FabSwingers.com forum: Winks

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What’s the point of them ??

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

"What’s the point of them ?? "

I totally ignore them

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"What’s the point of them ?? "
its just a nice ice breaker .

My way of saying I like what I see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s the point of them ?? its just a nice ice breaker .

My way of saying I like what I see

.....mwah xx

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I prefer getting winks to messages. I can casually scroll through them and click on profiles i find appealling. Less hassle than countless messages and less time consuming.

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

We generally ignore them ...

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"What’s the point of them ?? its just a nice ice breaker .

My way of saying I like what I see

.....mwah xx "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont often get then so I guess for us males it a bit of a bonus

And just on the very rare occasions they can lead to some fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm interested..il wink back

If I don't I ignore

They have there purpose

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just wondering g cause it’s only guys that wink me lol ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aw wink sent

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Aw cheers mrs so kind xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer getting winks to messages. I can casually scroll through them and click on profiles i find appealling. Less hassle than countless messages and less time consuming."

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By *ab and funCouple
over a year ago

FIFE

I like to wink people to show I’m interested and like getting winked, I agree it’s like an ice breaker.

Mrs Fab x

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By *witcherooMan
over a year ago

Muirhead

I use them to say I like what I see but I’m not messaging you as I don’t want to pester you with a message.

I get a fair few from guys, on the very rare occasion I’ve had a wink from a lady then it really cheers me up and I always thank them.

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour

"I use them to say I like what I see but I’m not messaging you as I don’t want to pester you with a message.

I get a fair few from guys, on the very rare occasion I’ve had a wink from a lady then it really cheers me up and I always thank them. "

This

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

Nout wrong with winks, let's others know you like what you see and it could lead to a message or more, never know.

I wouldn't ignore one, I'm not that arrogant.

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Nout wrong with winks, let's others know you like what you see and it could lead to a message or more, never know.

I wouldn't ignore one, I'm not that arrogant."

I don't acknowledge winks I'm afraid, but I'm definitely not arrogant. It takes long enough to try & reply to messages. I suppose I also never know how to respond

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nout wrong with winks, let's others know you like what you see and it could lead to a message or more, never know.

I wouldn't ignore one, I'm not that arrogant.

I don't acknowledge winks I'm afraid, but I'm definitely not arrogant. It takes long enough to try & reply to messages. I suppose I also never know how to respond

Just winked you

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour

"Nout wrong with winks, let's others know you like what you see and it could lead to a message or more, never know.

I wouldn't ignore one, I'm not that arrogant.

I don't acknowledge winks I'm afraid, but I'm definitely not arrogant. It takes long enough to try & reply to messages. I suppose I also never know how to respond

So me asking is 40 winks ok no go down well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always forget to check them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I acknowledge all winks.

It's nice that someone has taken the time to read my profile and then winked at me or if they haven't read and just winked, still appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've sent a few winks & don't tink I've ever got a response

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t mind receiving winks.

I look and if I like I wink back.

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I acknowledge all winks.

It's nice that someone has taken the time to read my profile and then winked at me or if they haven't read and just winked, still appreciated.

I did previously on my old couple profile, usually by messaging to say thank you, but often the message was read & not replied to, so just stopped after that as was getting a bit confused by it all. Lol.

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

"I acknowledge all winks.

It's nice that someone has taken the time to read my profile and then winked at me or if they haven't read and just winked, still appreciated.

Are you saying your ex partner was the brains in the relationship?

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I acknowledge all winks.

It's nice that someone has taken the time to read my profile and then winked at me or if they haven't read and just winked, still appreciated.

Are you saying your ex partner was the brains in the relationship?

Oh I'm sure he thought so. Lol. Not the most conventional relationship I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always reply to my winks even if it's to say a polite no thank you but the ones who interest me, I have had some nice conversations with and I've met some really nice guys. It's nice to be nice after all and good manners don't cost anything. They are always so pleased that I get in touch too

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By *lasgow_GMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Sometimes I'll send a wink to see if there's mutual interest. Can be a pain spending time typing up a decent length message to get ignored or a simple no thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always reply to my winks even if it's to say a polite no thank you but the ones who interest me, I have had some nice conversations with and I've met some really nice guys. It's nice to be nice after all and good manners don't cost anything. They are always so pleased that I get in touch too

They're winking at you...what are you saying no thanks to?

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By *vanabeusedTV/TS
over a year ago

somewhere

I love one when I get them x

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By *eep.Man
over a year ago

Just a background character

I think it's super hot when she tightens, then relaxes her a... oh you mean winks on the forum?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winks are one of the many tools the site offers when using the site. it lets someone flag up an interest, you can use it or ignore it with no offence given or taken... personally I like that we have such an innocent, inoffensive way to say hi... and it might even lead to something wonderful

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By *eep.Man
over a year ago

Just a background character

"Winks are one of the many tools the site offers when using the site. it lets someone flag up an interest, you can use it or ignore it with no offence given or taken... personally I like that we have such an innocent, inoffensive way to say hi... and it might even lead to something wonderful

This exactly. I'd suggest the wink is a more useful tool for the ladies on here though!

