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By *ugs and Junk OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bellshill

For all the threads started about the over abundance of single men we are finding it near impossible to get one to meet us at Cjs this weekend.

Sod’s law I guess but it’s funny as we are looking for the type who get the hardest time on here, younger single men.

You couldn’t make it up lol

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

Your about to get a busy inbox I’m sure .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For all the threads started about the over abundance of single men we are finding it near impossible to get one to meet us at Cjs this weekend.

Sod’s law I guess but it’s funny as we are looking for the type who get the hardest time on here, younger single men.

You couldn’t make it up lol"

I could pass you a young single guy, he keeps pestering me lol x

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By *heGronkMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


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I could pass you a young single guy, he keeps pestering me lol x"

Sweet of you to say I'm young

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By *ugs and Junk OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bellshill

Honestly couldn’t make it up. We must be over the hill to them lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I could pass you a young single guy, he keeps pestering me lol x

Sweet of you to say I'm young "

Young in looks and young at heart x

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

There may be lots of single males, but the fact that you’re a couple will deplete the interest a little, and the fact that you want to meet in a club will deplete it a little more.

I’m sure you’ll find someone, though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps meeting in the club and forking out money for the pleasure is the issue ? Perhaps meet for a drink and then go to cjs with him if all parties interested, bit of a waste of cash if turns out you don’t click ?

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By *ugs and Junk OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bellshill


"Perhaps meeting in the club and forking out money for the pleasure is the issue ? Perhaps meet for a drink and then go to cjs with him if all parties interested, bit of a waste of cash if turns out you don’t click ? "

We would of done this but we are out in mixed company before Cjs (some vanilla friends) so it’s unfortunately not an option

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some guys don't want to meet up in CJs or a swinging club.

They just wanna meet in a relaxed social setting with non swingers for a social or if playing they may want, yours or theirs or hotel.

If I was interested in a couple or a female and they wanted to meet at Cjs then I just wouldn't meet them. But then again, most know that by the time arranging a meet happens.

I will say that some of the single guys you will be talking to, might only want to go to the "potential meet offer" stage then bottle it and not go any further. It happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it's a little much to simply summons a meet at a sex club with little to no previous interaction and a reluctance to meet up beforehand because you are socialising.

And some folk say that single males are a cold bunch.

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

I think the same as others have said, it’s the meeting in a club that is probably putting people off. Personally if people asked me to meet at a club it would be a no also.

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee


"For all the threads started about the over abundance of single men we are finding it near impossible to get one to meet us at Cjs this weekend.

Sod’s law I guess but it’s funny as we are looking for the type who get the hardest time on here, younger single men.

You couldn’t make it up lol"

Yeah we have problems finding the right guy too. A lot of them are good at the talk but can't walk the walk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I imagine even some guys don't wanna feel like just a piece of meat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe it's a little much to simply summons a meet at a sex club with little to no previous interaction and a reluctance to meet up beforehand because you are socialising.

And some folk say that single males are a cold bunch. "

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock


"I imagine even some guys don't wanna feel like just a piece of meat "

I'd imagine there's some guys on here that wouldn't mind that .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I imagine even some guys don't wanna feel like just a piece of meat

I'd imagine there's some guys on here that wouldn't mind that . "

I don't like those studs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And pay for the privilege to meet you guys with his entry fee?

What if you don't get on so his money is wasted?

If say go for your vanilla night out and then go to cjs

Arrange a social meet with a guy at another date in public.

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By *ugs and Junk OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bellshill

Looking for a younger guy that is already going. Be careful what end of the stick you grab

Jim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking for a younger guy that is already going. Be careful what end of the stick you grab

Jim"

You should have been a wee bit clearer in your OP

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By *ugs and Junk OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bellshill


"Looking for a younger guy that is already going. Be careful what end of the stick you grab

Jim

You should have been a wee bit clearer in your OP "

I didn't post it. Maybe folk shouldn't jump to conclusions so quickly

Jim

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

If my understandings correct guys dont get to choose they are hand picked by the club. not that many attend so its usually the same guys that the clubs know will pay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking for a younger guy that is already going. Be careful what end of the stick you grab

Jim

You should have been a wee bit clearer in your OP

I didn't post it. Maybe folk shouldn't jump to conclusions so quickly

Jim "

Sorry what ? Go read your original post ? you’ve clearly said you can’t get a single guy to meet you !

Perhaps it should have read, we’re struggling to find any single guys that are going to the club that would be willing to chat with us with a view to having fun when we are there at the same time and particularly on the lookout for a single male, the original post is as clear as mud

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By *ugs and Junk OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bellshill


"If my understandings correct guys dont get to choose they are hand picked by the club. not that many attend so its usually the same guys that the clubs know will pay "

Usually different faces there most FFA nights (in my experience)

I'm probably not the best person to comment though, I don't tend to pay that much attention.

Jim

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By *ugs and Junk OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bellshill


"Looking for a younger guy that is already going. Be careful what end of the stick you grab

Jim

You should have been a wee bit clearer in your OP

I didn't post it. Maybe folk shouldn't jump to conclusions so quickly

Jim

Sorry what ? Go read your original post ? you’ve clearly said you can’t get a single guy to meet you !

Perhaps it should have read, we’re struggling to find any single guys that are going to the club that would be willing to chat with us with a view to having fun when we are there at the same time and particularly on the lookout for a single male, the original post is as clear as mud "

Sorry, the original post was not mine, and it doesn't say anything like that. Maybe you need to re-read it

Jim

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