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"A few weeks ago there was a large response when a thread was raised between hung, w/e or v w/e etc Well now what’s the difference between curvy, large, ample, bbw and fabulous as like some men it appears some ladies find it difficult to decide between a size 12 - 22 Thoughts?" if the site gave the option to choose between a 12-22 then we would but it doesnt and Ive said many times a 5ft 2 size 16 woman is going to look totally different to a 5ft 7 lady also a size 16  | |||
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"A few weeks ago there was a large response when a thread was raised between hung, w/e or v w/e etc Well now what’s the difference between curvy, large, ample, bbw and fabulous as like some men it appears some ladies find it difficult to decide between a size 12 - 22 Thoughts?if the site gave the option to choose between a 12-22 then we would but it doesnt and Ive said many times a 5ft 2 size 16 woman is going to look totally different to a 5ft 7 lady also a size 16 "Ahem we all know how easy it is to lie about ages I’m sure some would mistakingly mark their size wrong . 
Me I’m a size 18-28 depending on where the garment is from and what part of the body it’s for . Lingerie can be very stretchy bridal gowns are very tight and small made so even that makes it more difficult to give a true measure .   | |||
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"A few weeks ago there was a large response when a thread was raised between hung, w/e or v w/e etc Well now what’s the difference between curvy, large, ample, bbw and fabulous as like some men it appears some ladies find it difficult to decide between a size 12 - 22 Thoughts?if the site gave the option to choose between a 12-22 then we would but it doesnt and Ive said many times a 5ft 2 size 16 woman is going to look totally different to a 5ft 7 lady also a size 16
Ahem we all know how easy it is to lie about ages I’m sure some would mistakingly mark their size wrong .
Me I’m a size 18-28 depending on where the garment is from and what part of the body it’s for . Lingerie can be very stretchy bridal gowns are very tight and small made so even that makes it more difficult to give a true measure . "i would never count bridal sizes as indicative of size ... i wear size 14-16 in normal shops and am 5'7 ... but i just had a size 22 bridesmaid dress which had to be ordered with additional length added  | |||
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"A few weeks ago there was a large response when a thread was raised between hung, w/e or v w/e etc Well now what’s the difference between curvy, large, ample, bbw and fabulous as like some men it appears some ladies find it difficult to decide between a size 12 - 22 Thoughts?if the site gave the option to choose between a 12-22 then we would but it doesnt and Ive said many times a 5ft 2 size 16 woman is going to look totally different to a 5ft 7 lady also a size 16
Ahem we all know how easy it is to lie about ages I’m sure some would mistakingly mark their size wrong .
Me I’m a size 18-28 depending on where the garment is from and what part of the body it’s for . Lingerie can be very stretchy bridal gowns are very tight and small made so even that makes it more difficult to give a true measure . "well this is true Im sure many would but whats the point because if they are meeting people can see for themselves. I have a wardrobe ranging between an 18- 22 and all of them fit so working out the logic of sizes is a minefield | |||
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"A few weeks ago there was a large response when a thread was raised between hung, w/e or v w/e etc Well now what’s the difference between curvy, large, ample, bbw and fabulous as like some men it appears some ladies find it difficult to decide between a size 12 - 22 Thoughts?if the site gave the option to choose between a 12-22 then we would but it doesnt and Ive said many times a 5ft 2 size 16 woman is going to look totally different to a 5ft 7 lady also a size 16
Ahem we all know how easy it is to lie about ages I’m sure some would mistakingly mark their size wrong .
Me I’m a size 18-28 depending on where the garment is from and what part of the body it’s for . Lingerie can be very stretchy bridal gowns are very tight and small made so even that makes it more difficult to give a true measure . well this is true Im sure many would but whats the point because if they are meeting people can see for themselves.
