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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So this has happened on more than a few occasions and I’m blaming my age here (almost 40 ) and the medications I take have effects on short term memory.

But I find that I meet people at socials, Cjs etc then forget they’re fab profile name and feel bad when I say I’ll verify or message them, the next time I meet them I explain I’d forgotten there name and sometimes people will laugh other times you can see they feel offended or hurt that you didn’t remember. So for anyone I’ve never got back to please just message me lol

Does anyone else have this problem and would it look weird if I took a pen and notepad around to write names etc down?

Musicmaid xx

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"So this has happened on more than a few occasions and I’m blaming my age here (almost 40 ) and the medications I take have effects on short term memory.

But I find that I meet people at socials, Cjs etc then forget they’re fab profile name and feel bad when I say I’ll verify or message them, the next time I meet them I explain I’d forgotten there name and sometimes people will laugh other times you can see they feel offended or hurt that you didn’t remember. So for anyone I’ve never got back to please just message me lol

Does anyone else have this problem and would it look weird if I took a pen and notepad around to write names etc down?

Musicmaid xx"

I suffer from this same as you do don’t worry if you do note down names in a wee book at CJ’s just don’t wear a cap with reporters id stuck in the trim .

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour


"So this has happened on more than a few occasions and I’m blaming my age here (almost 40 ) and the medications I take have effects on short term memory.

But I find that I meet people at socials, Cjs etc then forget they’re fab profile name and feel bad when I say I’ll verify or message them, the next time I meet them I explain I’d forgotten there name and sometimes people will laugh other times you can see they feel offended or hurt that you didn’t remember. So for anyone I’ve never got back to please just message me lol

Does anyone else have this problem and would it look weird if I took a pen and notepad around to write names etc down?

Musicmaid xx"

Not weird but might get thought of as a reporter haha

It's an age thing though I have same problem

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So this has happened on more than a few occasions and I’m blaming my age here (almost 40 ) and the medications I take have effects on short term memory.

But I find that I meet people at socials, Cjs etc then forget they’re fab profile name and feel bad when I say I’ll verify or message them, the next time I meet them I explain I’d forgotten there name and sometimes people will laugh other times you can see they feel offended or hurt that you didn’t remember. So for anyone I’ve never got back to please just message me lol

Does anyone else have this problem and would it look weird if I took a pen and notepad around to write names etc down?

Musicmaid xx

I suffer from this same as you do don’t worry if you do note down names in a wee book at CJ’s just don’t wear a cap with reporters id stuck in the trim . "

That’s what I was thinking now I have your name can I ask you a few questions then misquote you for a scandalous tabloid story?? Lol

Musicmaid x

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"So this has happened on more than a few occasions and I’m blaming my age here (almost 40 ) and the medications I take have effects on short term memory.

But I find that I meet people at socials, Cjs etc then forget they’re fab profile name and feel bad when I say I’ll verify or message them, the next time I meet them I explain I’d forgotten there name and sometimes people will laugh other times you can see they feel offended or hurt that you didn’t remember. So for anyone I’ve never got back to please just message me lol

Does anyone else have this problem and would it look weird if I took a pen and notepad around to write names etc down?

Musicmaid xx

I suffer from this same as you do don’t worry if you do note down names in a wee book at CJ’s just don’t wear a cap with reporters id stuck in the trim .

That’s what I was thinking now I have your name can I ask you a few questions then misquote you for a scandalous tabloid story?? Lol

Musicmaid x "

Only if you give me a good photo shoot and makeover for the centrefold .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So this has happened on more than a few occasions and I’m blaming my age here (almost 40 ) and the medications I take have effects on short term memory.

But I find that I meet people at socials, Cjs etc then forget they’re fab profile name and feel bad when I say I’ll verify or message them, the next time I meet them I explain I’d forgotten there name and sometimes people will laugh other times you can see they feel offended or hurt that you didn’t remember. So for anyone I’ve never got back to please just message me lol

Does anyone else have this problem and would it look weird if I took a pen and notepad around to write names etc down?

Musicmaid xx

I suffer from this same as you do don’t worry if you do note down names in a wee book at CJ’s just don’t wear a cap with reporters id stuck in the trim .

That’s what I was thinking now I have your name can I ask you a few questions then misquote you for a scandalous tabloid story?? Lol

Musicmaid x

Only if you give me a good photo shoot and makeover for the centrefold . "

That can be arranged

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"So this has happened on more than a few occasions and I’m blaming my age here (almost 40 ) and the medications I take have effects on short term memory.

