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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it bad for someone too say they know you but not say who they are 1st time it's happened to me so am curious too find out if it's common

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

Never happened to me in 3 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep your face pics private and only send them to the out of towners

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Yes someone on here said they knew me. That person hadnt even seen a face pic of me. Turns out i go into the shop he works in sometimes. We will both respect each others privacy so its no big deal to me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not bothered about i nothing to hide am just curious as I thought was a bit strange

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

See at least they told you how they knew you

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"See at least they told you how they knew you "

Yes and at first i freaked. I had seen his face pic and didnt recognise him. It was annoying me as everywhere i went i was looking out for him. In the end i asked him how he knew me and he told me where he worked. Problem solved so i can relax now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guy said he knew my husband god knows how as the guy had never seen any face pics either

Big deal he's on here too

Block!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I asked but nothing back and am a nosey git so is annoying

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That sounds creepier

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

It's never happened to me, but I've seen profiles of a few people I know. I've never alerted them to the fact & never would, & certainly not from a faceless profile.

R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone did message me stating they recognised me !!!

They watched the Hunchback of Notradam film and was sure I starred in it

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"Someone did message me stating they recognised me !!!

They watched the Hunchback of Notradam film and was sure I starred in it "

Same said they’d watched “ the good the bad and the ugly “ .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's the part I find wierd why hide themselves while saying they know me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone did message me stating they recognised me !!!

They watched the Hunchback of Notradam film and was sure I starred in it "

Was her name Esmeralda?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope it's never happened to me in all my four years on here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone did message me stating they recognised me !!!

They watched the Hunchback of Notradam film and was sure I starred in it "

Did they say your face rang a bell?

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By *hedevilwearspradaWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere nearby

This happened to me. After a few messages and a pic swop he replied saying “I think I know you”. I’ll be honest, I about shit myself for a second until he said who he was.

It was a guy I knew 12 years ago, and had met through working with his ex. I fancied the arse of him but obviously couldn’t really say anything but we had socialised in the same circle, I’d been round his for tea, babysat for their wee one.....! Turns out he felt the same but obviously couldn’t say anything either.

Needless to say, different circumstances now and we very quickly made up for lost time! An absolutely unexpected bonus to Fab. Really pleased we reconnected, and have stayed in touch

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By *andy_FraserTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

It can be bad.

I had someone on here say they knew me in real life, and insisted on using what they thought was my drab name in all the messages they sent me.

The real killer is that their profile stated that they expected ultimate discretion and secrecy, and would give others the same...

Well they were off to a good start when they messaged me.

Mandy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nessarosa

We had a young man swear he knew us and where we frequent, we explained that it was not us but he insisted.

We are curious as to who this couple is but it was not us.

Just for the record:

We would admit it to someone and also if the speak to us....politely and discretely, we can verify them as real people.

Just Be careful its really us and not a astral projection....hee hee

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes has happened both ways! Discretion has worked so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I received a message asking if I wanted to join a couple for a small private party in their home and I was initially keen but when they indicated the location I realised the guy in question was a work colleague. He used his own first name on his profile and as he lived in a very rural location I realised who he was.

I didn't let on I knew him however.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There used to be a big tall trans that frequented Subclub/Arches that was on here. Never spoke to her on here or on a night out tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who doesnt know me I'm known as shagger around here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I’ve had this but I have nothing to lose!

I’m single. So what I get up to is entirely up to me.

I’m not hurting anyone by being on here.

Saying that, a family member noticed me and so did a guy I’ve known since school days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I’ve had this but I have nothing to lose!

I’m single. So what I get up to is entirely up to me.

I’m not hurting anyone by being on here.

Saying that, a family member noticed me and so did a guy I’ve known since school days.

"

How did that pan out with your rugby friend and his wife?

Did they work out who you were?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a lady in work say hope you have a fab weekend twice i said i will thanks then she said yes im going to have a fab weekend also looking forward to it...... i wondered hmmmmm is this someone who inows im on site or just likes the word fab x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had it a few times. My manager from work, my pals boyfriend, my sons friend. I had a couple exchange messages, when I sent a face pic he said his wife and he knew me and blocked me. Still pisses me off not knowing who it was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve had it a few times. My manager from work, my pals boyfriend, my sons friend. I had a couple exchange messages, when I sent a face pic he said his wife and he knew me and blocked me. Still pisses me off not knowing who it was "

I wouldnt mind so much if they blocked me ... bt ive had people lord it over me that they know who i am and not say who they are ... even ask a mutual contact who is also on here to confirm it was me and repeatedly message me until i eventually blocked both of them ... i really hate the power balance people are trying to acheieve with that

If someone just gota bit freaked out because they would be recognised too and then blocked ao no further contact i wouldnt mind as much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive recognised a women I know in the chat room a while back

I don't give out my face pic till I feel ready

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By *exy gentMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

It has happened to me , not long after I joined and they blocked me, still don't know who she was

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