I have a wardrobe ranging between an 18- 22 and all of them fit so working out the logic of sizes is a minefield "You look dynamite in anything I’ve seen you in . ( big sook here lol ) | |||
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"A few weeks ago there was a large response when a thread was raised between hung, w/e or v w/e etc Well now what’s the difference between curvy, large, ample, bbw and fabulous as like some men it appears some ladies find it difficult to decide between a size 12 - 22 Thoughts?if the site gave the option to choose between a 12-22 then we would but it doesnt and Ive said many times a 5ft 2 size 16 woman is going to look totally different to a 5ft 7 lady also a size 16
Ahem we all know how easy it is to lie about ages I’m sure some would mistakingly mark their size wrong .
Me I’m a size 18-28 depending on where the garment is from and what part of the body it’s for . Lingerie can be very stretchy bridal gowns are very tight and small made so even that makes it more difficult to give a true measure . well this is true Im sure many would but whats the point because if they are meeting people can see for themselves.
I have a wardrobe ranging between an 18- 22 and all of them fit so working out the logic of sizes is a minefield
You look dynamite in anything I’ve seen you in . ( big sook here lol ) "Thank you  | |||
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There’s no way I would put my clothes size on if it was a category. Why should I? Should men put in inches the length and girth of their cock? I’m sure that wouldn’t be appreciated by a lot of the guys on here..... | |||
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"I’m a big girl, I state it on my profile (describing myself as more Tess than Kate) and I picked fabulous. Mostly because it sounds a bit more positive than large, which I also am....
There’s no way I would put my clothes size on if it was a category. Why should I? Should men put in inches the length and girth of their cock? I’m sure that wouldn’t be appreciated by a lot of the guys on here....."Even that could be misconstrued I’d definetly put it down in centimetres and not say .  | |||
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" Should men put in inches the length and girth of their cock?" and why should they when your talking about body shape? women make me laugh all these different words used to describe being overweight  lol | |||
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" Should men put in inches the length and girth of their cock? and why should they when your talking about body shape? women make me laugh all these different words used to describe being overweight lol"I make it perfectly clear on my profile that I’m overweight, and if a guy or girl has an issue with that, then they aren’t the kind of person I want to play with anyway. Their loss, not mine. | |||
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" Should men put in inches the length and girth of their cock? and why should they when your talking about body shape? women make me laugh all these different words used to describe being overweight lol"The site doesnt give you the option of overweigh tho | |||
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" Should men put in inches the length and girth of their cock? and why should they when your talking about body shape? women make me laugh all these different words used to describe being overweight lol
I make it perfectly clear on my profile that I’m overweight, and if a guy or girl has an issue with that, then they aren’t the kind of person I want to play with anyway. Their loss, not mine."Exactly!!! It’s no different from someone putting athletic or something when actually others would say average? It’s all a personal perspective and normally women are more self critical. I’m overweight but meh. So is most of the population. But doesn’t mean I can’t feel sexy sometimes. Also the posting of this thread was following a thread where from my understanding the W/E, VWE, tiny, small - discussions were had? | |||
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" Should men put in inches the length and girth of their cock? I’m sure that wouldn’t be appreciated by a lot of the guys on here....." Many men already do give an indication on their profile...What do you think the can of Lynx, the bottle of Lucozade or the Sky remote next to their cock is for?? | |||
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"fems claim curvy ample fabulous when they are obese or in some cases morbidly obese. ( before the moral police and white knights rain vengence) if you were to stack these folks measurements on the medical charts this is what the result will be on the chart......" You know, there’s a middle ground between white-knighting and being rude. There’s no need to be unpleasant. Do you think you’re telling anyone anything they don’t know? It’s perfectly obvious, given the nature of the site, why positive words are available. Grow up. | |||
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"Does it really matter how a woman chooses to define herself. clearly states what I am on my profile, in a number of ways. take it or leave it. We are what we are. " You keep telling me to leave it | |||
