies?

"

Another good call can I watch

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"White ladies that appreciate black ladies?

Another good call can I watch "

Infact I think I wouldn't be able to watch without joining in lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Its just a themed night like any other type of themed night. Of course all will be welcome, its just that for this night the emphasis will be on interracial, which like it or not has its own niche as does greedy girls nights and tv nights. G"

I understand that i just dont think the name of the night goes with the description of the theme

Interracial to me suggests women/ men of different races being interested in each other

White women looking for black men seems more like a bbc night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"White ladies that appreciate black ladies?

Another good call can I watch

Infact I think I wouldn't be able to watch without joining in lol "

Might as well. "White men appreciatively watching white women appreciating black women" is too much of a mouthful anyway.

Fuck it, can we not just call it a gang bang and get on with it!

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"White ladies that appreciate black ladies?

Another good call can I watch

Infact I think I wouldn't be able to watch without joining in lol

Might as well. "White men appreciatively watching white women appreciating black women" is too much of a mouthful anyway.

Fuck it, can we not just call it a gang bang and get on with it! "

Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"White ladies that appreciate black ladies?

Another good call can I watch

Infact I think I wouldn't be able to watch without joining in lol

Might as well. "White men appreciatively watching white women appreciating black women" is too much of a mouthful anyway.

Fuck it, can we not just call it a gang bang and get on with it! "

Can I not just shag the women, regardless of colour?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeez .... whatever it's called it's certainly got everyone talking about it. I'm sure the throw away line of girls wanting a black guy was just that a throw away line as let's face it you couldn't detail every scenario in the title. So let's all simmer down and go and enjoy what will probably be a great night full of mixed cultures and terrific company

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"Jeez .... whatever it's called it's certainly got everyone talking about it. I'm sure the throw away line of girls wanting a black guy was just that a throw away line as let's face it you couldn't detail every scenario in the title. So let's all simmer down and go and enjoy what will probably be a great night full of mixed cultures and terrific company "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jeez .... whatever it's called it's certainly got everyone talking about it. I'm sure the throw away line of girls wanting a black guy was just that a throw away line as let's face it you couldn't detail every scenario in the title. So let's all simmer down and go and enjoy what will probably be a great night full of mixed cultures and terrific company "

I was just being silly Total. As long as folk go along and have some filthy fun then the name is irrelevant as you say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jeez .... whatever it's called it's certainly got everyone talking about it. I'm sure the throw away line of girls wanting a black guy was just that a throw away line as let's face it you couldn't detail every scenario in the title. So let's all simmer down and go and enjoy what will probably be a great night full of mixed cultures and terrific company

I was just being silly Total. As long as folk go along and have some filthy fun then the name is irrelevant as you say."

Exactly and the more that go along the more choice everyone will have

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By *rsFine-MrBallsCouple
over a year ago

markinch


"Surely all nights are interracial? People of all shapes, sizes, colours and creeds attend/ can attend.

Not a fan of that term at all.

"

Agree on that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone going?

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By *arroness NikkiWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

So did anyone go to this ? How was it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went and it was super busy, lots of very gorgeous single men(typical when I’m not playing) very polite, gentlemen(I certainly didn’t notice any creepers) and single women and lots of couples too, was certainly one of the wilder nights I’ve seen for a while ! A few greedy girls there that night lol and lots of familiar faces in the kitchen and bar gossiping and setting the world to rights (holds hands up and waves) I think it might be a popular themed night and the gentlemen/women of different ethnic backgrounds certainly appreciated the attention from what I could see

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

So im confused what ethnicity were folk and if all diffrent is that not just another fun for all

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

Some people like the whole idea of "interracial" nights. I'm guessing quite a few people have requested this at the club, otherwise they wouldn't run it. So let them. What's the big deal.

Interracial doesn't mean anything to me personally, couldn't care less about someone's colour or where they're from. But for some people it's a turn on and that's their prerogative. Might bring some new, fun people to the clubs as well, if they have theme nights like this x

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So im confused what ethnicity were folk and if all diffrent is that not just another fun for all "

Well their exact heritage I don’t think many of us asked tbh but all different shades of skin from the darkest of coffee to a nice milky mocha and a few Eastern Europeans and plenty milkbottle Scots thrown in, oh and one hilarious Irishman ! plenty of folk wanting to add some dark chocolate, a good mix of single guys and girls and mixed race couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ill 100 percent be going to the next one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I went and it was super busy, lots of very gorgeous single men(typical when I’m not playing) very polite, gentlemen(I certainly didn’t notice any creepers) and single women and lots of couples too, was certainly one of the wilder nights I’ve seen for a while ! A few greedy girls there that night lol and lots of familiar faces in the kitchen and bar gossiping and setting the world to rights (holds hands up and waves) I think it might be a popular themed night and the gentlemen/women of different ethnic backgrounds certainly appreciated the attention from what I could see "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks like I missed a good wee night.

Nxt time

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By *arroness NikkiWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I'm glad it seems to have been a success, I know (from what i've read elsewhere) that other nights like this have gone well. Regardless of whatever your own person opinions on the theme of ths night are its nice to see somewhere close to home at least trying different things.

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By *otrock-cplCouple
over a year ago

Glenrothes

It was our first time at CJ'S and from the sheer volume of people we could say it was a great success and a thank you to CJ & Staff for making us feel very welcome.

We thought it was that good a venue that we are attending this Friday evening for the couples and single females event XXX

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