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By *onkeymagic50 OP   Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour

So 8 odd years I joined fab to broaden my sexual horizons .and get a shag of course as was coming out of a bitter divorce and was as also sexually very repressed and moralistic catholic and set myself a goal of being involved in the lifestyle until I was 50.In that time I've experienced things that have been truly amazing and horrifying also.But I do think sometimes fab gets a bad knocking off folks but I love it.Apart from the one spit my dummy out moment and go unlos I do believe fab has helped me become more tolerant and more sexually open minded to things 8 years ago would have disgusted me..I guess what I'm trying to say is fab in its own way has made me a better person and for the 5 pound a month it has cost me it been hell of a lot cheaper and more helpful than a therapist could have been so fab I salute you keep up the good work

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"So 8 odd years I joined fab to broaden my sexual horizons .and get a shag of course as was coming out of a bitter divorce and was as also sexually very repressed and moralistic catholic and set myself a goal of being involved in the lifestyle until I was 50.In that time I've experienced things that have been truly amazing and horrifying also.But I do think sometimes fab gets a bad knocking off folks but I love it.Apart from the one spit my dummy out moment and go unlos I do believe fab has helped me become more tolerant and more sexually open minded to things 8 years ago would have disgusted me..I guess what I'm trying to say is fab in its own way has made me a better person and for the 5 pound a month it has cost me it been hell of a lot cheaper and more helpful than a therapist could have been so fab I salute you keep up the good work "

Ah feck if i'd known I would have just charged ye a tenner for each of they few messages .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So 8 odd years I joined fab to broaden my sexual horizons .and get a shag of course as was coming out of a bitter divorce and was as also sexually very repressed and moralistic catholic and set myself a goal of being involved in the lifestyle until I was 50.In that time I've experienced things that have been truly amazing and horrifying also.But I do think sometimes fab gets a bad knocking off folks but I love it.Apart from the one spit my dummy out moment and go unlos I do believe fab has helped me become more tolerant and more sexually open minded to things 8 years ago would have disgusted me..I guess what I'm trying to say is fab in its own way has made me a better person and for the 5 pound a month it has cost me it been hell of a lot cheaper and more helpful than a therapist could have been so fab I salute you keep up the good work "

Not to mention raising awareness of the evil duck hoard

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By *976scottMan
over a year ago

North Lanarkshire

Well said Op!

Too many people knock fab but I’ve met some wonderful people through this site and had some really great times.

There is only a few things I would change but on the whole I have no regrets!

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah well said Monkey

I hope yer 50th birthday drags in so you can still remain on fab.

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Well said OP

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

My time on Fab has been good for me. Not long joined but think i have learnt and done alot in that time with no regrets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% agree. Fab has been fantastic for me personally.

Moving to the city not knowing anyone I have fab a go. I have had some brilliant meets but more importantly I have made some real friends on here which makes it so much easier !!!

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

All hail Fab ..and the scene in general

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So 8 odd years I joined fab to broaden my sexual horizons .and get a shag of course as was coming out of a bitter divorce and was as also sexually very repressed and moralistic catholic and set myself a goal of being involved in the lifestyle until I was 50.In that time I've experienced things that have been truly amazing and horrifying also.But I do think sometimes fab gets a bad knocking off folks but I love it.Apart from the one spit my dummy out moment and go unlos I do believe fab has helped me become more tolerant and more sexually open minded to things 8 years ago would have disgusted me..I guess what I'm trying to say is fab in its own way has made me a better person and for the 5 pound a month it has cost me it been hell of a lot cheaper and more helpful than a therapist could have been so fab I salute you keep up the good work "

Most people need a therapist AFTER they've been here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

480 quid to bang on about imaginary ducks.

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By *onkeymagic50 OP   Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour


"480 quid to bang on about imaginary ducks.

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Ducks are real they live at bottom of my garden..

Imaginary describes your humour though

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By *eather47Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

yes ive been on FAB for quiet a while enjoyed it immensely it has had its down moments but hey aint that life in general Met some fabulous folks made a lot of good friends Hey op give the ducks a wee pat from me

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By *hedevilwearspradaWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere nearby


"yes ive been on FAB for quiet a while enjoyed it immensely it has had its down moments but hey aint that life in general Met some fabulous folks made a lot of good friends Hey op give the ducks a wee pat from me "

This! An unexpected benefit from being on Fab is that I’ve gained some genuinely great friends. People that I can talk about all sorts with, as well as have some pretty awesome play with as well.

It’s also given me a real confidence boost. When I first joined I remember looking at the hottest pics and thinking ‘wtf have I done?’, as I looked nothing like the ladies on those photos.

Fab has shown me that it’s not just your dress size that makes you attractive to someone, and that’s an important lesson to learn....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab does get knocked a bit but for us it has been a really great experience. It has brought us both a lot more confidence and opened us up to new and wonderful things and people. We are still very much at the start of the swinging journey, haven’t been to a club, no idea at all about “cakes/popcorn/ducks” all the forum chat but I think for all the time we have had fab it’s been fun there’s everything for everybody here if you look long enough and long may it continue. It’s a weird and wonderful place to be but wouldn’t have it any other way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been here since the beginning and yes the site has been a fantastic release for me.

I already was a very sexually liberated person who found Scotland, especially the Central Belt very closed and much in a Parochial bond to sexual pleasures. Over the years this site has opened up doors that otherwise would have been firmly shut.

I don’t think it gets a bad rep unlike some other sites I could mention. Considering your not obliged to pay to participate unlike other sites I still think the likelihood of meeting on here is higher

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