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"fems claim curvy ample fabulous when they are obese or in some cases morbidly obese. ( before the moral police and white knights rain vengence) if you were to stack these folks measurements on the medical charts this is what the result will be on the chart...... You know, there’s a middle ground between white-knighting and being rude. There’s no need to be unpleasant. Do you think you’re telling anyone anything they don’t know? It’s perfectly obvious, given the nature of the site, why positive words are available. Grow up." its we as people who choose to see words as positive or negative. The word is just a statement of where they are medically. yet again the white knight comes charging in to save the fems the inhospitable negativity of words lol pathetic. its perhaps yourself who needs to grow up and see that females have no need of you they are perfectly able to stand up for themselves. I have nothing against people who are overweight infact most of my encounters have been with overweight people. this didnt change the fact they were obese if you chose to put negativity on words thats perhaps why folk dont like them unfortunatly on a scale that can be agreed upon thats what they are ample curvy and any other discriptive is a personal view not shared by most (they will favour their own personal view) | |||
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"fems claim curvy ample fabulous when they are obese or in some cases morbidly obese. ( before the moral police and white knights rain vengence) if you were to stack these folks measurements on the medical charts this is what the result will be on the chart...... You know, there’s a middle ground between white-knighting and being rude. There’s no need to be unpleasant. Do you think you’re telling anyone anything they don’t know? It’s perfectly obvious, given the nature of the site, why positive words are available. Grow up.its we as people who choose to see words as positive or negative. The word is just a statement of where they are medically. yet again the white knight comes charging in to save the fems the inhospitable negativity of words lol pathetic. its perhaps yourself who needs to grow up and see that females have no need of you they are perfectly able to stand up for themselves. I have nothing against people who are overweight infact most of my encounters have been with overweight people. this didnt change the fact they were obese if you chose to put negativity on words thats perhaps why folk dont like them unfortunatly on a scale that can be agreed upon thats what they are ample curvy and any other discriptive is a personal view not shared by most (they will favour their own personal view) " Aren’t you being a white knight in your response? We don’t need to be reminded of our medical classification. Some people have medical conditions that mean they can’t exercise and have problems losing weight. I know I’m medically obese I have several conditions that make it difficult for me to lose weight and exercise. Also some people have problems gaining weight and are underweight. We rarely see posts about men being obese, they usually seem themselves as ample. Regardless of size there are some lovely people with great personalities and who make an effort to socialise and meet people. There are stereotypes everywhere we look. Fab embraces diversity and we should encourage it not pigeonhole people. Maybe we should have a ‘personality’ category - shy, timid, chatty, cheeky, outgoing, life and soul of the party. I’m sure we can think of other ways e could describe ourselves. | |||
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"its we as people who choose to see words as positive or negative." If words were some organic, naturally occurring phenomenon that we appropriated for communication, you might have a point. But they’re not, and you don’t. Words are created to communicate thoughts and emotions, and many are inherently positive or negative for that reason. "The word is just a statement of where they are medically." Its not a medical website. Your profile would read a little differently if it were. "its perhaps yourself who needs to grow up and see that females have no need of you they are perfectly able to stand up for themselves." I’m well aware that women don’t need men to stand up to them. But they don’t need men attacking them, either. And it takes a special kind of insecurity to attempt to halve the number of people who respond to aggressive half-wittery. Regardless of gender, people stand up for each other. "I have nothing against people who are overweight infact most of my encounters have been with overweight people." I’m sure they’ll be delighted to read your posts here. If you had nothing against them, you had no reason to anticipate a backlash to your initial, vile post. "this didnt change the fact they were obese if you chose to put negativity on words thats perhaps why folk dont like them unfortunatly" So, your saying that ‘morbidly obese’ can have a positive connotation? Aye, okay. "on a scale that can be agreed upon thats what they are ample curvy and any other discriptive is a personal view not shared by most (they will favour their own personal view)" Now you’re just waffling platitudes in a vain attempt to not be held accountable for your own post. It’s a bit pathetic, really. | |||
