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"Well today i got stood up. Not for the first time and probably wont be the last time either. So for all you guys who think us ladies have it easy on here im letting you know that we dont. Fab can be pretty shit for us also.x" I cant believe anyone would stand you up 
This is what really annoys me on here, and probably all the other genuine people. Fake profiles and no shows.
Lets be 100% honest here though it is his loss ! I would happily try and prove to you there is also still nice guys on here.
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"Well today i got stood up. Not for the first time and probably wont be the last time either. So for all you guys who think us ladies have it easy on here im letting you know that we dont. Fab can be pretty shit for us also.x" Always have a back up that's my plan . It's not his loss he's either bottled it or a timewaster it's your loss of your valuable time sadly . | |||
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"Yes he was verified. Been chatting for a good few weeks and had finalised plans yesterday. Then today he just did not appear and i have not heard a word from him since" Awww that's sh*t hun ...I really don't get why people do that ,it just doesn't compute with me | |||
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"I only meet.. meet verified _unkie But looks like that dosn't matter Lol Lesson learned "Absolutely crazy why guys do that ..Def his loss hun xx | |||
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"Yes he was verified. Been chatting for a good few weeks and had finalised plans yesterday. Then today he just did not appear and i have not heard a word from him since Awww that's sh*t hun ...I really don't get why people do that ,it just doesn't compute with me "Yeah its not nice. Cancelling a meet is fine but there is no excuse to be made for someone who does not turn up. | |||
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"Yes he was verified. Been chatting for a good few weeks and had finalised plans yesterday. Then today he just did not appear and i have not heard a word from him since Awww that's sh*t hun ...I really don't get why people do that ,it just doesn't compute with me
Yeah its not nice. Cancelling a meet is fine but there is no excuse to be made for someone who does not turn up." fully agree that's just badness ..yes people can change minds or get cold feet but to just not turn up  | |||
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"Well today i got stood up. Not for the first time and probably wont be the last time either. So for all you guys who think us ladies have it easy on here im letting you know that we dont. Fab can be pretty shit for us also.x" Anyone who would stand you up is evidently cuckoo. You're gorgeous! As I'm sure you have maaaany men telling you
It really is his loss and I'm sure he will kick himself when he finds his balls!
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"Just not nice! You get your timetable sorted, you get ready, you travel etc... it is just not acceptable! A wee text to say something came up or I change my mind costs nothing! Hopefully you have managed to use the time doing something nice. This and what everyone else said Obviously not someone you want the company of."  | |||
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"Yes he was verified. Been chatting for a good few weeks and had finalised plans yesterday. Then today he just did not appear and i have not heard a word from him since" That's his loss, after looking at your profile he must be daft to pass on a meet with you. | |||
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"Just not nice! You get your timetable sorted, you get ready, you travel etc... it is just not acceptable! A wee text to say something came up or I change my mind costs nothing! Hopefully you have managed to use the time doing something nice. Obviously not someone you want the company of." Ok im bloody raging. My time is too precious to be wasted and i have spent 2hrs of today travelling which cost me money i dont have. Im well pissed off if im honest and feel like crap. It puts me off meeting new folk and leaves me not trusting anyone. Think i will just concerntrate on the guys who i already know and the nights at the clubs which i enjoy from now on. | |||
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"Yes he was verified. Been chatting for a good few weeks and had finalised plans yesterday. Then today he just did not appear and i have not heard a word from him since Awww that's sh*t hun ...I really don't get why people do that ,it just doesn't compute with me
Yeah its not nice. Cancelling a meet is fine but there is no excuse to be made for someone who does not turn up."There should be a 'name and shame option on profiles to let others know he/She or they never showed up for a meet.we will have you if your still free? Xxx | |||
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"Just not nice! You get your timetable sorted, you get ready, you travel etc... it is just not acceptable! A wee text to say something came up or I change my mind costs nothing! Hopefully you have managed to use the time doing something nice. Obviously not someone you want the company of. Ok im bloody raging. My time is too precious to be wasted and i have spent 2hrs of today travelling which cost me money i dont have. Im well pissed off if im honest and feel like crap. It puts me off meeting new folk and leaves me not trusting anyone. Think i will just concerntrate on the guys who i already know and the nights at the clubs which i enjoy from now on." That is a real downer for genuine guys that try hard , but I fully understand why you would feel that way ! Simply not acceptable just not to show ! Reiterating what some have said above its his loss, but through his selfish antics it also appears it could be some other potential good guys loss too !! That is a real shame !! | |||
