FabSwingers.com forum: Unwanted messages

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Only just today the same guy has contacted me asking if I'll meet him even though it says clearly on my profile that I'm straight. This Isn't the first time It's happened and in the past I have politely said thanks but no thanks. But it began to happen often enough that I just got fed up with it and basicly told them where to go!

I don't usually like people being rude or aggressive but when it comes to someone not once but twice contacting you when it's clear you are not interested and that you are not of a certain sexual persuasion then civility just goes out the window as far as I'm concerned. I don't have a problem with anyone being gay or bi but it's something that I find perplexing! How much clearer can I person make themselves?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block single guys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yip,,easy peasy,,,,BLOCK EM????

auds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or do what we do and just ignore the ones who obviously havnt read the profile. And a lot of guys on here have Straight on their profile but arnt. That could tempt the bi guys to try their luck with anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah block us single guys and get over it! FFS ur not the only guy that has received messeges from bi guys nor the last!

If it bothers u that much block us single guys

for the record most guys are indeed bi but dont put that on their profile just to attitutdes from people like u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most guys are indeed bi but dont put that on their profile

Would just say what everyone above as said, block single guys, that will stop the messages.

I would have to agree with that.

Got to say at least 75% of the 'straight' guys that message me are actually bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The other option is to block the individual involved rather than all guys.

Believe it or not I'm a straight guy who IS straight lol. For that reason I've blocked all guys but each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single guys are bad for not reading profiles but Bi guys cant read profiles lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to message filters on the left hand side and block them. Life is so much better when you block what you dont want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For the record most guys are indeed bi but dont put that on their profile just to attitutdes from people like u

I disagree. The guy aint bein homophobic, he's just stressing his annoyance at some folks ignorance, which is fair enough in my book.

The op should though, in my opinion, take any interest in him as a compliment, and try no to lose the head. It could be worse, u could be female and forever batting off unwanted attention!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The other option is to block the individual involved rather than all guys.

Believe it or not I'm a straight guy who IS straight lol. For that reason I've blocked all guys but each to their own. "

Cool, you also have "adult parties" listed as interests, some single guys host some parties, but your un-inviteable with the lovely block on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

be glad yer gettin fuckin mail lol....block all guys, great suggestion-in fact why dont we just block everybody..that way none of us will meet as we prefer to sit and wank online everybloody day.

and u lot that block asap...u do my fuckin tits in too.

in fact ur all blocked

(this really is the internet, if it really gets ur goat at the odd message or wink, go have a cuppa come back breathe deep and wank)

constant moanings....u know how it makes ya's look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol i agree with he guy,,,

whoever you dont want to meet block. it saves your time AND the people your blocking,that way they know your not looking for what their offering?

nothing about JUST blocking single guys?

jeeze folk on here really do take things wayyy to personal on here

auds xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lol i agree with he guy,,,

whoever you dont want to meet block. it saves your time AND the people your blocking,that way they know your not looking for what their offering?

nothing about JUST blocking single guys?

jeeze folk on here really do take things wayyy to personal on here

auds xx

I disagree...I like the social side of swinging too...now if ur smart enuff and with some decent fuckin common sense, U dont re-message people...I've yet to do it?(altho some seem to...maybe its name changes lol)

but I see it rather pointless blocking someone UNLESS they have been a total cunt...can i stress CUNTS are the best ppl to block???

a swinging community shouldnt be based on ppl not being able to accept a "no" for an answer, just get on and enjoy the fun with those who are interested.I can safely say i can msg ppl, without asking for a shag- especially thru forums where theres something to say in a private mail, like "thanks" etc

Oh and I've had "blocks" lifted after ppl have met me, if not.

block block all too easy for no real good reason, I'd rather just delete the msg/mail...if the person gets stroppy then fair enuff block the cunttwatidiotarsehole whatever...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorted!! What shall we give Raise to sort oot next? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorted!! What shall we give Raise to sort oot next? lol"

world shortage of cock lovers...we must find the rare hidden ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol paddywack..ok ok calm doon!!! lol

all im sayn is,,on the scale of males to females or cpls,,,when you dont meet single guys and you open your mail and you have 40 messages from guys askn to meet isnt it betterto use your mesage filter so you dont get messages from them? most folk havent the time to send a no thanks we dont meet single guys messages 50 times a day? as i said not just single guys but im talking all that are on here ,,,fems,males.cpls,tvs ect?

yes i do agree that some and i do mean some think there block button is a freeken toy and block peeps just for sayn hello or looking at their cam and not sayn hello(wtf is that about?) but im talking about message filters not blocking folk just for the hell of it?

auds xx

ps..agree with me or il block yer skinny wee ass lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorted!! What shall we give Raise to sort oot next? lol

world shortage of cock lovers...we must find the rare hidden ones"

forgot I've blocked ALL bi-guys cos I know they all want to suck my cock even tho i say no thanks!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah,,,but how many times have you said it?? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorted!! What shall we give Raise to sort oot next? lol

world shortage of cock lovers...we must find the rare hidden ones

forgot I've blocked ALL bi-guys cos I know they all want to suck my cock even tho i say no thanks!!!!"