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"Lol as always nonsense drivel to attempt to be viewed as the shining light " If it’s nonsense, it must be pretty easy to show that I’m wrong, no? | |||
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"fems claim curvy ample fabulous when they are obese or in some cases morbidly obese. ( before the moral police and white knights rain vengence) if you were to stack these folks measurements on the medical charts this is what the result will be on the chart...... You know, there’s a middle ground between white-knighting and being rude. There’s no need to be unpleasant. Do you think you’re telling anyone anything they don’t know? It’s perfectly obvious, given the nature of the site, why positive words are available. Grow up.its we as people who choose to see words as positive or negative. The word is just a statement of where they are medically. yet again the white knight comes charging in to save the fems the inhospitable negativity of words lol pathetic. its perhaps yourself who needs to grow up and see that females have no need of you they are perfectly able to stand up for themselves. I have nothing against people who are overweight infact most of my encounters have been with overweight people. this didnt change the fact they were obese if you chose to put negativity on words thats perhaps why folk dont like them unfortunatly on a scale that can be agreed upon thats what they are ample curvy and any other discriptive is a personal view not shared by most (they will favour their own personal view) Aren’t you being a white knight in your response? We don’t need to be reminded of our medical classification. Some people have medical conditions that mean they can’t exercise and have problems losing weight. I know I’m medically obese I have several conditions that make it difficult for me to lose weight and exercise. Also some people have problems gaining weight and are underweight. We rarely see posts about men being obese, they usually seem themselves as ample. Regardless of size there are some lovely people with great personalities and who make an effort to socialise and meet people. There are stereotypes everywhere we look. Fab embraces diversity and we should encourage it not pigeonhole people. Maybe we should have a ‘personality’ category - shy, timid, chatty, cheeky, outgoing, life and soul of the party. I’m sure we can think of other ways e could describe ourselves. " Excellent reply Missus  | |||
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People can put on their profile what they want and what they feel describes them best. It's their profile, not yours. People will have their own opinions about someone's profile, but it would be awesome if they'd just keep that opinion to themselves instead of shouting out obese and fat on the forums.
Pictures say more then words when it comes to body type descriptions. If you think body type doesn't match the pictures and doesn't tickle your fancy, just move on to the next profile x | |||
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"Seen quite a few posts now about females and their body types. How come the men who put down "athletic", but are anything but athletic, are never discussed?
People can put on their profile what they want and what they feel describes them best. It's their profile, not yours. People will have their own opinions about someone's profile, but it would be awesome if they'd just keep that opinion to themselves instead of shouting out obese and fat on the forums.
Pictures say more then words when it comes to body type descriptions. If you think body type doesn't match the pictures and doesn't tickle your fancy, just move on to the next profile x"Yep | |||
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"I find topics like this a bit pointless, the site has to give you some kind of options to describe yourself just like with the tools it provides for using the site i.e. preferences and filters. I think they do just fine and I'm capable of working out what someone is like either personality wise or phyically using said tools "I must admit I struggle with females perceptions. for myself personally curvy would denote 5"8 dress size 12-14 which is not the case for most curvy fems would it be helpful for overweight underweight to be there yes or even better allow users to use multiple discriptives....so for myself athletic, slim for a fem carrying extra according to bmi large curvy. It also req folk to stop seeing words as negatives . Most folk can tell when a word is used with malice that dosnt mean its always used with malice | |||
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"I find topics like this a bit pointless, the site has to give you some kind of options to describe yourself just like with the tools it provides for using the site i.e. preferences and filters. I think they do just fine and I'm capable of working out what someone is like either personality wise or phyically using said tools I must admit I struggle with females perceptions. for myself personally curvy would denote 5"8 dress size 12-14 which is not the case for most curvy fems would it be helpful for overweight underweight to be there yes or even better allow users to use multiple discriptives....so for myself athletic, slim for a fem carrying extra according to bmi large curvy.