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"Just not nice! You get your timetable sorted, you get ready, you travel etc... it is just not acceptable! A wee text to say something came up or I change my mind costs nothing! Hopefully you have managed to use the time doing something nice. Obviously not someone you want the company of. Ok im bloody raging. My time is too precious to be wasted and i have spent 2hrs of today travelling which cost me money i dont have. Im well pissed off if im honest and feel like crap. It puts me off meeting new folk and leaves me not trusting anyone. Think i will just concerntrate on the guys who i already know and the nights at the clubs which i enjoy from now on. That is a real downer for genuine guys that try hard , but I fully understand why you would feel that way ! Simply not acceptable just not to show ! Reiterating what some have said above its his loss, but through his selfish antics it also appears it could be some other potential good guys loss too !! That is a real shame !! " Its just how i feel at the moment but tomorrow is another day. I am well aware that there are many true gents on Fab and only a few plonkers. | |||
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"It's not negative at all, if you look at my comment, it's actually a constructive offering. Maybe so but no compassion as always. I am old enough and ugly enough to dust myself down and hold my head high whilst continuing my Fab journey. But sometimes its good to share the bad times with others instead of keeping it bottled up inside. " | |||
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"That's horrible that happened to you. People who do that ought to strung up. I was stood up once and that was when I first set my single profile, it was a horrible feeling and was so angry. Took me a few days to calm down too x""Strung up"!!! | |||
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"It's not negative at all, if you look at my comment, it's actually a constructive offering. Maybe so but no compassion as always. I am old enough and ugly enough to dust myself down and hold my head high whilst continuing my Fab journey. But sometimes its good to share the bad times with others instead of keeping it bottled up inside. " And this is why I don't travel for first meets, except to a local pub or they can meet me when I'm at after8 or CJs. Lost count of the amount of no shows and if I'm on my own turf I don't care. Ugly enough??? You kidding?!? You're one of the most stunning and kind people I've come across on this site and don't let arseholes and time wasters like these get you down (I know.... easier said then done) x | |||
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"Well today i got stood up. Not for the first time and probably wont be the last time either. So for all you guys who think us ladies have it easy on here im letting you know that we dont. Fab can be pretty shit for us also.x" can't believe anyone & I mean anyone would stand you up Well you do look gorgeous & what little we've spoke you come across as being lovely lady also! Their loss without a shadow of doubt | |||
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"That's horrible that happened to you. People who do that ought to strung up. I was stood up once and that was when I first set my single profile, it was a horrible feeling and was so angry. Took me a few days to calm down too x
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"He'd be unlikely to enjoy a spanking from someone he stood up " Haha yes she'd probably spank the living daylights out of him! x | |||
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"So annoying! A little text message please? " Yes after all manners cost nothing x | |||
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"It's not negative at all, if you look at my comment, it's actually a constructive offering. Maybe so but no compassion as always. I am old enough and ugly enough to dust myself down and hold my head high whilst continuing my Fab journey. But sometimes its good to share the bad times with others instead of keeping it bottled up inside. " Fucking mug who gives the rest of us genuine and polite, mannerly gents an even harder time. You know what I think of you and I'm sure it's echoed by many a male and women on here x | |||
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that's why we left last time due to getting let down so much after organising sitters hotels ect it pissed me off lol
But then you stumble across some amazing people and have great meets and make great friends so not always bad that's crap he didn't show but yeh his loss great thing that block button haha | |||
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"Well today i got stood up. Not for the first time and probably wont be the last time either. So for all you guys who think us ladies have it easy on here im letting you know that we dont. Fab can be pretty shit for us also.x" I feel your pain no shows & fakes are a pain the the ar*s! I never stand anyone up!  | |||