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

Is it ban manners to ignore a wink?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it ban manners to ignore a wink?"

Each to their own I guess but I don't

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

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my thinking too

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By *eep.Man
over a year ago

Just a background character

Do women even wink?

The only one I can think of was Anne Robinson on The Weakest Link.

I'm still waiting Anne!

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

Is it ban manners to ignore a wink?

Each to their own I guess but I don't

Yip I agree each to their own but don’t agree it’s good manners to reply. It’s like people who constantly mail asking to meet, it’s not bad manners not to reply.

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By *eep.Man
over a year ago

Just a background character

It's not bad manners not to reply to a message or wink.

It's bad manners to keep winking or messaging someone who doesn't reply!

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By *ilveryFoxMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

I quite enjoy a good wink! Damn autocorrect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it not you wink ...they wink back... you message...or if no wink is returned leave it as is ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not bad manners not to reply to a message or wink.

It's bad manners to keep winking or messaging someone who doesn't reply! "

Yep. That's when a winker becomes a wanker in my book.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm only winking at the ones who say they reply to them all...and some of them aren't being entirely truthful

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

"I'm only winking at the ones who say they reply to them all...and some of them aren't being entirely truthful

That doesn’t surprise me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm only winking at the ones who say they reply to them all...and some of them aren't being entirely truthful

Someone telling porkies on Fab? Surely not. Next you'll be telling me that guy I was chatting too isn't really hung like a 2l bottle of Irn Bru!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd reply 2 any got cause I do think it's only manners

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

"I'm only winking at the ones who say they reply to them all...and some of them aren't being entirely truthful

Someone telling porkies on Fab? Surely not. Next you'll be telling me that guy I was chatting too isn't really hung like a 2l bottle of Irn Bru!"

No I am, wait I meant to say 25cl bottles, oopsy

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

I rarely wink, but I do respond to the rare winks I receive, let em roll in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd reply 2 any got cause I do think it's only manners

It's desperation

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

"I'd reply 2 any got cause I do think it's only manners

It's desperation "

Why would winking be desperation?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd reply 2 any got cause I do think it's only manners

It's desperation

Why would winking be desperation?"

Claiming to reply to them all is desperation...to be liked and appear 'nice'

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"Is it not you wink ...they wink back... you message...or if no wink is returned leave it as is ?"

If a female winks at male, male sends a message (only if he fancies her of course). If male winks at female and female winks back, male sends a message. So basically ball's in your corner - always

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

"I'd reply 2 any got cause I do think it's only manners

It's desperation

Why would winking be desperation?

Claiming to reply to them all is desperation...to be liked and appear 'nice'"

Ah I see, I thought you meant the winker lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd reply 2 any got cause I do think it's only manners

It's desperation "
why or how is that desperation? I definitely stick 2 my manners suggestion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd reply 2 any got cause I do think it's only manners

It's desperation

Why would winking be desperation?

Claiming to reply to them all is desperation...to be liked and appear 'nice'

Ah I see, I thought you meant the winker lol"
I'm not Claiming 2 be nice all I'm meaning if I get a wink I'd reply! Again manners cost nothing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd reply 2 any got cause I do think it's only manners

It's desperation

Why would winking be desperation?

Claiming to reply to them all is desperation...to be liked and appear 'nice'

Ah I see, I thought you meant the winker lol"

I'd never say I was desperate...you know when I winked you it was just fun

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

"I'd reply 2 any got cause I do think it's only manners

It's desperation

Why would winking be desperation?

Claiming to reply to them all is desperation...to be liked and appear 'nice'

Ah I see, I thought you meant the winker lol

I'd never say I was desperate...you know when I winked you it was just fun

I’ll take a wink for fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd reply 2 any got cause I do think it's only manners

It's desperation why or how is that desperation? I definitely stick 2 my manners suggestion

And 'nice' folk have manners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd reply 2 any got cause I do think it's only manners

It's desperation why or how is that desperation? I definitely stick 2 my manners suggestion

And 'nice' folk have manners

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True very true so guess that makes me a "Nice Guy" then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice is often interpreted as insipid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nice is often interpreted as insipid

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guess it could be lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it ban manners to ignore a wink?

Each to their own I guess but I don't

Yip I agree each to their own but don’t agree it’s good manners to reply. It’s like people who constantly mail asking to meet, it’s not bad manners not to reply."

I definitely agree with that as there's nothing worse than a pushy guy who constantly messages, that's different as I don't reply to them lol

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

I don't mind winks only mind that I don't get that many

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