FabSwingers.com forum: What would you do?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’ve just been messaged and sent a few photos from a couple that I know very well.

I must admit I find the female very attractive but I know the Husband from rugby and I’ve ate and drank with them on many occasions. Our kids even know each other.

My question is. Do I reply and say I know them and see what their reply is or do I simply ignore it?

I don’t want to ruin a friendship but I’d love to meet them!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I’ve just been messaged and sent a few photos from a couple that I know very well.

I must admit I find the female very attractive but I know the Husband from rugby and I’ve ate and drank with them on many occasions. Our kids even know each other.

My question is. Do I reply and say I know them and see what their reply is or do I simply ignore it?

I don’t want to ruin a friendship but I’d love to meet them!

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just say thanks for the email but you know them.

If they ask how just tell them and hope you and they will be discrete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That has happened to me and we ended up all in bed together! I sent a message saying I knew them but was worried it would change things if they knew but thankfully they were well up for it and the rest is history as they say lol good luck xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what you want

You're welcome

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour

Always keep your personal life and your fab life separate the implications of saying no thanks far outweighs the implications of saying yes and the effect it could have on your personal life

But I'm ultra cautious I suppose so I could be wrong only you as a friend of the husband can answer your question op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve just been messaged and sent a few photos from a couple that I know very well.

I must admit I find the female very attractive but I know the Husband from rugby and I’ve ate and drank with them on many occasions. Our kids even know each other.

They know now !

My question is. Do I reply and say I know them and see what their reply is or do I simply ignore it?

I don’t want to ruin a friendship but I’d love to meet them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore and block!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve just been messaged and sent a few photos from a couple that I know very well.

I must admit I find the female very attractive but I know the Husband from rugby and I’ve ate and drank with them on many occasions. Our kids even know each other.

My question is. Do I reply and say I know them and see what their reply is or do I simply ignore it?

I don’t want to ruin a friendship but I’d love to meet them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi that’s a very interesting dilemma to be in but i would just message back and say that we know each other and leave things at that.

When kids are involved in family stuff it could get really complicated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always wonder with posts like these (ones that reference other peopel on Fab) if the subjects ever read them?!

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We regularly have a profile look at us n wink, saw profile on cam so know we know them very well. Haven’t blocked but just ignore

K x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me I would ignore and block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me I would ignore and block. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you not make any decisions in life by yourself haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can you not make any decisions in life by yourself haha "

Yes, but always good to have other people’s opinions who may have encountered same dilemma

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Ignore on here but start hitting on them in real life

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ignore on here but start hitting on them in real life "

I’d end up getting killed by her husband who’s a good friend!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they're on here then they're clearly after the same things that you are.

There is always that chance of bumping into someone you know. You might have messaged someone you know and not be aware.

If you are good friends you could always talk to them and say it's you and then talk about going through with it from there.

They say yes, awesome you get closer with them as friends.

They say no, no harm done.

Either way it's a funny story you could tell in time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Highly unlikely scenario this.

A contender for the Didn't Happen of the Year Awards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd message and say no thanks, explaining why. I've been contacted by 2 we know and round never dream of going there.

But if you go against this advice be sure to come back and give usually the gory details..

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

"Ignore on here but start hitting on them in real life

I’d end up getting killed by her husband who’s a good friend!

If hes a friend and youre rugger buggers is it possible he will recognise you in your Ys?

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

"Ignore on here but start hitting on them in real life

I’d end up getting killed by her husband who’s a good friend!

So why contemplate it in the first place, literally hundreds of folk on here to meet!

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Iwouldnt lose a freindship so I would just say cant meet if you go down the route of saying you know them tell them who fairs fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Highly unlikely scenario this.

A contender for the Didn't Happen of the Year Awards. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What would I do?

I certainly wouldn’t look to anyone on here to make the decision for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ignore and block!"

this !

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Ignore. I dont want to meet folk on here who i know.

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By *RnMRSfabCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We had this exact situation with a guy I played football with and we’ve had some great fun with it all on here for the same thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore and block .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Highly unlikely scenario this.

A contender for the Didn't Happen of the Year Awards. "

Shut up! Highly h likely but other people have has the same situation present itself!

Moron

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What would I do?

I certainly wouldn’t look to anyone on here to make the decision for me!

I’m not asking for someone to make a decision for me!

Read it again!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ignore on here but start hitting on them in real life

I’d end up getting killed by her husband who’s a good friend!

If hes a friend and youre rugger buggers is it possible he will recognise you in your Ys? "

Possibly. Who knows?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ignore on here but start hitting on them in real life

I’d end up getting killed by her husband who’s a good friend!

So why contemplate it in the first place, literally hundreds of folk on here to meet! "

Trust me if you were a bloke and you had seen his Mrs you’d contemplate it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Highly unlikely scenario this.

A contender for the Didn't Happen of the Year Awards. "

Says the man who has been on here for over a year and has no meets!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Highly unlikely scenario this.

A contender for the Didn't Happen of the Year Awards.

Shut up! Highly h likely but other people have has the same situation present itself!

Moron"

it does happen, I had my wee cousin msg for a meet and sent a face pic, thank gawd it was only a face pic tho

and I came clean now we are best buddies on here...with zero meets had may I add lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Highly unlikely scenario this.

A contender for the Didn't Happen of the Year Awards.

Shut up! Highly h likely but other people have has the same situation present itself!

Moron

it does happen, I had my wee cousin msg for a meet and sent a face pic, thank gawd it was only a face pic tho

and I came clean now we are best buddies on here...with zero meets had may I add lol

Ouch...now that would be awkward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Highly unlikely scenario this.

A contender for the Didn't Happen of the Year Awards.

Shut up! Highly h likely but other people have has the same situation present itself!

Moron

it does happen, I had my wee cousin msg for a meet and sent a face pic, thank gawd it was only a face pic tho

and I came clean now we are best buddies on here...with zero meets had may I add lol

That just confirms what a lot of folk think about Ayrshire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Highly unlikely scenario this.

A contender for the Didn't Happen of the Year Awards.

Shut up! Highly h likely but other people have has the same situation present itself!

Moron

it does happen, I had my wee cousin msg for a meet and sent a face pic, thank gawd it was only a face pic tho

and I came clean now we are best buddies on here...with zero meets had may I add lol

That just confirms what a lot of folk think about Ayrshire "

depends what part though eh!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah...all of it

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over a year ago

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By *p for anything 123Man
over a year ago

Coatbridge

Bit harsh on Ayrshire but true though

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