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"Just not nice! You get your timetable sorted, you get ready, you travel etc... it is just not acceptable! A wee text to say something came up or I change my mind costs nothing! Hopefully you have managed to use the time doing something nice. Obviously not someone you want the company of. Ok im bloody raging. My time is too precious to be wasted and i have spent 2hrs of today travelling which cost me money i dont have. Im well pissed off if im honest and feel like crap. It puts me off meeting new folk and leaves me not trusting anyone. Think i will just concerntrate on the guys who i already know and the nights at the clubs which i enjoy from now on." I would say the same as I say to guys who post these types of threads change your selection method you chose this person see your mistake and correct that | |||
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"Fab can be pretty shit for us also.x" Totally agree. It’s a struggle at the best of times never mind to have someone stand you up. Onwards and upwards. | |||
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"He op snap only i wasnt really stood up i was sat waiting for him he text to say he was on his way 10mns later he hadnt arrive i text asking where he was GUESS WHAT he had came in saw me and said he didnt think there was a connection and walked back out he on here verified and a ic and we had been talking for 4 weeks" That is shockingly rude ! A simple sit down, coffee a nice chat with a reasonable explanation of why he thought it would not work is the minimum you would expect after actually making the effort to get there ! Complete and utter pwick of a man in my view !! | |||
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"Well today i got stood up. Not for the first time and probably wont be the last time either. So for all you guys who think us ladies have it easy on here im letting you know that we dont. Fab can be pretty shit for us also.x" I'd meet u babe | |||
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"Well today i got stood up. Not for the first time and probably wont be the last time either. So for all you guys who think us ladies have it easy on here im letting you know that we dont. Fab can be pretty shit for us also.x" His loss was our gain xx | |||
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"Kola being ignorant as he was is not a reason to change my selection process And as he came in then walked back out i think he is at fault "if you dont change your selection process the same type of person can get through to setup a meet for the same result. | |||
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"Well today i got stood up. Not for the first time and probably wont be the last time either. So for all you guys who think us ladies have it easy on here im letting you know that we dont. Fab can be pretty shit for us also.x Anyone who would stand you up is evidently cuckoo. You're gorgeous! As I'm sure you have maaaany men telling you
It really is his loss and I'm sure he will kick himself when he finds his balls!
N x"Well said the guys a ball less wankstain some guys don’t get the chance at meets and this kind of behaviour just fucks it for the rest of us x | |||
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"I didnt see him come in as my back was to the door Great confidence booster NOT" Thats terrible and very bad mannered. Some folk are pretty awful. | |||
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"if you dont change your selection process the same type of person can get through to setup a meet for the same result. " I’d love to see a selection process that 100% guarantees that every single person you arrange to meet will definitely show up every time. Hint: It doesn’t exist. | |||
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"if you dont change your selection process the same type of person can get through to setup a meet for the same result. I’d love to see a selection process that 100% guarantees that every single person you arrange to meet will definitely show up every time. Hint: It doesn’t exist." hint it does as ive never been stood up It may require more time than folk are prepared to put in but it does exist | |||
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"if you dont change your selection process the same type of person can get through to setup a meet for the same result. I’d love to see a selection process that 100% guarantees that every single person you arrange to meet will definitely show up every time. Hint: It doesn’t exist.hint it does as ive never been stood up It may require more time than folk are prepared to put in but it does exist" This doesnt exist. There is no foolproof way or knowing 100%, if the person you are arranging to meet is genuine and will deff turn up. You can only go on gut instinct and trust. G | |||
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"Maybe it was a woman pretending to be a guy..." never thought of that lol | |||
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"if you dont change your selection process the same type of person can get through to setup a meet for the same result. I’d love to see a selection process that 100% guarantees that every single person you arrange to meet will definitely show up every time. Hint: It doesn’t exist.hint it does as ive never been stood up It may require more time than folk are prepared to put in but it does exist" In 5 years neither have I, both as a couple & a single. I am aware however that it could still happen. As for time wasters spoiling it for others, I judge each on their own merit. R | |||
