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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Would you take the chance and meet an unverified member?

We all had to start somewhere so should we be more open to meeting unverified members?

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

I would. If the chat is good and the attraction's there x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I would. If the chat is good and the attraction's there x"
Agree

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Excellent news. Let me know when suits...

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By *randmissdemeanourMan
over a year ago

glasgow

We have recently and it worked out as one of our better decisions on here, took a lot of toing and froing to prove authenticity though, we are looking to meet a couple in the next few weeks who are the same but again they have been thoroughly vetted. wouldn't just meet up regardless, they really have to prove they are not some saddo behind a screen getting his jollies!!

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Don't have a problem with it as long as I believe them to be genuine and there's an attraction as you say we all had to start somewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe yes. I was a newbie once and amazing woman took the chance on me after chatting and getting to know each other so I would happily do the same back as we all start somewhere

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By *is vixen at playCouple
over a year ago

Dundee

Yes I have, and got a boyfriend out of it

V

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I have, and got a boyfriend out of it

V "
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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

We have but we chatted for quite a while first and then a social meet before any playtime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s something I do but I always meet socially with everyone after chatting a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and no, possibly, depends... that’s a definite maybe from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you've been chatting, seen pics, had a phone call or a quick skype/cam and you meet socially and like the person enough to move forward, who cares that they have no verifications?

We did all start somewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't even read profiles. I just go by how someone chats. Never had a bad meet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did take a chance today after speaking on and off...when it came time to meeting hes not replying...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once had the chance to meet an unverified guy but he wanted to come straight to mine. I said no I wanted a social first but he just wanted to fuck right away. I told him that wasn't going to happen so I never met him. We all have our preferences after all and I will always have a social first x

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Yes i would. Ive had some awful meets with guys with alot of veris and some good ones with guys who have had none.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would and have done so. In fact I've met someone who was new to fab and swinging. So we chatted a while and then arranged a social in a public place and then after the social we arranged a fun night at mine and it was brilliant.

Without veris I am conscious they are not being legit but chatting a while you eventually get the feel for them and comfortable that they ain't a fake.

So it's a yes from me.

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I have done on a few occasions, but only after chatting for a while & never before seeing a clear face pic. It is also made quite clear that it would only be socially first.

R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would. If the chat is good and the attraction's there x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would as well.

Unfortunately I’m in the situation where I haven’t been verified by anyone as I’ve not managed to meet anyone from here yet.

I’m hoping that changes shortly x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would. If the chat is good and the attraction's there x

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It's def a great question, given that I have returned to fab after a break,you have to judge on instinct and heh it's the person you chat with that counts not the verifications they have surely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the other side of the fence, I would quite happily be ignored by people with or without veris.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm struggling to get a meet without any verifications to be honest. Either that or am way uglier than I think hahaha only kidding!

I get that people might have been let down in the past, it's hard for a single guy to start out on here with so much competition. Might need to head to CJs and meet face to face to get my first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm struggling to get a meet without any verifications to be honest. Either that or am way uglier than I think hahaha only kidding!

I get that people might have been let down in the past, it's hard for a single guy to start out on here with so much competition. Might need to head to CJs and meet face to face to get my first "

That's usually what the experienced folks recommend

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"Yes and no, possibly, depends... that’s a definite maybe from me "

I’m glad you got over your problem with being indecisive .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always meet for a coffee first so you can check them out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm struggling to get a meet without any verifications to be honest. Either that or am way uglier than I think hahaha only kidding!

I get that people might have been let down in the past, it's hard for a single guy to start out on here with so much competition. Might need to head to CJs and meet face to face to get my first "

It won't be verifications or lack off that are stopping you from getting a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm struggling to get a meet without any verifications to be honest. Either that or am way uglier than I think hahaha only kidding!

I get that people might have been let down in the past, it's hard for a single guy to start out on here with so much competition. Might need to head to CJs and meet face to face to get my first

It won't be verifications or lack off that are stopping you from getting a meet."

So I'm just ugly then lol

Any tips for newbies like me?

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By *egs11ABCWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

At the end of the day who came.on the site verified?? Nobody but someone took a chance on me

Also some of my worse meets have been with verified members and believe me i think they verified themselves!!!! On the other hand some of my best meets have been unverified guys. I use my common sense and good judgement on who I meet not verifications x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes and no, possibly, depends... that’s a definite maybe from me

I’m glad you got over your problem with being indecisive . "

I used to be indecisive... now I'm not so sure Steph...

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

chat in here then Skype is how I would go, not really interested wether they are verified or not

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"Yes and no, possibly, depends... that’s a definite maybe from me

I’m glad you got over your problem with being indecisive .

I used to be indecisive... now I'm not so sure Steph... "

O

I’m hesitant of your inconclusiveness .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes and no, possibly, depends... that’s a definite maybe from me

I’m glad you got over your problem with being indecisive .

I used to be indecisive... now I'm not so sure Steph...

O

I’m hesitant of your inconclusiveness . "

That's positively unresolved then...

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

It’s one of the reasons I started the pub quiz team. It’s an open invitation and I’ll give the venue details. Anyone is free to join us and for anyone new we will verify them.

It’s a good laugh and a relaxed way to meet.

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By *astEndGuyGLAMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I’ve found it really hard to find a meet no one is interested in us unverifieds!

I can understand how some wouldn’t but it’s frustrating!

Anyway holla @ me please

S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s even harder when u can’t get a reply it’s grinding my gears man ????

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

Really don't see the problem about meeting unverified people, they are actually here for the same reason as the rest of the site.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Really don't see the problem about meeting unverified people, they are actually here for the same reason as the rest of the site. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just did after having some great amazing chat, which I never thought I would! but turned out to be one of my best meets so far I might just have been lucky though

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By *ilveryFoxMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

Fingers crossed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Verifications a must

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By *onguentasticMan
over a year ago

Ballymoney

It makes me happy to see so many people willing to meet regardless of verifications at the end of the day there is plenty of people who have met on fab and not been verified also its personality and chemistry between you that makes good sex not a verification lol

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By *unninglinguist88Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"I just did after having some great amazing chat, which I never thought I would! but turned out to be one of my best meets so far I might just have been lucky though "
think he/she was the lucky one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you take the chance and meet an unverified member?

We all had to start somewhere so should we be more open to meeting unverified members?"

Yes if I’d chatted for a while and they seemed sound enough. When I was in with my partner a few years back we’d met folk who weren’t verified, just made sure we’d spoken enough and met socially first. As someone I was speaking to the other day from the site pointed out, people come and go on this site (myself included) and we’re not all desperate for the green tick approval.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just did after having some great amazing chat, which I never thought I would! but turned out to be one of my best meets so far I might just have been lucky though think he/she was the lucky one "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would. If the chat is good and the attraction's there x"

Yeah I agree.

Wouldn't meet before having a good bit of chat

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