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"I’ve had a heck of a day on here.. Having never really attended a swinging club before Can someone please explain what the difference between ladies asking for a door fee in a flat, and attending clubs such as CJ’s - surely they are both one in the same...? " you being serious  | |||
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"Yes Never been to CJ’s or a “club” before However due to me previously being at a flat that hosts parties i was basically accused of taking part in prostitution... that is certainly not the case! I paid a contribution fee upon arrival, i took a bottle of wine in with me, i drank 4/5 beers supplied to me Thats a million miles away from hiring a hooker!" Just out of interest what did you pay the fee for? | |||
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"Flat contribution Guess its like paying a fee at the door of a club" I think it probably depends on how the “party” was advertised .... if it was I/We are looking for x amount of men to come gangbang us pay a fee and we are all yours or I/we are hiring an apartment for a play party and if all guests want to chip in for drinks/nibbles/contribute to the cost of apartment then it can be slightly different. However what I would say is if you were happy doing what you did and don’t think there was anything wrong in it why worry what other folks opinions are! | |||
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"I’ve had a heck of a day on here.. Having never really attended a swinging club before Can someone please explain what the difference between ladies asking for a door fee in a flat, and attending clubs such as CJ’s - surely they are both one in the same...? " . Ha ha class .do you think it's attended by bookers | |||
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"I seen a post on here recently about a female only play party where a contribution was required. Some of the women attending were quick enough to criticise the guy who ran the shoebox and the flat parties Where was the outrage about this? Asking for a friend" I would suggest that's to hire the cost of the apartment for the evening rather than a privately owned flat? R | |||
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"I seen a post on here recently about a female only play party where a contribution was required. Some of the women attending were quick enough to criticise the guy who ran the shoebox and the flat parties Where was the outrage about this? Asking for a friend" you seem to have an issue with this as this is the fourth time you have posted regarding it.We cover the exact cost of the apartment its privately rented .We do not sell sex like the one mentioned,and we do not have any financial game. eg we are not hookers and do not run a business  You obviously have an issue with us or are you trying to compare to make someing else look less seedy | |||
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"I seen a post on here recently about a female only play party where a contribution was required. Some of the women attending were quick enough to criticise the guy who ran the shoebox and the flat parties Where was the outrage about this? Asking for a friend" The difference in this is easy but I will exp it seeing as you don't seem to understand from multiple posts. He was running a business profiting from it. Ladies night is charged to cover the cost of the venue. And all party's argee before this. At the end of the day it has nothing to do with you and you seem to have a real issue with this ladies night. When lots and lots of other profile do the same thing. So for the final time get over it  | |||
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"I seen a post on here recently about a female only play party where a contribution was required. Some of the women attending were quick enough to criticise the guy who ran the shoebox and the flat parties Where was the outrage about this? Asking for a friendyou seem to have an issue with this as this is the fourth time you have posted regarding it.We cover the exact cost of the apartment its privately rented .We do not sell sex like the one mentioned,and we do not have any financial game. eg we are not hookers and do not run a business You obviously have an issue with us or are you trying to compare to make someing else look less seedy "By the way the one i attended does not sell sex either.... seems a very similar setup to what you guys offer | |||
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"I seen a post on here recently about a female only play party where a contribution was required. Some of the women attending were quick enough to criticise the guy who ran the shoebox and the flat parties Where was the outrage about this? Asking for a friendyou seem to have an issue with this as this is the fourth time you have posted regarding it.We cover the exact cost of the apartment its privately rented .We do not sell sex like the one mentioned,and we do not have any financial game. eg we are not hookers and do not run a business You obviously have an issue with us or are you trying to compare to make someing else look less seedy "You do not have to explain to anyone apart from to the ladies that want to attend what the night involves and fee involves. The above poster has obviously found a bone to chew with the ladies night and has been chewing on it every chance he gets for the last few months! I say let him chew   | |||
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"Yes Never been to CJ’s or a “club” before However due to me previously being at a flat that hosts parties i was basically accused of taking part in prostitution... that is certainly not the case! I paid a contribution fee upon arrival, i took a bottle of wine in with me, i drank 4/5 beers supplied to me Thats a million miles away from hiring a hooker!" And this is really what this post is about not the original OP Does it matter what others on here think?? You paid for a party you wanted to attend and accepted the 'terms and conditions', you attended the party and enjoyed hopefully... full stop! My opinion anyway | |||