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"if you dont change your selection process the same type of person can get through to setup a meet for the same result. I’d love to see a selection process that 100% guarantees that every single person you arrange to meet will definitely show up every time. Hint: It doesn’t exist.hint it does as ive never been stood up It may require more time than folk are prepared to put in but it does exist In 5 years neither have I, both as a couple & a single. I am aware however that it could still happen. As for time wasters spoiling it for others, I judge each on their own merit. R " | |||
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"Well today i got stood up. Not for the first time and probably wont be the last time either. So for all you guys who think us ladies have it easy on here im letting you know that we dont. Fab can be pretty shit for us also.x" Sorry to hear that!!!! His loss xxx | |||
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"Not only being rude, but stupid! There may be last minute problems - but not to let you know? Question is - why is there is no “opposite to verification” - to de-verify - other than to name & shame? Why not just tell all the women who to avoid. Anyway .. am sure you’ve bounced back and made up for his stupidity!! " I thought this but what's to stop malicious folk doing this if they had an axe to grind. Judging from the responses in here, Bluebell won't be short of genuine meet ( or meat !)offers for the next 20 yrs. | |||
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"You'd think someone had died the way some drama queens are going on." Is that the only circumstance in which one is permitted to have an emotional response? I don’t see any weeping and wailing, just general frustration and appropriate levels of sympathy. | |||
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"You'd think someone had died the way some drama queens are going on. " Has anyone thought maybe thats exactly wat happened or some other kinda of last min family emergency in which fab wud be the last of your priorities... Def not nice getting stood up OP and if he done it out of malice then no excuse for it at all but just maybe something serious occured... | |||
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"Has anyone thought maybe thats exactly wat happened or some other kinda of last min family emergency in which fab wud be the last of your priorities..." Maybe I’m cold-hearted and callous, but even if my mum or my dog died, I think I’d manage to send someone a message to let them know. | |||
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"You'd think someone had died the way some drama queens are going on. Has anyone thought maybe thats exactly wat happened or some other kinda of last min family emergency in which fab wud be the last of your priorities... Def not nice getting stood up OP and if he done it out of malice then no excuse for it at all but just maybe something serious occured... " I doubt it. The person probably just changed their mind. | |||
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"Has anyone thought maybe thats exactly wat happened or some other kinda of last min family emergency in which fab wud be the last of your priorities... Maybe I’m cold-hearted and callous, but even if my mum or my dog died, I think I’d manage to send someone a message to let them know." Yes i think maybe your bit cold hearted if fab was on your mind if it was your mum had died suddenly | |||
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"You'd think someone had died the way some drama queens are going on. Has anyone thought maybe thats exactly wat happened or some other kinda of last min family emergency in which fab wud be the last of your priorities... Def not nice getting stood up OP and if he done it out of malice then no excuse for it at all but just maybe something serious occured... I doubt it. The person probably just changed their mind. " Yeah maybe he did but i was just putting a thot out there that something serious cud happen last min | |||
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"He has not been on Fab so i have not heard a thing from him since that day. Even i was beginning to wonder if something major had happened in his life and actually found my emotions to be ones of concern rather than anger now." Hopfully you hear from him.again thru time and it was genuine why he let you down | |||
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"Has anyone thought maybe thats exactly wat happened or some other kinda of last min family emergency in which fab wud be the last of your priorities... Maybe I’m cold-hearted and callous, but even if my mum or my dog died, I think I’d manage to send someone a message to let them know. Yes i think maybe your bit cold hearted if fab was on your mind if it was your mum had died suddenly "Maybe I am cold-hearted too as I would have found 30 seconds to send a message to not fab... but a real person... I had made a commitment to!! I was once in A&E at 1am being admitted in a lot of pain and still manage to send a bulk email to 60 people who I knew depended on me the following day! Personally, I call it manners but we are all different! | |||
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"Has anyone thought maybe thats exactly wat happened or some other kinda of last min family emergency in which fab wud be the last of your priorities... Maybe I’m cold-hearted and callous, but even if my mum or my dog died, I think I’d manage to send someone a message to let them know. Yes i think maybe your bit cold hearted if fab was on your mind if it was your mum had died suddenly
Maybe I am cold-hearted too as I would have found 30 seconds to send a message to not fab... but a real person... I had made a commitment to!!