But I find that I meet people at socials, Cjs etc then forget they’re fab profile name and feel bad when I say I’ll verify or message them, the next time I meet them I explain I’d forgotten there name and sometimes people will laugh other times you can see they feel offended or hurt that you didn’t remember. So for anyone I’ve never got back to please just message me lol

Does anyone else have this problem and would it look weird if I took a pen and notepad around to write names etc down?

Musicmaid xx

I suffer from this same as you do don’t worry if you do note down names in a wee book at CJ’s just don’t wear a cap with reporters id stuck in the trim .

That’s what I was thinking now I have your name can I ask you a few questions then misquote you for a scandalous tabloid story?? Lol

Musicmaid x

Only if you give me a good photo shoot and makeover for the centrefold .

That can be arranged "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a very good memory when it comes to profile names. I can remember names of people who I had fun with back when I first joined the site four years ago with my then boyfriend. I think it's safe to say that my profile name is very easy to remember lol x

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

I can barely remember my own name some days....

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"I can barely remember my own name some days.... "

Who wis that ?

Hope you’ve got winter tyres on the buggy .

Nice to see ya .

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

It’s Ratshit.... housebound at the moment, just out of hospital again!!! Hope you’re well xx

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I remember the Fab names but sometimes... most times actually, I struggle to remember the names once I am introduced at a Club/Social.

So am afraid you are forever... Music or Musicmaid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooft I’m the same and find myself deleting messages from ppl I’ve chatted to before because I can’t remember chatting to them at a social. Doh!

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

To be fair some names are harder than others to remember, I advertise on every high street and petrol station, no excuse for forgetting Costa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have an incredible memory sometimes a blessing sometimes a curse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the worst memory I don't remember names or fab names I'm just a totalshambles

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Yeah i forget names but never forget a handsome face.x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I used to have an almost photographic memory and remembered things in great detail but the last year or so I’ve been put on strong pain medication then it’s been added too so I feel like a smarties tube some days, these tablets affect my short term memory so it’s usually names I forget sometimes fab or real names it’s got to the point I have emojis next to people’s names on my phone contacts list to help jog my memory. I’m still good at remembering faces and music or random facts lol

Musicmaid x

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By *eather47Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I am awful at remembering names but i put is down to my age funnily enough everyone remembers my name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I forget names too though don't forget faces.

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By *eep.Man
over a year ago

Just a background character

What you need is a pornographic memory.

OK I'll get me coat.

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By *eather47Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

yeah Ruby i remember faces as well its the feckin names i orget

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By *eather47Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

meant forget

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling


"Yeah I forget names too though don't forget faces."

Never forget a great looking body either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not only name's I forget, sometimes it's faces as well, although in my defense I have really bad eyesight and don't intentionally ignore ppl,so if we've met and I don't say hello it's not personal I just haven't probably seen you just say hi when your passing me

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

Yes we are bad for forgetting fellow fabbers. It’s whats so useful about the “who’s going to the social “ thread. Not to see who’s going but so you can see who went.

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By *litter and GrumpCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

I am terrible for this. I probably come across rude a lot but really it’s I can’t remember names x

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By *issyForDommeTV/TS
over a year ago

glasgow

Not been to any fab social or cj's but was constantly out on the kink scene for years (then I started nightshift so not out much these days) but knew most peoples faces and then you end up adding them as friends so you get to know them by that name...but I always forget the real names and you feel awkward when you see them lol...everybody could remember my name as I use it in my fet name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always remember peoples site names then forget their real names. I’m just shite with names in general. Faces yes, names no so much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not been to any fab social or cj's but was constantly out on the kink scene for years (then I started nightshift so not out much these days) but knew most peoples faces and then you end up adding them as friends so you get to know them by that name...but I always forget the real names and you feel awkward when you see them lol...everybody could remember my name as I use it in my fet name. "

I’m the same in the I’ve been musicmaid for many years in the fet scene as well as fab, tho I did use a different name when I was pro domme most people still knew me by musicmaid lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certain things I have photographic memory but names I’ve never been good with even as a kids d numbers however great with

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

I'm more guilty at forgetting their real names

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By *issyForDommeTV/TS
over a year ago

glasgow

I'm surprised we've not met before...or have we lol. I know we've got a couple of mutual friends at least as I know you go to club t, which I used to do the door for back when it started in axm and when it moved to speakeasy-ive not been since it moved again. If you've ever been to a caberesque I'm the guy on the door for them.

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