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"I seen a post on here recently about a female only play party where a contribution was required. Some of the women attending were quick enough to criticise the guy who ran the shoebox and the flat parties Where was the outrage about this? Asking for a friendyou seem to have an issue with this as this is the fourth time you have posted regarding it.We cover the exact cost of the apartment its privately rented .We do not sell sex like the one mentioned,and we do not have any financial game. eg we are not hookers and do not run a business You obviously have an issue with us or are you trying to compare to make someing else look less seedy "The girls only nights are like a hen party but only with lots of playing and fun and it’s entirely optional. The girls organise great parties and out in a lot of effort. | |||
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"I seen a post on here recently about a female only play party where a contribution was required. Some of the women attending were quick enough to criticise the guy who ran the shoebox and the flat parties Where was the outrage about this? Asking for a friend The difference in this is easy but I will exp it seeing as you don't seem to understand from multiple posts. He was running a business profiting from it. Ladies night is charged to cover the cost of the venue. And all party's argee before this. At the end of the day it has nothing to do with you and you seem to have a real issue with this ladies night. When lots and lots of other profile do the same thing. So for the final time get over it "A bloke was running a ladies only night?! God loves a trier!! Haha | |||
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"Yeah your right I would never pay to have sex with someone, i was taken aback when accused of that thats all Thanks" We’re all men guaranteed a shag and not one got turned away ? There’s your answer | |||
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"I seen a post on here recently about a female only play party where a contribution was required. Some of the women attending were quick enough to criticise the guy who ran the shoebox and the flat parties Where was the outrage about this? Asking for a friendyou seem to have an issue with this as this is the fourth time you have posted regarding it.We cover the exact cost of the apartment its privately rented .We do not sell sex like the one mentioned,and we do not have any financial game. eg we are not hookers and do not run a business You obviously have an issue with us or are you trying to compare to make someing else look less seedy
By the way the one i attended does not sell sex either.... seems a very similar setup to what you guys offer"The one you attended (Angels) is nothing like Cjs. | |||
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"I seen a post on here recently about a female only play party where a contribution was required. Some of the women attending were quick enough to criticise the guy who ran the shoebox and the flat parties Where was the outrage about this? Asking for a friendyou seem to have an issue with this as this is the fourth time you have posted regarding it.We cover the exact cost of the apartment its privately rented .We do not sell sex like the one mentioned,and we do not have any financial game. eg we are not hookers and do not run a business You obviously have an issue with us or are you trying to compare to make someing else look less seedy
By the way the one i attended does not sell sex either.... seems a very similar setup to what you guys offer
The one you attended (Angels) is nothing like Cjs. "im curious unless tou attend both locations how do you know if similar or not ? | |||
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"I seen a post on here recently about a female only play party where a contribution was required. Some of the women attending were quick enough to criticise the guy who ran the shoebox and the flat parties Where was the outrage about this? Asking for a friendyou seem to have an issue with this as this is the fourth time you have posted regarding it.We cover the exact cost of the apartment its privately rented .We do not sell sex like the one mentioned,and we do not have any financial game. eg we are not hookers and do not run a business You obviously have an issue with us or are you trying to compare to make someing else look less seedy
By the way the one i attended does not sell sex either.... seems a very similar setup to what you guys offer
The one you attended (Angels) is nothing like Cjs. im curious unless tou attend both locations how do you know if similar or not ?"From other people that have attended. There are clear differences, and depending on what you’re looking for, it will determine where you choose to go. | |||
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"I seen a post on here recently about a female only play party where a contribution was required. Some of the women attending were quick enough to criticise the guy who ran the shoebox and the flat parties Where was the outrage about this? Asking for a friendyou seem to have an issue with this as this is the fourth time you have posted regarding it.We cover the exact cost of the apartment its privately rented .We do not sell sex like the one mentioned,and we do not have any financial game. eg we are not hookers and do not run a business You obviously have an issue with us or are you trying to compare to make someing else look less seedy
By the way the one i attended does not sell sex either.... seems a very similar setup to what you guys offer
The one you attended (Angels) is nothing like Cjs. im curious unless tou attend both locations how do you know if similar or not ?