It also req folk to stop seeing words as negatives . Most folk can tell when a word is used with malice that dosnt mean its always used with malice"Well, I would suggest a size 12 female who is five feet eight is unlikely to be curvy and more likely to be slim - however no absolutes there though. That's the whole point it's down to perceptions and build etc although there are obvious ones as you mentioned in the medical obese scale. I also agree with the negative connotations some words have but again - people go with the usage and meaning they are familiar with so as I said I work things out for myself regardless of what the person themselves has decided to use | |||
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"Seen quite a few posts now about females and their body types. How come the men who put down "athletic", but are anything but athletic, are never discussed?
People can put on their profile what they want and what they feel describes them best. It's their profile, not yours. People will have their own opinions about someone's profile, but it would be awesome if they'd just keep that opinion to themselves instead of shouting out obese and fat on the forums.
Pictures say more then words when it comes to body type descriptions. If you think body type doesn't match the pictures and doesn't tickle your fancy, just move on to the next profile x"Well said | |||
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"I find topics like this a bit pointless, the site has to give you some kind of options to describe yourself just like with the tools it provides for using the site i.e. preferences and filters. I think they do just fine and I'm capable of working out what someone is like either personality wise or phyically using said tools "I agree, we can speak about this and disagree and argue until the end of time as we all have our own interpretation of the words describing body-shape. People can describe themselves the way they see themselves using the options available. Wish there was a fat-athletic option!
Look at the pics/profile, make your mind up, meet social, review your impression of the person. Have fun or don't have fun. | |||
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"I find topics like this a bit pointless, the site has to give you some kind of options to describe yourself just like with the tools it provides for using the site i.e. preferences and filters. I think they do just fine and I'm capable of working out what someone is like either personality wise or phyically using said tools
I agree, we can speak about this and disagree and argue until the end of time as we all have our own interpretation of the words describing body-shape.
People can describe themselves the way they see themselves using the options available. Wish there was a fat-athletic option!
Look at the pics/profile, make your mind up, meet social, review your impression of the person. Have fun or don't have fun. " | |||
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"At the end of the day does it really matter if someone is clinically overweight/underweight/fat/slim/is the size of a house...if you meet them and they lied about what they looked like then turn on your heels and about turn...ive met some complete bawbags on here and they never stated that...one so much so i reported him to the police!! A fat girl can be just as much fun as a slim chic but the slim chic will never have the same boobs lol why not start a thread about boobs..who doesnt like talking about boobs haha x " Homer Simpson eating a donought mode activated with the mention of boobs | |||
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" Homer Simpson eating a donought mode activated with the mention of boobs "Exactly...a much better convo x Handful...or more than a handful? I know what my answer would be hehe x | |||
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" Homer Simpson eating a donought mode activated with the mention of boobs
Exactly...a much better convo x
Handful...or more than a handful? I know what my answer would be hehe x"It the only thing I have no preference for they all awesome to me ..be used for pillows to rest my head on or used nibble on or used to eat strawberries off or drop candlewax then icecream on .....think you get my drift on boobies ha...I'm an eye man but boobies are fun.....right work head on homer head off | |||
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" A fat girl can be just as much fun as a slim chic but the slim chic will never have the same boobs lol " Kind of ironic that while trying to promote body positivity you managed to bodyshame girls who dont have big boobs
Im not even skinny but i still know it works both ways | |||
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" A fat girl can be just as much fun as a slim chic but the slim chic will never have the same boobs lol Kind of ironic that while trying to promote body positivity you managed to bodyshame girls who dont have big boobs
Im not even skinny but i still know it works both ways "Wasnt what I meant...I was trying to be funny hence the lol at the end... Making a point that there is always something to moan about and nobody is ever happy regardless of size and its definetly whats in the mind that matters....very naughty thoughts x | |||
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