I was once in A&E at 1am being admitted in a lot of pain and still manage to send a bulk email to 60 people who I knew depended on me the following day!
Personally, I call it manners but we are all different!"As you say we are all different. I Would make my apology (if it was a sudden life or death situation) afterwards... | |||
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"Has anyone thought maybe thats exactly wat happened or some other kinda of last min family emergency in which fab wud be the last of your priorities... Maybe I’m cold-hearted and callous, but even if my mum or my dog died, I think I’d manage to send someone a message to let them know. Yes i think maybe your bit cold hearted if fab was on your mind if it was your mum had died suddenly
Maybe I am cold-hearted too as I would have found 30 seconds to send a message to not fab... but a real person... I had made a commitment to!!
I was once in A&E at 1am being admitted in a lot of pain and still manage to send a bulk email to 60 people who I knew depended on me the following day!
Personally, I call it manners but we are all different!
As you say we are all different. I Would make my apology (if it was a sudden life or death situation) afterwards... " | |||
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"You'd think someone had died the way some drama queens are going on. Has anyone thought maybe thats exactly wat happened or some other kinda of last min family emergency in which fab wud be the last of your priorities... Def not nice getting stood up OP and if he done it out of malice then no excuse for it at all but just maybe something serious occured... I doubt it. The person probably just changed their mind. " Yep, I agree. Had 1 or 2 sleepless nights worrying about someone who was meant to be here, but slipped off the radar. But they re-surfaced quickly enough. Once I see they've been online and there's nothing wrong they'll go on the block list x | |||
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"Well today i got stood up. Not for the first time and probably wont be the last time either. So for all you guys who think us ladies have it easy on here im letting you know that we dont. Fab can be pretty shit for us also.x" Gosh with those gorgeous legs the last thing id be doing is standing you up  | |||
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"You'd think someone had died the way some drama queens are going on. Has anyone thought maybe thats exactly wat happened or some other kinda of last min family emergency in which fab wud be the last of your priorities... Def not nice getting stood up OP and if he done it out of malice then no excuse for it at all but just maybe something serious occured... I doubt it. The person probably just changed their mind. Yep, I agree. Had 1 or 2 sleepless nights worrying about someone who was meant to be here, but slipped off the radar. But they re-surfaced quickly enough. Once I see they've been online and there's nothing wrong they'll go on the block list x"
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"You'd think someone had died the way some drama queens are going on. Has anyone thought maybe thats exactly wat happened or some other kinda of last min family emergency in which fab wud be the last of your priorities... Def not nice getting stood up OP and if he done it out of malice then no excuse for it at all but just maybe something serious occured... I doubt it. The person probably just changed their mind. Yep, I agree. Had 1 or 2 sleepless nights worrying about someone who was meant to be here, but slipped off the radar. But they re-surfaced quickly enough. Once I see they've been online and there's nothing wrong they'll go on the block list x
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Favourite was "sorry I didn't get in contact about our arranged meet but my mate was in a car accident. My heads been all over the place"
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"My friend and I recently co-hosted a party and even then people don't turn up and don't notify. We had people who had to cancel and that's not an issue, as life outside of fab takes precedence. It's the ones who are always first to put their names down, then don't turn up. It ruins it for other people who wanted to come to our party, but couldn't as we where restricted with numbers and male female ratios. It's annoying. Party was still fantastic anyway. " This is a thing for me. My health issues mean I could never guarantee my attendance, whether I had booked or not. I can be relatively pain free and mobile one day, and in agony and on crutches the next. The vet has refused to put me out my misery too. | |||
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"My friend and I recently co-hosted a party and even then people don't turn up and don't notify. We had people who had to cancel and that's not an issue, as life outside of fab takes precedence. It's the ones who are always first to put their names down, then don't turn up. It ruins it for other people who wanted to come to our party, but couldn't as we where restricted with numbers and male female ratios. It's annoying. Party was still fantastic anyway. This is a thing for me. My health issues mean I could never guarantee my attendance, whether I had booked or not. I can be relatively pain free and mobile one day, and in agony and on crutches the next. The vet has refused to put me out my misery too. "which we would obviously understand provided you let the hosts know you cant make it . I think what justcant is meaning is those who pay to attend then dont show or inform the hosts so their places can be offered to someone on the reserve list. | |||