From other people that have attended. There are clear differences, and depending on what you’re looking for, it will determine where you choose to go. "I would go to neither but its kinda cringy the way folk want to put one or the other down. I see them all as the same (clubs and houses for hire)hey both offer an indoors area to socialise and they imply sex . one may or may not be easier to get sex but they both make full use of it to gain cash | |||
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"Are they guaranteed?? " Certainly not at the swingers clubs I’ve been to but from what I’ve heard which may or may not be true no one has ever been left out at the private flats where the “greedy girls” got a share of the door fee, the only thing the greedy girls at swingers clubs leave with are smiles on their faces and underwear to wash and some of the men with a sack full | |||
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" The one you attended (Angels) is nothing like Cjs. " Really? Do both places take a fee to enter, YES Do people have sex at both places YES Are both fairly openly invitational on fabswingers YES To say they are NOTHING alike is just silly I however have never attended CJ’s - so maybe im naive - however you cannot say they are nothing alike | |||
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" The one you attended (Angels) is nothing like Cjs. Really? Do both places take a fee to enter, YES Do people have sex at both places YES Are both fairly openly invitational on fabswingers YES To say they are NOTHING alike is just silly I however have never attended CJ’s - so maybe im naive - however you cannot say they are nothing alike" The women having sex in CJ's are not being paid for it. Massive difference. | |||
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" The one you attended (Angels) is nothing like Cjs. Really? Do both places take a fee to enter, YES Do people have sex at both places YES Are both fairly openly invitational on fabswingers YES To say they are NOTHING alike is just silly I however have never attended CJ’s - so maybe im naive - however you cannot say they are nothing alike" Both places have sexual overtones, that's where any similarity ends.....one(Swinging clubs) you pay a fee to go somewhere other like minded sexually liberated people gather...no guarantees of anything.....the other(House party) you are paying a entry fee with the explicit belief you will have sex. If you think that is the same you are only deluding yourself. But hey, we see what we want to see, we hear what we want to hear and we think what we want to think. | |||
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" The one you attended (Angels) is nothing like Cjs. Really? Do both places take a fee to enter, YES Do people have sex at both places YES Are both fairly openly invitational on fabswingers YES To say they are NOTHING alike is just silly I however have never attended CJ’s - so maybe im naive - however you cannot say they are nothing alike The women having sex in CJ's are not being paid for it. Massive difference." this has been raised at fems holding this type of party before. some even replied how there was no payments to fems who attend the "contribution" was for cleaning products nibbles and drinks. some would say wheres the caviar at the amount of money taken in. The fact remains you are not paying for sex you pay for admittance to the premises whether its club or soneones flat. | |||
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" The one you attended (Angels) is nothing like Cjs. Really? Do both places take a fee to enter, YES Do people have sex at both places YES Are both fairly openly invitational on fabswingers YES To say they are NOTHING alike is just silly I however have never attended CJ’s - so maybe im naive - however you cannot say they are nothing alike The women having sex in CJ's are not being paid for it. Massive difference.this has been raised at fems holding this type of party before. some even replied how there was no payments to fems who attend the "contribution" was for cleaning products nibbles and drinks. some would say wheres the caviar at the amount of money taken in. The fact remains you are not paying for sex you pay for admittance to the premises whether its club or soneones flat. " Doesn't matter what he tells himself he is paying for. If the woman he fucked was paid then she was paid. If you find yourself in a dingy manky council flat and tell yourself you are paying for venue hire and cleaning products, there is a certain level of self-delusion going on | |||
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"I’ve had a heck of a day on here.. Having never really attended a swinging club before Can someone please explain what the difference between ladies asking for a door fee in a flat, and attending clubs such as CJ’s - surely they are both one in the same...? " Did I just read your post right OP? Seriously!?! There's a big difference lol x | |||
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" The one you attended (Angels) is nothing like Cjs. Really? Do both places take a fee to enter, YES Do people have sex at both places YES Are both fairly openly invitational on fabswingers YES To say they are NOTHING alike is just silly I however have never attended CJ’s - so maybe im naive - however you cannot say they are nothing alike The women having sex in CJ's are not being paid for it. Massive difference.this has been raised at fems holding this type of party before. some even replied how there was no payments to fems who attend the "contribution" was for cleaning products nibbles and drinks. some would say wheres the caviar at the amount of money taken in. The fact remains you are not paying for sex you pay for admittance to the premises whether its club or soneones flat. Doesn't matter what he tells himself he is paying for. If the woman he fucked was paid then she was paid. If you find yourself in a dingy manky council flat and tell yourself you are paying for venue hire and cleaning products, there is a certain level of self-delusion going on " again how do you know anyone was paid. as an aside you may or may not remember the accusations that surrounded clubs apparently hiring prostitutes to service x amount of punters. | |||