Hahaa Paddy to the rescue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yeah,,,but how many times have you said it?? lol

heheheh auds...x

Oh i'm calm...its just the constant dreary same things being messaged about, I'm the first to say, dont post on a post u dont like... but these kneejerk reactions really do show people up whether its single male bashing,single male bi bashing,single male bashing "rude" cpls...I'm highly unlikely to want to meet some types if all they can do on forums or in their status messages is moan like fuck

oh and auds...only agree after uve let me taste ur juicy bits xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*scenario1:

a guy who happens to be bi...invites a straight guy to join him and a female

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By *uirkygirlCouple
over a year ago

Quirkyville

Oi Padster, if i had blocked all single men i would have never had the pleasure of chatting to you so i'm with ya on the no block thingy haha!

im thinking of removing my blocks cos no one seems to mail me anymore!!

Must be those rumours you spread about me eh paddy lol! xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oi Padster, if i had blocked all single men i would have never had the pleasure of chatting to you so i'm with ya on the no block thingy haha!

im thinking of removing my blocks cos no one seems to mail me anymore!!

Must be those rumours you spread about me eh paddy lol! xxxx"

what that u are a delicious hot ride..Oops, i meant elegant superhot sexpot xxxx

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By *uirkygirlCouple
over a year ago

Quirkyville

"Oi Padster, if i had blocked all single men i would have never had the pleasure of chatting to you so i'm with ya on the no block thingy haha!

im thinking of removing my blocks cos no one seems to mail me anymore!!

Must be those rumours you spread about me eh paddy lol! xxxx

what that u are a delicious hot ride..Oops, i meant elegant superhot sexpot xxxx"

i think you need to go to specsavers chappy!!!

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oi Padster, if i had blocked all single men i would have never had the pleasure of chatting to you so i'm with ya on the no block thingy haha!

im thinking of removing my blocks cos no one seems to mail me anymore!!

Must be those rumours you spread about me eh paddy lol! xxxx

what that u are a delicious hot ride..Oops, i meant elegant superhot sexpot xxxx

i think you need to go to specsavers chappy!!!

xxx"

hahahah just back from 24hr optician...ur right....Ewwwwwwwww!

take it all back!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"*scenario1:

a guy who happens to be bi...invites a straight guy to join him and a female

(amazing some couples have a bi-male half)- he can play straight etc etc...all u need is proof "she" exists, state ur case that u dont play bi- hey presto theres ur meet...fair enough he might watch n want ur cock...thats when the elbows come in handy...or a kneejerk"
wev blocked folk we dont wanna meet but thats only so they dont waste their time messaging us plus,,,im nice,,,i dont like sayn thanks,,,but no thanks lol

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

straight here too why not just see it as a compliment ?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"*scenario1:

a guy who happens to be bi...invites a straight guy to join him and a female

(amazing some couples have a bi-male half)- he can play straight etc etc...all u need is proof "she" exists, state ur case that u dont play bi- hey presto theres ur meet...fair enough he might watch n want ur cock...thats when the elbows come in handy...or a kneejerkwev blocked folk we dont wanna meet but thats only so they dont waste their time messaging us plus,,,im nice,,,i dont like sayn thanks,,,but no thanks lol

rubbing myself now...gearing up to a sexy mail...oooer...ahhh fuckit...I'll just wank at yer pics hehehe I'm far too shy to ask xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

paddy,,,,your always rubbing yourself babe lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"paddy,,,,your always rubbing yourself babe lol xx

only at u auds...im transfixed by u...xxx

please dont call me babe, call me rubbydubbykissywoo xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh ok,,ba,,oops rubbydu,,wit?lol oops forgot lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oh ok,,ba,,oops rubbydu,,wit?lol oops forgot lol"

never wanted to shag u for ur brains auds,,,but that goldfish thing u do with ur lips really does invite my bait

NB and its one of the BIG goldfish u get in the clyde, so needs more than maggot sized bait

NB and aslo its the clean parts of the clyde nae floaty shite bits

NB and I'm im in no way saying u smell fishy, in fact i sniffed ur hair a few weeks ago....and watched u longingly as u wiggled ur mermaid hips as u walked off

NB to readers:she only walked off cos she needed a drink..then somehow lost me , could see her desperately searching for me, but i'd found someone else (shhh she has feelings ya know)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

gutted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"gutted

ever seen candyman??- say my name five times......