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"My friend and I recently co-hosted a party and even then people don't turn up and don't notify. We had people who had to cancel and that's not an issue, as life outside of fab takes precedence. It's the ones who are always first to put their names down, then don't turn up. It ruins it for other people who wanted to come to our party, but couldn't as we where restricted with numbers and male female ratios. It's annoying. Party was still fantastic anyway. This is a thing for me. My health issues mean I could never guarantee my attendance, whether I had booked or not. I can be relatively pain free and mobile one day, and in agony and on crutches the next. The vet has refused to put me out my misery too. "I'd administer the shot | |||
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"My friend and I recently co-hosted a party and even then people don't turn up and don't notify. We had people who had to cancel and that's not an issue, as life outside of fab takes precedence. It's the ones who are always first to put their names down, then don't turn up. It ruins it for other people who wanted to come to our party, but couldn't as we where restricted with numbers and male female ratios. It's annoying. Party was still fantastic anyway. This is a thing for me. My health issues mean I could never guarantee my attendance, whether I had booked or not. I can be relatively pain free and mobile one day, and in agony and on crutches the next. The vet has refused to put me out my misery too.
I'd administer the shot "Well i hope someday there is a cure so you can live your life pain free. | |||
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"My friend and I recently co-hosted a party and even then people don't turn up and don't notify. We had people who had to cancel and that's not an issue, as life outside of fab takes precedence. It's the ones who are always first to put their names down, then don't turn up. It ruins it for other people who wanted to come to our party, but couldn't as we where restricted with numbers and male female ratios. It's annoying. Party was still fantastic anyway. This is a thing for me. My health issues mean I could never guarantee my attendance, whether I had booked or not. I can be relatively pain free and mobile one day, and in agony and on crutches the next. The vet has refused to put me out my misery too.
I'd administer the shot
Well i hope someday there is a cure so you can live your life pain free."Thank you. Your words are much appreciated, unlike those of the previous poster. | |||
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"My friend and I recently co-hosted a party and even then people don't turn up and don't notify. We had people who had to cancel and that's not an issue, as life outside of fab takes precedence. It's the ones who are always first to put their names down, then don't turn up. It ruins it for other people who wanted to come to our party, but couldn't as we where restricted with numbers and male female ratios. It's annoying. Party was still fantastic anyway. This is a thing for me. My health issues mean I could never guarantee my attendance, whether I had booked or not. I can be relatively pain free and mobile one day, and in agony and on crutches the next. The vet has refused to put me out my misery too. "I'm sure anyone with an ounce of intelligence and empathy would be completely ok in your situation. It's the ones who don't bother to inform even after the event if they are well enough to do so, or if they had a change of mind. If they can be on fab, putting up forum posts, then they should be able to message a party host and say " I won't be attending " | |||
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"My friend and I recently co-hosted a party and even then people don't turn up and don't notify. We had people who had to cancel and that's not an issue, as life outside of fab takes precedence. It's the ones who are always first to put their names down, then don't turn up. It ruins it for other people who wanted to come to our party, but couldn't as we where restricted with numbers and male female ratios. It's annoying. Party was still fantastic anyway. This is a thing for me. My health issues mean I could never guarantee my attendance, whether I had booked or not. I can be relatively pain free and mobile one day, and in agony and on crutches the next. The vet has refused to put me out my misery too.
I'm sure anyone with an ounce of intelligence and empathy would be completely ok in your situation.
It's the ones who don't bother to inform even after the event if they are well enough to do so, or if they had a change of mind.
If they can be on fab, putting up forum posts, then they should be able to message a party host and say " I won't be attending "
"You'd be surprised at the attitudes of SOME people on here to my situation. You'd think they went out of their way to be insulting BECAUSE of it. | |||
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