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" The one you attended (Angels) is nothing like Cjs. Really? Do both places take a fee to enter, YES Do people have sex at both places YES Are both fairly openly invitational on fabswingers YES To say they are NOTHING alike is just silly I however have never attended CJ’s - so maybe im naive - however you cannot say they are nothing alike The women having sex in CJ's are not being paid for it. Massive difference.this has been raised at fems holding this type of party before. some even replied how there was no payments to fems who attend the "contribution" was for cleaning products nibbles and drinks. some would say wheres the caviar at the amount of money taken in. The fact remains you are not paying for sex you pay for admittance to the premises whether its club or soneones flat. Doesn't matter what he tells himself he is paying for. If the woman he fucked was paid then she was paid. If you find yourself in a dingy manky council flat and tell yourself you are paying for venue hire and cleaning products, there is a certain level of self-delusion going on again how do you know anyone was paid. as an aside you may or may not remember the accusations that surrounded clubs apparently hiring prostitutes to service x amount of punters. " Lol I was at one of the gangbang parties, taken there by a guy, I had no clue how it was. But yeah one of the regular girls told me she had been paid. That's how I know. I can't prove that and don't really care who believes me. Having also been to CJ's I see the difference, it is clean and professionally run, I dont believe for one second CJ needs to hire prostitutes. That's the only Scottish club I have been to so that is the only one I will comment on. | |||
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" The one you attended (Angels) is nothing like Cjs. Really? Do both places take a fee to enter, YES Do people have sex at both places YES Are both fairly openly invitational on fabswingers YES To say they are NOTHING alike is just silly I however have never attended CJ’s - so maybe im naive - however you cannot say they are nothing alike The women having sex in CJ's are not being paid for it. Massive difference.this has been raised at fems holding this type of party before. some even replied how there was no payments to fems who attend the "contribution" was for cleaning products nibbles and drinks. some would say wheres the caviar at the amount of money taken in. The fact remains you are not paying for sex you pay for admittance to the premises whether its club or soneones flat. Doesn't matter what he tells himself he is paying for. If the woman he fucked was paid then she was paid. If you find yourself in a dingy manky council flat and tell yourself you are paying for venue hire and cleaning products, there is a certain level of self-delusion going on again how do you know anyone was paid. as an aside you may or may not remember the accusations that surrounded clubs apparently hiring prostitutes to service x amount of punters. Lol I was at one of the gangbang parties, taken there by a guy, I had no clue how it was. But yeah one of the regular girls told me she had been paid. That's how I know. I can't prove that and don't really care who believes me. Having also been to CJ's I see the difference, it is clean and professionally run, I dont believe for one second CJ needs to hire prostitutes. That's the only Scottish club I have been to so that is the only one I will comment on." Well said  x | |||
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"I seen a post on here recently about a female only play party where a contribution was required. Some of the women attending were quick enough to criticise the guy who ran the shoebox and the flat parties Where was the outrage about this? Asking for a friendyou seem to have an issue with this as this is the fourth time you have posted regarding it.We cover the exact cost of the apartment its privately rented .We do not sell sex like the one mentioned,and we do not have any financial game. eg we are not hookers and do not run a business You obviously have an issue with us or are you trying to compare to make someing else look less seedy
By the way the one i attended does not sell sex either.... seems a very similar setup to what you guys offer
The one you attended (Angels) is nothing like Cjs. im curious unless tou attend both locations how do you know if similar or not ?
From other people that have attended. There are clear differences, and depending on what you’re looking for, it will determine where you choose to go. ""From other people that have attended" That's very naive of you to make a statement without having visited the venue yourself | |||
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"Is this another Cjs is great and shoebox and after 8 isn't post? "Not from me it isnt. Just saying I cant comment on a club I havent been to. Though sure I will attend after8 at some point | |||
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"Is this another Cjs is great and shoebox and after 8 isn't post? "Pretty much! Our mutual friend would be rolling his eyes if he was still here! | |||
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" Yet another view is would it not be a form of "payment" to be given a severe discount to a certain gender. " No. Because that implies that everyone taking the discount is required to have sex. They're not. | |||
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" Yet another view is would it not be a form of "payment" to be given a severe discount to a certain gender. No. Because that implies that everyone taking the discount is required to have sex. They're not." I wouldnt say it implies anything other than to make sure that females are there set the trap for the cash cows lol | |||
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