Oh..that could be my Halloween outfit!!!!= thanks auds, ur the best xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ohpaddyjustshutupandgiezasookohyerface

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ohpaddyjustshutupandgiezasookohyerface

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx lol "

drew a face on my cock,,,sook that! hehe

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over a year ago

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By *ee-deeWoman
over a year ago

The Kingdom

"Sorted!! What shall we give Raise to sort oot next? lol

world shortage of cock lovers...we must find the rare hidden ones"

FFS Paddy...theres one here!!!..LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorted!! What shall we give Raise to sort oot next? lol

world shortage of cock lovers...we must find the rare hidden ones

FFS Paddy...theres one here!!!..LOL

lol geezabit then! xxx

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By *ee-deeWoman
over a year ago

The Kingdom

"Sorted!! What shall we give Raise to sort oot next? lol

world shortage of cock lovers...we must find the rare hidden ones

FFS Paddy...theres one here!!!..LOL

lol geezabit then! xxx"

Come and get me!!!....you know the way..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorted!! What shall we give Raise to sort oot next? lol

world shortage of cock lovers...we must find the rare hidden ones

FFS Paddy...theres one here!!!..LOL

lol geezabit then! xxx

Come and get me!!!....you know the way..lol"

I dont, I always sleep on my journeys lol xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"be glad yer gettin fuckin mail lol....block all guys, great suggestion-in fact why dont we just block everybody..that way none of us will meet as we prefer to sit and wank online everybloody day.

and u lot that block asap...u do my fuckin tits in too.

in fact ur all blocked

(this really is the internet, if it really gets ur goat at the odd message or wink, go have a cuppa come back breathe deep and wank)

constant moanings....u know how it makes ya's look"

well said Padster.. too many arseholes on here willing to block people for just about anything..its a fucking sex site and all we see are people greeting and groaning about the attention they receive..if they dont like it..fuck off and go play on facebook..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol cum,,,

dont hold back now,,,say what you feel babe lol xx

auds xx

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By *ee-deeWoman
over a year ago

The Kingdom

"be glad yer gettin fuckin mail lol....block all guys, great suggestion-in fact why dont we just block everybody..that way none of us will meet as we prefer to sit and wank online everybloody day.

and u lot that block asap...u do my fuckin tits in too.

in fact ur all blocked

(this really is the internet, if it really gets ur goat at the odd message or wink, go have a cuppa come back breathe deep and wank)

constant moanings....u know how it makes ya's look

Now now boys...calm doon ffs!! LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the like button is becoming increasingly needed lol

heheheh CumNgo a case of "dont look at my profile pls pls pls", mmm auds cant wait till u tell me not to hold back(u can imagine the position i have u in during that particular fantasy), and Dee...stop telling people what to do!!!!- u know ur the one that loves being DOMinated!!!! xxxx

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By *ee-deeWoman
over a year ago

The Kingdom

"I think the like button is becoming increasingly needed lol

Ha Ha!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lol cum,,,

dont hold back now,,,say what you feel babe lol xx

auds xx

lol that was (go) on the rant there..

i'm much more tactful...

i've got better things to do with my fingers while browsing profiles than hovverin over a fuckin block button!

delete and move on.. FFS!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im as st8 as they cum but I dont block all guys.

If I did block all guys then that means that pals like Paddy, Fugy, Mr44, Bigg, Kola, Flash etc.. the list goes on, would not be able to contact me to ask advice on problems they have with women or how to please a woman.

Cause they all know I can usually resolve it for them with my advice.

Aint that right guys

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

sure is m8 got a sticky one for you will pm soon !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"sure is m8 got a sticky one for you will pm soon !!!!!"

gets notepad and pen ready

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im as st8 as they cum but I dont block all guys.

Cause they all know I can usually resolve it for them with my advice.

Aint that right guys

Thankfully its only advice...wouldnt let any of my female friends near ur barnacle encrusted barge-pole....size is'nt everything when it reeks like a welk infested sewer pipe!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im as st8 as they cum but I dont block all guys.

Cause they all know I can usually resolve it for them with my advice.

Aint that right guys

Thankfully its only advice...wouldnt let any of my female friends near ur barnacle encrusted barge-pole....size is'nt everything when it reeks like a welk infested sewer pipe!"

pmsl and I wa sonly talking about my toungue

The joys of NOT being wanted

Peter

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